#Dad!Will Neff

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Wade Neff

Wade Neff

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he’s not a fan of musicals he just has autism

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[transastronautistic]

Example of a sensory meltdown — buildup, lashing out, shame & relational repair

Excerpts from episode 44 of the Divergent Conversations podcast, hosted by two AuDHD mental health professionals.

MEGAN NEFF: ...I like to link [sensory meltdowns] to nervous system states...that fight/flight energy. And so it's pretty visible to the people around us. And so it's kind of like our brain is melting from all the sensory overload.

And then, like, I know, for me, like, I actually just had a sensory meltdown, which is, I haven't had one in years, Patrick. But I had one last week.

PATRICK CASALE: What was going on?

MEGAN NEFF: Well, we got a new puppy, so I haven't been sleeping well. And then I forgot how overstimulating puppies are. And he has this really loud, high-pitched bark. ...And so I hadn't slept well. ...I was trying to, like, manage the puppy, but then upload something to WordPress, which is a platform I do not understand. ...

And you've seen my desktop. I was like trying to find the file and I couldn't even find the file I was trying to upload. So, it was like this series of fatigue sensory overwhelm. I was having a really bad health day. And it was just like too much.

So, the way I describe it, like, I feel like I want to lash out, which is, again, very not normal for me. And at times, it's looked like lashing out at myself.

In adolescence, I think, I was having a lot of meltdowns, and that's what led to a lot of my self-harm. So, there's this, like, very kind of aggressive needing to lash out. And I see that as like needing to get the energy out is what it feels like.

So, I'm so not proud of this. But I'm going to say this because a lot of autistic people have a lot of shame around their meltdown. So, I'm going to be really transparent here. In that moment, my husband was in the room. And I was like, "This was a terrible idea. I think we should give this puppy back."

I knew when I said it there's no way we're, like, rehoming this puppy. Like, that would crush the kids. Like, that doesn't feel ethical to me. And like, I knew it wasn't true. But I said it.

And I think what I was saying in that moment is like it's too much. ...I was like, "It's too much, it's too much." And I started to cry. And I went upstairs and I put the dogs in their crate, and they napped, and I napped. And then I was tired for the rest of the day. But it was better.

Yeah. So, like, I feel the cortisol when I'm in a meltdown. And I'm someone who, typically, has a lot of control over myself. And so these moments when it feels like I have less control are really disarming, they're really scary.

...Before I explain shutdown, do you want to add anything about meltdowns or your experience of them?

PATRICK CASALE: Yeah, I wanted to say, like, one, thanks for naming that. I know that's an inside look into what was happening. And I know that was a lot.

It sounds like to me, like when you hit that moment, right? And this is just my own experience with any sort of sensory meltdown, when you said, "I want to give this dog back." Or whatever, you were just at your limit. You were just like, so overwhelmed, and so frustrated, and so worn down, and that was the old way to express those emotions that you were experiencing.

And then once you once you say it out loud, you're just kind of like, "Yeah, obviously, we're not going to do that. And I'm still really overwhelmed."

And I find for me, the best answer all the time is that quiet dark like, "I need to sleep, I need to lay down, I just need to be in a state where I can just, like, melt into the bed and not have to have any responsibilities."

And I will be honest, as I'm watching my two dogs circle each other for a treat...One of them has created that sensation for me so many times because he's tiny. He has that like high pitch bark. He barks at everything. He is a lot.

And I have lived with my dad for about two months down in Florida, two years ago. I had brought both dogs. And my dad's house is not 100 square feet, two beds, one bathroom. It was hot, it's humid, it's Florida. Everything that could happen that led to like these sensory meltdowns was happening...and I'm in my dad's house and the dog is barking at everything...And my dad is getting frustrated. And I'm like, "Okay, how do I handle this?"

And then I was like, scared to leave my dad's house, because I didn't want my dog to just be barking and my dad to have to deal with it. So, it was becoming a situation where I was literally having these sensory meltdowns on almost multiple times a day.

And it felt like I was at my wit's end. It felt like I'd really, like you've said, my cortisol is ramping up. I also consider myself someone who's pretty in control of how I experience my emotions a lot of the time or how I, at least, put them into the world. And I was just getting very short, very frustrated. Like, no longer could function, right? Even the littlest of tasks become the biggest of tasks and they become almost impossible, because my executive functioning is just out the window. It's just not existing. I'm like, "I can't even think straight right now."

