#I don't know I got someone unfollowing after mentioning the date thing and I don't really understand it

[runawaycarouselhorse]

I remembered the children of Israel complaining to Musa [Moses] that they miss the garlic [or perhaps grains] onions fuul/fava beans and lentils they ate in Egypt in the Quran...

The ancient Arabs, too, just basically ate milk, dates, and wheat. You get all the nutrients you need from those three (dates are highly nutritious, but they're fruits, so they lack nutrients like B12 which you can only get from animal sources--hence the milk!), meat was traditionally very, very, very rare. People only had meat for big celebrations, to present to guests as a sign of hospitality, the Prophet Muhammad would go for months without a fire being lit to cook anything in his home...

Don't forget issues like famines, 'Umar bin Al-Khattab found it excessive if anyone should eat meat more than once a month!

For most of human history, we didn't have food in abundance and people lived off pretty simple food... in the west, hummus gets treated like a fancy rich people food, but in the east (Middle East, really), bean paste and flat bread is what my grandfather was used to having for breakfast every day... I love fava beans and chickpeas with a little lemon juice (my dad prefers putting olive oil on top)... labnah on the side is heavenly! If you like spicy food, add a dash of the brine from some jalapenos (or, if you really love spicy food, put some jalapenos in there!) for a fun twist. Whatever isn't eaten, pack it up, reheat portions of it for days... it's fun! You can buy canned bean pastes for your base (just heat them up the first time in a pan, with a little olive oil, preferably.) ^^

(Note: boycott the Sabra brand of hummus, though, if you're avoiding Israeli products.)

So, eat your bread and cheese and water (and treat yourself to some cured meats or eggs!), be happy if you can afford fresh fruits and vegetables to munch on, jams and preserves help so much to keep them for longer... simple foods have kept people alive for a long, long time.

There have been some changes, unfortunately, to how nutritious fruits and vegetables are, to make the plants produce fruit for longer or even year-round, packaging fruits often means they're taken down not fully ripened yet, so they didn't have enough time to get as much nutrition as they need from the soil, but hey, you can have a multi-vitamin on the side of your breakfast to help. Take care of yourself.

For those who have overactive guilt complexes like me…

[austinslounge]

For Anon, who asked why Austin started dating her in the first place. Attention, a lot of words! Austin and Kaia didn't have a friendship period at all and just got to know each other. They were first spotted in December 2021, the same month they flew on vacation together and, as you can imagine, they did not solve crosswords there. Throughout 2022, Austin did promos for Elvis + filming at The Bikeriders and Dune. I don't think they saw each other for a total of more than 2 months out of 12 at that time. Their honeymoon period lasted quite a long time. Although there were already problems in paradise during the filming of The Bikeriders (the first rumors of a breakup). Imho, I kind of believe that they were in an open relationship: he was recovering from a long monogamous relationship and slutty spirit of Elvis was coming out of him, she wanted fun, but at the same time someone pleasant next to her. Austin has been in a relationship all his life, and his break from Vanessa may have been the longest as a single man. Kaia was a great option - he doesn't lose the opportunity to have sex with other people (Kaia too), but at the same time there is someone nearby for whom you feel sympathy. And in terms of PR, it was quite beneficial for both (at first). It was like a holiday romance. Imho, they had some kind of shift after the end of the Elvis season, when Austin got a break and generally had time to stop and reflect on everything that happened. Their relationship became more serious (as it seems to me), but at the same time, some strange signs of alienation + lack of chemistry between them in public clearly began to appear. The honeymoon period was over and they began to really get to know each other. And that was the beginning of the end, because they're obviously at different stages of life, and in general, outside of show business and sex, they don't have any common ground for anything lasting. Kaia was an excellent option for entering a new life: the status of an A-list and a promising young star, the expectations of the public in terms of films and personal life, the intensity of lifestyle, PR, etc.). For her, he was for her the trump card that made her image "an intelligent model who is actually an actress" more real and mature. Obviously, everything that kept them together is no longer working. Kaia is going completely crazy. In short, it was a transition period for both of them, which was sweet for a short time, but then it aged like milk. Nothing serious in general. It's an unpopular opinion, but I don't consider Kaia a villain, it's just that this relationship should have been ended much sooner and not taken to the extremes that are being speculated about now.

I totally agree with you on a lot of this. Especially the parts where you mention that this relationship was basically a transition relationship and wasn't ever really that serious.

