The inarent barrier of entry for medical diagnosis as well as my own disillusionment with the medical field in general leads to me having very conflicting views on self diagnosis
All my cards on the table at the start of this I fuckin obviously I have some kind of diagnosis you don't get over six (there is no official number it's weird don't worry about it) surgeries on fuckin nothing I've got shit on my books and I am forever grateful that happened because otherwise I'd be super dead
BUT
That being said even without the calssism around access to medical care in the U S of A an offical diagnosis is ONE not always accurate and TWO sometimes actively harmful to have
Doctors are inherently flawed biased human beings working with less information than you have more boxes to put you in and a financial gain to keeping you in the medical system that is a system ripe for some kind of fuck up's to happen personally speaking I have had people try and diagnose me with things i don't have so I would stop talking about the actual problems I had that they didn't know what to do about
And adding on top of that the stigma around specific disabilities it's no wonder a lot of people do not want that kind of shit on their public record are employer ALLOWED to not employ you based on your medical history? Fuck no but can you stop them? Also not really
To the point of this
The idea that self diagnosis is in any way a """""""""""threat""""""""""" to a disabled community is laughable and actively harmful the biggest reason I've seen for this is ONE self diagnosis people making them look bad and TWO the stealing of resources
On the one hand I'm sorry if I'm the one who has to say this
Abled people of any kind will not respect you more for hating other disabled people that has never and will never worked
Stop
On the other hand
WHAT RESOURCES??? The ones people who DO have official diagnosis struggle to get
Ya I bet these (mostly) children and poor people are really taking all of the money away from you that they could have had if they weren't *checks notes* ...Acknowledging their own disabilities?
The stifling of any disabled peoples ability to self identify to attempt to claw some kind of health from the world is at best petty and at worst ACTIVELY hateful there is no tangable harm someone could ever do by attempting to figure out how best to articulate their own needs and the idea that it is a moral good to strip any minority of the words they need to gain access of any kind is abhorrent and never acceptable
seeing people you know from other social medias on tumblr but not really communicating on here with them outside of reblogging their reblogs and putting tags on their posts has the same vibe as making eye contact with someone you kinda know but don't keep in touch with much in the hallway at high school
the most insane fucking thing happened the other day while i was hooking up with my friend: so his mom came home from work and knocked on his door and he was like “mom i’m Busy” hoping she’d get it and she walked away so we thought she Understood but she came back and got mad at him because he wouldn’t let her in so she could introduce herself and he literally told her straight up, “mom i’m having gay sex” or something and she was still pissed off. that he wouldn’t open the door. and let her in so she could introduce herself. while we were having gay sex
noah schnapp changing his tune re: his zionist views is so fucking rancid. “my views have been misconstrued, i actually wish for peace for everyone and hope we can lend each other grace moving forward” no actually u became a propaganda machine for the zionist entity, helped generate consent for genocide by spreading heinous lies, and shut out anyone who tried to tell u otherwise. now ur probably in trouble with the suits and have an agent holding a gun to ur head to be more palatable so u want ppl to be nicer and still won’t denounce zionism. fuck u. i hope u fade into obscurity and are only remembered for saying zionism is sexy while laughing and celebrating the deaths of thousands of innocent people
Dick and wally were sitting at the wayne family dinner table with their joint families announcing their engagement. Just before desert their was a knock on the front door. Alfred went to tend to it. Nobody thought anything of it till Alfred came back to dinning room with a large meta with him and two scruffed young kids hanging from his hands.
"I believe you have a guest master dick, master wally." Alfred said looking at the red head with a bit of judgment.
"You." The large meta with a goatee and flaming seemingly flaming hair. Motioned to wally with one of the kids who protested. "Well shit you are all here." He looked around the table. "Good I only need to do this once then hopefully. Quit fucking with the time stream." He ignored the throat clearing of the butler and the half raised from the seat posture of most of the dinners guests. "I'm tired of cleaning up all these timeline collapses you speedsters cause. So here is the deal." He sat the protesting kids down in to wally's lap. By phasing through the table. "I'm going to pull all your kids who would cease to exist from the now failed timelines and drop them all in your laps. And I don't care how many it ends up being. You want to cause me problems. You're getting all of yours 10 fold." As he backed out of the table. He pointed an accusing finger at the speedsters. "Do not try me! Oh and By the way. Congratulations on your engagement." He gave a rough pat to alfreds back. "Thanks old man." And then he vanished from sight.
The bats stared at the speedsters. "Care to explain that?"
"Who was that guy?"
"OH my god I'm a dad!" Wally said in shock looking down at his two kids. Ignoring Barry arguing with half the bat clan.
"What are your names?" Dick said all smiles at the two little kids sitting in wallys lap.
Hiii long time no see!
I just finished a big school project so yay I'll have half a day before getting drowned in work again haha..
Anyway here's a Nicky Hemmick apreciation post :)
I love this guy so much, I remember liking him from the veeery beginning but as we get to know more about him he becomes even more likeable holdable.
The fact he gave up a good life in Germany with his boyfriend for years to raise the MINYARDS - honest respect.
I refuse to believe that Sheriff Stilinski would respond to the call and arrive at the Hale house to find it on fire and not run in to try and save them.
I whole heartedly believe that Sheriff Stilinski ran into the Hale House when it was up in flames and got burnt because of it.
In fact, there is one character who was canonically in the house when it was on fire but not in the house when it collapsed/when everyone else died.
Peter.
Sheriff Stilinski got Peter out but before he could go back for anyone else, the house collapsed.
This is my headcanon now and I will die on his hill.