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I have had so many different conversations regarding aging or deceased parents. Almost every single one is the usual "Be grateful for the time you have."Relish these moments because you're going to be sad when they're gone"

I have notes for those of you with this thought process. I am so glad you had a good relationship with your parents, but so many of us did not do not. Don't judge me because I am angry with my only living parent and never mourn the one who is deceased. Instead, ask yourself why I might not be as attached to them as you are to yours.

Instead of telling me what I should do, maybe ask why I feel the way I do. I actually have reasons for my headspace and it's (in my opinion) pretty fucking valid.

#aging parents #stopjudging

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OK, seriously, folks. I'm fucking done. The weird noises that make me insane (no amount of liquor makes that go away) the cleaning up of nastiness....I can't...I just fucking can't anymore.