And it becomes a situation where, like, I feel so shameful, and so defeated, and so overwhelmed, and I want to cry--I never cry, it probably would be helpful in those moments. And I just feel lost, like I don't know what to do.

And they do pass but in those moments they're really painful...

MEGAN NEFF: Yeah, they're so painful. And they're so embarrassing. Like the other day, I felt like a child tantruming. And like, I'm a...39-year-old like human who like, yeah, it's so embarrassing.

And I hear that a lot from people, that that's one of the hardest things about a meltdown is afterwards, like, embarrassment and the shame.

And also, like, they can do a lot of relational damage, right? Like, I was talking about my dog, and I was able to circle back to my spouse, and be like, "I didn't actually mean that. I knew I didn't mean it, here's what was happening."

But like, there's scenarios where, you know, maybe that comment, "I want to get rid of this puppy." Maybe for some people it's, "I want to divorce." Or, "I want to…" Like, if it's coming out at another person, I think, in meltdowns we can say some really harmful things out of that. It's too much energy. And I think that gets really complicated.

And, again, we're acting very incongruent from our values in meltdowns for a lot of time. And so, naturally, we're going to experience a lot of shame in the aftermath of that.

PATRICK CASALE: And one thing you just mentioned that I think is important is when you said, "I'm a 39-year-old person, but I feel like a child."

But in those moments, there's a lot of inner child wounding happening. And there's a lot of inner child stuff going on where I think we can all think back to when we were kids, when we weren't attuned to, when we weren't tended to, when we weren't co-regulated with, when we weren't supported...and you act out, feel like I have to get my point across, I have to be able to express myself.

And as adults, we learn to keep that contained. Like, we regulate ourselves. We don't let those emotions come out in a way. And it's almost like this volcano, right? Like, it's like bubbling, bubbling, bubbling, also, a rupture. ...

And then you immediately go into that shame spiral of like, "What did I just do? What did I just say? How did I just react? That was so embarrassing of me. I didn't have control over myself." …

MEGAN NEFF: So, okay, I like don't even want to go there, because I don't have an answer, but...here's the tension I feel of this idea of like, we don't have control in a meltdown.

And that's actually been really helpful, also, in my parenting of understanding like, if one of my children has a meltdown, like, they're not trying to be hurtful, this is not something that they have a lot of control over.

And again, I'm not sure is it that we have no control, is it we don't have much control? Like, I don't know, categorically.

PATRICK CASALE: True.

MEGAN NEFF: There's this idea of, like, accountability. So, let's say we do have a meltdown. And we say something painful. And we also understand we had less control over what we were saying or doing. Or if we do something painful, like what does it look like to repair relationally after that? How much accountability should we be having for those moments? …

And then this is, again, something that when it's talked about, it's talked about with a lot of like harshness, and quietness, and shame. But like, you know, there's a lot of parents out there, specifically, who are wondering "what do I do when my adolescent has a meltdown and they become aggressive, like toward a sibling or toward me?" Like, this is really hard territory we're talking about.

PATRICK CASALE: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Very, very, very hard. From that perspective, like, what do I do if my loved one is becoming aggressive in public? What do I do? You know, and let's say, if I'm thinking about my nieces and nephews who are young black kids and so, what if that happens in public? There's so many safety risks there, like jail. ...

But I know that there are often ruptures that need to be repaired. And when you mentioned accountability, that's huge, right? Like, if I was having a meltdown and I'm with my wife, I will often fall into that shame aspect. "I shouldn't have acted like that. I shouldn't have reacted like that." And it takes time for me to regulate, and ground, and sooth.

And I oftentimes will say to her, "Hey, this is what was happening. And I'm really sorry I reacted like that." And she'll always say, "I know."

And I'm like, "Well, I guess thank you for understanding. But I still wanted to take accountability over that."

[phoenixyfriend]

List of my Star Wars OCs

Under a cut because I have no doubt this is going to grow and I mostly want to keep track for my own purposes.

Also. Uh. Should go without saying, but please don't use my OCs without asking. I know it's unlikely to happen but just in case. Please?

