#(girl u haven't been able to schedule a time to travel five minutes to see me in the past TWO YEARS!!! | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

pinktinselmonstrosity · 1 year ago

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ok so if i can't tell the truth about how i feel because that's mean and i can't be passive agressive then literally what is left. how do i communicate that she has hurt me and that it hurts more that she doesn't even seem to realise it without either sounding like a complete bitch or a petty bitter bitch........

#YES this is the same friend #just texted me like ''oh i'm so sorry i never let u know when i was free'' (she has had literally three months to do this)#''i've just been so busy :('' (she's been meeting up with other people constantly)#''when do you move to [REDACTED]? i've been meaning to go there so maybe it would be a shout''#(girl u haven't been able to schedule a time to travel five minutes to see me in the past TWO YEARS!!!#as IF you're going five hours on the fucking train all the way to [REDACTED]!!!!!)#that's what i WANT to say to her #but my mind is going NO be nice #and the next step down from that is saying something like ''oh i'd love to meet up but you'd probably be busy......#.....wouldn't want to take up any time in your packed schedule''#but then my brain again goes NO that's bad passive agressive is BAD #but i do want her to know how she has made me feel #an added layer of complexity is that she has had bad mental health issues and can be quite fragile #which i understand (i understand) but i don't think that should mean nobody ever gets to criticise you #🧃

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