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use the co star site to learn your muse’s star chart !

☉ SUN LEO TENTH HOUSE

The sun determines your ego, identity, and "role" in life. It's the core of who you are, and is the sign you're most likely to already know. Your Sun is in Leo, meaning you are fundamentally bold and proud. You love attention and to be cared for. You pay it back in kind with your charm and your ability to make people feel better when they're blue. You know what your skills are and how to use them. It's in your tenth house, meaning you feel the need to distinguish yourself from others through goals, success, and responsibility.

↑ ASCENDANT SCORPIO FIRST HOUSE

Your ascendant is the "mask" you present to people. It can be seen in your personal style and how you come off to people when you first meet. Some say it becomes less relevant as you get older. It changes every two hours, so if it doesn't make sense, reconfirm your birth time to be sure. Your Ascendant is in Scorpio, meaning you come across as passionate, incisive, cunning, strategic, and perceptive. Your intense and tenacious drive comes off as intimidating and powerful if not malicious or aggressive.

☽  MOON PISCES,  FIFTH HOUSE

The moon rules your emotions, moods, and feelings. This is likely the sign you most think of yourself as, since it reflects your personality when you're alone or deeply comfortable. Your Moon is in Pisces, meaning your emotional self is empathetic, dreamy, sensitive, and gentle. You feel vulnerable much of the time, and desperately wish for a partner who deeply understands you. It's in your fifth house, meaning you find security and safety through romance, self-expression, creativity, and pleasure.

☿️ MERCURY ARIES,  SIXTH HOUSE

Mercury determines how you communicate, talk, think, and process information. It also indicates how you learn. It is the mind's planet. Your Mercury is in Aries, meaning your intellect is quick, independent, impatient, energetic, and direct. You think fast and start conversations with enthusiasm. You're likely to yell.  It's in your sixth house, meaning you are curious about and inclined to analyze your productivity, how to help people, and your emotional wellbeing.

♀ VENUS SCORPIO,  FIRST HOUSE

Venus determines how and what you love. It indicates how you express affection and the qualities you're attracted to. Your Venus is in Scorpio, meaning your romantic side is mysterious, passionate, and seductive. The intense depths of your devotion make for a mad and boundless love, though they may sometimes mutate into suspicion, jealousy, and cruelty, making your love life somewhat tumultuous. It's in your first house, meaning that for you, love is often expressed in your self and self-image—and, because it's your first house, your Venus in Scorpio is hyper-present in your personality.

♂ MARS AQUARIUS,  FOURTH HOUSE

Mars is the planet of aggression. It determines how you assert yourself, take action, and the energy that surrounds you—particularly in your sex life, your ambitiousness, and when you're angry. Your Mars is in Aquarius, meaning you assert yourself in a way that is unconventional and eccentric, and you push things forward with unique independence. It's in your fourth house, meaning you put a lot of energy into your home and family.

tagged: @shamsgoddess (bestie bless you i love astrology sm and put a lot of work into piecing together stella’s chart) tagging: @paintedragcn , @foxflew , @empathiques (any of your muses babes), @whiskeyslullaby​ (any muse you’re feeling bestie), @lightcreators (for peter)

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WHAT TYPE OF “I LOVE YOU” ARE YOU?

i love you, i’ve always loved you, i will always love you

it’s commitment, it’s devotion, it goes often without saying, but is felt nonetheless. it’s accepting that you would travel to hell and back for them if they asked and knowing that they would do the same for you. it’s an old ache, long after they’ve burrowed deep into your chest and settled there like a weight- grounding, an anchor point. even when you’re apart, you can still feel the shape of them, it’s like phantom pain. neither of you can help but succumb to the other’s gravity, yet neither of you fear the collision. it means that you trust them, that they make you feel safe, that they feel like home.

tagged by: @marvclsiums (thank you!!) tagging:  @foxflew @stahcys @lcstupstate @empathiques 

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what herb are you ?

