#I cook and I clean and my gf comes home from her full-time job and I'm like HIIII

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I'm actually loving the housewife life though

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8.9.23 Wednesday

12:45 am

Done, cleaning the kitchen... Done, feeding Neko and Lalah...

Still,having windblow trap... In a lil while will shower...

Today in Minnesota was not easy coz of the reading materials that we need to read and finish and answer the quiz.... We have 6 modules... I'm just on module 3 now and I have to go back.

Though it is about safety and company policies, coz of there are some quiz I need to read those thoroughly... Pressure comes in coz my seatmate finished everything today.....

I still feel ugly, fat and old.... But I still need to eat!

7:06 am

Good Morning! Flatly ohkay...

Windblow trap awaken me... My entire left body is aching, probably due to stress and my costochondritis.... Hope God will extend my life...

The 6 modules are very,very long angels to read coz of you don't read that,you can't answer the quiz there...You should read even the small details...

There is a new assistant coach named John who discussed about "customer satisfaction", basically to make the customer stay... He looks like a body builder...

Yeah! I need money and I need this job though stressful...

Uncle Jun is preparing now going to forest of Georgia and Betsilog'z gang ( always wearing a plastic coats ).

8:07 am

Reverse... Done,brushing baby John's teeth... Mommy Peachy's love is great!

Will cook for nana and us here and my take-out... I told Uncle DD he needs to send the payment for gasul and new food allowance on Friday...

I badly need a job as well coz there is no extra for my needs and for the needs of my baby John.

John was so happy last night when I arrived home, he was jumping on me...

9:41 am

This Uncle Jun is full of fakeness... The leashed of Neko is so tight on the chain that I can't remove,that I need to transfer her on our garage...

Coz in the afternoon it is too hot angels, dog can't manage that...

10:47 am

Done,feeding the dogs and most specially my baby John...I'm sweating out here...

Plus our food and my take out... No time to rest here... Arhg! I cleaned the living room... Whew!

Me and John already had our brunch we ate our pata'z...

My take out for today...

12:11 noon

Preparing for my flight going to Minnesota at 3pm until 11pm...

I need to finish home policy 6 modules... I'm on module 3...

Still,having windblow trap... I have self-pity but I need to overcome that... I'm thinking of giving my best effort on this job and to have a good progress along the way...

In the Nutshell:

I already saw Melinda Go, well I just asked her last night if she got a ride on her own coz in call center that kind of attitude is acceptable but people can say no,if they want to say no or decline.... But her route going home is way going to De La Salle and I said Oh! And she just smiled and didn't give invitation to join her on her private car. In a call center it is a black world meaning everything is chill and more on friendship...

12:30 noon

I need a guidance ... I feel old angels.. I still wanna buy Starbucks everyday... I wonder where is Marjun now, just popping in my head now...

But looking forward to go up and meet more and some aliens...

I badly need this job and I need money and I still want my own "Pet Store" someday....

12:41 noon

I need a revive, have some collagen on my hands,feet and if ever down there... Hmm....

I need to survive this job for now and have some money...

11:10 pm

I'm back again from Minnesota angels... Whew!

Done, with all of the modules from 1 to 6... I survived the day,thank God!

Still, having windblow trap...

I figured out that John, our coach assistant that he was my gym mate in Volet'z. I saw him with his petite and pretty and sexy gf. I think 4 years ago...

I had a right leg cramps again...

[alexalexanderrz]

I just feel like I’m undervalued. I don’t feel like that 24/7 but holy fuck I feel undervalued. My work is always being shrugged off like I don’t do anything all day. I work hard and try really hard to give her a good life and she doesn’t value my job that’s supporting both of us, the one that buys us clothes and nice dinners and pays the mortgage and groceries. I cook, I clean and Im smart and can have a conversation with people, yet that’s so under valued. I plan things, I pay for planned things, I give her a life she wouldn’t have if it wasn’t for me. She goes to school and does whatever she wants and I ask for little and yet im the bad guy. She gets mad and lashes out and treats me bad and I just have to suck it up.

I want a gf who cleans and cooks. I want someone who prioritizes me and my needs, not everyone else’s. I want a gf who im #1 and im not competing for that spot. I fucking hate that. I should be her everything, I should be the one who she cleans and cooks and helps. What about my goals, my wants, my needs. I fucking do so much! I’m tired of having arguments over cleaning, I’m tried of the excuse always being “I was busy all day, can I just relax?” I’m just so done with that. She was busy making other people her #1 and I’m just done with that.

When it’s the days I see her most she wakes up between 11-1:30 which could be spent cleaning. Then she works for 3-5 hours if that and comes home and takes a nap. Then she expects us to be productive in the evenings after I worked all day. Many evenings after I worked 8 hours I clean and cook! The other day she woke up at 12 noon and I worked all day and she worked for maybe 4 hours and came home and asked what was for dinner?!? Like why the actual fuck am I taking on all the roles. Then when she sits down she will ask me for things all night like she can’t get them herself. I’m fucking over that. I ask for her to be understanding and be nice and clean and sometimes cook and it’s the end of the world. She gives me attitude and is sassy and makes jokes about our sex life after it took her 4 days and an argument to do 1 fucking thing I asked her to do which took 5 min if not less. I don’t to sleep with someone who does nothing i ask. one day id love to come downstairs and the house be cleaned, and dinner is cooked and everything looks amazing. one day id like for the dogs to be let out, all the chores i asked finished and come upstairs and be so nice and hug me and be pleasant. id love to come back from the gym and she make me a protein shake and give me a back rub. instead i get cranky girl, who didnt let the dogs out, a bag full of excuses, her being mad and lashing out at me while she was fulfilling her families wants and needs.