I also agree with you that this relationship lasted long past its expiration date, and was primarily to help boost Kaia and her image and career. Imo, this relationship really should have ended in late 2022 lol. 😅

The only part I didn't agree with you on is the whole "open relationship" thing. That rumor was made up by shippers to try to explain away Kaia's odd behavior with Austin while in a relationship with him. We have no real proof of them being in an open relationship. What seems more feasible is that they've quietly broken up and then possibly gotten back together again at least once. Keep in mind, Presley unfollowed Austin back in 2022. 👀 Just saying.

I just think Kaia is young and flirty, and isn't anywhere near ready to be in a serious relationship with any man, let alone a man in his 30s, who's 10 years older than her.

I also think she could sense that Austin wasn't really in love with her like that, so she started acting out, and their relationship eventually became one of mere convenience rather than anything really serious.

That's just my theory anyway.

But I'm not going to assume an open relationship when only one person seems to be in that arrangement. I think shippers just made that stuff up to make excuses. 🙄😒

[hypergamiss]

How do I avoid becoming misogynistic as a fellow woman? In my experience, I've witnessed women throw me and other people under the bus for some of the worst men I've ever seen (a great example is Kelsey with Meg Thee Stallion vs. Tory Lanez). Do women benefit from betraying each other? I'm asking because I'm not cutthroat and weird like that, so I have a hard time wrapping my head around the reason why so many do stuff like this. I've seen women do some nasty shit to other women (ie. ghislaine Maxwell) and end up looking like a fool in the end. I see this traitor behavior happen all the time at work, socially, personally, in family, etc and it's so strange. I don't want to start hating women because of this revelation, but I'm definitely not #teamwomen anymore.

Avoid boy crazy, pick me, Bob the builder, etc types of women at all costs.

It's that simple (in my opinion). Meg is herself boy crazy so her friends are as well and it came as no surprise that her friend decided to defend Tory. That was very predictable in my book. I do not think that the women who decide to put men on a pedestal actually know that they are making things worse for other women. They think that male attention and validation matter more than being a girls girl and protecting each other. It's not your job to understand them either, just stay in your lane and avoid them because we will NEVER come to understand their behavior over here. Focus on only befriending women who have healthy boundaries, you will quickly realize that they have good morals as well. I would also suggest unfollowing all of the boy-crazy women on all platforms or you will be consumed by all of the negativity that they put out to the world. It's even hard for me to listen to their lyrics or see their posts. I can't begin to explain how refreshing it is to have a group of friends that prioritize themselves because you know they wouldn't do anything harmful to you over a man. We have a very abundant mindset, and we understand that men come and go (up until a husband, of course) to the point that losing a strong friendship hurts more than going through a breakup with a man. Some women will even physically tell you that they aren't boy crazy so you have to pay attention to their actions closely. I had a friend who I thought was on the same page as me in the past but she told me all the details about a man she was dating and I quickly realized she was lying. She completely adjusted her schedule to his needs (even calling off from work), slept with him after a week, and started mentioning marriage at week 3 right before she got dumped. This told me all I needed to know about her and this was definitely the actions of someone who would ditch you or betray you for the temporary fling they're involved with. It's just not worth it to be around them even if you think they are a really good and genuine person, they will do almost anything to please men. I've had my fair share of betrayals and it's never the women who are confident and date strategically that are involved in my experience.

[sansloii]

What does someone have to do for an instant unfollow from you? + What was a mildly annoying thing that has happened to you rp wise? | would u like salt with ur fries?

do not pester me for answers/replies to stuff 10 seconds after you send them. if you think i'm your friend before you do it, you will learn that i'm not afterwards :) and i'm not talking like. asking if i got something or double checking if tumblr is being weird. i'm talking like. i'm doing something else and i tell you i'm doing something else but i will respond when i'm done and you respond by filling my ask box with 10 asks in succession and then smile at me. like no. we're not doing that

that leads into this second question, also including the person that did the above. so i had a plotted ship with mikah with this person's muse. and i mentioned that evan is very close with mikah, so sometimes mikah will talk him. sometimes he'll come hang out with them, you know? and it's feasible to say that evan will meet this muse. and you know, evan's a little bit of a whore and very flirtatious but he has boundaries and when they asked me about whether or not evan would sleep with their muse if they came onto him before they and mikah started dating, i made sure to tell them "if mikah tells evan not to sleep with someone they're interested in, he will not do it." mikah is someone evan cares a lot about, so as much of a lil trash man he is, he's not going to do that to them. tell me why they "joked" about a threesome with both mikah and evan when i already said he would not do that ( and that's not even touching on how mikah would not be okay with that. at all. ). or why they seemed so much more interested in sending asks for their muse and evan as opposed to mikah... when the ship was supposed to be for them and mikah. or when i tried to give them evan for another muse they had, the interactions died off. because evan wouldn't be 100% dominant in that situation, they'd be switching. it was just very annoying and i got very peeved about it. like i love evan and he's a very fun muse to write. but if i say he won't do something and you still want him for that specific type dynamic, what do you want me to do? and if it feels like you don't really want mikah and just want evan to fuck your muse, you do not need him. there are countless other muses that sleep around just like evan does. get out of here.

