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insertpinkchiphere · 3 months ago

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@demonsfate asked- { discuss } : how long after sex does your muse like to discuss it with their partner, as in kinks they enjoyed or aspects they’d rather not try again? do they find these discussions challenging? aftercare centered hc q’s (accepting!)

That's a bit hard to say. Unless his partner brings it up first, Lambda tends to bring it up way later. As in probably the next day later. Mostly because he does find that kind of discussion challenging. He grapples with wanting to talk about how he may or may not enjoyed certain parts of his experience while also worrying if what he says will be taken as some sort of insult or make them feel bad.

However, discussion isn't entire impossible! Lambda will absolutely want to discuss things about a certain kink he wants to try with his partner beforehand. (Granted, he has to hype himself up for that conversation first.) And afterwards too if he's absolutely sure the space he's in for it will be judgement free and if him saying a certain aspect of a kink or the experience of it didn't live up to the hype.

#//and yes this does apply to people he's slept with for a very long time #//since they would be people that he does care about to some degree and he would be afraid of making them feel bad if he said he-#//-didn't really like a certain part of a kink or if he didn't have the best time in bed that day #//he's kind of a weenie like that fcgbhdnfbh #//because yeah if he's had a bad/lackluster experience he usually keeps it to himself because he doesn't want his partner-#//-to feel bad for something on his account #//which isn't great but if he's given the time and space for it he will voice his opinion about #hushed whispers {asks}#demonsfate

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