#I think the whole 'poor alcohol regulation' in general was a misunderstanding of the social contract in alcohol-heavy settings
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I wonder how many of the "blonde (derogatory)" girls are actually just autistic
#My only evidence of this being common is one girl I knew in highschool#Who I'm pretty sure had undiagnosed autism (or maybe it was diagnosed and she just hadn't told me)#Because like a lot of the traits that others found annoying and shallow; I (a user of the autism website) recognised as autism symptoms#Like 'stupid' aka 'missing social cues or taking things too literally'#Like either just not picking up on sarcasm; or that one time they had a small hangout with some alcohol and she got black out drunk#I think the whole 'poor alcohol regulation' in general was a misunderstanding of the social contract in alcohol-heavy settings#Struggling to follow the reasoning of lectures in class I think was in general a common thing for her. Which I think is common in autism?#(Why else would autism often require special ed in countries that have that???)#I think in many ways she just happened to be attractive and put a lot of effort into her looks#Which in many ways is more important than your personality if you want to fit in as a woman#So I think that led to her being seen as shallow; annoying and stupid (aka blonde); rather than being a complete social outcast#She still wasn't well liked by many of my classmates. But she also wasn't usually left out. Which is better than how some had it
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