#fandom learning therapist speak was a mistake because most have no idea what they're really saying

[embrace-your-inner-kid]

People in fandom acting like psychiatrists and moral police are the most exhausting part of fandom. I'm trying to block and/or mute the worst offenders, but f**k it's so wide spread.

Can no one just enjoy the sh*t they like? Why do so many of you fall into becoming full-time haters? You sound like the most miserable people. I hope you can learn how to find joy in something rather than spiral into a bad case of hater mental gymnastics. Your life sounds unfulfilled, and ultimately, it's up to you to try and find happiness or continue to stew in misery.

From personal experience, I know how easy it is to get stuck in negativity, but I also know it's possible to pull yourself out and adjust your mindset. The big question to ask yourself first is if you want to be miserable and a buzzkill forever, or learn how to find pockets of happiness in a sometimes brutal world? It's up to you.

** And I'm not talking about fair analysis and criticism of media and/or fictional relationship dynamics, I have no problem with that. I'm talking about the people who constantly hate just to hate and can't critically think to save their lives because of the hate that has a strangle hold on them. **