I get the angry girl, I get the one who doesn’t want to talk about sex ever or our needs, I get the burnt out version who wants to lay down and not move while she plays her golf game. This tension is annoying and it’s shocking to me that she treats me this way. When my ex did these things for me I would go above and beyond to make her happy! I would do all I ask but for her once a week because I knew the couldn’t help financially. I gave her good money at the time and I went to school and gym and cooked and cleaned and did the laundry without complaints. I appreciate what she does but it’s not enough. She thinks it is and it’s not. I need to know without a doubt this will change because if not we cannot have a future together. She’s so good at asking things of me but I can never ask anything of her. That’s not right and that’s not the world I live in. She is not a queen, I am not a slave. We are equals.

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everything for shi(t)p(ost) :)

 @lyesander you asked on anon and then openly told me it was you come forward. Anyway this is under the cut because it got. Really long.

- How do they fall asleep? Wake up? Any daily rituals?a. You know how kittens pile on top of each other? Usually they sleep like that. b. Clara wakes up at 5am in the morning, Craig does…not do that, She makes breakfast goes for a run showers and is usually gone for work before he’s even halfway awake and on one hand he hates that but on the other being awake before 7 is too haaarrrd. c. She also leaves him notes every morning but usually the note asks him to do at least one thing and that’s so much work :(.

- How’s their team work? Do they share well?a. Depends on what the teamwork is for. b. Sharing love? Yea. Sharing blankets/the tv/ Clara’s attention? Craig.exe has stopped.

- Are they open about their relationship? How do they feel about public displays of affection?a. Clara at everyone she knows: “This is my boyfriend and I love him.” Craig at everyone he doesn’t know, strangers, baristas, waiters, gas station employees: “This is my girlfriend she loves me.” b. They aren’t gross teens making out in public but they are holding hands or her arm is around him or he is sprawled across her lap in a booth at Burger King.

- First impression of each other? Was it love at first sight?a. He called her sexually frustrated and she punched him in the fucking face. b. It was Not.

- Nicknames? Pet names? Any in-jokes?Clara calls him shitlord and their in-jokes are strangely specific memelike phrases and things like Clara still having a plastic poop emoji from Mcdonalds glued to her dashboard.

- Any tasks that are always left to one person?Clara has taken full responsibility for loading the dishwasher and taking out the trash. Craig is in charge of making dinner at LEAST once a week and unloading the dishwasher after it’s done. They switch off on everything else by which I mean Clara does most of it.

- What annoys them the most about their partner? Would they change it if they could?a. Clara’s least favorite thing about Craig is he doesn’t do jack shit and she is significantly worried about his lack of motivation. Craig’s least favorite thing about Clara is that she smells like wet dog but other than that she loves him and so she must not have any flaws. b. They’d both change these things, Clara for Craig’s own good and Craig also for his own good.

- What do they like best about their partner?‘Willing to date me’ is pretty high on both of their lists. On a more lighthearted note they have a lot of similar interests, they’re good at bouncing humor off each other, and they can both provide the amount of affection the other one needs (which is… a lot).

- Do they discuss big issues? Religion? Marriage? Children? Death?Mmmm kind’ve? Religion isn’t hugely important to either of them. It’s pretty clear that they want to get married at some point but It only came up once when Clara was on pain killers. Clara can’t have kids and that’s fine neither of them have an interest in parenting. Death, no, they don’t talk about that because thinking about it is terrible.

- Who drives? Cooks? Does the handiwork? Cleans? Pays the bills? Handles the public?a. Clara. b. Both of them but Craig more often because he does not have a fucking job. c. Depends on the job; Clara fixes what she knows how to and Craig is tasked with figuring out the rest, which he can do, he just doesn’t want to. d. Almost exclusively Clara. e. Clara. f. Both of them but Craig is actually better at it when he wants to be.

- Do they celebrate holidays? Anniversaries?Yes, to both. A lot of holidays are spent at Sketch’s company parties, (or more accurately his mom’s company parties.) They haven’t actually had their first anniversary yet but that’s coming up and will probably be cute as shit.

- Is there a wedding? What was the proposal like? Any kind of honeymoon?There hasn’t been yet but like let’s be honest it’s a solid ‘probably.’ Not anytime imminently soon though.

- What do they do for fun? Do they have a favorite activity or do they like to switch things up?Video games and movie nights are probably the most common. Mostly because they cost the least amount of money and take the least amount of effort. Sometimes they get crazy and go to an arcade or go bowling. Or to the Y across town because swimming is one of the few things that involve physical activity that Craig actually likes doing and Clara will capitalize on that as much as possible.

- Anything they both dread?The other one dying/disappearing, which sounds obvious but sometimes it gets to the point where Clara is overwhelmingly paranoid about leaving the room for a few minutes because what if he gets sucked back into his own dimension and she never sees him again?? That and part of Craig has flat out convinced himself that that Clara is a godsend and he couldn’t survive life without her. (He could but try convincing him that his worth isn’t dependent on people loving him)

- How adventurous are they?Their most adventurous moment so far was exploring an old abandoned military fort in the town Clara used to live in.

- Do they keep secrets? Lie? Cheat? Secrets/lies like Craig sometimes still skims her diary or Clara blaming farts on the dog. Or when Craig says he ‘forgot’ to do what ever chore he was supposed to do that day when in reality he just made a conscious choice not to do it. Or when Clara doesn’t tell him she’s disappointed that he’s not doing anything with his time because she doesn’t want to sound like rev!Clara. Neither of them would cheat on the other one though. Ever. 