Jedi

Umika Sessenii - Twi'lek Jedi Master, teaches engineering - she/her - prosthetic hand from an explosion - Pale green that’s striated with darker shades of stripes. - Trans woman - ears instead of cones, and four head tails instead of the standard two - Anakin's supervisor for an 'advanced program' - Maybe a decade older than Obi-Wan? - Tiniest Assistant Teacher - Shiny Rainbow Knife

[name??] Skywalker - He/Him - Anakin invents a twin brother

San-Set Neff - Nikto - He/Him - Knight as of Galidraan - The King, the Soldier, and the Spy

Healer - Eris - They/them - Peer to Obi-Wan - Uncle Ben and Little Luke

Soul Healer - Madrás - She/her - Master as of Obi-Wan's year on Mandalore - Uncle Ben and Little Luke

Healer - Orféaz - They/them - Master as of Obi-Wan's year on Mandalore - Uncle Ben and Little Luke

Healer - Tophin - They/them - Anakin Uses a Sketchy Amulet from the Vaults

Skysisters AU and all the OCs in that.

Clone

(He/him unless otherwise noted)

Furbie - Coruscant Guard - specializes in navigating infested lower levels

Gus, short for Asparagus - Coruscant Guard - Shiny - Helps Ahsoka out when she Accidentally Becomes A Film Noir Detective - Pretends to be psychic to cover for her

Porkchop - Coruscant Guard - Medic

Clone Medic Whiskey - 212th

Clint and Matt - Clones inspired by Hawkeye and Daredevil - Deaf sniper, blind melee specialist (mild force sensitivity to parallel Marvel character's enhanced senses)

Elk - 501st - rank Private - Boba Has a Crush (On Rex’s Boyfriend)

Jimmy - 501st, junior medic - Anakin's DNA Wish

Pillow and Quota - 212th

Mandalorians

Na-Tsuyon - True Mando support (non-combatant) - She/her - tattoo artist - Nautolan, aquamarine - very much does not want to be involved in the plot - Older than Jango, younger than Jaster - A Child’s Ink

Hujnak - True Mando support (non-combatant) - He/him - Devaronian - Piercings artist - A Child’s Ink

Kamilla - True Mando - drill sergeant during Galidraan era - She/her - The King, the Soldier, and the Spy

Medic Mirka’lu - She/her - True Mando during Jaster and Jango's era - Has known Jango since he was eight - The King, the Soldier, and the Spy - Anakin Introduces his Jedi Babies (and Himself)

Unnamed - Twi'lek, medic - She/her - Lesbian married to another Mando

Laika - Pantoran hacker - She/her - Not actually Mandalorian, but part of the Cuy'val Dar - Widows on Kamino

Unnamed guard (and sister) thirsting over Jango - Obi-Wan Declares Himself Dad Shaped

Tatooine

Unnamed - Nautolan, Tatooine - He/him - Owns an ice cream shop, considered wealthy by slaves but is functionally living hand to mouth - Dry skin; isn't judged for having indoor cooling even by those in poverty, due to species needs - Hides runaway slaves in the back

Beru's Uncle - becomes Tatooine's Senator if Hutts are ousted

Ranko - He/him - Beru's Cousin - Lives a few towns away, only see each other every few months - Undefined sexuality (bi or pan)

Slaves and former slaves: - Depthseeker, Singerwake, Dunefire, Moonhuntser - Not Quite as Clever as a Fox

Mirat - human - She/her - Runs a general store in Anchorhead - 18 at RotS - Gets married seven years after the rise of the empire; asks Ben Kenobi to officiate - Wizard of the Jundland Wastes

Primro Depthseeker - human - She/her - Five years older than Luke and Leia; lives in Anchorhead - Wizard of the Jundland Wastes

Other

Teskarim - Shop attendant in Mandalorian Space - She/her - Rex and Anakin Raise a Family

Ron-Gan - Human Senator - Space Ronald Reagan

Yenna - Togruta - She/her - Head of PR for the GAR (civilian employee) - The Skywalker Sex Tape

Unnamed - The Accountant From Theed - an accountant working for the government of Naboo - The Accountant from Theed

[astrummorte-m]

@cosmicdreamt discord mini plot

"Neff...? Could you help me dig a grave?"

the words are casual, yet ever so gentle. the healer of souls before the dreamcatcher of a barista would know well that he doesn't just say these sorts of things for the same reasons that everyone else would. he does not joke around about the death of people, does not mess around with the facts about life and death - though would eventually lighten up into making dark jokes about how he died.

