#I'm not even feeling hateful or anything about this. just baffled and mildly hurt sometimes.

[satanfemme]

one time I told an irl emo about how hard jepha "little miss gendered" howard worked to make merch binders for his trans fans by their request, and the emo responded by saying they hadn't heard of that before (cause ofc they dont personally know anything about the used or its members at all), but binders as merch is a really cool idea in their opinion because did u know frank iero mcr did it first :) .

I dont even know what to say about that convo, I think I'm still processing it.