#But that's mostly because the Hulu password was changed and I keep forgetting to ask for it.

[curiousorigins]

So Stiles is probably my favorite character to read POV style in Fanfic. And I've been heavy in fandom for like 15ish years. And active in like 8 or so. Stiles really is written different than most characters and is pretty consistent in his fandom portrayal too. Because a lot the writers make the same logical leaps you'll see in the show. Where he makes a though like 10 steps ahead. It's sort of how I think.

Which I mostly know because my baby brother started making me backtrack my thoughts for him when we started hanging out more. He'd be like, "Wait, why are you talking about blah-blah? We were talking about This."

So I'd connect the thoughts so he could see that I was still technically on subject. Which is how I learned that most people don't make like 10 instant connections in like 5 seconds.

Anyways, it's way more fun to read his POV because there isn't a whole bunch of boring stuff where someone describes like a tree for like 10 pages. (Not that description is bad. I have even read some very enjoyable description despite being mostly a description skimmer. It's just something that takes more brain than I need it to. And I'm a visual thinker anyways so I already have a picture before the words describe it.)

But yeah I just gotta say TeenWolf Fandom, enjoy the way you write. Wish you guys had done more... especially now that you're probably grown and those stories have only gotten better. Out of the ones still writing them.

Off-topic but still on, I am finding Sterek (Stiles/Derek) a decent Substitute for Destiel (Dean/Castiel) fic... if you're missing that kind of dynamic but want something new. If you want something still airing and new to watch... 9-1-1 and Buck and Eddie (Buddie) is also pretty solid, if you somehow don't know of it.

[nomadicism]

Am I the only one that thinks Netflixs is gonna be bought out by a company like Disney or Amazon in a few years? They're pissing off their customer base with policies like the charging people for password sharing. People are cancelling their subscription in droves. (Half of the people in my office said they canceled theirs over it.) I think a lot of people see these changes as the last straw. While they do make a profit, they also don't have any parent company to lean on, which might bite them in the ass.

Disney is wants to dive into anime and the more "mature" market. Plus, Robert Iger is the head of the Disney company again. He bought out Fox, Star Wars, Marvel and Pixar under his reign along with more if you count the current Kodancha buyout. I can see him doing that again.

Again, this is a theory. But if they keep on this path, I don't see them being as powerful in a few years, which could lead to something like that.

Hi Anon, thank you for the ask!

I mostly agree with you here. It is hard to see a path forward for Netflix. I also think that Netflix is worth paying for, and that password sharing was always a fluke that shouldn't have been allowed to continue as long as it did. But also, they aren't going to get substantially more subscribers by discontinuing password share, people who were using shared passwords were probably unlikely to pay for the service anyway.

There are too many streaming options to choose from, and now we are back to cable costs for those who pay for multiple services.

My partner is a tremendous film and animation hound so he pays for nearly every service that's out there, except for Apple+ which comes "free" with our T-mobile plan.

If it were me, we'd only have 3 services, and would rotate them based upon what we wanted to watch in a month's subscription time. I suspect that there are many people who would do something similar, unless a service forces you to make a phone call to cancel.

We've actually been having a lot of trouble with the Disney+ and Hulu services where my partner watches those all the time, but he is constantly being prompted to sign in, and his accounts are being signed out. He has to do some extra steps with his computer whenever he wants to watch either service via our Roku device.

No problems with other services though. I suspect that Disney+ and Hulu have new bugs in their account authentication services for location and device IDs.

More rambling, so what does that mean for Netflix?

Of all the services, they are the ones with the good international content. I watch C-dramas and K-dramas to my heart's content. If I were them, I'd do more for streaming international content with good subtitling translations, and partner with Bilibili and Tencent to stream donghua (aka Chinese animation). Partnering with Bilibili and Tencent can fill an animation gap.

Those shows are so quickly and cheaply made that you've got content for years. It wouldn't be hard to dub them either. In China, these shows get millions of views. They are absolutely worth the investment of distributing via Netflix (though I don't know if Bilibili and Tencent would want to partner since they have streaming services via YouTube).

