#I'm queuing this because hitting post is scary don't look at me
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sparrowmoth · 4 years ago
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#*finger guns* yeah so I just needed to rip this off like a band-aid#I'm queuing this because hitting post is scary don't look at me#jdklajgklsjdlkgjklsdg#I've thought about this.... a lot..........#and I was struggling with it quietly for a long while but anyway#12 years ago when I realized I liked girls the only term that made sense to me was lesbian bc I was thinking about gender in binary terms#that label and identity and the validity of my attraction to women (which remains unchanged ofc) is something I've had to fight for#and letting go of that label after all this time/struggle is really hard but it's been weighing on me and I need to be honest with myself#the thing is in realizing I'm nonbinary I've also realized that I'm deeply attracted to other nonbinary (and gnc) people#and the only thing that's kept me from embracing a more authentic label for myself is.... stuff that should not be controlling my life SO#anyway I don't think I'm ever going to have this convo with my family but now that I've told the one person I wanted to tell privately#I think it's time to own it here in one of the few spaces I feel comfortable doing so <3#and yeah I figured fuck it I'm gonna say it with a meme bc like#idk for once I don't want coming out to be a traumatic thing#so I'm coming out with a descendants meme and not even god can stop me jkdjaklgjklsjdklgsdg#anyway thank u for coming to my tagtalk if you made it this far#I didn't plan a tagtalk but I am full of nervous energy and it has to go somewhere so <3<3<3#anyway anyway putting this in queue and running goodbye jdkajlgkjdsgkl#(p.s. yes this is okay to rb)#(and for you to use as a coming out meme if you need it go wild jkdjakjkgljsklg)
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