#If you don’t like me or my blog or whatever just fucking leave the unfollow button is right there I’m going to talk to myself

[missmouse43]

Don’t read this if you haven’t watched part 2

Welp. Now we know why they didn’t get renewed for a 6th season. Fuck me for having hope, eh? I knew we were cooked by episode 8. I’m having war flashbacks from my time in the 100 fandom…

I mean, what is there to say? I’m devastated. They knew where the season would end and they still robbed us of any meaningful Jiara content in part 2. And to kill off the kid that spent his entire life being abused and thinking he didn’t deserve to be loved? By his own blood father who ALSO turned out to be a massive disappointment who made him feel unworthy of love?? I’m shaking. I feel sick to my stomach. There is not an ounce of satisfaction for me coming out of this death.

I said what I said about leaving this fandom if JJ died and I meant it. For my own emotional well being I have to step away. To everyone who has been so kind and welcoming to me these past few years, thank you. To those who read my fanfics and interacted with my posts, thank you. And to those who reached out, sending me messages, engaging in conversation with me, thank you.

My time in this fandom has been a roller coaster of the highest highs and lowest lows, but I’m so grateful to have been a part of it. If you’d like to continue following me, that’s great. I’m sure I’ll find a new hyper fixation soon enough. But if not, if you only followed me for obx/jiara, then I completely understand if you unfollow me. I myself just unfollowed all the obx related blogs I follow. I swear it’s nothing personal. I just really need to get away from all this.

It hurts my heart that I’m unable to sign off this post with a ‘P4L’ but I see now that was a lie, so I won’t. I wish Rudy all the best and I hope he goes on to find success in whatever avenues of life he decides to take.

Thank you all, but this is goodbye.

[dykefoolish]

i’m glad people are finally saying something because it’s made me so uncomfortable how funny so many people seemed to find jokes about grooming and how gleeful so many people were to find out that dream was a bad person. i never cared for dream but i don’t understand how any one could see the situation as anything other than tragic, let alone be happy that young girls and women were groomed just because the person who did it was someone they already disliked. there were so many people i unfollowed when the news first broke because i found their reaction so disgusting and even more since for joking about it.

when the situation first started i wasn't home, and i remember i came online briefly for a second and saw everyone talking about it and immediately my friend messaged me and told me to log off for a little while and explained to me what was happening. i was absolutely devastated, and for awhile i was considering completely leaving tumblr because i was a dt main and my blog was very centric about them (ultimately decided not to and just tried to delete the majority of my posts about them). i pretty much blocked over half my long term mutuals ive had for years, ive blocked someone i considered a friend. seeing so many people make light about the situation and then saying stuff about how "drm fans are finally free" and/or joking about dream grooming someone fucked me up, and made me start thinking of my own bad memories regarding myself being groomed. and it doesn't help that recently people have been very bold with these types of jokes

people need to remember that this is a very serious topic, and while some types of jokes and humor about it is okay (ie basic jokes about snapchat or whatever), it gets to the point that when you start making certain types of jokes you are crossing a line and you just look like a fucking inconsiderate douchebag.

[solongllondon]

please grow the fuck up if you don't like taylor then change the blog and leave the fandom it will make it more breathable in here for the non toxic swifties.

Or u can just unfollow me!!

I’m sorry that I care more about an ongoing genocide and the general downfall of society and life everywhere than making sure a blonde billionaire (who will never see this) thinks all her fans think sun shines out of her ass. She does wrong things, you’re supposed to call her out for it, like every other human being on this earth. For your sake I hope you call people in your real OFFLINE life out for the things they do that are actually wrong and horrific and not just hide behind an anonymous mask to spew filfth at random strangers that dare to have opinions that don’t suit your little daydream of your favorite parasocial Popstar.

I’ve been in this fandom since 2007 I’m not fucking going anywhere and neither are my very loud, loud opinions. Also I can run whatever blog I want to run btw!!

pls, touch some grass.

[the1975attheirverybest]

that anon is right though that was bad even coming from an evil person like you

You have no idea what you’re talking about bro.

Believe it or not, there’s more to the story than what you see. Most of the time there’s more to the situation than you know. Like yeah sure I do get random ass hate asks every once in a while. And those are always funny to me because they tell on themselves so bad.

But believe me, the shit that people do to me on a personal level? You’d cry and be brought to your knees if you had to do deal with it. Simply for existing on tumblr and being into the 1975. I’m not as big of an idiot as you like to think. Your hatred of me has so blinded you to the situation. There’s more than meets the eye. People have done some illegal shit to try to bring me down personally.

So, I am sorry if, for a few hours last night, I contemplated deleting the fuckin blog because the anti-Palestinian sentiment and people trying to actually hurt me in real life and not just by sending meaningless hate online kind of got to me and affected my mental health. You don’t know shit. So shut the fuck up and consider that maybe JUST MAYBEEEE I know a little more than you do. And maybe just maayyybbbeee I’m not sharing everything I know because I’m actually a decent ass person. And even though some people actively inflict harm upon me, I genuinely believe that they’re coming from a bad place and they’re going to one day regret it and I don’t want to permanently ruin their lives or any chance of them having a peaceful existence online. Have you ever considered that? No cuz you can’t imagine yourself having compassion for someone who hates you so you assume I wouldn’t either.

All of this is besides the point though. This is my blog. I will say and do whatever the fuck I want. I’ll leave and come back as I please. If you don’t like it, unfollow and block me.