"It's for my dad." he informs. "I'm afraid there was no body, but... he still- you know?" even those without themselves in tact deserve a moment to rest.

[cosmicdreamt]

[[ I have one more reply to do for tonight and then I'm gonna work on some art stuff. Mayhaps I'll do an art stream tomorrow after laundry so you guys can join me in getting Neff's deity design done uwu

I'm hanging out with a friend on Friday, hanging out with my dad on Saturday, and Sunday I have work until 3pm. After that I'll be around the rest of the week :> ]]

[patchesjam]

Will Neff: “I make content about banging your dad”

Tubbo: “He’s so based! Oh fuck that’s really awkward, my dad is here.”

[kisssthebabyy]

That's my Dawg . That's my dawg fasho.

Y'all think in trippin. Judge thinks I'm good. DA pressing charges like if I'm a murderer? I fucked up yeah I know . But Police being called ? Broooooooo. We had this conversation before I agreed to stay with you . I was big chillen . I was good by myself . Talking to friends, linking up with them oc latinas. But nah you pressed the issue , I pressed you , you stood tall. Bam okay , extra credit. Respect, love , I'll give you me . Watch me struggle through the tough shit. Got me back in my feet. Respect . Thank you . That's love . Had me doing the dishes , anything she want for some kisses ?

She wasn't even my main lady , but I be thinking about it lately , she really don't deserve me . Why would I put myself through this situation again . Why Neff. Why Tiny. Bro I miss Big Nerd , I miss Young and Baby. Miss that fuck nigga Eric . Daniel went MIA. Like Nigga. Let me know I'ma always be by myself when I get older. I need people who care. I care too much . Maybe that's the issue.

My life has been unexpected. I knew what I wanted , went after it and had kids . It's crazy. During this time of having kids (9 years ) I fucked up twice . I know for a fact I want one more kid but why would I ever do that to myself ? Pain ? Frustrated? Jail ? Lol c'mon bro make it make sense .

I miss those people who I let know me . Shout out Nani . Shout out Daisia . Shout out Sacha . Those were real friends . Fuck it . Even Danielle before I said okay . You supposed to hold me down . Fuck jasmine . She trippen. When RJ older we will set him up. Not worried about that but c'mon . Hold me down. I could fly home with my eyes closed, but it could be hard to see that's no surprise though.

I been reading them signs . I've been losing my mind . Get the fuck out the way , this must be hard to read , what a lovely life that I made mine. Ive done took some many losses im like fuck a loss .

I got 3 now . All Boys. What are you telling me to do Lord ? Be a leader of man. That's what Randell is . He's a leader of Men . I need to grow up . I need to set a foundation . Yes I'm there Dad but you're their Father and it needs to lead to you. I was raised correctly. In the house. No excuses. Set a foundation . Figure it out and stop bitchin . Fuck a re read , this what this app for . I just need to vent

[the-phantom-author]

Not that anyone asked, but here's some dad!Will Neff pic inspo.

[youngbloodsboutique]

Check out this listing I just added to my Poshmark closet: Neff dad hat.

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No, no this.

Dad!Hasan decides with you that it's time to take your guys baby into the pool for the first time. The baby is covered in their floaties, and Hasan has you hand the kid over to him while he's already in the water. The pool quicky becomes one of the babies favorite places to be during the summer.

Ok but let’s consider this: Neff-Piker baby having soooooo many swimsuits, floaties and whatnot because the only place she wants to be is in the pool with her dad 🥹

Inflatable kiddie pool or running through a sprinkler with her uncle will also do in a pinch 😇

[simiasung-a]

unprompted. ↬ @gamenu

"Hey, yer friends wi' Gemi, righ'? I knew I recognized ya from somewhere!" It's with a friendly wave that she greets the redhead. Of course Nicole knew she wasn't exactly...human. But who was human in Shibuya anymore? If nothing else, she's trying to branch out and make more friends. It'd make her dad happier if she went out more anyway.

strelitzia feels a CERTAIN SHYNESS as the girl comes closer; she blinks, a bit surprised, a bit taken aback. not used to being REMEMBERED, even less being APPROACHED.