Anyway, one of the reasons why Netflix could have difficulty competing on new content and gaining new subscribers is because they've gained a reputation for axing new content due to two bad reasons:

Avoiding pay of residuals after X days (I forget the number, it's complicated because residuals are for actors and film/production crew, lots of union and guild stuff); and

Assuming that nobody is watching if the first two weeks aren't hitting X amount of streaming views. Reality there is that there is so much content spread across so many services that people can't binge a show immediately anymore, but they might watch the show later after that 2 week period (which is close to the time frame for paying residuals)

Yes, they have breakout hits like Stranger Things, but when I think of Netflix, I think of cancelled shows. That reputation plus the password sharing issue equals a loss of trust and respect. Netflix needs to compete on new content, but why bother watching a new show if it's just going to get canceled?

I believe that Netflix will do better with films instead of TV shows, because a film is one-and-done. You watch the film, get invested in the story, and then the film ends and the story is wrapped up. There is no concern about getting invested in a story that gets cancelled.

For example, Netflix has The Glass Onion: A Knives Out Mystery and have partnered with the director to make more films about Benoit Blanc. That's a very good move on their part, so I wouldn't count Netflix out just yet. Especially since people aren't really doing theaters anymore, except for big spectacle film franchises like Star Wars, Marvel, DC, etc. That creates an opportunity where Netflix can step in and work with directors for theater quality films.

Netflix is currently building a film studio in New Jersey (surprising given property taxes in that state). There is a lot of money being thrown around. Quote from the linked article:

Some of those funds are likely dedicated to building up Netflix’s handful of growing franchises. Netflix and “Stranger Things” co-creators the Duffer Brothers launched this summer a production studio that will focus on creating spin-offs for the “Stranger Things” series, among other titles. Netflix is also considering a franchise for its spy thriller feature film, “The Gray Man.” Netflix’s production ambitions aren’t limited to TV and movies, as the streamer in September announced it’s establishing its own video game studio in Finland – a move that came after Netflix completed a series of gaming-related acquisitions.

Video games huh? Well, if they've got their own IP (I assume they own Stranger Things, but I could be wrong), then it makes sense to use that IP across multiple media platforms. Video games are a viable option.

So okay, Netflix is investing in the studio production infrastructure that will enable them to create new content (and probably avoid residuals if they do what I think they will do) across multiple types of media platforms. To me, these are the actions of a company that is confident in their direction and it's a matter of whether this is too late in the streaming wars to do.

All of this means that Netflix won't be gobbled up by Disney any time soon. Disney doesn't really need them anyway, they already got Hulu and their own service with a massive catalog of Disney media plus that of all the IP they've acquired.

On the matter of other streaming platforms, what the big studios have done is pulled their back catalogs from Netflix, Hulu, etc and they have their own service built on top of that. They still need to create new content too, because not everyone is interested in paying for a service just to watch 4 decades of Star Trek.

Like I never gave a shit about Paramount, but my film-and-animation hound partner was all on board because they have the Nickelodeon catalog and he loves Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. I didn't pay much attention until I saw the ad for Tulsa King and was I like "Oh ho! Sylvester Stallone does The Sopranos in Oklahoma!? SIGN ME UP!"

The first season of Tulsa King was very enjoyable. I love Sylvester Stallone as an actor, and he is just so much fun to watch (look, I'm old and have nostalgia feels). I recommend signing up for the Paramount service for a month to watch it. But continuing the service? I dunno. Unless you really love Star Trek and want to watch decades of the show.

The crux of Netflix's problem is that we can't watch everything, and competition is fierce. Reputation matters. As we've seen with the HBO Max Discovery bullshit, these companies think nothing of removing content. It's just another financial decision for them. So we also have the issue of trying to watch shows or films (especially animated) that could easily disappear forever. And since they were intended for streaming, there is no physical media available.

