#I’m obsessed with him to an unhinged degree I need psychiatric help

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Ask 1/2: I guess my comment about it being inappropriate to involve Abby’s family upset people. Listen- if the intent of the person in contacting Abby’s Sister was out if concern for Abby’s mental well being (not sure I believe that. But I haven’t seen the screen shot) then ok, they did what they felt was right. I personally do not feel qualified to diagnose someone with a psychiatric condition on the internet based on angry Tumblr posts that sound unhinged at times.

Ask 2/2: If that makes me a horrible person, that I am not going to involve myself in the personal well being of someone whose tumblr I saw as offensive, then I guess I’m not a good person. But bottom line is I have a hard time believing the person who contacted the family wasn’t doing it simply to humiliate Abby, regardless of it was a threat or FYI or whatever the message contained. Again, Im not saying Abby doesn’t deserve it on some level, but not something I’d have done. Sorry if I offended

I can’t speak for the poster motivation since it wasn’t me except to say they were angry and they were trying to get her family to do something (both things the person told me). 

As someone else pointed out in my DM’s if their family saw such a post they would presume the person who wrote it is the mentally ill one. The fact that Abby’s sister took swift action is pretty telling. I wouldn’t diagnose Abby either because that isn’t my area of expertise -I have diagnosed several people with Ehler’s- Danlos Syndrome over the internet with 100% success rate to date. It’s certainly possible.  Metaloma is qualified to diagnose mental disorders and using the information she gave me, I feel confident it’s accurate. It’s pretty obvious to anyone- trained or untrained that she has changed a lot in the 5 years she was blogging. Her theories were more measured in the past whereas in the last year she’s attacked ccers for not following her ideas lock-stock and barrel. Her hatred of Mia is getting more and more unhinged and irrational. Hating Mia is the main focus of her life and none of it is true. 

I hope she gets help because ultimately, she’s miserable and angry 24/7 because Darren isn’t acting like she wants him to.  Her entire life revolves around Darren and Mia. I suspect she gets up at 4am to stalk and blog before work. If not every day, I can say that she was often up at 4 am- she said many times she got up to “pee” at 4 and then she “made the mistake of checking Tumblr” but I think it was more than occasional- she only mentioned it when she found things that upset her because she started ranting about it so early.  She then spent all day at work posting and stalking... and then after work and on weekends. She managed to post all-day during two different work conferences in the last year. In the two years, I have been blogging about cc, I don’t think she has taken more than 4 days off and that was because she was getting upset and pulled back. Otherwise, Darren and Mia are her full-time preoccupation. 

Unfortunately, I can also say that she was overwhelmingly unhappy because of Darren. The only time she was happy in those two years was after he won the Emmy. She was happy for about 2 hours or until the euphoria wore off and she realized he had said really lovely things about Mia. She was then angry and she had to find a way to erase that for herself and for her fandom. Besides that 2 -hour riot, I can honestly say she was always somewhere between unhappy and raging for the entire 2 years. She is so jealous of Mia. To deal with it she’s decided to create this caricature of Mia that is a cross between every snob in every teen movie and the evil scheming and manipulation of the world’s greatest mafia boss. Abby always adds a dose of good old fashion slut-shaming to top it all off. But Abby is the only one who could see this side of Mia since she was making it all up in her head. And then there is Darren.  Abby HATES Darren Criss. She loves the man who looks just like him, Mr. Blaine Devon Anderson-the world’s most perfect gold-star gay. She spent the first two 1/2 years post Glee reblogging gifs and complications of Blaine and Kurt moments. The last 2 1/2 years trying her damndest to find Blaine somewhere in Darren and occasionally she was successful- occasionally, Blarren was there -and Abby was gloriously happy for a moment. Mostly she would just bring up those moments, again and again, ad nauseaum whenever she was pissed that Darren wasn’t acting like Blarren. The Met Gala Catholic Dior coat and the IG post to the grandaughter of his Midway character are the two standout moments that she brings up all the damn time as proof of the Darren she loves. If you can only see the Darren you love in twice in 5 years and you have to concoct a never-ending array of contracts - and at least 5 or 6 “jailers”- in order to explain why Darren is hiding the real Blarren, you really need to question yourself. But Abby is never going to self analyze. She has no ability to self reflect and do what’s best for Abby. She’s a chronic liar who knows that she can’t talk about her cc obsession with a therapist because any therapist worth their degree would call her out on the damage she’s doing to herself. They would make her accountable and she certainly isn’t ready to accept that Darren isn’t the man she wants him to be and that her own behavior has gotten so out of control.