I won’t pray that you’d ever experience half the hate and vitriol that is directed at me on a DAILY FUCKIN BASIS because I genuinely do not wish that kind of pain on anyone. Not even my worst enemies. Go ahead and believe whatever you want. Say whatever you need to say to be able to sleep at night. What you see happening on my page is the tip of the iceberg baby. The shit that’s on my shoulders? Nobody knows about. And I have kept it that way for a reason. No matter how hard people like you try, you’re not going to turn this into a negative space. Hate me I don’t care. But I recommend for your sake that you consider for a fraction of a second that you do not know everything about everyone. And that maybe you’re wrong sometimes.

Fuckin hell what an entitled moron.

[killian-whump]

Five Posts I Hate:

#1: This blog is safe for ________.

Like, my blog isn’t dangerous for anyone, aside from fictional characters played by Colin O’Donoghue. It is literally safe for everyone and anyone else. Saying your blog is a safe place for [fill in the blank] kinda implies there are people / groups / individuals that your blog is NOT safe for. And that just leaves me wondering if you’ve got booby traps laid around the place or something. I suppose it would make sense if the blank was filled with “minors” or “work” but I can’t even remember the last time I saw someone post either of those - as that seems more like something you’d put in your header if it was important enough that you wanted people to actually see it when they come to your blog. Otherwise, it would just be pointless one-time posturing, wouldn’t it?

#2: Unfollow me if you ________.

Well, that’s just not how any of this works. Content creators of any kind don’t get to dictate who consumes their content, let alone based on arbitrary things like their personal / political / religious views. I mean, if you have a real beef with someone specific, you can block them, but you can’t ask people to self-censor your content from their view because something they do / believe is unappealing to you. Hitler himself could reanimate his corpse just to quietly follow your blog and there is nothing you can do to stop that motherfucker’s eyeballs from devouring every post you make - short of not making those posts.

Mind you, if people are doing it for the viewer’s benefit (say a whump blog warning folks, “Don’t follow me if you faint at the sight of blood”) then that’s another thing entirely. In that case, you’re warning people that if they ignore your warning, it’s at their own risk. Otherwise, it’s basically saying, “Punish yourself for holding this belief that I find abhorrent” and, like, no one’s going to do that? Why would they? Why should they? It’s 20-fucking-23 and it has always been true that people you don’t like are going to consume and even enjoy your content. Get over it.

#3: Reblog this to show you care about _______.

Fuck you. Just... fuck you. I care about whatever I care about, and it’s my business what those things are. I share them if I want to share them. I leave them unspoken if I want to leave them unspoken. NO ONE should ever assume people care about or don’t care about things based on what they post (or don’t post) on their little internet blog. I could care about an issue with the power of a thousand suns and I still won’t reblog a post that contains this wording or anything like it, because fuck you for implying that anyone who doesn’t reblog your shitty ass do-nothing post on the interwebs doesn’t care about whatever it is your post is about. Seriously. Fuck off with that shit.

#4: Vote for ________.

I’m as apolitical as they come, but I’m all for politically-minded people encouraging others to get out there and vote. I even think it’s great when celebrities support those kinds of messages. I DON’T like it when non-voters are shunned or not voting is treated like an invalid choice for citizens to make, but I’m 100% for people reminding others when an important election is near and giving positive encouragement to take part in the process.

But such messages stop being okay the moment someone starts telling people who to vote for. Now you’re no longer trying to get others actively involved in the electoral process - now you’re trying to game the system by increasing the number of votes your chosen candidate receives. Adding those few words has now turned your entire post into nothing more than political propaganda. EVERY individual has the right - and the responsibility - to vote for whichever options THEY feel are best, NOT the ones YOU feel are best. Encouraging others to read up on all of the issues, candidates, and offices involved is responsible citizenship. Telling them to go vote for your candidate because you said so is utter bullshit.

#5: Tag five friends / blogs...

How ‘bout I tag NOBODY, so I don’t give five people warm fuzzies at the cost of everyone else’s feelings? How ‘bout I tag NOBODY, so everybody can decide whether they want to take part in whatever shenanigans the post is up to? How ‘bout I do whatever the fuck I want and you stop telling me what to do?

[a-republican-mind]

I've been being accused of some things lately and would like to clear my name...

IDK what to do with myself here. I can’t really explain myself well after all of that scandal, and if I try to explain to someone here, they block me. I feel like it’s best to leave but at same time, to stay. Leave because all of what I build for five years, is destroyed, I’m hated, I’m sent anon hate. Stay because this is only place that I can talk to people, and I don’t have anyone to reach out. And look at me now, I’m more lonely than ever due to that mentally ill, man hating radfem Christian chick obsessed with me for some reason, I didn’t piss her off nor have I mocked her in any way before all of this. I don’t know what else she has posted about me and yes, I did contact the first person who knew about this via another account but at that time, I was scared the world was about to end and wasn’t really thinking but just to clear my name. And for those that say I baited my attempt to take my life, I had a knife with me until I cried to sleep. I know I fucked up big time.

But the other thing that I got blocked for sure was that “like” to that post, which again, I’ll say again, IT WASN’T FUCKING ME!!!!! Sure, likely story, dumbass. I am not creating this story, this legit happened. It wasn’t me but a friend of mine who (by stupidity of me not closing my laptop and leaving it on the settings page with the list of blocked people) was taking care of my stuff while I going to the restroom and decided it was good idea to run my blog. He has a tumblr: weepingcloddreamland, look him up and good luck trying to contact him as his last post was back in March of 2020. All of this happened on summer of 2018/2019, before the virus. I was out while he rebloged and give likes to those blogs I blocked for the right reasons. When I came back, he said, “Hey Michael, I spiced up your blog a bit” “Oh, really” *checked what he did* Shocked I said “Dude, WTF did you do, I blocked them for a reason!” his answer was... “I did a favor, you know women love that” After that, I decided to kick him his ass and cut ties, he left angry. Shortly thereafter, he created a blog to do what I did, blocked him back and said this.

