#“please be mindful” like you're not being a wholeass fat phobe

[dragonnarrative-writes]

Hi, I intend for this to be very rude and offensive to anon. I fully expect hate for it. Kissy faces and all that.

Most people stick to petite girls in reader fiction because of racism and fatphobia. If anyone is actually curious about this, let me know and I'll expand. This post isn't about culture, though, this is about you, Anon.

Anon, just say that you're afraid to take up space. Just say that you can't relate to a fantasy of being loved no matter what. Just say you think fat bodies, soft bodies, big bodies, hairy bodies, bodies that aren't always squeaky clean and above reproach are unlovable. Just say that you think that anyone who isn't "the right kind of fat" doesn't deserve to even have the fantasy of being desirable.

Just say that your fantasy of any of these CoD men is that they are weak, insecure man-babies. Just say that you cannot fathom the idea that a man -EVEN A MADE UP, 100% FICTIONAL MAN - is capable of being secure enough in himself that he could love someone who takes up space. Just admit that your ideas of sex and sexuality are limited to what purity culture has deemed "acceptable" and the idea of seeing or BEING anything else fills you with shame and disgust.

Admit that you actively and loudly seek out content that fills you with disgust because you don't know how to focus on things that make you feel good. You can't stand to see other people having a good time because that means your good time isn't "special enough." You think that everything should cater to your world view because anything else makes you feel lost and (ironically) small.

You are never going to be happy trying to keep other people from being happy.

I know you mean good but fat girls can also break easily. I also don’t mean to sound rude or offend you but it’s rare for fat girls to be 6 foot, I know you might be fat and 6 foot but it’s pretty rare. I think most people stick to petite girls in cod stories because it would be scary if they gave reader their sweater and all the sudden reader fits or barely fits in it and it only works as a crop top on them. And please try to remember just because their fat doesn’t mean they aren’t clean fat girls bathe too and do their eyebrows too they aren’t slobs. Fat girls can break when they get laid and yes I believe they also will jiggle around in the process so please try to be mindful when bringing up cod guys with a fat girl

I do mean to be rude and offend you when I say that this is some of the stupidest shit I've ever had to read with my own two eyes. Get a hobby. If this is your hobby, go get a better one.

There's nothing scary about a tall fat woman who fits into the clothes of their partners (Or even doesn't fit? Like lmao?? What world are you living in where you think women have to be smaller than their partners?) and I genuinely think that you're an idiot if you think I need a reminder that fat women aren't slobs. Like not only from a 'are you fucking kidding me?' perspective but also I've never written a romance without at least one bathing scene in my life and I'm not about to start now. I'm sorry that you have fucked up biases about bodies but that has nothing to do with me.

ALSO women don't have to pluck their eyebrows or shave their body hair to be clean. Go unlearn all that shit and don't come back.