Thyme 

 Anxiety is your middle name. You need to check in with other people or beliefs when you take a step because the world is dark and you are so small, so fragile, and you've been hurt so many times before. You were bullied or hurt before, by people you trusted or people you loved, and despite all that you find yourself stumbling into other people, into bandaged trust because all you want is to be secure, loved, safe, supported. But maybe instead you long to be loved, long to find solace in the arms of someone else but can't bare to draw near enough to anyone long enough to feel safe and ache, ache, ache for company. The world is dark and you're so lonely it hurts sharper than any wound. How can you trust when it's all be shattered so many times before? How do you trust yourself when you've let so many in? You are a thousand contradictions, a thousand bits and pieces picked up along the way and maybe even this doesn't sound right, maybe nothing sounds right. You are so lonely and so afraid and you just want to be safe. Secure. Loved. You're so tired of being afraid.

stolen from: @monogramic  tagging: @foxflew @beenhappier​ @stahcys && you !

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WHAT’S YOUR RED FLAG

daddy or mommy issues haha

tagged by: @marvclsiums​ tagging: @foxflew @washope @lcstupstate @paintedragcn

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ᴡʜᴀᴛ ᴛᴀʀᴏᴛ ᴄᴀʀᴅ ᴀʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ?

The Lovers

Your lover’s back does not look quite the same this morning. No one else would notice the difference, if there even is a difference, but you could swear they have more vertebrae than usual. Something in the breathing, as you stare at them in the morning light. The light in the kitchen is just as warm as it always is, the coffee just as hot, but you cannot meet your lover’s eyes. They kiss you on the forehead, go off to work, shake their keys on the way out as they always do. Did they eat anything this morning? Did they speak? Of course they did. You’re probably losing your mind. You would call your friends to ask, if you had any friends left. You don’t, of course, haven’t for months. You only need each other. You only need them. You haven’t spoken to anyone in months. You count the notches on their back. You watch them breathe. You pray they don’t turn around.

tagged by: @marvclsiums​

tgging:  @washope // @stahcys // @lcstupstate​ // @beenhappier​ // you !

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𝚆𝙷𝙰𝚃   𝙿𝙰𝚁𝚃   𝙾𝙵   𝚃𝙷𝙴   𝙷𝙰𝚄𝙽𝚃𝙴𝙳   𝙷𝙾𝚄𝚂𝙴   𝙰𝚁𝙴   𝚈𝙾𝚄   ?

the mirror

   What do you see today? Better yet, what don’t you see today? Probably the same as yesterday, right? Everything at once and nothing at all. You know the face looking back at you enough to know that it is not your own, whatever that means. You’ve learned by now that your face is irrelevant, one that takes a backseat to the ones that come to you every day, asking you to show them lies. You don’t, of course, you are an amalgamation of all the faces looking back at you, a reflection of themselves. There is nothing but truth in that. Don’t take it too personally, then, when they scream in your face and take off running. You show them what they show you: who they are. It’s something you can relate to, isn’t it? Not being able to confront yourself face-to-face.

tagged by:  @monogramic  tagging:  @paintedragcn  //  @washope //  @lcstupstate​

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𝐰𝐡𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐮𝐧𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞?

you just want it too badly

you love with your whole body, it's not bad, but it's overwhelming. sometimes giving others space can be okay, i know you're scared of losing them but it will be better in the long run if you also learn how to be your own person. codependency is scary, but you are brave.

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𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐠𝐚𝐳𝐞 𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐞?

when they're unaware 

   they don't always see you. but that's a good thing. this is when you love them most. when they are so absorbed in their thoughts you can just sit there and enjoy them existing. it's the way they move through the world which made you fall in love. the grace with which they walk their path. the stubbornness. the dedication. they know their place in the universe and somehow, that makes you feel a little more confident in your existence too. they know who and what they are and there is nothing more beautiful to you than the ability to witness it all. in the simple things and the big things. the expressions they make when they think no one is looking. the way they laugh when they're not holding back. the little swears under their breath for no one but themselves. you love it all and you want to spend the rest of your life being their life's witness.

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𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐜𝐨����𝐨𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮?

𝐨𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐫

     Orange characters are charismatic and talented. They push themselves to be the best at everything they put their mind to, and get upset when they can’t meet their own standards. They tend to be prodigies, seeming almost superhuman in their genius or abilities, but they often base their self-worth off of how well they can perform, making them feel isolated from the others around them. 

     While most people see orange characters as cocky and self-absorbed, they are actually quite insecure in themselves. They want attention and validation from others, but because of their faux confidence and the constant (and often somewhat empty) praise from the people around them, the people that are truly closest to them often withhold it from them. This often leads them to push themselves beyond their limits to succeed and/or act out in unhealthy and self-destructive ways, in an effort to get some kind of recognition. 

