#(to think the word 'struggle' would've clued op in to what the statement was supposed to be about. because 'struggle' implies resistance) | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

coulsonlives · 11 months ago

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#not to be that guy #but I read the post as poorly worded but well intentioned #men can still struggle with internalised misogyny and working through that #think a lot of people on this post just jumps right to the 'oh so you're misogynistic?!?? a thousand deaths for all men' #can you guys at least have a little bit nuanced thinking than only barking that men are evil?? for once? #men can struggle with unlearning something they've been thought their entire life gdi #idk #just kinda think the agreessive barking is a bit...excessive

Fucking thank you for saying this

a contender for dumbest post I’ve seen on here… literally ‘let men hate women’

#this hellsite is so stupid and toxic w its lack of nuance and reading comprehension #the whole point of this post however awkwardly it's worded is that if someone is struggling w shit and trying to unlearn things #they're still deserving of love EVEN if other people aren't willing to be around em until they stop acting on those beliefs #too many peeps in their early 20s pulling this black-and-white shit and saying 'you have internalized biases! binned 4ever scum!'#and it makes me sick #contrary to the tumblr echo chamber's belief men CAN actually unlearn this shit. and be aware of it before they unlearn it.#(to think the word 'struggle' would've clued op in to what the statement was supposed to be about. because 'struggle' implies resistance)#(as in resistance to what they're experiencing and feeling. but nah. op just chose to be silly and reductive bc they wanted to rage farm)#i also checked out op's blog and they're complaining that they have to block people who are pointing the above things out #yet the post is brand new so they could've just turned off reboobs.#they're 'too lazy' to turn off reboobs which is like 3 clicks. but not too lazy to keep blocking people over and OVER again apparently.#the fact they haven't done it is kinda telling. do they want attention? validation for pointing out an imagined problem? both? idk.#but there are healthier and less manipulative ways to get attention and validation than that. trust me #misogyny #toxic masculinity #sexism #gender #gender roles

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