#'can you pick up Richas from school please?'

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Au where Cellbit kills Abueloier, and in an attempt to save his marriage he makes a deal with Satan to bring him back before Roier notices.

So now Satan is his roommate and he's supposed to help her acclimate to the mortal realm, even though she seems to know what she's doing (becoming a pop star).

[gyanpoint]

Train yourself to see good

Kimberly Dias

Hi Kimberly, 

I have been feeling a little low these days. Anything I set out to do never seems to go my way. And when I feel like I might have reached a tiny bit of success, I am immediately swooped right back down as it is never good enough for the others around me. I’m beginning to doubt all my abilities and seriously question if there is something wrong with me. Why can’t I do anything right or anything well? Am I missing something?

Dan 

  Dear Dan, 

Thank you for writing in and discussing your current situation with me. Nothing hurts like being told your best is not good enough, but that doesn’t mean you are not good enough. If people try to bring you down, it only means that you are already above them. You may not be ‘the star’ but that shouldn’t stop you from putting on a show, right? Even the sun has a sinking spell every night but comes right back up in the morning. Shift your thoughts from all the things you’re doing wrong to all the things you’re doing right and make you feel good. Use your own ruler to measure and not anyone else’s yardstick. When you start seeing your worth, you will find it harder to stay around people who don’t.

Life doesn’t come with instructions, so mistakes are our best teachers. Learning from them makes us better and it is proof that you are trying. Things don’t always go as planned. So every time you feel rejected from something good, you are probably just being redirected to something even better. Everyday is a second chance and happiness is often a decision. Once you choose to be happy and choose hope, anything is possible. Set goals for yourself, think positive thought. Praise yourself for the little things you do right and find ways to better things that didn’t go right. Remember if you want to reach a place, you have to keep going. Accept yourself for who you are and be your own kind of different. You are fabulous, unique and beautiful that way! Shine on.

Kimberly

  Dear Kimberly, 

I’ve often had very mean teachers who bully and insult me very often. They often take out their own frustrations on other students. I’m an average student but recently the aggressive behaviour of my teachers is starting to affect me mentally and my grades. Can you please help me deal with my teacher? What are some methods I could use besides talking to him directly? Is there any way I can enjoy his class without approaching it with fear?

Richa 

Dear Richa, 

Thank you for your email and for sharing your predicament with me. Nobody looks good by trying to make others look bad. If people throw rocks at you, pick them up and build something with it. The struggle you are in today is only developing the strength you need for tomorrow.  I bet you wish your teachers would be more careful and sensitive in what they say. People can be mean. As hard as it is, try not to take it personally. Their words and actions say nothing about you but a lot about them. Most people who are unhappy with themselves find it difficult to be happy with others. Stress also causes people to behave in ways that are often unacceptable or inappropriate. This could be one of the reasons your teacher is venting out his frustration. You could try examining what frustrates him in the classroom and probably find ways to reduce that. Have you ever tried asking him if he is alright as you’ve noticed a change or find him very stressed? Or even asking if you can help with anything? Keep in mind that eventually the problem lies with him, not you. You may not be able to control every situation or its outcome but you can control your attitude and how you deal with it. Train your mind to see the good in every situation. Don’t let their anger and negativity come in the way of your success. Your reaction has the power to change the situation itself. Stay focused. Life is tough but so are you. All the best.

Kimberly 

  Those who spend time looking for faults in others usually make no time to correct their own. ‘Be kind to unkind people. They need it the most’- Buddha

Do keep writing in with any queries you may have at ask.kimberly@yahoo.com

Until next time, stay hopeful.

  (The columnist is psychologist and counsellor, currently working as a school counsellor.)

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