     These characters seek to impress, and have a hard time telling praise from love. They have a constant need to be the hero, in whatever context that means for them. These characters usually have a sense of humor and wit that can tend to flatter themselves (although much of what they say is rooted in truth), but it’s contrasting to some of their more self-deprecating natures. They can be serious loners, since they isolate themselves from others in an attempt to protect themselves. Although they would never admit it, they crave acceptance and belonging. Others generally don’t see this, because orange characters are loathe to admit weakness and build up defenses by making it clear that they don’t care what others think, although they do. 

     In childhood, it is likely that their parental figures were either absent or abusive, often holding them up to high standards while not providing enough positive reinforcement. Other characters need to treat orange characters not as an annoyance, or give up on them quickly, but to make it clear that they are willing to love and support them regardless of how useful they can be, and to voice compliments where they are due.

TAGGING: @paintedragcn , @sensesdialed , @obsehrves ,  @spidermama , @madewebs , @empathiques​ (for anyone you’d like), @sacredslaycd​ , @foxflew , @shamsgoddess and YOU!

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STUDY   :   PRINCESS STELLA  AIGLE OF SOLARIA TAGGED BY    :  @paintedragcn​

—    BASICS.

▸     IS    YOUR    MUSE    TALL    /    SHORT    /    AVERAGE ?   tall. girl is 5′10″ without her heels, and usually a solid 6′-6′1″ with heels

▸      ARE    THEY    OKAY    WITH    THEIR    HEIGHT ?    most of the time, yes. there are times where she gets self conscious about it, given that she was mocked for it in her preteen years.

▸      WHAT’S    THEIR    HAIR    LIKE ?    naturally it’s thick and frizzy. stella spends a fair amount (read: an OBSESSIVE amount) of time straightening it and using a bunch of different products to keep it looking sleek and shiny as it does. 

▸     DO    THEY    SPEND    A    LOT    OF    TIME    ON    THEIR    HAIR     /    GROOMING ?    yes. an obscene amount of time. not only researching/looking into the best hair care products, but also waking up early to straighten it/having a LONG haircare routine during the nights. 

▸      DOES   YOUR   MUSE   CARE   ABOUT   THEIR   APPEARANCE   /   WHAT    OTHERS    THINK ?    yes. she cares more than she’ll ever admit. while there’s a lot of things she HATES about herself, from personality to the way her brain works, her appearance is something stella has control over. she isn’t insecure about her looks anymore, the way she was in middle school with her frizzy hair, glasses, and gawky frame. she’s grown into herself, and she’s confident about her appearance because she puts so much time and effort into it. but in stella’s mind, her appearance is one of the only good things about her: she’s nothing more than a pretty face.

—    PREFERENCES.

▸     INDOORS    OR    OUTDOORS ?    indoors ▸     RAIN    OR    SUNSHINE ?    sunshine ▸     FOREST    OR    BEACH ?    beach ▸     PRECIOUS    METALS    OR    GEMS ?   precious metals ▸     FLOWERS    OR    PERFUMES ?    flowers ▸     PERSONALITY    OR    APPEARANCE ?   personality ▸    BEING    ALONE    OR    BEING    IN    A    CROWD ?    being in a crowd ▸    ORDER    OR    ANARCHY ?   anarchy ▸     PAINFUL    TRUTHS    OR    WHITE    LIES ?   white lies ▸    SCIENCE    OR    MAGIC ?    magic ▸    PEACE    OR    CONFLICT ?    peace ▸     NIGHT    OR    DAY ?    day ▸     DUSK    OR    DAWN ?   dawn ▸    WARMTH    OR    COLD ?    warmth ▸     MANY   ACQUAINTANCES    OR    A    FEW    CLOSE    FRIENDS ?   a few close friends ▸     READING    OR    PLAYING    A    GAME ?  playing a game

—    QUESTIONNAIRE.

