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thatevilenby · 1 year ago

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Every time I see a "there's a shortage of tops/doms" post I have to wonder, is there really a top/dom shortage or do you just treat people who top/dom like shit? Is there really a shortage or do you just have unrealistic expectations that no top/dom could reasonably meet? Is there really a shortage or do you just take no steps to put yourself out there or actively talk to people who you want to top/dom you?

Essentially, is there really a shortage or do you just refuse to put the work in on your end?

#not a yakuza post #kink talk #I'm writing this as an angry former switch leaning dom who was repeatedly treated like this and now wants fuck all to do with domming #The amount I was mistreated by entitled subs who thought just because I was masc and a dom that meant I was their sex and/or kink dispenser #Sex and Kink is a two way street #everyone involved has to put in the work for it to be safe #are you putting the work in? or are you being unsafe?

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