- What would make them break up? Would it be permanent?a. Craig doing something to ruin her career so she wouldn’t have any reason to leave his side for more than an hour at a time ever. b. in a healthy world yea but it wouldn’t actually be because a week later she’d be like “oh no you’re still crying… I don’t forgive you but you are sad so I’ll pretend it doesn’t matter : (”

- What are their dates like? How long do/did they date? Do they ever feel the need to take a break from each other?a. When they do go out it’s pretty eclectic; anything from going to an arcade to setting up a candle lit dinner… in a burger king. b. They’ve been dating since last May and that’s not going to change any time soon c. No. Never. At all. It’s probably kinda unhealthy.

- What do they fight about? What are their arguments like? How do they make up?a. Craig doing something stupid. Clara saying something sarcastically that sounds a little too close to rev!Clara’s go-to drags. Craig not having a job vs. Clara putting in way too much time that she doesn’t have to a her job. b. Clara is almost always the one to actually address the problem, and puts a lot of planning into how she phrases the conversation. Craig is… capable of having those conversations, but his go to approach is more along the lines of vying for pity based attention because he knows if she feels bad for him she won’t actively be angry, he’s not even always conscious of doing it, and it’s usually on impulse. This is starting to improve, and Clara’s gotten much better at recognizing and addressing it. Unlearning toxic shit takes time but she’s still gonna call him out on it. c. Parroting ‘I-love-you’s back and forth while sometimes crying. Usually a good few hours chilling on the couch watching movies. Whoever was wronged picks the movie and whoever fucked up makes dinner- that’s not a rule it’s more of an unspoken agreement. 

- What does their home look like? Their room?Bad. Not the actual apartment like it’s a pretty nice apartment they’re just both shitty at cleaning. See also:Mads-02/28/2018 he lives in a house full of dog fur and grease stains lye-02/28/2018 doesn’t mean he likes it but he’s also too lazy to clean it himself so it’ll be likeclara: (comes home from work)craig: your house is grossclara: then clean it you slut.

- Do they share any interests or hobbies?Vidya game. They’re both roller coaster fanatics also. Those are the biggest things that they both really like independently but also when you spend enough time with someone you love some of the things they like will start to remind you of them to the point you like them vicariously. The best example I can give is Clara used to hate the fucking Hallmark channel in all it’s heteronormative glory but now she actually enjoys like at least three of the movies. Maybe four.

- Does their work ever interfere with the relationship?Craig’s LACK of work does, it’s something Clara is really, REALLY frustrated over and she’s still a little unsure how to convey that without it coming off guilt tripping. At the same time Clara works overtime much more often than Craig would like, which is to say more than once or twice a month. He’s not any better at addressing this than she is though, he tends to do shit like pretend to be sick or actually make himself sick (the latter only once at least) so she’ll stay home.

- How do they hug? Kiss? Tease? Flirt? Comfort?Hugs have a 60 second absolute minimum in this household. Kisses have a two second record minimum but it’s usually at least 5. They are absolute dicks to each other but 99.9% of the time it’s fully communicated to be just that. Teasing. Flirting is terrible romantic gestures are go big or go home. Unless you count Clara making the WORST romance puns and Craig holding up his phone sometimes with ‘love my gf’ memes and going “that’s us babe!” or the one time he tried to lay seductively across the table when Clara got home and her immediate response is “So I guess we’re ordering take out again?” Comforting is either ‘I will hold you for 17 hours non-stop’, ‘you like food right? I’ll make some food’, or both.

- Any doubts about the relationship?Not that they don’t tune out and bury as deep down as possible!

- How much time do they spend together? Do they share their feelings, or hold things in?a. As Much As Possible. Another thing that’s not entirely healthy. b. They share most feelings, until it’s something negative and significant about the other, then they aren’t so good at it. Working on it, but not good at it.

- How do their friends feel about their relationship? Their families?Craig was the one who told Sketch at least because Clara genuinely could not figure out how. I’m assuming the question means like, mutual friends. Clara’s family is touch and go, not too big on Once-lers in general. Her mom likes Craig a lot though and her dad tolerates him which is saying something. Craig’s family doesn’t exist in this universe. 

- Do they have kids? Grow old together? Split up?¯\_(ツ)_/¯. Well actually I can say for certain they don’t have kids. Clara physically can’t have kids, or at least not safely, and more importantly can you imagine either of these fucking losers trying to parent anything? Terrifying.

- What are their vacations like?The closest thing to a vacation they’ve gone on is driving like 2 hours to Rhode Island/Connecticut once and then another 2 hours to Vermont for Thanksgiving.

- How do the handle disasters or emergencies? Minor injuries? Sickness?Bad. Mostly because if and when anything bad happens to one of them, the other subsequently flips shit. Clara is a little better at flipping shit INTERNALLY, but don’t let her fool you she is very stressed over her boyfriend coming down with the common cold and yes she DOES need to go home over her lunch break to check on him and NO she is not babying him what the fuck are you talking about.

- Could they manage a long distance relationship?They would INSIST that they can, and maybe they could for a few weeks, but after that things would go pretty bad pretty fast.

- Do they finish each other’s sentences? Pick up any phrases or habits from each other? Know when the other is hiding something?a.They are the couple that would attempt to finish each other’s sentences but fail horribly. Like, really badly, like, inserting words that don’t even make sense badly. “We finish each others-” “Chores, so you’ll clean the kitchen so I can go watch Pretty Woman while it’s on Starz? Thanks!”  “No!”b. Ok so Craig is from Texas, very rural tiny ass town in Texas, and unlike Sketch he has done next to nothing to not SOUND like someone from a very rural tiny ass Texas town. After living with him for several months Clara now says y’all’d’ve, y’all’d’n’t’ve, I’d’n’t’ve, and both ain’t and y’ain’t entirely unironically. She very rarely realizes this is happening. c. Clara knows because she’s good at reading people, Craig knows because he’s good at still occasionally reading her diary and just not telling her.

- Do they ever get into trouble? Is it serious, or are they just mischievous?They have had to climb a fence and bail halfway through a game of paintball because Craig shot a kids father who was NOT in the game.