What to do?

Hoist the flags mateys, for now we pirate!

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The Dos And Don’ts Of Letting Your Partner Have Your Passwords & Logins

In the age of rampant identity fraud, now more than ever, it’s become super important to keep any personal security information on the DL. Even if you’re the type of person who is super cautious with sensitive information, it can be difficult to not let horror stories involving stolen information make us all paranoid AF. But where exactly should you be drawing the line when it comes to sharing your passwords with your significant other? Should your boyfriend have your passwords?

Well, there’s obviously no right or wrong answer. On the surface, it may seem like the answer to this question simply depends on how long you and your partner have been together and how much you trust them. Unfortunately, anyone who’s been through a nasty breakup knows how quickly the tables can turn if and when you decide to part ways. When it comes down to it, a more productive question to ask yourself would be how many of your exes would you trust with sensitive information? If you’re asking me, then not many.

Although concerns about personal security vary from person to person, there are most definitely a few do’s and don’ts you should keep in mind before handing over the keys to your entire virtual life.

Do Think About The Worst Case Scenario

michela ravasio/Stocksy

I happen to think sharing access to phone and computer logins is totally fine because, assuming you don’t have anything to hide, this access is conditional. Unless you’re cohabiting the same space, then the times when your partner would be accessing these things would probably be when you are around to supervise. Also, you don’t need to get all paranoid if your partner asks for your Netflix, HBO GO, or any other login that is obviously indicative of an imminent binge-watching bender. Hell, we all know we stayed logged into that rando’s Hulu account.

But just like my mom always says, hindsight is 20/20. If you’re in relationship bliss right now, then I bet it’s probably pretty hard to imagine your partner doing something to completely psycho like logging on to your Facebook account and posting your nudes for the whole world to see. Sadly, though, this isn’t unheard of.

Before sharing the password to anything that could come back to bite you, like your social media logins, take a moment to really think about if this is someone whom you trust deeply and see yourself with for the foreseeable future. And if you were to have a nasty falling out, are they the type of person who would lash out and do something crazy? Even if you trust this person, you still may not be able to predict future situations.

Do Make Sure They Are Also Willing To Share

Marija Savic/Stocksy

If the person you’re in a relationship with is hounding you for passwords from the jump, then I’m sure I don’t have to tell you that something is definitely up. Especially if they’re at all hesitant to return the favor.

Although there’s no need to arrange a dinner to discuss each of your boundaries when it comes to personal security, I can’t think of a single reason you would want to be with anyone that hounded you about your HBO GO login, but got super stingy when you asked for their Amazon Prime Video details.

Do Change Your Passwords After A Breakup

Paul Schlemmer/Stocksy

Like I said, breakups tend to bring out the worst in people. If, for whatever reason, you gave a soon-to-be ex access to anything that they may be able to use against you, then please please don’t forget to change those passwords STAT. Honestly, if they are the impulsive type, then I’d consider changing it before you break the news that you two are no longer an item.

Also, keep in mind that it may be a good idea to keep your primary email password to yourself, mostly because who would ever want access to your email? But also because you will definitely need access to it to change any important passwords just in case your SO does a complete 180 and tries to hi-jack your email with the hopes of locking you out of all of your other accounts, which would truly be insane.

Don’t Ever Share Passwords To Your Finances

Marcel/Stocksy

I can’t think of one legitimate reason your partner would ever need access to any online banking logins. Thanks to Venmo and a bunch of other really awesome money sharing apps, it’s so easy to send and receive money. If they really want to get all up in your finances — which, unless you live together, is super weird — then suggest opening up a joint bank account.

Again, unless you live together, then I have no idea why this would be necessary, but hey. However, if, for whatever reason, they ever tried to clean out your bank account or even just “borrow” money without asking, it would be almost impossible to prove that what they did was fraud because they had access to your login information. It’s also important to realize that certain accounts that may not seem “financial” are also connected to your finances. I kid you not, one of my friend’s exes logged into her Seamless account and straight up ordered roughly $400 worth of late night snacks over the course of two months. Be careful.

