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datastate · 7 months ago

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okay i am going to make a bagel and stim while i wait for it to heat up so that (hopefully) by the time i sit down again i'll be mister normal once more. so i can read silly ninja manga (nno) instead of thinking of the overlapping trans experiences w the yttd cast

#kai redefining for sara that this desire for femininity is neutral & comforting her w the fact it doesn't have to be permanent #but that once she is a girl she might want to mess with her presentation more & it doesn't mean her transition was useless if so;#instead that she now has a body she feels comfortable enough in to find a style that suits her best!#& then meanwhile the several ways other trans adults like kazumi/reko/kutaro could all assuage kai's own hesitance toward it all...#rather than it being strictly binary in expectation there are variations on how they exist & what forms of transition actually helped them #that specific idea of it being something chosen where it was previously imposed on him + he's now reluctant to speak on...#to first help kai adjust to the idea that there's no inherent failing that keeps him from being a man even w/o medical intervention #and only Then to give him the necessary space of comfort to realize that he is doesn't need to choose between being a man or woman #& can remove himself from the binary in its entirety... there's a certain freedom to that #okay. okay. transgender moment over i'm normal now #jestersvaguely #yttdposting

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