@desiderium-eden

[gaykey]

wookey's messy breakup?

oh....oh anon.

ok so buckle up, because i'm gonna give a brief history of the slight mess that was wookey. you probably know most of this stuff, but, like context y'know?

right so, it's 2012-ish, and key's little clique the 91-liners, consisting of most idols born in 1991, but mainly, key, KARA's nicole & hara infinite's woohyun, FT Island's jaejin, MBLAQ's mir & BEAST's dongwoon. the other members kinda come and go, but this is pretty much the core group. (also minho, when key let him)

they were everywhere, because, i mean, they were young, famous, and pretty.

key was the unofficial leader of the group, because of course he was.

key & woohyun, in particular, were very close.

they

were

always

together

and talked about each other all the time, it was borderline annoying.

now thiiiis is where it gets a teeny bit messy.

key had another 'good friend' park hyeonseop, who he had been openly hanging out with, A LOT (i have a whole keyseop tag lol, if you're interested) from like early 2013? hyeongseop even hung out with woohyun occasionally, and he even passed the minho test.

now, shoot forward to 2014, and ultra bff's and og members of the 91 line, which is still going strong at this point, key & woohyun, debuted their group ToHeart, and released one of the gayest songs and mv's, 'delicious'.

it was a very fun time. the promo was superb

(let us all bask in the glory that was the w korea shoot)

the song was a bop, and they seemed to have an awesome time promoting together.

and obviously, because of this, key wasn't really seen hanging out with hyeongseop that much.

suddenly, seemingly out of the blue, park hyeonseop unfollows both key and woohyun. hm. wonder what went down there, hmmm....? (hyeongseop had a habit of unfollowing people who got too close to key - there was the infamous jongkey white day incident 💀💀💀).

anyway, toheart went on, and honestly, they were so out there, anon. and incredibly obvious. there were mainstream rumours about them dating. like, ones that key actually addressed

yeah, he took them as 'jokes' because the company didn't do shit lol, key was like 'i'm releasing an album with my bff turned boyfriend' and just did.

then, obviously, toheart promotions ended, and key and woohyun weren't seen together as often, publicly, but still posted the odd insta post, and publicly hung out with the other 91 liners.

theeeen, distaster?

around like 2016? the 91 seemingly stopped hanging out in a grouo publicly. no insta posts, no fanaccounts, nothing. and during their peak, these were everywhere. also, al of them were doing promotions at the time, so, they had plenty of opportunities. it was a bit odd.

then,

key unfollowed woohyun, (and a few other people) in early 2017. now, i know, that who you follow on insta, isn't an indication of your real life relationships, especially when you're a celebrity, but, when your someone who has a very strong instagram presence, like kibum, unfollowing your close friend, is a bit of a statement.

like, fans were genuinely shocked.

these two had been inseparable for years.

woohyun unfollowed key some time after, and they literally have barely publicly interacted since. (edit: there have been a few interactions in the years since.

key was mc for woohyun's showcase thing??

key was in the comments of woohyun's insta live once

and there have also been a few mentions here & there. check my wookey tag for more!)

key has since followed woohyun back, but they still don't seem to hang out or interact like the do with their other friends.

that's why woohyun commenting on key's post was such a shock (especially as he STILL doesn't follow him lmaoooo), and also why people go very slightly feral at any mention of toheart.

of course, this is pretty much all assumptions based on the bare minimum they choose to show the public, but, it's lowkey funny to think about key & woohyun's friendship turned romance ending one idol duo, one idol friendship group, and one other relationship.

moral of the story?

maybe think a little longer before you date someone from your friend group, and release an album with them? (though all jokes aside, i really think key had a lot of faith in their relationship to create a whole ass group with his bf but-)

[destinyc1020]

I agree I don’t think Tom is single at the moment and that his behaviour is different that when he was but he didn’t do a lot of that stuff that you mentioned. Like when was he seen out with random women Olivia and Nadia weren’t randoms he knew them. He had a couple of rumoured hookups in cleveland but when was he partying a lot. Yeah he was spotted at some bars on the weekends but we have learned that was something the whole cast did together. After cleveland he wasn’t spotted with any women on spotted out partying and it wasn’t to long after that he spent 3 months in lockdown. The only thing out of those he really did was the liking a lot of models posts the more revealing ones but he was actually doing that even when him and Nadia were dating. It’s not like when Tom was single he was seen out at clubs and parties all the time with a different random girl on his arm all the time.