Don’t Share Your Facebook Password

Urs Siedentop & Co/Stocksy

Now, opinions may be divided on this one, which is totally understandable. If you have nothing to hide, then why is giving your partner access to your social media account so terrible? I’ll tell you why. Because Facebook is way more public than you might think.

This is another situation where having access just doesn’t seem necessary. If you’re hanging out and your partner glances through your feed, no harm done. Again, this type of access is conditional on you being around to supervise. If you’re dating a jealous type who wants your Facebook login to police your activity, then this is pretty messed up and a red flag that they may have some serious control and/or trust issues.

Ultimately, it’s up to you whom you feel comfortable sharing personal security information with. But it never hurts to be cautious, especially in the early stages of a relationship. If someone is pressuring you about getting access to that don’t really need access to, regardless of how “good” their reason is, then it never hurts to be safe rather than sorry.

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The Dos And Don’ts Of Letting Your Partner Have Your Passwords & Logins

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The Dos And Don’ts Of Letting Your Partner Have Your Passwords & Logins

In the age of rampant identity fraud, now more than ever, it’s become super important to keep any personal security information on the DL. Even if you’re the type of person who is super cautious with sensitive information, it can be difficult to not let horror stories involving stolen information make us all paranoid AF. But where exactly should you be drawing the line when it comes to sharing your passwords with your significant other? Should your boyfriend have your passwords?

Well, there’s obviously no right or wrong answer. On the surface, it may seem like the answer to this question simply depends on how long you and your partner have been together and how much you trust them. Unfortunately, anyone who’s been through a nasty breakup knows how quickly the tables can turn if and when you decide to part ways. When it comes down to it, a more productive question to ask yourself would be how many of your exes would you trust with sensitive information? If you’re asking me, then not many.

Although concerns about personal security vary from person to person, there are most definitely a few do’s and don’ts you should keep in mind before handing over the keys to your entire virtual life.

Do Think About The Worst Case Scenario

michela ravasio/Stocksy

I happen to think sharing access to phone and computer logins is totally fine because, assuming you don’t have anything to hide, this access is conditional. Unless you’re cohabiting the same space, then the times when your partner would be accessing these things would probably be when you are around to supervise. Also, you don’t need to get all paranoid if your partner asks for your Netflix, HBO GO, or any other login that is obviously indicative of an imminent binge-watching bender. Hell, we all know we stayed logged into that rando’s Hulu account.

But just like my mom always says, hindsight is 20/20. If you’re in relationship bliss right now, then I bet it’s probably pretty hard to imagine your partner doing something to completely psycho like logging on to your Facebook account and posting your nudes for the whole world to see. Sadly, though, this isn’t unheard of.

Before sharing the password to anything that could come back to bite you, like your social media logins, take a moment to really think about if this is someone whom you trust deeply and see yourself with for the foreseeable future. And if you were to have a nasty falling out, are they the type of person who would lash out and do something crazy? Even if you trust this person, you still may not be able to predict future situations.

Do Make Sure They Are Also Willing To Share

Marija Savic/Stocksy

If the person you’re in a relationship with is hounding you for passwords from the jump, then I’m sure I don’t have to tell you that something is definitely up. Especially if they’re at all hesitant to return the favor.

Although there’s no need to arrange a dinner to discuss each of your boundaries when it comes to personal security, I can’t think of a single reason you would want to be with anyone that hounded you about your HBO GO login, but got super stingy when you asked for their Amazon Prime Video details.

Do Change Your Passwords After A Breakup

Paul Schlemmer/Stocksy

Like I said, breakups tend to bring out the worst in people. If, for whatever reason, you gave a soon-to-be ex access to anything that they may be able to use against you, then please please don’t forget to change those passwords STAT. Honestly, if they are the impulsive type, then I’d consider changing it before you break the news that you two are no longer an item.

