#[ reblog this bc im a Loser™ ]

[ongreenergrasses]

playing the ask game you reblogged and then tagging you in another ask game..... only to also send you a question from our dm's, bc Im still curious... (but also feel free to skip answering this publicly ofc!)

1. why would you and Finnick make each other worse? 👀

2. what are your and Annie's fundamental differences? 👀👀

3. why would me and Haymitch have friction? (*I* know my answer, he'd find me super oblivious and annoying and I'd get fed up with him and am way too sensitive for his snark, but I am so curious to hear your take 👀 lol)

FAIR in the chaos of the Extended In Laws ™ yesterday and then the worst night in recent memory it disappeared but you know what. I think the masses should know these things

1. there is a small possibility that we would actually get along well and be friends. however, in my eyes there is a much larger possibility that we would actually enable the shit out of each other because we both have problems that manifest in remarkably similar ways, namely the Everything Is Fine Until I Am A Visible and Completely Catastrophic Trainwreck And Even Then It’s Pretty Much Fine syndrome. i think we both also have this thing that can actually be really destructive where if something needs to be done, we don’t trust anyone besides ourselves to do it well. this can range from like. cleaning the house to in his case trying to topple a dictator. and in my experience, when you have people with those similarities, often we feed off each other and use each other as justifications for continuing behaviors that are actually really damaging to ourselves and others around us.

maybe though. I could help him to be less of a loser boyfriend because I am not a loser boyfriend. i do not have the specific behaviors that make him a loser boyfriend

2. i think there’s a lot of fundamental differences between me and Annie honestly. this is news to some because due to writing her pov a lot, people think I’m most like her, which is not true. I think she’s kinder than I am. I think she’s also far more manipulative than I am. we also have polar opposite strategies to deal with some of the similar symptoms we have, which is neither here nor there but it is interesting. the fundamental difference that would make it so that I don’t think we’d be able to coexist well is that I personally would not be able to stand the way Finnick treats her and from experience, when you can’t stand the way someone’s partner is treating them, it puts a lot of strain on that relationship. obviously I would never say this to her but I’d be thinking girl you needed to leave his ass yesterday

3. I think the difference I can see is that you seem like a really positive and optimistic person. I think in some ways Haymitch is optimistic too, because he tends to have a lot of plans that are sort of hail marys, but I can see your two specific types of optimism colliding and not meshing well.