#<- new tag for when antiz won't leave me alone

[radkyudolph]

"hey this person came into my dms and harassed me even though i have them blocked and thats not nice" "LEARN HOW TO USE THE BLOCK BUTTON"

"anyways i said somnophilia is okay if it's between consenting people around the same age and you implied your experience fit those criteria so then i said what i said based off of the fact that you were acting like you simply regretted the experience." 1: its not okay, youre supporting rape 2: where did i imply it was consensual? cause last time i checked, i put it in "" and you removed those

"when i said that, you had not brought up the fact that you were a child when it happened. you brought up the fact that you were a child AFTER having implied you had consented to it, to guilt me because i made a fair assumption." 1: i never said i was a kid when i was assaulted in my sleep 2: i never implied it was consensual. i literally said "consensual" somnophilia. implying that it wasn't but that i was made to believe it was

"do not say "um actually no because i did (x)!!" right after someone says "(x) is okay as long as it's between people of similar ages who have explicitly consented to it" next time and that won't happen" do not say "youre not a victim" when someone tells you youre defending rape because they went through what youre defending. somnophilia isnt okay. its rape. someone cannot consent to sex if theyre unconscious. and by defending it, youre defending rape.

dude

you literally did say you were a child. you said, and i quote, "I want you to tell me that being upset i was touched in my sleep at 11 years old is the same as calling someone a rapist because of regretting the sex" in an anon before my last blog got booted. or did you forget that. also if someone'z talking about consensual sex and you bring up your experiencez they're going to assume you had consensual sex. "i'm a victim of sex. 'consensual' sex." do you see where i could've gotten confused?

people in the bdsm community have sex with their partnerz while they're asleep and vice versa all the time. consensual somnophilia iz okay and if you seriously don't think it iz then go tell a grown adult that letz their partner fuck them while they're asleep that they're a victim and see how they enjoy you trying to be a saviour to them (they won't)