#cw not respecting boundaries

[frogayyyy]

if i was a spider i would simply not crawl towards the giant human that could kill me

[spamsandsuch]

I LOVE THE WAY YOU DRAW SPAMTON!! HE LOOKS SO SOFT AND SQUISHY I JUST WANNA HUG HIM!! I usually don't do ask like this but I just had to tell you how much I love the way your spamton looks! (⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠❤

Hi hi, while I appreciate you like my spam so much I wanna reiterate that he isnt a character that would enjoy being hugged or randomly touched from strangers — he is pretty touch adverse and is only comfortable with touch from close friends or family. A handshake or high five would be much more preferable! 

[yrrtyrrtwhenihrrthrrt]

Hilarious (suggestive) comic headcanon

Ambrosius (fatherless) called Blackheart Daddy once as a joke and Blackheart (massive daddy issues) fucking HATED it and the whole time they were having their little spat Ambrosius would occasionally call him that to piss him off when there was nobody else around

Once they got back together it became a joke of theirs and at this point Ballister found it both endearing and violently annoying. Esp whenever he'd get a lil annoyed at Amb over something silly and he'd be like "Oh no daddy, are you gonna spank me?"

And then he'd get flustered because of course he wants to spank him but also "DO NOT FUCKING CALL ME THAT"

[schattenhonig]

Just some thoughts on Crowley's and Aziraphale's approach to boundaries:

Crowley alters reality around Maggie and Nina, he makes it rain, after checking with Nina how she would react to a sudden downpour. He gives them a situation which will hopefully lead to the desired behaviour, but leaves them with a choice. They can shelter under the awning or go inside or whatever. But ultimately they are given a situation and a choice.

Aziraphale on the other hand goes a little further and not only creates a situation, but makes choices for them. Yes, Nina chooses to dance as well as Crowley, but I don't think Maggie and Aziraphale felt like they had a choice here, for very different reasons (Maggie is forced, Aziraphale forces himself because he wants this so bad with Crowley). And I don't think any of them know the steps to this particular dance. We know Aziraphale can dance the Gavotte, this however is not a Gavotte I believe. Correct me if I'm wrong. Aziraphale, in order to make their plan work, forces everyone and especially Nina and Maggie to dance perfectly to steps they admittedly never learned, seriously meddling with their free will. And Nina calls him out for it while Maggie doesn't see a problem there because she got what she wanted. And this mirrors our ineffable partners' relationship so well!

I think this is not just a case of desperate measures for desperate times, it shows how much Heaven doesn't care about boundaries and free will and the right to mess up something. Aziraphale employs this method because he isn't aware of the overstepping since he hasn't broken free of the trauma and control imposed on him by Heaven. Crowley on the other hand has had centuries to work through this and acknowledge the damage done because I think he fell for basically suggesting and showing free will. He can see Heaven from the outside as the manipulating lot that they are while Aziraphale still has to accept and acknowledge the damage that was done to him by Heaven. And Crowley calls him out whenever Heaven does something so wrong and Aziraphale is about to accept it, like the flood or Job's children and goats.

[dreamhot]

saw someone on twt getting qrtd to hell and back for saying that pronoun truthing ppl is misgendering (which is true) and ofc the qrts were full of ppl deliberately misunderstanding dream's previous statements about using whatever pronouns for him (which, if u don't know, came about cos weirdass donos were like 'umm is it okay if we call you by other pronouns if we're more comfortable 🥺🥺' which is a Fucked Up thing to ask anyone btw) - dream's pronouns are HE/HIM, they're in all of his bios. USE THEM you losers. referring to someone offhandedly/non-specifically by neutral pronouns, for example, isn't the same thing as referring to dream by she/her or neos or anything like that. a person's pronouns are about their OWN preferences, not your fucking 'comfort level'. don't be weird.

[crumbleclub]

aftermath

I did it! I managed to draw Michael angst!

This literally took me seven hours

[herawell]

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[dennisboobs]

in light of. recent events. the reason for me having "dni if you ship dennis/dee" in my bio is because. it's for my OWN personal comfort. it's not a fucking Statement on my ~moral purity~ or a virtue signal, it's because i do not want my posts about the twins being read into in any way, nor do i want to talk to people who are HIDING that they ship them because it makes me extremely uncomfortable. unfollow me. don't interact. it's a personal trigger and i am trying to carve out a space i feel comfortable speaking in.

[garoujo]

hi! off topic + i normally wouldn’t post about stuff like this but if i have you blocked for whatever reason, specifically if you’re an ex mutual, please respect my boundaries instead of choosing to talk shit about me in other peoples dm’s + comments sections because i blocked you. it really just shows a lot about you as a person considering i blocked you for MY comfort + all you’ve done with that decision is drag my character when i’ve never even mentioned you on my blog.

[tricksheart]

Just a quick reminder, I am not a dog person. Dogs ( in real life but can also be realistic ones next to characters ) are a trigger for me. I really don't like them that much and don't want to see them on the dash, IMs, or asks.

Thank you to everyone for the mostly following this rule. My triggers can be found in my rules if anyone needs a quick refresher. I am grateful for people respecting my boundaries and tagging when needed.

And if you like dogs? More power to you. I am glad you found something that makes you happy. Just know that happiness isn't shared with everyone in the world as it's vast and varied. Once again, thank you for understanding.

-SERE.

[roseianxiety]

Holy shit, if someone who ive blocked proceeds to follow me on their other account/accounts despite being BLOCKED, I will fucking lose my shit. I blocked you for a reason so you get that through your head. Learn to respect people's boundaries!!

If I have blocked you, that means you have crossed my boundaries or have done something bad to which I have the reason to block you. If you can't respect that then I will take things to extreme measures.

[lostjudgmnt]

i dont know about other dykes but i am personally really tired of having to see rampant lesbophobia all the time and WOULD appreciate it if people kept that shit away from me. but thats just me

[professor-abeloved]

I know he's the white parent and everything but mattyasshole has the soul of a toxic Asian parent ya know

[crumbleclub]

Mike trying to rationalize why Henry is okay with his dad hurting him, even when Michael isn't okay with him hurting his siblings. Even when nobody is okay with Michael hurting his siblings.

It wasn't as bad, right? He never laid a finger on them. They were only words.

Maybe it's because Mike is older. This bleeds into his protests, his haphazard attempts to protect. "Please, he's only six." Don't hurt him. Don't hurt him the way that you hurt me.

William finds this entertaining. He makes note of these things, wonders if he'd respond differently if William tried something else.

Maybe it's because William is an adult. He learns not to trust anyone older than him, but to let them do whatever they want. He learns to freeze; to shut down.

This makes him an easy target later on.

Is it because Michael deserves it? After Evan dies, he's sure that must be it. Willian knew what he was, and he only gave him what he already had coming. Michael was a murderer, after all. He deserved everything anyone might do to him.

It was his own fault.

[herawell]

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[dennisboobs]

god the bad takes just keep coming how are any of us going to survive hiatus lmao