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cuddlytogas · 2 months ago

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i know it's mean, but sometimes i see fanart of a cis male character, and i'm just like... really? you promise me hot men, and you give me this? why is his waist so high and snatched? why are his hips so round? why does he have a perfect peach of an arse? you call this masc?

to be clear, i'm not talking about genderbends. and i know one shouldn't judge what may be a stage in someone's artistic journey, using a familiar style or practiced shapes. but for real... sometimes i feel like the only fucker in the room who actually likes men. (ignoring the frequency with which that's factually true lmao) like, i also like feminine shapes, don't get me wrong! but i thought some of us were also here for... the men...?

don't we also appreciate a flatter bum? low, slim hips? the little ditch above them, rather than an hourglass waist? the gentle line from waist to chest, the squareness of it? flat chests and broad shoulders? body hair?? bulges?? we do know it's not a crime to like these things...

... right?

#pointless post is pointless #maybe i'm just too often surrounded by lesbians sdjkghjkfadhadha #inspired by seeing yet another stede fanart with a high hourglass waist and round hips and V-shaped crotch lmao #this isn't even touching how some ppl shrink noses and angle jawlines and remove double chins/belly fat/wrinkles/saggy arms etc etc #racism/fatphobia/anti-ageing/twinkification happens to all genders and is always a crime #it is wild though #especially re: ofmd fandom where i guess the gentlebeardies have decided that only sick twisted canyonites like [check notes] gay men #(also not getting into the related ''i'm a bi woman but don't worry i don't ACTUALLY like men haha'' shit i keep seeing)#(and the worryingly direct line from ''lmao men suck'' -> bioessentialism -> terfs)#(tbh keeping this light-hearted is really difficult dskjghdsfgks i keep veering off into Discourse but i don't wanna get into it XD)#(tl;dr tho: gentlebeardies stop projecting traditional heterosexual dynamics on gay couples challenge 17kforever 🙃)

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