▸      WHAT    ARE    SOME    OF    YOUR    MUSE’S    BAD    HABITS ?    where to begin. the first is probably insecurity; despite the confident front stella puts up, she sees herself as easily replaceable. pepper in the fact that people walk in and out of her life consistently....girl has abandonment issues galore that translate into feeling threatened. both when it comes to friendships and relationships. she gets jealous and irrational easily, and is very possessive of the people she considers hers. another is her inability to open up and be vulnerable: neither radius nor luna really taught stella how to handle her emotions. so when it comes to emotions, stella bottles them up and deflects with humor. that can make getting to know her difficult. and it also causes her to blow up over small things sometims, since she’s swallowed her emotions and eventually there’s a straw that breaks the camel’s back and the damn breaks. there’s honestly quite a few more lmao. 

▸      HAS    YOUR    MUSE    LOST    ANYONE    CLOSE    TO    THEM ?      HOW    HAS    IT    AFFECTED    THEM ?    not through death, but she lost both of her parents emotionally from a young age. radius and luna had their own issues, and stella often got caught in the middle. as much as she loves them, and as much as she knows they love her, she also knows that they let her down when she needed them. it’s part of why she’s as emotionally closed off; the people who were supposed to care about how she felt...never really did. she’s learned to swallow her own feelings. she also blames herself for the divorce, because if she could’ve been a better kid, if she could have helped them the way she’s helped other fairies find love, if she had worked harder, if she’d just done more...the thoughts go on endless. also, radius and luna both pulling away emotionally left stella feeling like she wasn’t worth sticking around for: the fact she was never really able to keep a solid friendship pre-winx doesn’t help that feeling. 

▸      WHAT    ARE    SOME    FOND    MEMORIES    YOUR    MUSE    HAS ?   the first time the girls had a sleepover is one of her fondest memories. when it comes down to it, so many of her fond memories revolve around her girls && brandon; the first people who really made her feel like she had a family. from movie nights with bloom to star watching with brandon to karaoke nights with musa, tutoring sessions with tecna, dancing with aisha, watching flora bring gorgeous flowers to life, stella treasures each and every memory she’s created with her family. even if they argue from time to time, even if they get annoyed with each other, stella TRUSTS each and every one of the girls with her life.

▸     IS    IT    EASY    FOR    YOUR    MUSE    TO    KILL ?   depends on the circumstance. stella’s moral compass is fairly lax: the only reason she’s in the whole saving the world business is because her girls are and she’s loyal to a fault. we’ve seen more than once that she’s frustrated by the responsibility faragonda gives them time and time again, and honestly? she would let the world burn if she knew her people would be okay. as for getting her own hands bloody by choice rather than passively letting it happen ... stella isn’t necessarily opposed to the idea. if it’s a case of killing someone to save the world, she’ll do it. and if it’s a case of someone who has hurt the people she cares about? well she’s ready to kill to defend her people. 

▸      WHAT’S    IT    LIKE    WHEN    YOUR    MUSE    BREAKS    DOWN ?   like the world’s come to standstill. it feels so goddamn wrong when stella’s finally hit her limit, when her bubbly carefree facade comes tumbling down. it’s silence, stillness, at first. like she hasn’t quite processed what’s happened. distant, very few words, going over and over and over things in her own head. slowly that’ll build to either anger or despair, depending on what brought the breakdown. when it’s anger, stella will storm out and seek alone time. lets her thoughts consume her, finds somewhere to destroy things and physically get that anger out. yelling until her throat’s gone raw and her hands ache. when it’s despair, the tears start slow but grow quicker and heavier, until she can’t breathe and her glass heart is shattering; it hurts to blink, it hurts to breathe, it hurts to exist. after either, the numbness settles in again. a distance, until she can force those emotions back into her little box, fake a smile, crack a joke, and pretend she’s perfectly fine again. 

▸      IS    YOUR    MUSE    CAPABLE    OF    TRUSTING    SOMEONE    WITH    THEIR    LIFE ?    before the winx? no, not in the least. stella has Trust IssuesTM. the girls are the only exception, given she’s put her life in their hands more than once. she’s also more than willing to give her life for any of them, without hesitation. 