- What kind of presents do they get each other? Do they only do it on special occasions?Craig goes with chocolate because that’s yet to fail, that and just, money he talks Sketch into giving him. Sketch has a habit of giving Clara money and she won’t accept it from him without a fight so at this point he’s reached a state of “I’ll give it to you IF you give it to Clara/put it towards food/rent.”Clara spoils the SHIT out of Craig now that she has a steady job and income. She has gotten him, so far, A Nintendo Switch, an Xbox 1s, and a fucking PS4. Now it should be noted that she also has unlimited access to all of these and tends to beat him at most games played on them, so the selflessness of buying them is debatable.

- Do they have any pets?Sticks!!! But he’s really just Clara’s dog that Craig lives with because being provided with love and affection from Clara is worth being allergic to her dog apparently.

- Do they bring out the best in each other, or the worst? Do they have a fatal flaw?It’s tough to say whether it’s their BEST qualities, but overall they bring out more good in each other than bad. I’m not sure about a fatal flaw but a pretty big one is just, not addressing negative emotions around any aspect of their relationship enough out of fear of losing each other. They aren’t the picture of a perfect relationship by any means either, Clara has an obsession with feeling needed and depended on, and because of this is a massive enabler who pretty much does everything for him. Including things he can very easily do himself. Craig, who doesn’t want to do jack shit and constantly needs to be loved and validated, is very ok with this.

- What’s their greatest strength as a couple? Their weakness?This sounds really disgustingly cheesy but listen they are very in love. Like frighteningly dedicated to one another in love. This is a double edged sword. 

- How much would they be willing to sacrifice for the other? Any lines they refuse to cross?They would deadass take a bullet for each other they are Ride Or Die™ let’s be real.

- What are they like in the bedroom? Any kinks/fetishes/turn-ons? Anything they won’t do?a. Uhhh synopsis; Craig’s a sex positive ace and Clara was a virgin until age 26. They are,, I think my most vanilla ship actually? If that says anything lmao. Other than Craig crying after sex on occasion. Lots of eye contact and being as close to each other as possible, less sex more ‘cuddling but with orgasms’. b. Craig has a fucking praise kink and Clara just so happens to never shut up when it comes to giving said praise so jot that down. c. Refer to a, there’s a shit ton of stuff they won’t do I’m too lazy to list all of it.  Listen anyone who actually cares can send asks to my nsfw blog because like. I know the answers. It’s probably sad how many answers I’m equipped to give here.

- Who initiated the relationship? Who kissed who first?  When did they realize they we’re in love?a/b. That’d be Craig who kicked off the relations hip with the class act of asking “hey wanna make out?” c. That’s not something that happens all at once, for anyone really. It’s a slow realization of ‘oh fuck I’m in love I guess.’

- Any special memories? Do they have a special place they like to go to?Define special because the most prominent memories are of shit like jumping the fence at the paintball place or the time Craig pretended to drown. Also the first time Clara said “I love you” then immediately buried it in a mouthful of spaghetti. 

- Are they party-goers? What are they like when they’re drunk? Does it happen often?Nah, other than like, holiday company parties they get invited to. Clara doesn’t drink at all anymore, or at least not without strong supervision, and she definitely doesn’t get drunk anymore. Craig’s just not crazy about alcohol in general, unless it’s got a gallon of sugar it doesn’t even taste good. 

- Do they let each other get away with things that would normally bother them?Constantly. There’s some stuff that Clara will draw the line on, and that’s usually when it’s a manipulative situation. But we all know that Craig will put up with just about any shit if it means validation and attention. THIS Clara doesn’t give him too much shit to put up with though, she just kinda smells like wet dog.

- Do they talk often? What about?Yea but not always about things the need to. They talk about their days or plans for the next week or how they’re doing in general, and they will delve into some levels of sharing insecurities but like I said there’s definitely some things they should talk about but haven’t.

- Are the comfortable with each other? Anything they have to have their privacy for?Maybe there was some need for privacy for the first month of living together but honestly at this point “Clara I ate half a pint of ice-cream and on a very related note we are out of toilet paper” is just commonplace conversation. They will hang out for an entire day sitting on the couch eating corn chips wearing each others sweatpants like it’s safe to say they’re comfortable.

- Any special dreams or goals they have as a couple? Any heartbreaks? Regrets?They both wanna marry each other like a lot, like I’m surprised it hasn’t come up more because let’s be honest it’s harder to leave someone when you have to go through a bunch of legal paperwork-. I think the most heartbreaking thing is that all of Craig’s family and friends live in an alternate plane of reality that it seems like there’s no way of getting back to, and if there WAS a way of getting back that would mean choosing between his home and his Clara, who is much better than the Clara back home. There’s some regrets in the making with the whole Clara not sitting down and telling Craig he NEEDS to get a fucking job. 

[themiddlelayer]

Coming back to life

Monday turned into an EPIC meltdown after MM left. I made the mistake of getting on his Facebook and seeing the pics of Bleu just ripped me wide open. I sobbed and wailed... ate a big bite of fudge and pulled myself together enough to put away the things MM had brought. 

I completely rearranged my spice cabinet and was on the kitchen floor putting cleaning supplies under the sink when I noticed writing on the bin they were in. It was Bear’s food bin. I totally lost it. This was the kind of crying that, had the neighbors heard it, might have ended with a knock on my door. 

It came and went in waves like that all evening. I ordered wings and chocolate cake and the DoorDash guy had the same first name as Tampa which only made things worse. 

Cookie finally got home from her event and discovered that the hot water heater had stopped working that morning and her kiddo hadn’t said anything until she actually went to try and shower. She also discovered that her husband, Faust, hadn’t actually cooked dinner at all over the 4 days she was gone. Her kiddo is 16 years old, but not totally self-sufficient because of his ASD so Cookie was pissed. 