Well first of all, I wasn't counting Olivia or Nadia as "randoms", so idk where you got that impression from? 🥴

With that said....I guess you forgot about the clubbing pre-covid, the rumors from set that Tom was "dating" some Cleveland cheerleaders, the frat parties (didn't some girl grab his hoodie lol? 😆) the waitress he supposedly followed (then had to UNfollow bc she was getting too much attention) , the rumors of hookups, eh lol? 😏

I didn't say he was going home with or dating a bunch of random women....I just meant that he was pictured around a lot of random women. He was in the presence of single women more. It's very different when Tom is in a relationship. When Tom was with Zendaya, it was almost like other women didn't even exist in his vicinity peripheral vision for 3 years lol. 😂

Also, I don't recall Tom liking scantily-clad models while he and Nadia were dating. (Do we even know exactly when they officially started "dating" in the frat house -- not just hooking up in other words?) That seemed to be more a thing he was doing after they broke up. He even followed some new ones too IIRC. 🤔 But someone can correct me if I'm wrong.

[demivampirew]

@daybreak96

Sure, they've could've got together in Feb 2020-April 2021. Although he didn't mention he appreciates privacy yet, he started to date a woman who went verified days after they made the relationship public - for people who don't understand this: for verifying an account is requested to link multiple articles / news about you to prove you're a person of interest, and by that point, she only had Henry related articles about her.

"July 20 just with the isolation" sure, for work reasons, not for dating a person you possibly met online. Also, he didn't go back to Witcher set until September 2020, so he should've been in strict lockdown/quarantine to avoid possibly spreading the virus. She posted stories from LA back in 2020 and a "self-iso" in May 2020

I don't know. Henry doesn't seem like the type to go around talking wonders of his ex-girlfriend while dating someone. I feel he might get that it's odd.

Also, why do you care that I care about his personal life, huh? For real, why do you care? I'm on my blog, on Tumblr (I highly doubt any of them are here) and I'm not insulting anyone. Yes, I did comment on her post the other day after the Superman thing because I was so upset to see her promote herself while he was in an important meeting to decide the fate of his favourite role but I didn't insult her, I just say that it looks like someone who didn't understand how important that was for him or that she just doesn't care, that's it, that's my only comment EVER on her Instagram. I've never insulted her or him about this.

You need to understand this:

I'm free to have my opinions.

I'm free to care about his personal life

I'm free to share my opinions with people from the fandom and friends or on my blog, as long as I don't go and insult or threaten anyone - which I haven't done. Even when I was fuming about her, the only did I said to her in a comment was that it felt like she didn't understand or care about his love for the role - which, if it's a lie, she should understand it read that way.

Again, y'all go around complaining about people who care about his personal life. Why do you care that we care? There are people doing worse and not even for relationship stuff; like gossip and blind sites or even people from the entertainment business talking shit yet your biggest problems are with fans who can't stand Natalie.

It's just like Natalie fans on Instagram that play the saint card because they defend her and they believe them to be above all yet, they go and insult people, bully them calling them "ugly", "old", "unfuckable", and so many other awful things but, then they love to put "feminist" on their Instagram bios. I guess their take on feminism is that only includes women that they like, everyone else can go fuck themselves, right? Sigh.

If I want to talk about Natalie and complain, I will, sorry if I offend anyone. If I feel like I need to vent about it or just make a bitchie sarcastic comment I will. Therapy is expensive and I use my sessions to overcome depression not to waste it on this circus...I can't just talk about it on my blog and with friends and have a laugh about how ridiculous this is.

If anyone wants to be free of me, there's the unfollow/block bottom there. I won't stop anyone from using it. Not even people who blocked me for not liking Natalie and then went to their blog to insult me (yes. I saw it and I rolled my eyes and laugh)

What a turnaround! yesterday Henry announced his farewell to Superman and today he announces partnership with his "girlfriend"! I think it's now obvious that this is all PR, it was all orchestrated. Henry wanted the Warhammer project and Natalie wanted to be famous. I don't need to say anything else, right?

