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pageofheartdj · 2 months ago

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You know it's annoying how people accept gender being a complex thing. How the way you identify and the way you present are not the same. How complicated and fluid your gender can be.

And then turn around and deny ALL of it for sexuality. That sexuality is binary and strict.

#queer #'yes you can be masc presenting trans woman NO you cant be aro and date'#'yes you can trans by being girl most of the time and sometimes biy NO you cant be ace because of grey fluidity'#you know what fuck you all aplatonic are queer too gnc are queer too #(if they feel like it)#queer is about FUCK you socity for dictating what normal and not normal is #sometimes you are queer for how you are born and sometimes you are queer for how you live #queer is messy not the way society demands human identity to be #so once again FUCK YOU for reinforcing the same toxic suffocating ideas #FUCK YOU #yes i am angry #i am pissed off at people who supposed to know how shitty it is to be judged by who you are #to be pushed in one box only and cutting pieces off that do not fit #and then DO THE EXACT SAME THING #i KNOW queerness is complex #that it takes time to learn what being trans is what sexuality is how different kinds of attraction works #how society norms on what gender is supposed to be is bullshit #how society norms on how we are supposed to interact with each other is bullshit #but the VERY first rule should be to keep an open mind #something feels conflicting and off?#RESEARCH FIRST #learn more to figure out that its not all that simple and there are experiences beyond your comprehension #your first instinct should NOT be to hit WTFUCK

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