She ended up coming over to shower at my place and vent about Faust as well as to recount the weekend with Shakespeare. On top of all of that, she had some random asshole corner her in the bar where she was working and grope her. This has turned into a big deal because the bar was in a camp that’s super huge on consent. It’s the kind of camp where they have fetish night, drag night, and people walk around stark naked comfortably. Sex positive doesn’t begin to cover the atmosphere there. 

Tuesday I woke up feeling like I’d literally had a fever break, like it does when an illness finally lifts. It was the first day in over a week that I didn’t cry in bed before starting my day. 

My week has been relatively productive but I’ve got another project due today at the end of the day that I just can’t get my head into... but what’s new... lol. 

Last night I went to Cookie’s to do laundry because my portable washer seems to have died on me. MM had more stuff to bring by so it turned out that Monday was not the last time I’d see him. I told him that I could NOT make it a thing again, and that I’d taken the rest of Monday off because of my meltdown. I told him that I’m hanging on by a thread and he said he understood. 

There’s a certain amount of anger here that I’m trying to allow as well. MM literally got his dream job. He is renting a big, beautiful house with a huge, fenced yard for the dogs. His primary gf is doing the drive with him but has said that she “doesn’t do long distance” so in theory that’s all he’s losing here. Apparently she is the only other human my Bleu likes, which was bittersweet for me to hear. And we had a ton of friends out there who he’s still in contact with so he’s got a community already waiting for him. 

Me? I’ve got to rebuild again in my little apartment without a washer and dryer. I’m feeling stuck in this job that, despite the perks, is really killing my spirit, and involved with boys who don’t really interest me all that much. I know that bigger, better things are coming my way but right now I’m having to fight my own brain on such a regular basis that just getting up and stumbling to my desk is a challenge. It pisses me off to see MM moving on so easily. 

Logically, I know he’s probably struggling. I was telling Cookie about how hard the move to AZ was for him and this time he’s also leaving the Army. But he finally got therapy that, I’m hearing... has helped him tremendously, so it probably isn’t as bad as it’s been in the past for him. 

In the throes of my meltdown on Monday, Puppy told me that he loves me... he said I’m the 3rd best thing ever to happen to him after Juno and their daughter. I’ve handled it well enough with making sure he knows that I appreciate him and all that but that I’m not in a place to get in that deep. I know he gets it, but it’s a weird spot to be in to a point. He’s coming down Sunday for a movie date, so we’ll see how I feel after another afternoon with him.

Ninja has continued to check in and reach for opportunities to spend time with me. I’ve sidestepped that and need to figure out exactly how to handle him with care. He’s a sweet boy, really... but I don’t know that I can get past his energy. It’s like Puppy’s eagerness but more scattered and without the solid foundation and confidence in general that Puppy has under it all. 

LEO has all but dropped off the face of the earth which sucks in one way, but is a relief in others. He makes me feel stupid... like, I want to chase him and I know better. I WANT him, but he won’t/can’t manage things in a way that make it an option right now. 

I’ve also had several notifications of a blocked call from the number of the guy in the UAE that I chatted with the day I literally lost my mind. That was 2 full weeks ago and I’ve probably had half a dozen or more of those notifications. Weird. I had one this morning and it set my mind spinning for a minute. The fantasy of it all is appealing, I won’t lie. But I also know that this is how the story starts... the story that ends with a woman trapped as a sex slave in a foreign country or something scary that’s not the least bit as sexy as the Sleeping Beauty novels make it out to be. 

File that under: So crazy I couldn’t make it up if I tried. 

Time to do some real work for a bit... I’m limping through the week then going to a party with Cookie Saturday night. Tick, tock already! 

[boudiscanon]

Northern versus Southern Family

So one half of my family is from Michigan and the other half of my family is from Arkansas. And since I've never met anyone who wasn't my cousin who also has a family this radically split between the Mason-Dixon line (bc mine is the ONLY SOUTHERN WHITE FAMILY IN TOWN) lemme show y'all the cultural whiplash that is family gatherings at the grandparents’ for me:

House Aesthetic

North: Immaculately clean, Great Grandma’s china untouched in a hutch, New carpet and/or couch and/or hardwood floors for the kitchen like every other goddamn year, plain crosses, family photo sitting on the mantle, place where large family portrait would normally go instead graced by painting of a wolverine signed by Bo Schembechler, lots of duck hunting motifs, also did I mention clean?,seriously one time my grandma randomly paid me like $20 to just clean the outside and inside of her kitchen cupboard doors for her???

South: Overrun with knick-knacks, tables specifically devoted to knick-knacks and setting up holiday cards from family and church people, photos of every single family member at every single stage of life, furniture all from 1960, textured wallpaper, cross stitchings about Jesus hanging up, “A house is made of bricks and stones but homes are made of love alone”, only cleaned when family is coming up to visit, and then more to make room for all 32549879 of them than to make it look nice, mattresses in every spare room for said 32549879 family members

Openness

North: NO ONE EVER TALKS ABOUT ANYTHING, I am 26 and this year I learned my grandpa has a sister??????, I thought he only had brothers, dirty laundry is not acknowledged in any way whatsoever, prying questions are limited to grandparents asking about what you’ve been up to and some light-hearted ragging over your love life

South: I know all of my Grandparent’s 1700 siblings by first and middle name, and the entire family history, going back to the legend of Great-Great Grandpa Panther Bill back in Bethel Springs, dirty laundry is spread out on the living room floor to sort through especially if it belongs to cousins who aren’t there, any random family member can and will come up to you and instead of saying hello start in with “so has your brother found a job yet? you got a man yet? when you gettin married already? so is your sister gay or what?” and there is no escape, hell you probably won’ even remember which cousin three times removed is accosting you

