#I don't know where I can tread because I'm Not Men but. I'm not. neutral either? | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

collarkey · 1 year ago

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bad at being attracted to real people (self hatred makes me feel like it's "predatory" bc nobody could ever *want* me to be attracted to them. and if they ever found out they'd be disgusted or horrified) so I'm really. trying to pretend like I don't have the hots for one of my friends and haven't for years. alas it would never work so just gotta uhhhhh kill that

#she's not into Men and I'm not Men but. think I'm too guy adjacent for her #I don't even know what that means. I'm not a man I'm just. kind of a guy. gender doesn't make sense to me it's all vibes.#I don't know where I can tread because I'm Not Men but. I'm not. neutral either?#When people say men dni. Do I stay away. I'm not men but what difference does that make to them #Would rather be lumped in with men in cis society because selecting nonbinary makes people start assuming a lot of things about me #but in queer society. not a man just kind of guy adjacent. i'm just kind of vibing but like. embracing masculinity #Basically my biggest fear is thinking it's okay for me to interact on a nonbinary basis with someone who's into women and nonbinary people #and they're not into me (that's okay) and they tell me to kms for being predatory and making them uncomfortable and invading spaces as a man

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