▸      WHAT’S    YOUR    MUSE    LIKE    WHEN    THEY’RE    IN    LOVE ?   bestie is a scorpio venus, LMAO. but seriously, stella is very all or nothing when it comes to love. when she loves, she loves with every single piece of her mosiac heart; once she chooses someone they’re stuck with her. while she’s quick to react and jealous, she’s also overly forgiving and willing to overlook bad traits. she loves in GRAND GESTURES as much as she loves in intimate details. both “here’s two thousand dollars worth of gifts i know you’ve been eyeing but wouldn’t get yourself” and “let me give you a massage, i know you’ve been stressed recently.” she works hard to meet her partners needs, and often goes over the top to spoil them. she’s also very, very, very defensive of the people she loves: she’s willing to both kill for and die for them without blinking.

tagging : anyone who wants to do it !

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𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐟𝐥𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐮𝐥?

vanilla  oh heart of ice and mind of gold, what am I to do with you? you are only good in small amounts, bittersweet fledgling, you are hard for most to swallow. your spirit is strong, your wit is potent, your biting essence drives even the most daring away. but why are you hiding your sweetness? I know within you, you are soft, but humanity has made you bitter. you mask your pain and sorrow with spite and sensibility. you say you do not care about trivial things, but don't you? sweetheart relax. you can let down your drawbridge, the waters are not poisoned. I know you have looked monsters in between the eyes and scoffed at them, but please, relax. you think your armor protects you but it is smothering you slowly. little owlet, when will you learn, words can only get you so far? feelings are what makes this world pulse. do not suppress your feelings. your heart can still thaw my dear. trust.

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𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐚𝐠𝐞?

PEACOCK

Key words: gifts, doting, devotion. A crazy love that makes you want to tell every stranger you meet about it! Your love is wild and extravagant. You feel most loved when you're being showered in the attention of choice. You're a unique person, and you deserve to feel that way by the people you adore! You show your love by making the recipient feel as if they are the most treasured person in your life. Best matched with: Peacock, Mulberry, Scarlet

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𝑯𝑶𝑾   𝑫𝑶   𝒀𝑶𝑼   𝑻𝑹𝑨𝑮𝑰𝑪𝑨𝑳𝑳𝒀   𝑫𝑰𝑬  ?

Self-Sacrifice to Save Everyone

The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few. You knew your death would save countless others, and you were willing to accept that. You went out like a hero, and you will be remembered as one by those whose lives outweighed yours.

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─      YOUR   FIVE   LOVE   LANGUAGES.  

Receiving Gifts      30% Acts of Service      27% Physical Touch      27% Quality Time      10% Words of Affirmation      6%

Receiving Gifts

Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to you of someone else's love and affection for you.

Acts of Service

Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. When others serve you out of love (and not obligation), you feel truly valued and loved.

Physical Touch

A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and love to you.

Quality Time

In Quality Time, nothing says “I love you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes you feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else or doing activities together, you deepen your connection with others through sharing time.

Words of Affirmation

Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important— hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten. You thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build you up.

Stole from: @foxflew​ Tagging: YOU!!

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WHAT FLAVOR IS YOUR SOUL?

honey

“sugared mel e lingua serpentis.” sugared honey from a serpent’s tongue. oh dearest, look how you gleam. how the sunlight dances off your shoulders, how the heavens shine across your wingtips. but you are hollow, hollow, hollow. even the taste of nectar can choke a man. sometimes the sweetest flowers hide the sharpest poison. you lie to yourself, the worst lie of all. you needn’t be so obsessed with perfect. the greatest beauty lies in our faults. do you think the moon apologizes for their mara? no, their craters add to their glow. my dear, breathe. you are not an island, breathe, before the honey drowns you. you wish to be lovely, you long to be loved. but did aphrodite trade her powers for perfection? she did not. you can be beautiful, and also whole. be whole above anything else dear. a heart of diamonds is worth nothing if inchor oozes from it. inward. look within and question how well do you know yourself? little petal are you trying to be a god? why? can a god bloom from sullen soil? no. you are whole as you are.

tagged by: @monogramic​ tagging: you ! 

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WHICH SCOOBY DOO CHARACTER ARE YOU?

Daphne Blake

   oh my god. you are so, so much. people might think you're vain and shallow, but you have more brain and talent than they give you credit for. people trust you really easily. you are a focal point of everywhere you go. you struggle to be seen as more than a pretty face. get some self esteem bestie. please relax. you are super giving though and you favor others growth above yours.

TAGGED BY: @marvclsiums (thank you!!) TAGGING: you ! (also @isdeathlystill​ for berry)