#'but i cant block from sideblogs' yes u can lol

[kidfur]

the thing i hate about dnis is that its caused people to have this attitude that people need to curate their online experience for them. i have to constantly be worried that ill get hate for violating dnis that are vague and i dont even understand. i wish we could go back to just blocking people who dont like, instead of expecting people to be able to magically figure out someones boundaries

yea for sure.. people r only responsible for themselves, i hate the idea that if we interact with someone who doesnt like us, its OUR fault? but like. interaction on tumblr, at least when it comes to liking and reblogging random posts, is such a Whatever social action. its like standing in the same line for a sandwich or something. its not the same as going "hi i am in your personal bubble now :3" its really not a big deal. so idk why people make it a big deal instead of just blocking people or *gasp* not obsessively checking the blogs of everyone who interacts with them!