Also, keep in mind that it may be a good idea to keep your primary email password to yourself, mostly because who would ever want access to your email? But also because you will definitely need access to it to change any important passwords just in case your SO does a complete 180 and tries to hi-jack your email with the hopes of locking you out of all of your other accounts, which would truly be insane.

Don’t Ever Share Passwords To Your Finances

Marcel/Stocksy

I can’t think of one legitimate reason your partner would ever need access to any online banking logins. Thanks to Venmo and a bunch of other really awesome money sharing apps, it’s so easy to send and receive money. If they really want to get all up in your finances — which, unless you live together, is super weird — then suggest opening up a joint bank account.

Again, unless you live together, then I have no idea why this would be necessary, but hey. However, if, for whatever reason, they ever tried to clean out your bank account or even just “borrow” money without asking, it would be almost impossible to prove that what they did was fraud because they had access to your login information. It’s also important to realize that certain accounts that may not seem “financial” are also connected to your finances. I kid you not, one of my friend’s exes logged into her Seamless account and straight up ordered roughly $400 worth of late night snacks over the course of two months. Be careful.

Don’t Share Your Facebook Password

Urs Siedentop & Co/Stocksy

Now, opinions may be divided on this one, which is totally understandable. If you have nothing to hide, then why is giving your partner access to your social media account so terrible? I’ll tell you why. Because Facebook is way more public than you might think.

This is another situation where having access just doesn’t seem necessary. If you’re hanging out and your partner glances through your feed, no harm done. Again, this type of access is conditional on you being around to supervise. If you’re dating a jealous type who wants your Facebook login to police your activity, then this is pretty messed up and a red flag that they may have some serious control and/or trust issues.

Ultimately, it’s up to you whom you feel comfortable sharing personal security information with. But it never hurts to be cautious, especially in the early stages of a relationship. If someone is pressuring you about getting access to that don’t really need access to, regardless of how “good” their reason is, then it never hurts to be safe rather than sorry.

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The Dos And Don’ts Of Letting Your Partner Have Your Passwords & Logins

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The Dos And Don’ts Of Letting Your Partner Have Your Passwords & Logins

In the age of rampant identity fraud, now more than ever, it’s become super important to keep any personal security information on the DL. Even if you’re the type of person who is super cautious with sensitive information, it can be difficult to not let horror stories involving stolen information make us all paranoid AF. But where exactly should you be drawing the line when it comes to sharing your passwords with your significant other? Should your boyfriend have your passwords?

Well, there’s obviously no right or wrong answer. On the surface, it may seem like the answer to this question simply depends on how long you and your partner have been together and how much you trust them. Unfortunately, anyone who’s been through a nasty breakup knows how quickly the tables can turn if and when you decide to part ways. When it comes down to it, a more productive question to ask yourself would be how many of your exes would you trust with sensitive information? If you’re asking me, then not many.

Although concerns about personal security vary from person to person, there are most definitely a few do’s and don’ts you should keep in mind before handing over the keys to your entire virtual life.

Do Think About The Worst Case Scenario

michela ravasio/Stocksy

I happen to think sharing access to phone and computer logins is totally fine because, assuming you don’t have anything to hide, this access is conditional. Unless you’re cohabiting the same space, then the times when your partner would be accessing these things would probably be when you are around to supervise. Also, you don’t need to get all paranoid if your partner asks for your Netflix, HBO GO, or any other login that is obviously indicative of an imminent binge-watching bender. Hell, we all know we stayed logged into that rando’s Hulu account.

But just like my mom always says, hindsight is 20/20. If you’re in relationship bliss right now, then I bet it’s probably pretty hard to imagine your partner doing something to completely psycho like logging on to your Facebook account and posting your nudes for the whole world to see. Sadly, though, this isn’t unheard of.

Before sharing the password to anything that could come back to bite you, like your social media logins, take a moment to really think about if this is someone whom you trust deeply and see yourself with for the foreseeable future. And if you were to have a nasty falling out, are they the type of person who would lash out and do something crazy? Even if you trust this person, you still may not be able to predict future situations.