As proof that I did talk to him, because no one believes me at this point. All of this happened before I had my porn addiction. My porn addiction started in 2020, and it went downhill from there. I know I have a problem. It will take a lot of time as I know that this isn’t solved overnight or in a week time. I deleted the blogs already (for those anons who keep on asking).

For those that blocked me for this, I just want to say sorry for all. I’m a horrible person who was caught in all of this. And is shameful of everything, I’m even disgusted at myself. All of this stuff that my addiction caught me in was fantasy and I’ve never once disrespected a woman in my life. I don’t support violence against women. Nor have I ever abused any woman in my life. You people act like if I actually did and I dare anyone to find anything in my record (nothing in there) I hope to regain your trust as I did when you first followed me, but I still highly doubt any of you want to hear from me again or forgive. But I am praying for all of your wellbeing every night before I go to bed. If you’re having personal problems, I’ll be praying for you. That’s how much I love you guys even if you hate me now. I hope that whatever hopes, dreams, goals, you (my former mutuals) have is completed or happens the way you want it. If you want to believe what I said, that’s up to you and I know that I’ll get even more hate and death threats may even lose more of you. But I want to tell the truth and my side of the story. I will change for the better, but I can’t do it alone. I still have those sick feeling of relapsing again but I’m holding tight not to.

Oh, and one final thing, please unfollow and block nette and her nasty man hating friends. I’ve heard many things from a couple of people about her that isn’t really good. One of her friends is racist, a couple of them are creeps (actual online stalkers) and saved pics of me when I posted them on my blog. Even one of them is proudly an ableist. And all for what? To save the day? To feel better with themselves?  To get money out of me? Keep in mind that I’m dirt poor (have no money in the bank for months and struggle to get some money to buy at something worth five dollars at Wendy’s or Burger King for example), didn’t have a vacation since January of 2019, don’t have a central A/C system in my house and had a very hard life (economically speaking all the way since the beginning of 2016). Most of you consider yourself lucky that you can travel on a plane to Disneyland, Europe or whatever part of this fucking planet that I’ve never been on yet. Plus, after all of that, the bad luck still continued, I lost two cute cats, and my phone (which was going to be replaced anyways but I didn’t expect it so soon, it almost made my family go broke). This is all harassment and self-gratification just for a few likes. I have unblocked a couple of people that have blocked me in case you have the goodliness of your hearts to forgive me (still highly doubt it). But I won’t trust them again until otherwise. I’ll be removing anon tho. I don’t know what else what said about me other than the two posts about me, but I don’t think that stopped. Plus I believe in the “eye for an eye” punishment, so nette and co watch out and stop having those only idea of God. Get off the internet and read the bible. I just want this drama down and over with and to have my good friends back, but I still doubt they will want me back. For sure, some of them will see this tho. I’ve said enough.

[sacrificialblackdragon]

Hello everyone and thank you for following and / or lurking !   I am REKI, I am a 29 year old female, with two jobs and three cats, who has been roleplaying for a few years. This is an INDEPENDENT & SELECTIVE blog and is meant for a 21+ AUDIENCE. TRIGGER THEMES ARE PRESENT AND WILL BE TAGGED !   I used to have a Hak blog but have long since forgotten the URL. ; A; My best friend actually got me into the series and I collect the manga. Sadly, I am missing a few of the beginning volumes. Please hit that like, follow or reblog button if you would like to interact with Hak!! Rules Below:

RULES, LAWS, IMPORTANT STUFFS.FIRST AND FORMOST! I love ALL pairings. I will not tolerate any hatred towards any character.

1) These rules are subject to change.

2) There will be no hate messages on this blog. Meaning if I get sent a hate message it will just get deleted. I will not waste my time brooding over your message so you are just wasting your time typing it up.

3) No god modding. Understandably my characters can’t win EVERY single battle and will not win everything. I usually like taking a few and then your character takes a few. I will always, ALWAYS, come to you and ask how the end of the fight will turn out that way I can write accordingly.

4) Writing. I don’t expect a novel back if I write a novel, and sometimes I do. However, I do expect something to work with, please do not respond back to me if I leave you with a detailed post only for you to give me a one liner, it just kills the mood. – In addition! If you would like to respond to an ask please link the ask on a fresh new post, and tag me just in case, that way it looks more appealing. I do that with other roleplayers. C:

5) Original Characters. I love original characters, I personally suck at writing and developing them so for all of you original characters out there I applaud you. However, please don’t use me to come up for ideas of your original character, that’s not my job. If you like for a starter please understand that I will be staring at your character about page for a long, long, long time. It’s a little difficult for me to write for an original character so please be patient!

6) Ships. Here we go … This is a huge one for a lot of people. I am a Multi-shipper or trash – I’ll accept either lol. You are free to jump in my inbox or IM me and be like “Hey baby. You and my muse * suggestive eyebrow wiggle*”. I will most likely be like “FUCK YES LETS GO!” and bam! We ship. But here is my problem with most people: I have a lot of ships that I absolutely adore however, if you don’t like the ship me and my roleplay partner are doing you can either unfollow or shut the fuck up and ignore it, black list it – whatever. I’m saying that in the nicest way possible. I’m tired of people complaining that they “Hate this ship but I saw it and read it so now I’ll bitch on my blog about it.” Calm down, grow up and again, unfollow that person or ignore the post. Plain and simple or else you’ll probably be hearing about it from me. I have been in too many fandoms where this goes on.