Food

North: all done by grandma, maybe with a salad brought by my mom, dishes shoved in the dishwasher after, everyone gets one (1) tupperware container to bring home, grandma constantly trying out new recipes and insisting they probably aren’t very good, meanwhile Gordan Ramsey himself would probably kiss her on the lips and hire her on the spot

South: Everyone conspires to stop grandma from doing any actually work much to her consternation, GFS does half the cooking bc you can pick up giant ass pans of scalloped potatoes there and just toss them in the oven, there are always at least two meat dishes two potato dishes three veggies some kind of fluff and some kind of salad brought by aunt lee, not to mention two-three pies and ice cream for dessert, everyone brings home at least one (1) paper grocery bag full of leftovers and fights over who has to bring home the most bc how did we end up with more leftovers than were actually on the table??????, dishes done by hand by moms while grandma tries to help and gets told to sit down and relax, and i cannot tell you how much i suffered growing up being the only kid who knew what hominy and okra were

Conversation

North: politics, current events, the Tigers, gossip about snooty neighbors or snooty church people

South: Jesus, the Lions, gossip about cousins, family stories you’ve heard 17 times but idk it’s tradition?

Thoughts on Death

North: no one mentions getting old or implies in anyway that they aren’t just as spry as they used to be because it give grandpa Anxiety

South: one time my grandma basically kidnapped me and one of my aunts to point out exactly who was to get what when she died, my aunt pointed to a mirror with a gold leaf forest scene on it and called dibs, grandparent constantly complained about joints but also refused to ever sit down ever, basically every conversation with them involved a I Went To The Doctor And He Said update

Religion

North: Reformed Church in America (Calvinist)

South: Assembly of God (Pentecostal)

Thoughts on technology

North: My grandma recently got a laptop and wifi, she answers emails by calling you back

South: Grandparents never figured out how to use their answering machine, had written instructions from us on how to operate their VCR (so they could watch Jackie Chan movies)

Biggest Drama To Date

North: we don’t have family reunions on that side anymore because at the last one (before I was born) two brothers got in a fist fight, got written out of great grandpa’s will and then when he died great grandma refused to write them back in

South: It’s a toss up between maybe one time my great grandpa trapped a man inside a house he then proceeded to burn to the ground, the time that same great grandpa sprayed my dad in the face with pesticide as a kid and almost killed him, and my dad currently being on non-speaking terms with literally the entire family bc he idolized said great grandpa and also grew up to be an abusive insufferable douchecanoe, oh and that one time the sheriff arrested a cousin and two other cousins dueled the sheriff and busted him out, (or, according to one aunt and uncle, the fact that I have not gotten married and pregnant yet)

Levels of Family Pride

North: you’re pretty much good so long as you hate the state of Ohio or disparage the Tigers

South: You are literally expected to fight to the death for even the cousins you haven’t met or Jesus himself will descend from the Heavens to Disown You and the lines between “family” and “cult” are kind of blurred sometimes tbh ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

(Also as a side note because of the difference in accents I have absolutely no fucking idea how to say “pecan.”)

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This question is normally towards the young teenagers that are elligibal of driving. But if parents know the payment for your son/daughter car insurance please post. If anyone does post to my question, please post your answer with, what kind of car is it, what type of plan and how much you pay following by whether or not there has been charges on it. (i.e. speeding tickets) Basically it'll look like this: - 2001 Honda Civic (4 Door) - Every 6 Months - $1000 - No Charges I am going to go take a test for my provisional and I want to get an overview on how much insurance is going to be. Thank you for posting""

How can a 17yearold get insured on a classic car?

I'm a 17 year old driver in staffordshire, i'm looking to purchase either a triumph gt6 or a triumph spitfire, however the insurance quotes im getting (even with my dad as the main driver) are over the value of the car! (approx 3500). does anyone know any specialist companies i could contact? thank you in advance""

Why is my insurance quote so much and what is NCD? Im 17 years old!?

I understand with me being 17 my insurance will be a little high but the quotes im getting at the moment are hitting the 2500 mark whilst some of my friends are getting insurance between 600-1000 so why is mine so high? Also; What is no claims discount? Ive literally only just passed my driving test and no ones has explained to me what this is and i have a feeling me putting '0 NCD' is contributing to high insurance, is it? Why do i have to put how long ive lived in the UK as well? Im a British Citizen, parents british but i was born abroad and only moved to england when i was 11 as my dad was in the army so we travelled, but does this affect my insurance as well? sorry for all the questions, just need some help. Also, the car im trying to insure is a second hand Ford Ka Collection, 2000w, 1.3 petrol Thanks""

Looking for a health insurance coop in California.?

Anyone know of one not related to working at a company or for the government?

Help with Car Insurance?

Can someone explain to me how car insurance works? I know a little bit about it, but I need to know what I'm dealing with because in a few months I'm going to buy a car. I have a lot of people that can help me definately but I wanna know for myself what its about. Thanks!""

How much would motorcycle insurance for 600cc roughly cost for a 24 year old?

just need the rough estimate for 600cc sportsbikes. fireblade, gsxr, r6. please state the type of insurance too. thanks.""

Do I need car insurance...?

I have a car that will not run at my residence but is still in my name. Do I still need to have car insurance on it? I have a personal insurance that just covers me but not on any specific car. I live in Florida if that helps.

Why is my Auto Insurance so high?!?

I am 20 years old paying full coverage insurance on a 2011 Nissan Versa that I am making payments on. My Credit is middle of the pack and I've never had a wreck or a ticket. So, can anyone tell me why my insurance is twice as high as anyone I talk to with the same set up?!? My insurance company said that it was strange, but can't find out why it's that high and this is my 2nd insurance company. The previous one charged a little more. I've gotten quotes and they're either close to my monthly currently or are more. I am paying nearly 500 dollars a month... I hope someone out there can help me lower this insurance. Thanks ahead.""