... and there's that -- no, it's not really a SMELL, but it's close to it. something that TICKLED HER SENSES, pulled at a heartstring of hers.

... she doesn't want to seem RUDE right off the bat. THE QUESTIONS WILL HAVE TO WAIT. she gives a slight nod, masking her uncertainties. ❝ mh. ❞ neff would want her to have A FRIEND OR TWO too ... even if that wasn't her strongest suit. maybe she should TRY to be friendlier. ❝ i don't think i KNOW you. ❞

[rockislandadultreads]

Cozy Christmas Romances to get into the Holiday Spirit

Home Sweet Christmas by Susan Mallery

Until Camryn Neff can return to her “real” life in Chicago, she’s in Wishing Tree to care for her twin sisters. She’s not looking for forever love, not here. But handsome hotelier Jake Crane is a temptation she can’t resist, so she suggests they pair up for the season. No golden rings, no broken hearts. At his side, she sees her hometown through Christmas-colored eyes. The cheer is cheerier, the joy more joyful. She thought she had put her future on hold…but maybe her real life was here all along, waiting for her to come home. New in town, River Best is charmed by Wishing Tree’s homespun traditions and warmhearted people. When she’s crowned Snow Queen, she’s honored but wary. Dylan Tucker, her king, seems like the stuff of sugarplum dreams, but she can’t shake the feeling that he’s hiding something big. As they perform their “royal” duties—tasting cookies, lighting trees—Dylan’s good humor and melty kisses draw her to the brink of love. But she can’t let herself fall until she uncovers his secret, even if her lack of faith means losing him forever.

A Wish for Winter by Viola Shipman

Despite losing her parents in a tragic accident just before her fourteenth Christmas, Susan Norcross has had it better than most, with loving grandparents to raise her and a gang of quirky, devoted friends to support her. Now a successful bookstore owner in a tight-knit Michigan lakeside community, Susan is facing down forty—the same age as her mother when she died—and she can’t help but see everything she hasn’t achieved, including finding a love match of her own. To add to the pressure, everyone in her small town believes it’s Susan’s destiny to meet and marry a man dressed as Santa, just like her mother and grandmother before her. So it seems cosmically unfair that the man she makes an instant connection with at an annual Santa Run is lost in the crowd before she can get his name. What follows is Susan and her friends’ hilarious and heartwarming search for the mystery Santa—covering twelve months of social media snafus, authors behaving badly and dating fails—as well as a poignant look at family, friendship and what defines a well-lived and well-loved life.

All Is Bright by RaeAnne Thayne

Sage McKnight is an ambitious young architect working at her father’s firm who takes on her most challenging client in Mason Tucker. The former pro baseball player is still healing from the physical and emotional scars after a plane crash left him a wheelchair-using single dad, and he’s determined not to let anyone breach his emotional defenses. Sage knows her work on Mason’s new home in Hope’s Crossing is her best work yet, and she won’t let her grumpy client prevent her from showcasing her work personally. With Sage’s gift for taking broken things and making them better, the matchmaking talent of the quirky locals and a generous sprinkling of Christmas cheer, Mason doesn’t stand a chance against the power of this magical holiday season.

Snowed In for Christmas by Sarah Morgan

A family gathering This Christmas the Miller siblings have one goal—to avoid their well-meaning family’s endless stream of prying questions. Ross, Alice and Clemmie have secrets that they don’t intend to share, and they are relying on each other to deflect attention. An uninvited guest Lucy Clarke is facing a Christmas alone and the prospect of losing her job. Unless she can win a major piece of business from Ross Miller, the season promises to be anything but festive. She’ll just deliver her proposal to his family home and then leave. After all, she wouldn’t want to intrude on the Miller family’s perfect Christmas. A Christmas to remember When Lucy appears on the Miller family’s snow-covered Highland doorstep, she's mistaken for Ross’s girlfriend. By the time the confusion is cleared up, they're snowed in—she can’t leave, even if she wants to! But does she want to? As secrets spill out like presents from an overstuffed stocking and the chemistry between her and Ross ignites, this is going to be either Lucy's worst Christmas ever or the best mistake of her life.