7) Exclusives/Relationships. I am a-ok and more than happy to exclusively ship when it comes to main ideas and plot, but please remember that I am only one person and I do like interacting with other people. Exclusives doesn’t mean you own me in anyway. Exclusives to me normally mean that you are a close friend and most likely already have my discord. The more was talk IC or OOC the more likely I will pick you as an exclusive for main plots.

8) Reblogging when you have no permission. During my time of roleplaying on many sites tumblr is probably the worst for this rule. Anyone who reblogs threads, asks or any other communication between my partners that they are not tagged in will be kindly asked to delete the post. If not deleted within 24 hours you will be blocked from my page and I will not remove it.

9) Nsfw. Is only available for people who are of age and adults. I am 29 and I do not take light of being tricked when it comes to age. I will be asking your age if it is not in your mun section or anywhere visible, I will not be held liable if you are lying to me. You MUST be of legal age, please ask if you are interested in rping nsfw.

10) Personal Tags & Passwords. I don’t do personal tags or passwords. Final answer, if you follow me then it means you understand that I will NOT be tagging any personal tags.

11) Triggers. I don’t expect people to tag my trigger mainly because it only happens around Halloween time. I understand people are in the spirit but I absolutely hate seeing scary things pop out at me. It leads me to paranoia and I just can’t sleep at night. Anything paranormal I can’t handle, which is why I can’t watch scary movies. If I do see this on my dash it does lead to an unfollow, but not a block.

12) Icons. These icons have been created by me, but I do not claim that the art is mine. Anything from the managa or fanart I do not claim to be mine.

13) Other. Other than all of this “Don’t do this, and don’t do that” I really just want to have fun with each and every one of you. Thank you so much for either reading or skimming over my rules.

[termiken]

hey maybe don’t reblog a ace-not-sex-haver post with tags about fucking nasty

good for you for liking sex (and in general good for people who have sex) but this isn’t giving the „A SAFE BLOG FOR LGBTQ+“ in your bio when it excludes ace people :|

i get what you mean

sorry if i made anyone uncomfortable, i should prolly consider my tags a bit more before i post

when i wrote that though i was kinda thinking about the infantilization of characters and laios in particular, so i just kinda threw up brain soup in the tags when i really didnt need to say anything

also i dont wanna pull the "erm actually im this" card but i am on the ace spec, so im not trying to exclude anyone, especially myself

i try my best to understand and respect aro, ace, aroace, or anything like that people, but if you or anyone following me is sex repulsed, i can start tagging things as suggestive, or you can unfollow, block, leave, whatever

if this comes across as rude, i did not intend it

please continue to point out any mistakes i make, and i will try to respond and take action accordingly

imma go see if i can find the post and fix it

[theaquamarinearchives]

[ the archives rules. ]

many of my writing may be ooc while i test certain characters; feedback is appreciated but no harsh criticism please, i’m dyslexic and not a native english speaker. sometimes i do not get a chance to proofread until a later date.

i write for sfw only as i run a separate blog for nsfw writing however i interact with nsfw blogs/works on my main.

basic dni criteria + my own criteria applies here. please do not spam like my posts.

do not include me in your discourse & drama. this is the internet. if something i do or someone i interact with bothers you, feel free to leave my blog - i do not care if you unfollow or block or whatever, you do not have to announce your exit.

i do not take requests.

i don’t become mutuals with anyone under the age of 18 unless we were mutuals prior to me installing this rule i.e. anyone on my mutuals list on @thexianzhoujade.

“fuck it if i can’t have him, i might just die, it would make no difference. down bad, wakin’ up in blood. starin’ at the sky, come back and pick me up.”

[ofspark]

#OFSPARK 》 an independent & highly selective portrayal of lightning of s-e’s ffxiii trilogy. carrd tbd. written by valkyrie.

"𝐼 𝑤𝑜𝑛'𝑡 𝑙𝑒𝑡 𝑎𝑛𝑦𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑠𝑡𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑖𝑛 𝑚𝑦 𝑤𝑎𝑦." Words on steeled breath && the sincerity aloft; stardust in lungs bred of cosmic imposition. A soldier turned savior; from civil guardian to divine hound. A wolf whose teeth gnash against the grain of fate && tear it asunder. Sky may fall && destiny be damned---at her feet it falls like a withering rose.

A tale of opposition. A retelling of the story of a woman who went against fate for the ones she loved. A campfire sonnet singing praise of the mighty. Hands that can break and mend all the same. The storm that resides in one’s bones 

affiliated with: @fateblooms​​ 

                   PLEASE READ RULES PRIOR TO INTERACTION (carrd WIP)

mobile friendly rules below cut.**

MUTUALS ONLY. I reserve the right to interact with those that I’m following who are, therein, following me as well. Please do not like starter calls or anything else unless we are, in fact, following one another. This is not any form of pickiness more so than it’s simply for my own comfort/organization.

DRAMA FREE ZONE. Please leave me out of any grievances. I’ve personally seen what happens when I get too closely involved in these things and for growth and a better future for myself, I don’t want any part of it. If there are callouts that are for the betterment of the community as a whole, I may share them. For example, any callouts regarding personal beef or personal vendettas against other blogs will be ignored / blacklisted / result in the poster being blocked. However, if the callout is for someone who is knowingly and unashamedly performing criminal acts with zero remorse then I will most likely share it.  But other than that, this blog will be a safe space for myself and mutuals/friends.