Well, she didn't join the project due to her love to the Warhammer world. I mean, she didn't seem very interested on Warhammer before now

Also "when Henry introduced me to Warhammer a couple of years ago" *insert lady doing math meme* As far as I know, Henry lives in the UK and she lives in LA, so I'm not sure how he could have introduced her to Warhammer "a couple of years ago" . couple = 2 And they've been seen together only last year, there hasn't been eve 2 years. It reads to me as if she wants to create a timeline where they've been dating in secret for years. which is hilarious because she clearly knows less than his fandom about his life:

December 2019 - possibly January 2020 he was in something with Freni Perry

February 2020 - Kalentine's Day post, he confirms he's single March 2020 - he starts to film the Wicher

April 2020 - quarantine / lock down begins; he's at a rental in the UK

May 2020 - she's "SELF-ISO" in California

He does interviews for Variety and with Sir Patrick Stew and mentions his ex, Lucy and how great she was (there were rumors they were back together)

November 2020 - he posts about leaving Yorkshire because England went back to lock down

December 2020 - he posts post injury news that he was going to do a pc update, he looked single

February 2021 - travelling to the UK was able but there was 15 day mandatory quaratine

April 2 - Witcher season 2 filming wrap video - no signs of her, only him, Leah and crew.

April 7 - "Mysterious" girl walking with Henry, less than 5 days after leaving the studio

April 10 - Henry goes Instagram public with this woman and follows her - something he's never done, more knowing his fandom and there's a part of the fandom that usually go and insults and harass his girlfriends

I'm curious Nat, how are you maths that you say "couple of years" meaning last year actually last year, less than 2 years total. Also, why haven't you shared anything before about your love for Warhammer? This reads to me as a person who gave 2 f*cks about fantasy until Game of Thrones became popular

[blackrupee]

Wow your life sounds complicated right now I'm sorry for that. So you aren't gonna have any managers what the fuck? And OH MY GOD I hate when people come in to eat so close to close!!!! ( I work @ zaxbys) if someone is acting passive aggressive I would act even more passive aggressive- make that bitch regret it- regarding the 2 guys: 2 guys is better than no guys:))) wish the first one didn't pressure you though. How did the 2nd one hurt you? - and I care so don't worry about boring me

hi hello would you like to read a novel on my life thanks i talk too much (tldrs at end)

nah like.. we had been managing with a general manager and 3 assistant managers even though we really need 4 so as not to overwork anyone. we recently hired a new one from a corporate arbys (we’re franchised) and two just quit. like i mentioned, theyre not coming back even though the original plan was that their new jobs would be only temporary (6 weeks). sooooo now we have a general manager who only works weekday day shifts, one assistant manager who is relatively new (she had been working at this place for a while but was promoted to manager 6ish months ago) and another who is brand new but still has some experience. they said theyre looking to promote from within initially, but they might have to hire outside people if no suitable potential manager is picked. id love to get manager pay and its not like managers do anything hard so id be WILLING to be a manager..like the whole reason why i got trained on backline was because we have such a big turnover rate with backline people since it fucking SUCKS and i was wanting to be helpful and flexible. so like. thats what i offerred. but one assistant manager was like “lmao all youd do is swear at the customers” and im like bitch when have i ever?? i talk shit about them all the time but ive only sworn IN FRONT OF a customer twice and neither time was it directed at them. but i mean im sitting on a small handful of customer complaints so its not like the gm would even consider me probably. idk dude. i can be nice if you pay me to be nice. but i get paid to do food and do it fast……….so

but yeah literallyyyyyyyyy i have no idea how people can be so??? inconsiderate???? and they dont??? care??? im learning that my contant frustration with people in my personal interactions is due to a disconnect between what i value in  expectations and what actually happens. like. when i go somewhere i already KNOW what i want, so i say it quickly and competently. i preface a lot of my interactions with people im requesting food or services from with “i’m sorry but…”. i phrase things as “could i get” as opposed to “get me” or “i want” which sound HELLA rude tbh. id always have my money ready at the window or the register, im always trying to pay attention and not miss anything or just….be rude in any way bc i know fast food fucking sucks. i know some of the people i interact with probably hate their job as much as i do and i want to be the smallest burden i can be. and it seems like nearly no one else has these same values???? and i dont understand how people can just??? be? so? inconsiderate?

also yes bitch im the queen of passive aggression. literally the night before i was working a short shift and my friend was closing frontline and this bitch was closing drivethrough. i just got the okay to clock out and i was like “bye! have a beautiful night! just know that i love you so much and ive everything ive ever said has always been fake until this point! never meant anything ive ever said until now especially if your name starts with k or ends with ristin (drivethrough girl/the one whos being so difficult is named kristin) but just know that i love you!” and basically being really dramatic and extra as satire.

