#I'm not going to get into how people made this a monogamy vs polyamory issue because I think it was reductive

[shishiikura]

The thing with that "I'd never cuddle anyone who's not my partner and if they cuddle someone that's cheating" tag on that post is that those two statements are different. YOU can decide personally not to cuddle anyone but your partner, like that's fine that's YOUR personal boundary on your own behavior, but considering it cheating if someone else does it is very strange! I get the argument that cheating is contextual within a relationship, but considering something like cuddling as an act of cheating is maybe something to look into because it's very possessive. Something something boundaries don't exist to control others they exist as a guideline for your own behavior