NSFW CONTENT PRESENT. Blood, gore, violence, trauma, etc. will be present on this blog. Everything will be tagged accordingly. I’m human, though, and will miss things now and then. Just let me know.

FOLLOWING BACK. Seeing as this blog will be highly private and selective, this is my opportunity to inform you that if within seven days I do not give you a follow back, as I tend to browse my blogs via mobile a majority of the time, then take it upon yourself to unfollow. If I’m ever away from my blog, I’ll usually make a post about being on my other blogs as this WILL be a low activity blog.

SOFT BLOCKING / HARD BLOCKING. If I have soft blocked you, it is nothing personal. If you followed me and I soft block you, please do not proceed to follow me again and again. This will result in an instant HARD BLOCK indefinitely. I want to curate my space into one of comfort and safety. A place where not only I feel safe but my followers do as well. I have no intentions of hurting anyone’s feelings with soft blocking a person from my blog. It is most likely because I couldn’t see us writing together (whether because of conflicting muse types or whatever else) or because I believe that me and you might not mesh as people. And that’s perfectly fine because that’s the lovely thing about individuality. It could also stem from issues I’ve had with certain people or things that have happened in more recent events that have made me a little more proactive with how I want to curate my space.

STAY AWAY IF you’re hateful in any way. Homophobic, transphobic, racist, the works; just shoo. Also? Pedophilia will get you a hard block quick, fast, and in a hurry. That’s fucking disgusting and you don’t deserve the air you’re breathing. I said what I said.

GOD MODDING / META GAMING. Just don’t do it okay? Gets you a quick block. It’s just stupid and an ancient rule that should be well known by now.

ANON HATE. It will be deleted on sight and ignored to the furthest extent. Grow up and worry about yourself. You see something on my blog you don’t like? Soft block me and keep it moving. You don’t like me personally? Why follow in the first place? Lmao

18+. I reserve the right to interact solely with those who are eighteen years and older. It makes me extremely uncomfortable to interact with minors because I know how most act. If I find out you’re a minor lying about their age, you will be hard blocked. Immediately.

DNI: silvhers and babochkas (and any other URL’s they have + they come as a package deal as is), Autumn/Jewel/Rose (florafate/gainsborro, curseblind, peculiarbeauty, as well as fauxwife,), infernaliscor (Hannah), or Krissy/Moth (creatrix-mea and their other blogs). While I cannot control who people interact with, I can curate my space. It’s only for my own comfort as well as my friends. Also, if you use Amber Heard on your blog in any capacity (aesthetics, FC, etc.), I will block you immediately. Giving that woman a platform is no different than condoning her actions. As someone who used to use AH as a FC for one of their muses, I can tell you that there are plenty of other talented actresses that can be used in her place. We do not give an abuser a platform while there are DV victims all around us. It isn't cute.  

DO NOT INTERACT WITH ME IF YOU ASSOCIATE WITH DRAKONAIRS (EVIE/ARTEMIS/LUNA). Between countless times of racist behavior, to hypersexualizing minors, to causing discourse throughout whatever fandom she’s been a part of under some sweet girl guise, I want NO PART OF HER EXISTENCE across my blogs. The callout can be viewed HERE. A quick scroll through the source blog will also show documentation of the mentioned behavior. Her most recent post as of 1/30/2024, some scrambling to pick up whatever pieces she can and “apologize”, does not paint the entirety of the extent in which she has displayed PREDATORY BEHAVIOR. Especially as she continues to “simp” over minor characters, a recent example being of Squall Leonhart. I will make zero exceptions for this rule.

AND LAST BUT CERTAINLY NOT LEAST— Have fun and happy writing!

[mrsblackruby]

Yeah Pretty Much

The under the cut part is just there for anyone having them same mental health struggles as me when it comes to blocking. Might help knowing someone else feels the struggle idk

I’ve been in some situations tho where tumblr has accidentally blocked people or I must’ve blocked accidentally idk how tf it happened (I more commonly unfollow people by accident) and It’s a close mutual too and then they ask me wth and I’m like:

But especially since I’m heavy in the fandom discourse I try to live by OPs statements personally. Even tho in the back of my head there’s like two fandom blogs I really loved and they’ve blocked me. I’m not sure if they meant to or not cuz we use to talk all the time then block 😭. But I still haven’t reached out cuz I feel once I’m blocked I’m blocked. And I get it discourse just isn’t for everyone especially with how heavy it gets and people just want to escape and people can block me for any numbers of reasons.

But that Bitch hurts like ghosting. I’m sad. But I’ll live. But I am sad.

Ngl I hate being blocked when I’m deep in thought like damn but I have to learn to respect other people boundaries *eye roll🙄* (Eye roll because I have a personality disorder and it’s not my first impulse to care about other people I actively have to urge myself not to cross boundaries. But I do see the importance in trying tho but it’s so fucking annoying)

Also the great fear that everyone is gonna block me in life because they think I’m an inferior human eats away at me.

But that’s just my own existential crisis.

I hope people feel comfortable enough to tell me why they’re blocking me to at least ease the pain if they care about my feelings but I get why someone wouldn’t be able to do that.

I believe in all of u and u will be missed. 😘

I’ve been harassed so much and I still haven’t blocked some people idk I just don’t like blocking people personally unless it’s my last option it makes me sad. like i desire to talk things out but some people don’t want to talk. I get that.