i guess for context the whole reason she decided to be mad at me was the other night when she was drunk and was like “do you even likeeeeeee meeee i feel like you hateeeee meeee wahh wahh wahhhh” even though im like…..yes bitch i enjoy your company? i joke/use hyperbole/satire/irony/whatever a lot but like occasionally id be like “ey yo you know its all jokes right u know i love u right” just to ensure that she knows but she fucking. ignores it all. i feel like she so desperately WANTS me to hate her and tbh i got fucking sick and tired of hearing her complain all the time about this shit! i fucking hate repeating myself! so sure. if you want me to hate you so fucking much there. i hate you. i fucking hate you so fucking much. like is that what you want to hear? is that validating? are you fucking happy?

its so fucking frustrating

but i will not be held accountable for her decision to be upset. because thats what it is. she wants to be upset, and she wants me to be responsible for it when its literally not my responsibility. i am absolutely not going to stand for this shit like i kind of want to say its emotional abuse lmaooo but im just so fucking sick of it. 

everyone knows that i take chicken tenders and turnovers that would be thrown out at the end of the night and she was closing frontline yesterday and made a point to throw out the turnovers right next to me without asking if i wanted any/leaving any for me. i mean i completely expected her to be that petty of a bitch so it was kind of funny tbhonestly. also im p sure she unfollowed me here lmaoo

with regards to the guys and this paragraph could get a bit tmi/nsfw: yeah the first one kind of sucked but i feel like a little bit of the New Person Nerves have worn down so id do better if we were to hookup again. because like i totally would love to have fucked him but…..anxiety. he was hot tho. like 10/10 body and ass holy shit. plus he complimented me on my ass eating so (assuming that was genuine and not a vapid ego boost haha paranoia am i right) hopefully he comes back for seconds. 

second guy ive had a longish history with. started talking to him at the beginning of last fall semester and we hooked up kinda regularly for about a month. things fell apart, we both understood that we wouldn’t be good dating wise but still enjoyed meaningless cuddles. whatever. it got to a point where he would only hit me up like once every month and a half or so and towards like january-ish he hits me up again. so im like nice cool lets chill. im getting ready for this but my phone is in the other room. while im doing this he drove by my place to pick me up (since he was on his way back from nashville), didnt get a response to an “im here” text (bc i was busy and tbh not expecting him to do that), and left. he lives within like walking distance tho so im like “?? sorry i was busy are you still out or should i walk over?“ and he texts me like “sorry hold up a thing just happened” and im like…….okay. so im just.. waiting around for him. periodically texting like “hey are we good for tonight and whats going on?” because like there was some drama with his friend? hes like.. apologizing and shit but this goes on for an hour. BUT. the ENTIRE time he’s dealing with this friend problem or whatever he’s literally on grindr. and at the end of this hour im like in full blown paranoia panic mode and i literally text him something mentioning this and he BLOCKS ME ON GRINDR so im like ??????!!!!??? and i text him (all while saying “not to be crazy or paranoid bc im probably coming off that way but like could i get an answer or something??”) AND HE LITERALLY SAYS HE DELETED HIS GRINDR. but thats a LIE because i have a secondary account to see like……if guys are still on grindr/if a thing with a guy might turn into something more like if i see he’s not on grindr as much?? thats prob incredibly stalkerish and probably really creepy but hey. thats me. so i KNOW he lied to me but i cant really say “hey ur a liar” without disclosing this weird creepy stalker part of me (funnily enough this isnt the first time a guy has lied to me and i caught it with my secondary account! so it proves to have some function use in the end. not totally crazy). so. yeah. that was the incident. after this i dont trust him at all, and i still dont, but i had it in my mind to like somehow get him to fall in love with me just so i could break his heart for doing this? never really worked out. so now im at the point where im like….eh he’s a piece of shit and i hate him but ill cuddle with him bc it feels good

back to nsfw/tmi: the sex was okay. he’s weird about people being near his like….dick and stuff because he was raped and i totally get it bc i was too but he was comfortable enough for me to finger him and my finger still hurts from where he clenched when he came lmaoooooo. was totally hot tho. and i got to east his ass so im like eyyyyyyyy. its been so long since ive eaten ass so having it two consecutive nights in a row has been cathartic.

tldr; we have 2 assisant managers and a gm rn. looking for more

tldr; bitch. same.

tldr; bitch. same.

tldr; he’s a liar

[worldsmostdangerous-archived]

you don't follow me and you are mutuals only

Send me a reason you don’t RP with me.

//A very legit reason, tbh. Under read more because got long.