Do Make Sure They Are Also Willing To Share

Marija Savic/Stocksy

If the person you’re in a relationship with is hounding you for passwords from the jump, then I’m sure I don’t have to tell you that something is definitely up. Especially if they’re at all hesitant to return the favor.

Although there’s no need to arrange a dinner to discuss each of your boundaries when it comes to personal security, I can’t think of a single reason you would want to be with anyone that hounded you about your HBO GO login, but got super stingy when you asked for their Amazon Prime Video details.

Do Change Your Passwords After A Breakup

Paul Schlemmer/Stocksy

Like I said, breakups tend to bring out the worst in people. If, for whatever reason, you gave a soon-to-be ex access to anything that they may be able to use against you, then please please don’t forget to change those passwords STAT. Honestly, if they are the impulsive type, then I’d consider changing it before you break the news that you two are no longer an item.

Also, keep in mind that it may be a good idea to keep your primary email password to yourself, mostly because who would ever want access to your email? But also because you will definitely need access to it to change any important passwords just in case your SO does a complete 180 and tries to hi-jack your email with the hopes of locking you out of all of your other accounts, which would truly be insane.

Don’t Ever Share Passwords To Your Finances

Marcel/Stocksy

I can’t think of one legitimate reason your partner would ever need access to any online banking logins. Thanks to Venmo and a bunch of other really awesome money sharing apps, it’s so easy to send and receive money. If they really want to get all up in your finances — which, unless you live together, is super weird — then suggest opening up a joint bank account.

Again, unless you live together, then I have no idea why this would be necessary, but hey. However, if, for whatever reason, they ever tried to clean out your bank account or even just “borrow” money without asking, it would be almost impossible to prove that what they did was fraud because they had access to your login information. It’s also important to realize that certain accounts that may not seem “financial” are also connected to your finances. I kid you not, one of my friend’s exes logged into her Seamless account and straight up ordered roughly $400 worth of late night snacks over the course of two months. Be careful.

Don’t Share Your Facebook Password

Urs Siedentop & Co/Stocksy

Now, opinions may be divided on this one, which is totally understandable. If you have nothing to hide, then why is giving your partner access to your social media account so terrible? I’ll tell you why. Because Facebook is way more public than you might think.

This is another situation where having access just doesn’t seem necessary. If you’re hanging out and your partner glances through your feed, no harm done. Again, this type of access is conditional on you being around to supervise. If you’re dating a jealous type who wants your Facebook login to police your activity, then this is pretty messed up and a red flag that they may have some serious control and/or trust issues.

Ultimately, it’s up to you whom you feel comfortable sharing personal security information with. But it never hurts to be cautious, especially in the early stages of a relationship. If someone is pressuring you about getting access to that don’t really need access to, regardless of how “good” their reason is, then it never hurts to be safe rather than sorry.

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The Dos And Don’ts Of Letting Your Partner Have Your Passwords & Logins

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The Dos And Don’ts Of Letting Your Partner Have Your Passwords & Logins

In the age of rampant identity fraud, now more than ever, it’s become super important to keep any personal security information on the DL. Even if you’re the type of person who is super cautious with sensitive information, it can be difficult to not let horror stories involving stolen information make us all paranoid AF. But where exactly should you be drawing the line when it comes to sharing your passwords with your significant other? Should your boyfriend have your passwords?

Well, there’s obviously no right or wrong answer. On the surface, it may seem like the answer to this question simply depends on how long you and your partner have been together and how much you trust them. Unfortunately, anyone who’s been through a nasty breakup knows how quickly the tables can turn if and when you decide to part ways. When it comes down to it, a more productive question to ask yourself would be how many of your exes would you trust with sensitive information? If you’re asking me, then not many.

Although concerns about personal security vary from person to person, there are most definitely a few do’s and don’ts you should keep in mind before handing over the keys to your entire virtual life.