But it causes me grief but I’m trying to process it healthy.

It’s the FOMO. It hurts so bad.

I feel like a little kid again with my overwhelming adhd symptoms and everyone just turning around and ignoring me for being the problem child when I just want to hangout with my peers but I definitely get it. I can be a lot for some people to handle. But it hurts cuz I feel like I could handle/face anyone if the situation presents itself to me.

But idk if that’s just me having a big ego again.

Anyways I like to think I had an ego death and it humbled me deeply 💀💀💀

The internet’s and interesting place and I wonder what effect it’s having on my mind constantly.

Idk why I kinda find it so funny that it’s such a struggle for me to leave the people alone. I’m such and menace to the masses.

Like I see something interesting and I just want to go go go. That’s probably why i get blocked a lot 💀 but it does eat away at me if it’s another reason cuz then I start wondering what those other reasons could be. Cuz my anxiety hates me but remember anxiety is a lair and when someone blocks you without telling you why you will never truly know the reason behind it. So whether it’s the worse or best case scenario or whatever the reason might actually be…it isn’t an identifier of ur worth as a person. Ik what uncertainty can do to a anxious brain but I hope that logic helps someone out there or helps me myself out lolz

All in All Fight the urge because not interacting with someone once they’ve blocked u is the safest option for you both. If it’s a mistake maybe things work it self out maybe not but the safest option is to not engage any further. It’s okay to be in your feelings about it tho.

We all deserve sad boi hours.

💀 Just realizing I’m that friend that if you’re ever in a break up With someone Imma try to convince ya not to text ur ex.

Just as a heads up. If someone blocks you, don't work around it and message them to ask why. I don't care if it makes you anxious or uncomfortable or whatever. If somebody's blocked you, they have made it very clear they don't want to interact with you. Leave them alone.

[polyamorouspunk]

I don't usually interact but I really like your content, i wish people on this website didn't lack common sense and stopped crossing your boundaries. I wish u the best

Thank you.

After careful consideration I’ve decided to keep this blog but revamp it.

For so long I’ve talked about how the “left” space makes me feel so pressured into not enjoying things that bring me comfort, makes me feel uncomfortable for enjoying things, etc. It’s funny that all of the anon hate I get is for people telling me I’m not “punk” enough. I think it says a lot about this space’s mentality to think it’s okay to send hate to someone you don’t agree with. I’m tired of reading the snide comments my mutuals write in their tags about people who watch war movies or listen to true crime or whatever simply because “the left” deems it problematic. For a community who labels itself as open it’s really quite closed-minded. I’ll be unfollowing and blocking a lot of people I regularly interact with because of this kind of mentality.

I’m not sure where this is going to leave me for content I usually post, so if you want to bear with me while I make these changes go ahead and if not then feel free to unfollow and shut the fuck it.

I don’t agree with being rude to people just because they’re “problematic”. I believe kindness is truly the most punk thing you can have, even if it’s towards people you don’t think deserve it.

[adhdbisexualramblings]

(Serious and long post for a second)

Let’s talk about my exposure to duusuneedsmorescreentime A.K.A PlaggAndAdrienBondingIsTheBest! A.K.A some other FOP blog that I forgot the name of

It was not two or a day after finding her and frequently leaving replies on her posts did I find out about her … Problematic side. And I want to talk about that.

This was my first fucking exposure to her

My first introduction to her was her liking my less than normal post and her being the only one actually saying anything about it, positive or negative

So, naturally, I check out her blog in return to see what sort of stuff she posts. I’ll check on a few posts, I read the description thing that she has going on, and while it is a bit long and maybe not the nicest, I brush it off because I do kind of enjoy what she posts. I’m the kind of person that’s inclined to believe whatever anyone’s opinion of someone else is. That’s not the smartest choice but I tend to take everyone’s words, not as fact, but as observations that they have seen and that they comment on. This Tumblr blogger’s opinion was no different. Did I reply to a lot of her posts at 4 AM? Yeah. Because I did actually like what she was saying, kind of. I saw the most recent posts about Plagg and Adrien and sometimes about Marinette hate, which while a bit mean and brash at times, was not enough to dissuade me. I’ll admit, I don’t see Marinette as the best person out there. She’s not bad, but she has some stalker tendencies and borderline obsessive behavior at times. Sometimes to let my emotions get the best of me and actually declare her to be a terrible person because that’s anger taking over. Is that any sort of excuse for being rude to people? No. I sometimes just get over emotional, not even about the topic sometimes, and take my aggression out on characters that I even slightly dislike. I try not to be rude on the Internet because that’s just not very nice and I don’t want to be known for being a bad person.

Now, back to my observations about duusuneedsmorescreentime. She was actually what introduced me to a… specific kink. I obviously wanted to know more about this after a post of hers (I didn’t see much wrong with it because, from her reply to me, I assumed it was purely platonic) so I interacted with her. Her reply was not rude, and it brought some interesting – let’s say, purely platonic scenarios - things to mind. This was my constant exposure to her; her being nice to me and me actually maybe liking in the sort of stuff she posted about Miraculous Ladybug.

