#I also tend to hc a lot of my f/os as trans so sometimes it's just the spiderman pointing meme-afksbfksbdj
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Goodnight gamers! <3 If you didn't have a good day today, I hops that tomorrow will be a better day for you <3
As for me, I was thinking about the fact and I'm trans and how my f/os love that part of myself and are so supportive. For the longest time, I had a fear that they wouldn't like me because of that. Like they'd be disappointed somehow. But then I remember that they'd never do that and they love me sm <3
#pan rambles#I also tend to hc a lot of my f/os as trans so sometimes it's just the spiderman pointing meme-afksbfksbdj#Gonna get a little personal for a moment but say that I use the term Agender bc that's just the most accurate to my experience#But sometimes I'm tempted to not use it at all-afjsbfjsbd I'm neither boy or girl! I'm just Panchi! y'know?#Backing up a little-#I've had personal experiences where I'd come out to someone and they'd exclusively refer to me as a woman#and another where I was only referred to as a man (knew I was agender but specifically referred to me as a man) and never used they/them#(Nobody here btw. I should make that clear)#there's this one other moment I won't even bring up bc of how uncomfortable it was to me#But yeah-afksbfjsnfj I don't have the best experiences with stuff regarding my gender and sexuality#So imagining that my f/os are completely understanding is just. nice.#Also bc they're that close to me- I don't particularly care if they refer to me as a gf or bf or just say Partner#Only people I'm close to get that privilege as long as they don't overdo it y'know#But yeah#I got distracted-afksbdjsbdjd#Point is!#a lot of my f/os are trans and they love that I'm trans too <3#Also this goes for familial and platonics are well. None of them are safe from the 🏳️⚧️ beam!#And quite a number of them are hit with the Bi/Pan/Liking multiple genders beam#bc I like multiple genders even if I don't care to put a specific label to it outside of me being Arospec
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have you ever had a female f/o even though your gay? i'm straight (trans guy) but a lot of my f/o's are men
ooh! so like for me personally it's a little complicated? i definitely used to have female f/os when i was in middle school, but that was also during a phase where i was trying to figure out my identity and i thought i was a lesbian... so it's not exactly the same? i do think i had genuine feelings for the characters, but they're things i wouldn't feel nowadays so i don't tend to dwell on it. that being said, sometimes there are female characters i see nowadays where i'm like yeah maybe.. but i've never gone as far as to f/o any, partially because those girls usually tend to be girls i hc as lesbians? related; one time i had a sexuality crisis over karen from spongebob LOL
anyways though, i think that's totally normal! i've met plenty of people whose taste in fictional characters doesn't parallel their taste irl, including regards to gender! in some cases it may have a deeper meaning, but not always. so long as you're having fun and are comfortable, that's what's important! you're certainly not doing anything wrong or strange, so don't sweat it ^__^
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