I’m mutuals only because I’m awkward at approaching people and insecure. I don’t want to clutter my dash with stuff that I don’t need to see. I’m also awful at saying no when (more like if) someone comes to me asking for rp and I have to decline because I cannot see interaction material (or yes, don’t want to interact). It makes me feel awful?? So I’m awful myself by avoiding it. Stresses me less. This is meant to be fun, after all.

Now the reason I don’t follow everyone following me is just that - I don’t see how our muses would be compatible with each other. I assure you I am on top of my followers list, I know everyone who follows me. So I will never miss anyone. But Dragon is elusive as a character. He won’t meet just anyone. Most of the time he is practically locked up in Baltigo. (spoiler if you aren’t up to date with anime and manga: before it was destroyed, anyway). He won’t even meet all the revolutionaries. There’s just way too many of them. You have to be a commander, Sabo, Koala or Hack or a person with very special circumstances to meet him. Or, you have to be at least a vice-admiral in the navy, or admiral, or some WG agent, like a Cipher Pol, or a very big name in the world, like a royal, emperor (yonkoo), or in some rare cases an underground broker or a very good bounty hunter. Exceptions exist, because I’m biased and love certain ideas as muses more than others and actually think that our muses meeting would be interesting. So most of pirates are out of the question.

Now, if your muse is an OC there comes a different problem. First of all, I looooooooove OCs, I do. I have absolutely none, zero against them. I, in fact, have few of my own. I’ve only made blogs for three though. But OP fandom repeats itself a lot. There are only a handful of OCs over the age of 30. Over half of them are pirates. I think I’ve seen only?? Eight? Ten? Revolutionary OCs. And even less marines. There are a handful of interesting ones, yes, that differ from these options. But only few are active.

I admit that I’ve decided not to follow muses under the age of 27 anymore, unless they’re canon and compatible with Dragon (as in, seen interacting with him in canon). I get that most of the characters in One Piece are not very old. But I like to believe that what we are shown in canon are the exceptions. In nearly all the ways. For example with Conqueror’s Haki (actually awakening it and learning to use it), Rokushiki, DF awakening, and general fast learning/climbing the ranks. I have nothing against OCs having devil fruits or haki, it’s just that there are so many OCs with them. Way too many. It makes it seem like people wouldn’t think things through and just go with what is the easiest. Especially when it is not explained how they could have learnt haki.

Generally, OCs in this fandom (I speak only about OP because this is the only fandom I’ve been in) repeat same things over and over. Ofc they are not the same OCs, you all have (most definitely) done a lot work designing them. I’m not downgrading the time you have spent on them. But I’m picky and I’m salty, and there’s so much more to use? OP world is huge. I just wish people wouldn’t instantly think that your muse needs to be either a marine, a pirate or a bounty hunter.

When an OC follows me, I check if the mun is mentioned somewhere and see if they’re completely new, or have a previous muse in the fandom. Then I check the OC’s profile. Then, if the muse seems compatible, I read the rules and follow. If a canon follows me, first I see if I think they could meet Dragon somehow. If yes, I check the mun and read the rules and every page there is available. I will not follow someone if there isn’t a rules page. I also won’t follow an OC without a profile page. This is because I want to know if there is possibility for interaction to begin with and I need to know everyone’s triggers and if they’re 18+ and general nos and yes. I’m perfectionist, and I’m a Virgo - I like everything in order and neat. Clear. It is nothing against the muns.

Now there is one last thing that makes me unfollow someone, or not follow at all to begin with. Drama and hurting a friend of mine. It makes me furious to see such things here, and I will not follow someone who has hurt a friend. I think that is very normal? I will only keep following if we have something good going on. Or if you’re my friend. But otherwise if you’re highly associated with someone who has done wrong against a friend of mine it’s instant unfollow and block.

Then, if we have previously interacted and I unfollowed you mostly without explaining why, it’s because some people just don’t work together. (And I’m an asshole myself sometimes and just cannot bring myself to hurt someone by explaining my actions unless I’ve been made angry). If this is the case here, I ask you not to approach me in the future. Sorry if that makes you scared or hurts you but I’m just being honest.

I do not know who this is, obviously, since you are anon. And I don’t blame you for using it - I would have probably done the same. But I want to emphasize one last thing.

AUs are my guilty pleasure. Most of the reasons listed above are for canon interactions. But I love AUs. I have more AU interactions than canon currently. I have multiple AU verses. I admit most of them are closed (I will only rp that AU with the mentioned people) but there are open ones. And I love creating new ones. Despite me maybe sounding strict and intimidating by my aforementioned reasoning, I will always love it if someone wants to create an AU with me, even if we’re not mutuals. And if things work out and all, I will start following that person.

