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sonechkaandthedynamos · 1 year ago

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i'm rewatching satc and i don't understand why carrie is seen as the only villain in her relationship with aidan for cheating on him, when he imposes his life onto hers without consulting anything with her, behaves like an asshole to her when he willingly gets back together with her and practically kicks her out (!!!) of her apartment when she doesn't want to marry him when he feels like it. just like mr big, he's the one making all the decisions for her and escalating their relationship on his own and carrie is the villain??

#sex and the city #satc #i love that show #one of the reasons why it's great is bc of how well rounded the main characters are #so sometimes the are good to each other #sometimes they behave carelessly #and sometimes they do bad things with good intentions #or sometimes it's a mix of all of the above #none of them are perfect or wickedly horrible #so when people go: 'carrie is a bad friend and samantha is a good friend'#'aidan is an angel and mr big is a monster'#they're missing the point imo #and i am doing the same in this post just the other way around #i know #also samantha is horrible to her friends sometimes and carrie is a very good friend a lot of the time so

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