#I'm sad bc ppl theorizing transfeminism make jokes about 'birthday boys'

[ryuutchi]

Wanting to theorize about the specific intersection of transmasculinity and oppression will make me sad and lonely and is wallowing my pain. I want to "wallow uncritically" by being interested in what we can learn by centering the experiences of misogyny-applicable ppl who take on masculine characteristics, roles, and gender. I'm certainly not feeling lonely, sad and alienated bc when transmascs even half-wave at a transmasc-focused theory of gendered oppression, ppl respond angrily and with insults,, There's no way that my alienation is bc I am constantly told that my pain is not worth discussing, and anyone who does must be sad, lonely, and wallowing.