It wasn’t till I decided to actually look up who she was talking bad about in her bio that I realized what she was all about. I looked up Lady_LB’s blog to see what was so bad about them in the search bar and instead got a lot of hate about this person. And the first few things I saw made a lot of sense. Multiple asks and answers talked about how this person that I was following was very – well ‘rude’ doesn’t really cut it. They talked about her shipping thousands of-year-old gods with minors. But, I didn’t see any blatant shipping going on. But that might have been because of my purely platonic views on Plagg and Adrien’s relationship, and not being able to imagine it as anything more. I read a few more posts and they kept talking about how this Tumblr user was openly rude and harasses those who share different views as her. As I kept reading on I was slowly getting dissuaded in actually following this person. I haven’t made the choice of on unfollowing her yet because I want to get my thoughts out here, but I now see how problematic she is. She has been openly rude, biased, disagrees with different opinions than hers which you just don’t do, ships kwamis and their holders, and has shipped herself with minors. I believe she is also called a neurodivergent (am I spelling that right?) person the R word which, as a neurodivergent person, I will not accept. I found out that she, on Tumblr, is called by her kink, which (if you don’t want to know skip to the next paragraph) is called omorashi and alludes to the process of being turned on when someone wets themselves. When I first heard about this, I was a bit curious on how that could be a kink. But on her specific post (mentioned above), even if it was a sexual thing, I still viewed it as platonic, so I really wasn’t too weirded out by it. Anyway, people on Tumblr call her “Pee Girl”. I saw that, And, while I was getting dissuaded from liking her as a Tumblr blogger, my immediate thought was still “don’t do that“. Because, I get she’s not a good person, but that’s still kink-shaming, you know? And I am not one for kink-shaming, so that, either way, didn’t sit right with me. Other than that all the points were completely valid.

So, the bottom line is that now I don’t like her. At all. But, the thing is, I still enjoy some of her posts? I enjoy exploring the bond between Plagg and Adrien and I like seeing someone who also enjoys their bond, even if it is in a romantic sense. I might be able to flip it on its head and view it as platonic, because that’s what I did anyway.

So, the question is this: can you not like a person but still semi-like their posts? Because I don’t like this girl anymore, even if she was the only one to show reactions to my ideas which I did not feel the safest about posting, and I don’t support her views at all or who she is as a person, but her posts are not that bad if you look past her being a f***ing terrible person?

Can I still look at her posts and have a good time? My brain is asking me if i’m even allowed to do that. I think I am, but I also have some conflicted feelings about it.

I did not make this post to stir up any trouble or feuds. I made it to better articulate my own feelings about this person and to help and warn others about them and their actions. They are not a nice person on any social media, no matter how nice they seem to be. I’m still not sure if I’m unfollowing them, I really should, but their opinions and how they push them on to others is a horrible thing to do.

[cheesybadgers]

Ahh Alex, bless you and thank you for saying all of this, it means a lot 🥺❤️

God, where do you even start with the batshittery that goes on in fandom nowadays? Never mind turning fics into novels, I could write a book on my experiences over the last 3 years and it would have more shocking plot twists 😂

I was the same in 2020…I’d been off Tumblr for a while but the pandemic drew me back and it was the first time since about 2015 that I became really active in a fandom to the point of contributing to it.

It was weirdly a lot more fun when everyone was in lockdown and gathering online to get through such a bizarre and awful global event. I can’t pinpoint when exactly it all deteriorated, but I’ve personally been having issues since late 2021/early 2022 when people started stealing from my fics and they haven’t really stopped since.

There aren’t many fic writers in the small corner I write in that I haven’t been forced to block/distance myself from for this kind of thing…and some of the names involved would surprise people, I’m sure lol. This has been the hardest and most disappointing part of the experience to deal with for me, especially anyone writing for the characters of less popular actors…like why are you destroying and dividing what is only a tiny fandom in the first place?? I wanted to/did support you all, but you blew it.

I feel like I’ve been fending off attacks from all corners for the best part of 18 months. And then just when I thought I was free, I found out one of the most popular fic writers in the fandom, who I didn’t even think knew I or my fic existed, had got her grubby little hands all over it. So, if anyone wonders why I stopped updating for the first quarter of the year, you have your answer here!

Then there’s the passive aggressive snubbing, resent following, weird anon messages, homophobia/biphobia/racism that either gets swept under the carpet or people flock to reblog the most basic platitudes from the cishet and/or white popular blogs who actually add to the problem, but ignore people who are part of those minority groups until they give up and leave.

Oh, and let’s not forget the general Mean Girls microaggressions that I haven’t experienced since I was about 14. And what for?! You don’t actually get to fuck your fave once you’ve successfully trampled all over everyone, y’know lol.

And you’re right, it is exhausting. It has caused me more stress than it should have done and I have an easier time doing my day job than doing something that’s supposed to be a fun hobby. I know they always say walk away from stuff that makes you unhappy, and to some extent I have, but it’s not as easy as that when you still love writing for certain characters/ships, and I don’t see why I should have to give that up because others don’t know how to behave. I do block/unfollow/filter a lot, but it’s hard to contribute to a fandom and be 100% oblivious to everything going on in it.

It’s just…oh my god, treat each other better for the love of humanity. Learn to deal with your own insecurities, jealousies and prejudices in a healthier manner without making them the problem of strangers on the internet. Learn to listen to less popular blogs and minority groups when they bring serious concerns to the attention of the fandom. Learn what a community actually entails, because newsflash: it’s incompatible to moan about loneliness and lack of interaction on your creations then treat potential friends like, well, whatever the hell all of this is.

