#( i'm not kidding i've ACTUALLY had people in and outside the rpc do that with me and my reaction every time is just like. ://// )

[riptozier]

( sometimes i remember i'm only 22 and i feel like such a baby afljksdfh )

[rpbetter]

Nope, I'm definitely not driving people out of the RPC. If I had that power, I'd use it to make people behave like decent human beings out in the real world.

I wasn't even around for 99.99% of this entire, stunning show of a circlejerk, and I actually have no idea who inhowen is. It seems like, years ago before I stopped interacting with COAR on my RP blog the first time around, I disagreed pretty heatedly with them on a confession we both took in drastically different directions. Gotta say, weirdly, neither of us were stalked, harassed, or calledout at that time. Could've been someone else though, I've disagreed with a lot of folks in the RPC over a lot of years, and it isn't like I can go recognize that icon now lol

In fucking fact, y'all damn buffoonery with their url is how both myself and the Apparently Infamous Rules Mun found out about all of this drama. For real lmao if you hadn't run them off their blog and assumed it in order to keep making fun of them, like the superb showing of maturity and having a life offline is truly shining from your asses on that one, I'd not have needed to go digging into all of this to verify whomst the fuck inhowen was, thus uncovering this actual single act circus of yours.

Once again, y'all have done this to yourselves.

And y'all are just keeping it going with this dramafest.

I'm going to say it one more time: neither I nor anyone I am friends with even knew you existed until you screamed and shit yourselves so badly last week. You're still doing it. It didn't bother any of you that you have been, and continue to, harass autistic, mentally ill, suicidal, psychotic, I could keep going muns. Conveniently, it's just your friend Raven. The only suicidal autistic on the whole of tumblr. You literally do not know anyone here or what they're going through, especially those who do not openly post about it, and absolutely fucking nothing gives you the right to arbitrarily decide who is a "freak" worthy of being run out of the RPC. No one is holding you at knife point making you write OMG NOES dubcon with them lmao holy hell kids!

Really fair chance that the RPC is just sick to death of this kind of bullshit and the attention drawn to Raven (through her own doing) was exactly that. I'm never for harassing anyone; I've said a million times, if you want to have it out with each other on the dash or in PM/DM, go for it, pull no punches even, but harassment via anons and whatnot is never acceptable. If I had been both around and aware of what she was claiming (unlike everyone else, the evidence isn't exactly glaring, I'm sorry), I would have posted about how inappropriate that was. You'd have gotten a post on how it's not solving anything to act out the same behaviors, at least attach your names for shit's sake.

When you, especially having any platform to speak of, behave in the way all of you have? You are begging the RPC to attack you for it. This is no longer the environment for this behavior, and I'm sorry that this was discovered in too harsh a way.

I'd still love to know what that apology was supposed to mean to a mun who has been blocked and fully disinterested outside of joking here and there on their own blog about not wanting to ruin any of your lives by updating their rules since APRIL??? That's a performative apology, folks! Meant purely to stop the pressure on you. Some of us aren't involved in your nonsense or subverting blocks, so how was that mun even to know there was a useless public apology? That even I couldn't share because it was deleted by the time I noticed any of this. Playing yourselves right off your own blogs isn't anyone else fault.

No one apologized to that mun.

No one asked them for clarification.

No one even let them know what all was going on.

Y'all could've done any one of those things, you never know; maybe if they were aware, or Raven had messaged them (and I do not mean coming out of the gate sideways being a dick either, no one has to speak nicely to you if you're going to attack them), they could have posted something. Reblogged something from Raven's blog to that end. Got this to die down far sooner and nicer than it did by showing that they did not approve of the anons. But you were all so invested in your degraded moral high ground that you couldn't do that. Your vested interest is quite apparent.

So, yes, PLEASE! I am begging you, if you are involved in this sphere of RPers, block me. There is no place for you over here, so, there's no need to do anything other than block me :)

Enjoy the wages of your hatefulness, remember the grass is plush, and you're not a tiny helpless baby without consequences as adults.

[twangs banjo]

When you start so much drama in the RPC that it ends up in full-out callout blogs being created, multiple users being so harassed that they delete, it all ends up including - at minimum - six RP blogs being harassed and the involvement of three resource blogs, one vent blog, and at least three totally uninvolved parties trying to approach you peacefully to put an end to it, but you seriously believe vague "apologies" on your blog and continuing to keep an inflammatory post up (I didn't reblog that from anywhere other than the source, I suppose I could have screenshot it, but being an adult trying to speak to another adult that seemed ridiculous and in poor taste) is an expression of remorse and acknowledgment.

That's a perfect example of how we shouldn't conduct ourselves in the RPC. Thank you for that.

Being mature enough to personally apologize to everyone you've caused months of unnecessary mental health drops, anon hate, ruined safe spaces, et cetera for is the advice to the rest of the community interested in maintaining an enjoyable, peaceable place to roleplay. Everyone makes mistakes, let us remember it is how we handle them that matters most.

That and liberally blocking irresponsible purveyors of drama, of course. Absolutely my mistake for being the third or fourth person to appeal to better judgments when they demonstratively do not exist.