#I'm not like. adverse to talking abt my gender/sexuality irl I'm just really hesitant abt it bc its hard to explain | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

dragonji · 2 months ago

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been talking to my transfem coworker a lot more abt our respective gender (and sometimes romance) complications/plans lately and genuinely it like. simultaneously makes me feel pretty cringe and silly to admit i do in fact want things but also its smth I never thought I'd get to have and thus kind of mindblowingly really reasurring and lovely and special. No other point to be made here just that it rly is kind of lifechanging to be a trans person w trans friends👍

#j.txt #I'm not like. adverse to talking abt my gender/sexuality irl I'm just really hesitant abt it bc its hard to explain #and feel like I'll still be taken seriously and respected in the way I Have to be to live but its so much easier with her #bc I know we've had to deal with a lot of the same situations around that so it's not like im being a burden bringing up smth completely #unnoticed. plus shes open abt her own struggles which helps me put my guard down a bit #it's still pretty out of bounds for me to talk abt my Own romantic life (lack thereof really♡) but getting to admit that #I do wanna be an intimidating at first glance but in truth lame sappy guything actually? Unmatched a bit....#we talked today abt me being a furry and not identifying w my percieved humanness and it was really nice and also abt my fascination w #bladed weapons which led to her asking me if I was gonna be a swordguy like the type that owns multiple weapons he treasures like a freak #and i didnt necessarily have that plan set in stone but now I kind do damn !!!!! sorry for being a #boyquestionmark w an autismthing for swords but I am gonna make that everyone else's problem actually!<3

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