Car Insurance - 17 Year old!?

part time motor trade insurance - That's the insurance policy that my dad's on, would it be possible for me to be added onto this policy then drive the cars that are insured on it. If not what's the best way about getting cheaper insurance policies? The way I thought I got cheaper insurance was that my dad would start a policy then add me as a named driver, is it still the same? Thanks in advance!""

Insurance questions?

I have a 99' silverado LS 5.3 liter truck. It was hit in the parking lot by some fool at work and now all the body panels on the passenger side are dented. I took it to a dealer to get an estimate (since the guy has insurance) they quoted it at 7500 dollars worth of damage. I know that the truck doesn't actually book for much more than that. The truck still drives fine just that it is beat up on one side and the door won't open. I still owe about 3k on the truck. I have yet to get an adjuster to come look at it from state farm. Do you think the truck will be totalled? What are my options and how much will they sell the truck back for if it is a total? If it is a total what value will they go off of and how much should I expect for my truck which was in fair condition? Will the adjuster make a check out to me or will he send it to my bank or both? Any help with this from someone that has had a vehicle totalled by someone else would be greatly appreicated..I really don't know.

Does insurance go up when I get my driver's permit?

I'm a little over 15 and a half i live in california and my family has AAA so will the insurance price raise? i know that when i get over 16 it does raise but any tips on how to bring down the rates a little?

The course of insurance and risk management deals with what?

Works as who?

How much will my car insurance go up?

I got a ticket for speeding (66 mph in a 45 mph work zone). My ticket total is $438. I am trying to decide whether to get a laywer and fight it or just pay it off. Approximately how much with my auto insurance go up? Cost of lawyer? How many points will I get on my license? I am 22 years old living in North Carolina and have never had a ticket. Advice?

Car Insurance?

What is the name of the car insurance I could get, that covers any one who drives my car but who is not on the policy? Thanks""

I missed my Insurance payment and my room mate wreck my Jeep do I have legal grounds to sue him?

I am a Marine Stationed at Camp Pendleton, California. About eight months ago I allowed my room mate to drive my Jeep while I was away attending pre-deployment training for Afghanistan. While there he rolled my Jeep literally down a mountain while under the influence of alcohol. Needless to say the Jeep was totalled and is Unrecoverable from the canyon were it now rests. I missed my Insurance payment by about a week because I was in the field training and didn't have access to a computer or phone. I understand that this is no excuse. Because I missed the payment my insurance company rightfully under California state law refused to pay for the totalled Jeep. Do I have legal Grounds to sue him for what I owed at that time, about 12,000.00. I have continued to make payment on the Jeep. The reason I have waited so long since the accident to purse legal action is because I was in Afghanistan on a 7 month deployment. If you have an Information please help. Thank you for your time.""

I want to cancel my life insurance for a better one can i get my money back that i put in on it.?

are we allowed to get money back that we put towards life insurance.. if so how long do u have to have the policy to qualify for this. mines is only 7 months old. thanks.

Where can I find super cheap auto insurance?

I just want something to cover me legally. I don't need any advice on why I should not get crap insurance, I literally would just like to know where to get great rates. I found ...show more

Insurance then car?

I'm confused, I want to know what would be the best car to get cheap insurance on it. I'm a 20yr old employed woman. I don't care what car I get (I know, it's tragic) as long as it gets me the chepeast insurance. Which car should I buy? (I have a budget of 2000 ish)""

Do you know any Insurance companies that would do 6m Car Insurance?

For various reasons, I would like insurance quotes for my car for 6 months. Has anyone had any dealings with companies that have or would? It's not a money saving exercise, thanks :)""

Is it normal for a teen to pay insurance before owning a car?

My boyfriend (since he got his license at 16 before he had his own car) has been paying $200 a month on insurance because his parents said he had to. My question is, did he have to pay insurance even when he didnt own a car?""

Cheap insurance for young proffessonal driver?

i am 23 work for a car and van rental company so drive a average of 15 cars or vans a day from small hatchbacks to 90k range rovers sports BMW's mercs etc but yet i still cant get insurance for under 1200 for a old 1997 1.0 l fiat punto is there any Specialist insurance company's for people that drive professionally for a living?

What is the best car insurance for teenagers who got their first car?

I have a 1989 Toyota Camry thats need insurance so i can start driving it.

What is the cheapest car insurer for a 17 year old WITHOUT a black box?

What is the cheapest insurance company without a black box or device to monitor you're driving for a 17 year old...?

Weekend only car insurance?

I'm looking for some car insurance but only need it for the weekends but every weekend. I was wondering if a) there is at all anyway that this is possible, and if so where I could do this? It is for an under 21 year old as well Thanks""

Car insurance cost for a 17 year old male?

My son is fixing to get his drivers licence and I've been told by people that it is very exspensive for him to have insurance. Can anyone tell me the average a young new driver has to pay ?

How much is car insurance for a 97 corolla?

please don't say ask your insurance company because i wont know until a couple days later. i just got my license and im 17 years old and i have a 97 corolla. The car isnt in the BEST condition but its still in pretty good condition and i was wondering how much would the insurance be considering i took driving classes at the school and am dadap certified (that alcohol lesson thing) thanks

My Allstate insurance agent wants me to change from Allstate to Allstate Fire and Casualty. Should I? ?

I would be saving money, but I am wondering if there is a catch to this. Anyone else do this? It is my auto insurance, and I'd save money to switch (about $500 every six months. He tells us rates are lower because my credit is good. True?""

Best health care insurance for 25 year old?

