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im-a-goat-in-disguise · 1 year ago
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I have a vague memory of seeing one of your posts on reddit like a year ago, but I have no idea if it is a real memory or not.
A year ago?? What bangers was I putting out a year ago reddit felt the need to repost?
Even if you're hallucinating something that didn't happen, that's still impressive.
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frethorentden-blog · 5 years ago
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Narcissistic dating profile
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dillaibtida · 8 years ago
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Seeing my favorite long-haired Adonis, Lee Hyun Jae, getting married at relatively young age and leading a real starting-from-scratch life with his wife kind of got me thinking.
Maybe in some cases, it does work.
Well, for some reason, it just does.
However, it can't be instant
One important fact I have found out about the couple is that, it takes a long process to really figure out someone we decide to spend our life with. Some sources said that they had known each other and become friends for about ten years. They dated for a year, then they got married. Hyun Jae was 28 at that time, relatively young for Korean age, especially since he hasn't enlisted for his military services. His wife was 27, quite young as well and just begun to raise as an actress.
They are just the perfect embodiment of one simple early-marriage life that I might have been unconsciously wishing for.  Not that they are both just too equally good looking to be together. Well maybe that helps. But what I meant is the process. The process on them becoming friends for years, and then dating only for a year. One year is enough for them to decide on getting married. Because they have known each other as friends for ten freaking years.
You see, I want that. I want that process.
So, the concept of instalove is just something I barely acknowledge as real right now. It's just a huge bullcrap. A delusion, if you will. Which is why everytime I got into an online dating site or some friends introduce me to some guy, I feel like there is a giant mountain laying on top of me. I swiped right or left, right or left, I talked nonsense, just to realize that I was suffocated. I barely answer any message or say hi to my matches because I feel so overwhelmed. I just don't think that is ever gonna work. I am absolutely not a good dating/girlfriend/wife material and it scared the fuck out of me. I might be a good friend, though. But, hello, grow up, dating site is definitely not for making friends. And friends fixing you up with some guy is not for you to befriend him either.
This is ridiculous, and I am exhausted.
Sometimes I feel like it's too late for my age. But still, I actually need more time to really get to know someone before making a huge-life changing decision. Nobody opens up on the first meeting. Everybody has an ugly secret. A baggage. A wound, disgusting scar. And I believe only a friend could ever understand that. Not a boyfriend or husband or, you know, the prospective version of those.
I don't want to put someone I will be spending my life with in pedestal. And I don't want him to do that to me either.
Back to Lee Hyun Jae and his wife.
I noticed his instagram lately, and didn't take that much thinking for me to follow him. Although he is not very popular in Korea, he makes quite a good shot in China. Both as an actor and model. While his music career, I believe, has been slipping away since he was busy doing other -more prospective, things.
The notion of friends-for-long before marriage has already got my eyes on him and Kim Yeol, his wife. But I fell deeper knowing that they are quite a power couple as well. A relatable power couple.
Okay, so we cannot really portray our real life on instagram. Instagram is basically our mundane life in technicolor. Brighter, richer, happier, simply just better. But from what I saw, from posts he uploaded carefreely into his account, I thought, damn, these are just too relatable. No muss no fuss. No endorse or display or tag of freaking branded stuffs. No excessive traveling photos or nudes or stupid selfies. They are just…real. Some real people who live their lives together, starting from scratch.
I found a post of his effort to furnish their new apartment (or house? Idk), using DIY method. For some reason, especially as a person who does not have a good eye for design, I think his effort is sweet and adorable. Rather than paying for someone to style the apartment, why not doing it ourselves and putting things we actually love?
https://www.instagram.com/p/BQQBK3IgM13/
So, there it goes from his celeb-ish photos to one quiet, simple, happy married life in the matter of weeks. Before then, it was only him. Doing photoshoots, interviews, selfies and stuff. But now it turns to more heartwarming posts such as a cute Victorian-style sofa. The process of refurnishing the house. Their adorable cats. One corner of their guest room. And how he helped his wife's business in fashion, so much so he called himself Manager Lee.
And his wife calls him that too, on her comments and her account.
SoadorableIcan'tpleasehelpIamdying.
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The thing is that, he recognizes his wife's talent and drive to establish a business. He helped her with the photoshoots and grand opening. He promotes his wife's business on his SNS accounts. He gives up their living room for his wife's photo studio. I mean, for someone who has his own career, those are quite a selfless, loving effort.
I need that kind of compassion. That kind of sincere, unrelenting support and understanding. And not to mention, the same excitement over things that I love.  
I can't stress enough that I don't need another narrow minded person in my life who is so self-centered and hog the lights all on his own. Someone who thinks he is right all the time am I am the one who always messed up (I have my family for that, so I don't need my man to do their part). And I can't tell you enough that even the best, the deepest, feeling I have ever had for someone so far is simply because we shared the same interests and we continuously learn from each other.  I felt understood. I had this sense that I found a comrade. Someone who actually helped me get to another level. Someone who trusted me enough to establish something together. Someone I can fully trust with my dreams and desires without fear of being ridiculed. Someone who, in his way, is always there.
That's it.
Seeing the Adonis' relationship with his wife that they flaunt AFTER their marriage and not before, is just so adorable and heartwarming to watch. They don't do it like Glenn and Chelsea who practically are just overexposing their lives, all polished, constructed, and manufactured I won't ever believe those are real.
But my favorite couple, they do it just enough. They do that just enough to makes us think that, okay, so these couple are happy. But they are too busy living their real, happy, lives so they do not have time to upload photos every now and then.
Besides, it’s just simple, adorable, little things that they show off. Things that I might have been unconsciously wishing for but I always deny because I don't want to put any expectations and get hurt.
So after all that, honestly, I think I should reevaluate my bitter judgement on marriage.
Maybe not all marriage will end up a wreck. Maybe among those jerks, bigots, tools, pricks, narcissists, sociopaths, and misogynists, there is someone who is actually decent, compassionate, and understanding enough. Maybe I am the one who has to improve, from this bitter-insensitive asshole with resting bitch face to be more approachable and kind hearted to find that certain someone.
Or maybe I don't have to change at all. And neither does he. Because either way, we will be compassionate enough to understand and support each other.
I hope the last one is what's actually gonna happen.
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