#I mean obv it's not really my business how other ppl engage with media but scrolling through the tags I'm like. man cmon

[genericdragon]

Noah fence but if you can't handle thinking about the actual story of Mouthwashing and you just want to imagine silly found family scenarios with the crew on the Tulpar then maybe you shouldn't be engaging with HORROR media...... just a thought.

[imanes]

Hello! I hope you're doing well. I wanted to ask you if you would recommend someone joining Tumblr now? I've been here before but I deleted bc it started getting on my nerves. Now, I can't seem to find a way to share things w people...? Kind of. Like, I want to engage w ppl more but social media doesn't exactly brings that so I'm a bit confused. I visit some of fav blogs here sometimes and I kind of miss being here but I know I'll fail at keeping up w this website if I come back.

... contd. I love your idea of a book club & a discord chat though. I started a group on goodreads but it sort of died. After a point ppl stopped voting for our bi monthly reads and it really disheartened me. I even asked them how they'd like things to be but no one responded and it was a big let down. You're not obligated to reply of course I was just wondering if you could help me out with this lol. Also sorry for making you read so much. And I really really love your blog esp your textpost💛

hi!! first of all thank you so much for still checking up on me even though you deleted, your kindness humbles me 🥺🥺 i’d say if it makes your life easier to keep up with some people then by all means go for it. i think we put too much pressure on being constantly ON, and on providing updates, on being consistent but why should any of this matter? personally, i use tumblr as a space to keep up with ppl that i like but also as a coping mechanism, i love to come on here and scream into the void and whoever is in the void with me screams back and we’re just screaming together you know? it’s a good place to find kindred spirits due to the multitude of ways people express themselves, so i’ll always have a soft spot for this hell site. maybe you can try to put less pressure on yourself by just coming on here when you feel like it. that’s what i do with twitter, sometimes i use it every day and sometimes i don’t touch the platform for three weeks in a row, and nobody cares! there’s no success or failure at “being” on social media if you don’t really raise the stakes for yourself and if you don’t take it too seriously. 

and of course feel free to join us on discord!! there’s a lot of people on there, more than i ever anticipated to be honest so i’m really happy with it, but there’s no pressure for people to keep up with the discussions or to read, it’s just an online spot for people to hang out whenever they feel like it. maybe not hosting a book club and just participating in one would be more pleasant for you? me and the two other mods usually handle things on discord and i take care of the book club and i know i do it fairly poorly but i’m grateful that some people participate! my take is that if i end up reading the book alone at least i’ll have read it and people can come back to the specific channels someday in the future to check out discussions. but we’d love to have you!! we’re voting for a mystery/thriller to read in november at the minute <3

anyways, don’t put too much pressure on yourself, this website is a good means to an end BUT it’s not that deep either and nobody expects consistency from you because this is not a business you’re running or anything it’s just a pastime and pastimes should be fun :-) and i hope you end up joining us as well, most people don’t read much we just talk about the books we want to read but life gets in the way *angry cry emoji*. dunno if this helped u but if u need to chat u obv know where to find me :-) take care