Really though, thinking about it, communication is the key. It is best if you come talk to me about possible interactions, otherwise I really won’t have any idea who actually wants to interact. I know I could do it too but as mentioned, I’m awful at approaching people. It’s not that I would think I’m bothering someone, I just feel like they don’t want to interact/talk to me so why bother asking? I have social anxiety, which might explain this a little, and why I haven’t managed to overcome it. I want, need, more interactions. But the best way to get that going is if we, the muns, talk. I have major problems if I cannot talk to the mun easily.

So, Idk, talk to me?? Let’s see if it’s possible?? If, I mean, you’d be interested in an AU with me, rather than a canon interaction because I will not change my mind about that if I haven’t followed you in the begin with.//

[destinyc1020]

They def not split up bc of distance. Tom posted her, he had strong feelings for her but I think her heart wasn't that free (Stanley). Maybe she tried. It was a rebound. But Tom imo was very serious about her. She prob confessed to him auf couldn't go on and he was first hurt but he is also just genuinely nice and doesn't hold grudges so he accepted it, "forgave" her. His pals +brothers on the other hand have clearly not. That's my gut feeling- N broke it off. T would've liked to continue the rs

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But that makes NO SENSE whatsoever given the FACTS that we know lol.

If SHE broke things off with Tom since she felt she wasn't over Stanley, why the thirst posts? Sounds more like smthg someone who's dumped does.

Also, why like the tweet about needing to get over your ex who's moved on?🥴 She definitely wasn't referring to Stanley lol.

Why unfollow a bunch of accounts that mention Z, if she's so stuck on Stanley that she couldn't even have a relationship with Tom?

Why the "forget you" post? Wouldn't she have more SYMPATHY for Tom since she broke up with him? She wouldn't be doing shady posts like that towards him.

Why the IG break if you're the dumper and wanted to split up with him?

Why are some fans still suspecting that N still holds a torch for Tom after a breakup if she made the decision to dump him due to Stanley?

And, I hate to sound superficial, but do you REALLY think she would give up dating Tom Holland, if he was actually still agreeable to dating her?

I mean, just think about those things for a second lol.

Your logic makes NO sense. I'm not saying she didn't still have feelings for Stanley (obviously she did if she's back with him again), I just don't see her dumping Tom for that reason. In fact, I don't believe she dumped Tom at all. I think he dumped her, or she realized that he wasn't 100% over his ex.

I'm actually more likely to believe that other Anon who stated that N may have dumped Tom coz she realized his heart was still with Zendaya. Even THAT makes more sense than what you're saying.

I just don't think Tom's feelings were strong enough tbh. How is it a coincidence that as SOON as Tom and Z start reconnecting again, all of a sudden, Tom and Nadia start falling apart? C'mon.... 😏 So Nadia realized that she was still in love with Stanley only after Tom reconnected with Z lol? 😆

Make that make sense lol.

Also, if N dumped Tom cuz of Stanley, why wouldn't she be back with him long time ago? They just started following each other again. Whereas Tom and Z reconnected with each other long time ago.

Plus we've all seen how Tom behaves after he's been dumped. After the Tomdaya rlshp he was quickly rebounding with other women, having flings, drinking all the time, canceling appearances, needing to "get away", etc. But after Tadia, he was bummed out for a little bit like anybody would be, but he quickly got over it. In fact, he was pretty much over it by the time he was in Spain. Doesn't sound like a guy who's been "dumped" to me. Meanwhile, Nadia was going on IG breaks, doing thirst posts, making shady posts, etc.... doesn't sound like a "dumper" to me. Just being honest. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I'm sorry Anon, but you just don't make sense to me. Maybe you're making sense to someone else lol, but you're not making sense to me lol. 😂 You have to take into consideration ALL of the evidence that surrounded that breakup.

Don't get me wrong, I'm sure Tom liked Nadia a lot (otherwise he wouldn't have risked his rabid fanbase in posting her), but you keep forgetting that when ppl are in a Quarantine bubble it can feel like you're "in love". Just like the Bachelor shows or shows like "Love Island". But then, notice what usually happens with those relationships... 😏 After they are in the "real world" again, the relationship falls FLAT because they didn't start the relationship on the right footing. It was like living in a "fantasy". They usually break up months after the show ends when they get a little bump in the road. Keep in mind, these ppl are ENGAGED lol.... which is much more than just posting someone on Instagram lol. 😆 In fact, the most recent Bachelorette Clare Crawley just broke up with Dale Moss just a few days ago lol. 😂 He dumped her! And yet, they looked sooooo in love.

So, it happens Anon. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I'm sorry, but your "theory" isn't lining up with the evidence .