#I'm not even a hardcore aventio shipper just casual enjoyer but damn

[walpu]

Some people on tiktok are so sex repulsed it's genuinely concerning. I've seen soooo many people saying that making nsfw content with Aventurine/shipping aventio is bad and disrespectful to Aventurine's trauma. And like yeah I've seen some fucked up aventio arts that sexualize slavery but the majority of the fan content is pretty positive and focuses on healing and comfort.

I've seen an argument that after the abuse Aventurine faced he would not want to "lay under a man" and it was not even a weird hc, they were pretty insistent, calling everyone who disagrees with them gross.

Like. Let's ignore the fact that it was never confirmed that Aven was sexually abused and focus on something else (yes, I know than in the original Chinese line his "master" said Aven has a 'good body' but I've also seen the native speakers saying that the line doesn't sound sexual to them, it was a way to say 'you look pretty but that's the only good thing about you' so idk). Quick question. Do you think traumatized people don't have sex? Do you think sex, especially the receiving position, is inherently humiliating? If the answer is yes then unironically go and seek help, it's very unhealthy view on something extremely normal. Also viewing bottoming as something humiliating is deeply rooted in misogyny so maybe do some self reflecting too. Aaaand you're not helping anyone by pushing the idea that traumatized people don't like sex, you are making it worse by indirectly shaming them for enjoying it.

You can love and respect character but also be down bad for them like it's honestly shocking it needs to be said.