Do Think About The Worst Case Scenario

michela ravasio/Stocksy

I happen to think sharing access to phone and computer logins is totally fine because, assuming you don’t have anything to hide, this access is conditional. Unless you’re cohabiting the same space, then the times when your partner would be accessing these things would probably be when you are around to supervise. Also, you don’t need to get all paranoid if your partner asks for your Netflix, HBO GO, or any other login that is obviously indicative of an imminent binge-watching bender. Hell, we all know we stayed logged into that rando’s Hulu account.

But just like my mom always says, hindsight is 20/20. If you’re in relationship bliss right now, then I bet it’s probably pretty hard to imagine your partner doing something to completely psycho like logging on to your Facebook account and posting your nudes for the whole world to see. Sadly, though, this isn’t unheard of.

Before sharing the password to anything that could come back to bite you, like your social media logins, take a moment to really think about if this is someone whom you trust deeply and see yourself with for the foreseeable future. And if you were to have a nasty falling out, are they the type of person who would lash out and do something crazy? Even if you trust this person, you still may not be able to predict future situations.

Do Make Sure They Are Also Willing To Share

Marija Savic/Stocksy

If the person you’re in a relationship with is hounding you for passwords from the jump, then I’m sure I don’t have to tell you that something is definitely up. Especially if they’re at all hesitant to return the favor.

Although there’s no need to arrange a dinner to discuss each of your boundaries when it comes to personal security, I can’t think of a single reason you would want to be with anyone that hounded you about your HBO GO login, but got super stingy when you asked for their Amazon Prime Video details.

Do Change Your Passwords After A Breakup

Paul Schlemmer/Stocksy

Like I said, breakups tend to bring out the worst in people. If, for whatever reason, you gave a soon-to-be ex access to anything that they may be able to use against you, then please please don’t forget to change those passwords STAT. Honestly, if they are the impulsive type, then I’d consider changing it before you break the news that you two are no longer an item.

Also, keep in mind that it may be a good idea to keep your primary email password to yourself, mostly because who would ever want access to your email? But also because you will definitely need access to it to change any important passwords just in case your SO does a complete 180 and tries to hi-jack your email with the hopes of locking you out of all of your other accounts, which would truly be insane.

Don’t Ever Share Passwords To Your Finances

Marcel/Stocksy

I can’t think of one legitimate reason your partner would ever need access to any online banking logins. Thanks to Venmo and a bunch of other really awesome money sharing apps, it’s so easy to send and receive money. If they really want to get all up in your finances — which, unless you live together, is super weird — then suggest opening up a joint bank account.

Again, unless you live together, then I have no idea why this would be necessary, but hey. However, if, for whatever reason, they ever tried to clean out your bank account or even just “borrow” money without asking, it would be almost impossible to prove that what they did was fraud because they had access to your login information. It’s also important to realize that certain accounts that may not seem “financial” are also connected to your finances. I kid you not, one of my friend’s exes logged into her Seamless account and straight up ordered roughly $400 worth of late night snacks over the course of two months. Be careful.

Don’t Share Your Facebook Password

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Now, opinions may be divided on this one, which is totally understandable. If you have nothing to hide, then why is giving your partner access to your social media account so terrible? I’ll tell you why. Because Facebook is way more public than you might think.

This is another situation where having access just doesn’t seem necessary. If you’re hanging out and your partner glances through your feed, no harm done. Again, this type of access is conditional on you being around to supervise. If you’re dating a jealous type who wants your Facebook login to police your activity, then this is pretty messed up and a red flag that they may have some serious control and/or trust issues.

Ultimately, it’s up to you whom you feel comfortable sharing personal security information with. But it never hurts to be cautious, especially in the early stages of a relationship. If someone is pressuring you about getting access to that don’t really need access to, regardless of how “good” their reason is, then it never hurts to be safe rather than sorry.

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The Dos And Don’ts Of Letting Your Partner Have Your Passwords & Logins

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