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The success of others’ is not your failure. 

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Just because you are a victim doesn't mean you're not someone's attacker. Be sure of who you are and what you deserve, but dont ever push yourself onto others. Do unto others and all that

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Seriously, guys. We need to stop being toxic, comparing people to other people, anonymously putting people down, and just being all together mean; it’s truly ridiculous. We are in a time where now, more than ever, where we need to LOVE and ENCOURAGE and SUPPORT one another. Spread love and kindness, don’t sow hate and distrust. 🌱💕

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I want to remind everybody that there are victims and there are perpetrators. The victims aren't the only ones who need help. Why just treat the victims, start helping the perpetrators. If just one toxic person can grow better, think of how many people dont have to get attacked in the first place.

I used to be an abusive person but i saw what i was and chose to change. I want people to know that not everyone is bad, and i want to help everyone.

Dont erase the toxic people when you talk about mental health, and dont erase the victims.

Everyone matters.

How to Change from being a Toxic Person

Even if you hurt other people in the past, or been the kind of person that you really don’t respect, you can always make the decision to change. The tips below might be helpful for this.

1. Look for the good in the people that you meet, and try to empathise, and understand others’ viewpoints.

2. Remind yourself of this: “That it’s not all about you” … and the feelings and the wishes of others matter too.

3. Be polite; try saying “thank you”; and don’t take people for granted. What they did took thought and effort, and it’s nice to be acknowledged.

4. Think before you speak. This will save a lot of grief. For once those words are spoken, they cannot be taken back. They may never be forgotten, and can haunt you later on.

5. Check your tone of voice and the words you choose to use. These can cause misunderstandings, or create a bad impression.

6. Don’t gossip about others; look for things to praise instead.

7. Don’t take the bait and be pulled into arguments. Just let the comment go. You don’t need to rise to that.

8. Make the effort to be kind, and offer others your support. And do something that’s special, and which demonstrates some thought.

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I have so much respect for people who’ve had to distance themselves from their favorite person, whether it be because they were toxic or being with them was too painful or they didn’t give you the love you deserved or you’re trying to get over them or anything. 

It takes a lot of strength to distance yourself from someone you love so much and I’m so proud of you for taking this step

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It’s ok to be jealous and mad and sad and angry and any other “negative” emotion… You’re not being toxic you’re being human. The point at which you become toxic is when you’re letting these emotions seep into how you treat others

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don’t ever, ever forget that you’re worth it.

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“And even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn’t really change the fact that you have what you have. Good and bad.”

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Charlie’s Last Letter.

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My main goal every day is to be happy. No matter what trials I face, no matter how old I get. Happiness is the key to all things great.

Unknown (via deeplifequotes)

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Know your worth. 

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You’ve come so far

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Fear makes the wolf bigger than he is.

German Proverb (via goodreadss)