I just got off parent's insurance because it's only until I'm 25. I can't use my job's since I work part time, because I'm trying to finish college. I hardly get sick and see the doctor, but I know things happen. (Like whenever I got appendicitis not that long ago) What's the best affordable one's out there for me?""

""Insurance for a 16 year old male, owning my own car, please help(ontario)?""

Im 16, male, in ontario, single, no other drivers in my family. I plan to own my own car, i know alot of you will say; depends on model or year of the car idk the answer to that because i dont have the car yet... but i do know it will be between the years 2001 and 2004 roughly, it will probably end up being a chevy, toyota, honda (just the average company) can anyone please give me a rough estimate what i will have to pay either per year or month doesnt matter thanks :)""

Insurance on mustang?

I am 16 years old- male and i am thinking about purchasing a 2002 black mustang( convertible) and i have already spoke to the man selling and all i have to do is go pick it up so i was wondering what would be the cheapest way to go on car insurance. My parents have state farm, and if have my own insurance i would only be paying for liability. Does anyone know how much that would cost monthly or whats the cheapest way to do this?""

First time dealing with car insurance for a 19 yr old?

I just finished drivers ed today and I want to go ahead and get my drivers license because also Lowes called me and want me to come in for orientation! Crazy day right? 2 good things in 1 day. But anyways the Lowes that I should be working at is maybe 15 minutes away and the position I have should be a night position. I'm sure my mom doesn't want to drive around at night so I told her she can just give me the car at night. Here's the thing my dad said he'd have to put me on his insurance. I would like to get my own insurance so they can save some of there money. So can anybody point me in any direction or give me some tips. Because im clueless when it comes to car insurance. Right now my mom is asking me do I have to work there. I plan on grabbing this job because I've been looking for awhile and I finally got 1. Ain't no telling when I'll get another one

Ok where can someone get health insurance?

ok where can someone get health insurance to get a vasectomy reversal is there any health insurance that helps pay for that

""Why is it wrong to require people to have auto insurance, but not health insurance?""

And, for that matter, wouldn't we pay less for auto insurance if the government provided it at cost as a single payer, squeezing out all the profits and returning the savings back to you?""

What is the average monthly premium rate for individual health insurance coverage?

What is the average monthly premium rate for individual health insurance coverage?

Car insurance and moving?

I'm going to buy a car soon, And then move pretty much right after that...It would be a good idea to get the insurance and plates and stuff before I go, obviously, but what will need to be done once I move? I heard that as long as I live in my parent's house, the insurance would be cheaper, well, I'd be moving out...so I have no idea how to get everything straightened around.""

How do I fight an auto insurance company's liability decision?

I was T-boned by another driver who I believe rolled through a stop sign and could not have been paying attention to the road. It was a four-way stop intersection, and the insured ...show more""

""IRS says it will cost $20,000 for a health insurance plan for a family of 5 under O'Care law. Affordable?""

http://cnsnews.com/news/article/irs-cheapest-obamacare-plan-will-be-20000-family This is for a family of 5. This is the cheapest plan called the Bronze plan. The penalty for not having insurance $2450 per year. Of course, you never have to pay more than 8% of your household income. That means the government will require an enormous amount of revenue from additional taxes to pay for this. Also, since hospitals are being fined for readmissions due to infections, people will be treated at home if they get an infection resulting from beng in the hospital for Medicare patients. Not sure about others. In other words, you have surgery and are released then get an infection, they won't readmit you. Great care huh?""

Who's Car Insurance Would Handle the Accident?

My sister has been driving my mother's car (Loan, registration, insurance in my mother's name) Occasionally she allows her boyfriend to drive the car, although my mother has stated on numerous occasions that she does not want him driving that car. He was in an accident on Friday and claims the car is totaled. He claims that he called the police and filed a report, it can be picked up on Tuesday. He also claims that his insurance is covering the accident. My problem is, the car is insured in my mother's name, so he is not allowed to do this, correct? Also, even though my mother was not involved in the accident, can she still call the police and get a copy of the report? After all, the car is in her name. Please enlighten me, I'm trying to figure this all out.""

Does a car being Stolen/Recovered Affect Future Insurance Policies?

I am looking to buy a car, and wondering whether a car that had been stolen with keys, and recovered (but not before the insurance company had paid out for it) will have problems getting insurance, similar to cars rated as Cat C, or Cat D?""

What is the bare minimum for full coverage auto insurance?

I live in Idaho. I have not yet payed off the auto loan so I'm required to have full coverage insurance. According to some people I am paying too much (about 700 for 6 months), as they are paying far less. I have geico, but from time to time I look around and get quotes, and it is always slightly higher than what I have now. However, that might be because I am opting for coverage I might not need. So the question boils down to, what is the bare minimum requirements for full coverage auto insurance in Idaho?""

I need to win this bet! $5000.00 on the line! Attn: Car insurance reps!!!?

Okay, my mother bet me a 5 thousand dollar car that she is right about this. Here we go. I am 27 and live back at home with parents. However, I rent a room that i pay for every month, and they write me a rent receipt, etc. I recieve county assistance every month, and they have me documented as a seperate family from my parents, meals prepared seperately, the whole nine yards. So, if they are just my landlords technically, and if i drive a car that is registered to me, my name on title, my OWN insurance policy, and I get into a accident in MY car, can they other party sue my parents for damages? Remember I am 28 years old, living in a seperate household from them. I feel that they cannot sue them cuz they couldnt sue my landlord if i lived in an apartment complex, so how coyuld they sue my landlords?""

How much would insurance cost for a 2005-06 mustang?

i am 16 and want a mustang how much will insurance be for a year compared to the average car... also i wont have a big engine....the car will be 14,000 or less""

Where can I find super cheap auto insurance?

I just want something to cover me legally. I don't need any advice on why I should not get crap insurance, I literally would just like to know where to get great rates. I found ...show more

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