Why is it that the people spouting ‘Be kind’ trite the loudest are usually the worst offenders of shitty behaviour? 😂

[dreamonminecraft]

when i first got recommended hari’s account on here, i avoided following her for a while bc in the back of my mind, i had a weird feeling about her bc of something i’d seen her say previously (i don’t remember what). eventually i followed her blog, but something always bugged me about the way she and that group would act. timeskip a month or two to this weekend, and i finally understand that nagging feeling

idk it’s just???? so weird the way they all talked about dtblr and the dsmp fandom as a whole suddenly dissolving as a result of them all leaving. also like,,,,,one second they were calling hari dream’s pr rep or whatever (kinda parasocial if you ask me, joking or not), and the next they’re following her out like a mob with torches. idk, just felt so weird. suffice to say, i unfollowed rather quickly this past weekend

There was an era around when Manatreed was being (idfk what you call it? Accused? Decimated?) where people were planning on jumping ship but i only remember v (youremykitten) who had originally been okay in my mind but had taken such a weird turn in the days following up to M's controversy that I was debating unfollowing before everything went to shit. She ended up basically confirming having been a part of the leaks (something along the lines of 'there's more to it that you don't know') Specific people in dtblr always had too much power over the fandom and to preach about parasociality on a blog where you're treated as royalty is so fucking hypocritical.

[excalibent]

About SquigglyDigg

I still don’t get it.

It’s difficult to really vocalize my feelings on the issue because they’re all kinda crossed. Like, people are touting certain posts of hers like they’re proof that she’s a terrible person or whatever, screenshots and shit of her political takes, but, like...hey. Guys. Have some of y’all ever once interacted with someone who doesn’t agree with you politically?

In the real world. Face-to-face. If you met Squiggly (fuckin’, fine, someone like Squiggly) in the street, would you look them in the face and start ranting about all the shit they’ve done and said to make you feel upset?

I’ve been trying to parse out what the fuck happened there for years, at this point, and it still doesn’t really make sense to me. Like, a lot of the shit she caught (and apparently, is still catching) flak for is just...Republican. You know? Like, conservative beliefs that a lot of Republicans share. I don’t like the party myself, but I know a good number of people who would consider themselves Republicans and I’m starting to think that just, at some point, saying ‘alright, I guess the argument ends here’ never registered for some people.

Part of it is definitely just how Tumblr operates. You essentially curate your own content, and if you don’t like someone’s opinions, you just stop following them - which means that there’s a lot of people who exclusively get info and opinions totally counter to conservative ideologies, and believe that this information is not only right, but it’s also the only right anyone should be allowed to believe in.

Let’s get specific.

I, personally, unfollowed SquigglyDigg because of what seems to be anti-vaccination sentiment that’s showing up on her blog just recently. I believe in the vaccine, I believe it is necessary, and I certainly believe that claiming that it’s harmful in any sense is harmful to society at large.

So there’s something about the vaccine, or how it’s being handled, or something about the vaccination card they give you that just rubs her the wrong way. I have no specifics, don’t presume that she’ll give them to you, either, and for fuck’s sake, don’t harass her about it, because it just occurred to me that some of you spineless fucks actually think that sending death threats to people on the internet is a good way to handle shit.

But, back to the point - she doesn’t like something about the vaccine and the particular post I saw seems to equate the vaccine card to the star that Jewish people were forced to wear during the Holocaust.

The internet allows for accumulate opinion like this. It just happens - but I believe that’s because the internet is predisposed to radicalization. What about someone I meet in the real world?

All of my coworkers are antivaxxers. They refuse to get it for various reasons, none of which I think are good or even valid.

Okay. What now?

Everyone around me is pretty conservative in general. I can’t opt for a more agreeable experience by ‘unfollowing’ anyone, because they’re still going to be there every day I come in for work. Hell, I can’t even get them to agree with me.

I’ve always hated the phrase ‘agree to disagree’ because it leaves a lot of loose ends in terms of the argument it pertains to, but what else can I do? I’m sure as hell not going to go to my boss and go ‘hey x coworker is republican please do something about it’. For one, they can’t do anything about it, and for two, even if they could, I don’t think I could ethically prescribe to whatever method of political pruning they might be employing to ‘solve’ the disagreement.

So that’s the whole ‘But she’s conservative!’ side of it. So what. I know a shitton of conservatives who are actually very nice people and it’s just not a problem.

Then, of course, there’s the other...stuff. Can’t even really dig into all of it, but...I don’t know, man, it just looks like regular fandom drama bullshit to me, and the only reason Squiggly caught so much shit for it was because she was a big target who was only tangentially involved in some of those situations.

And just in case some of you didn’t notice that little bit in the middle - for god’s sake, do not harass her. If you got fucking pilloried for your political beliefs because of an opinion you had on a goddamn kid’s movie, I can guarantee you that you’d dig your heels in through the crust of the Earth and start taking active measures to build up a wall around yourself to get people to quit fucking doing it.

“But I wouldn’t-” You would. You absolutely would, if not from the beginning, then from the moment that people started dragging up everything they could find that would help them feel more comfortable or sure in disliking you, every little mistake or irrational slip of the tongue that they could possibly dig up.

Don’t. Fucking. Do it.

So to summarize:

- I’m pretty sure SquigglyDigg is just conservative, guys

- That’s not a bad thing, just in case I have to reiterate

- Petty fandom RP bullshit? Get in line, it’s literally fucking everywhere

- Why did it take me so long to figure this out? It didn’t because I’m still parsing through it all (because believe it or not I can agree to disagree but I’ll still have reservations about it because it’s fucking politics, people, it’s a goddamn minefield) but what I know for sure is that the shitstorm that erupted around her was not remotely warranted and you people need to fucking cool it