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captain-huggy-bear · 4 days ago

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Think I may be getting ghosted by stick tape boy after asking him if he had any career plans/ambitions which is okay because I do not want to have a family with someone who cannot help me support it when i'd be the one getting pregnant and putting my body and a section of my career on the line.

Will update you if he isn't actually ghosting me, but it feels like he is, or at least holding off on responding 😂

Still haven't heard from Goalie boy last I checked he seemed to be over 600 miles away aka like Scotland so we'll see if he checks in or not i've stopped worrying about it or caring even though he's hot 😂

#He works for a supermarket and that's fine but I earn like double his wage and my wage isn't exactly amazing for the amouht of work i do #I dont want to be a mum who can't even take a little time out for her kids #most female teachers I know are part time once they have kids like 4 days a week and that's probably what i'd want to do #but with the cost of childcare in this country and housing etc my partner would have to at least have a goal in his career.#like you don't need to be rich but a minimum wage job just isn't going to work for my life goals not in the south of England where #everything is expensive #like if he comes back and says he has a career plan like its not a permanent thing then great #but I have a feeling he doesn't #huggy bear's love life #stick tape boy #goalie boy #I'm sure some peoplen would call me shallow or vain for this #but financial security is really important to me and I dont want to be earning significantly more than my so especially when #i'm not making like 50/60/70k #y'know?

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