So my sisters boyfriend walks into my room (he knocks first thank the lord because I was completely in the nude) and asks if I want to see some funny videos so he tags me in them. Then he asks what I want for breakfast. He told me 'since its your birthday this will be the one day I make you food.' He hates cooking. He told me he was going to surprise me but didn't know if I would want them or not (he's only known me since March) and I told him I would never say no to pancakes. He said 'I'll remember than for next year.' I find that so cute because he loves my sister so much that he believes that he'll be with her for that long and that makes me really happy because yes they fight a lot and sometimes they hit eachother, don't worry they are both laughing the whole time so I know it doesn't hurt if it did I would totally do something about it. But they are really good to eachother and he literally just came into my room and asked if he should put anything on the pan. This shows how little he cooks aha
Yes it is. My sister is naturally skinny like used to eat McDonald's 3 time a week and stayed at 115 lbs and she was skinny shamed by everyone basically
-Muslims with eating disorders that get triggered during Ramadan, who feel obligated to explain why they鈥檙e not fasting to nosey aunties
-Muslims on psych meds who can鈥檛 fast because without medication they can鈥檛 function, who feel uncomfortable explaining this to everyone who asks why they aren鈥檛 fasting
-Muslims with ADD who struggle to perform Salah, Taraweeh, read Qur'an, etc.
-Muslims with depression who sometimes find it hard to get out of bed and do the obligatory prayers or go to Masjid
-Muslims with Bipolar who find Islamic obligations easy on some days and impossible on others, who are seen as flaky or flip-floppy about faith
-Muslims with social anxiety who are afraid to pray in masjid because of fear of making mistakes or being looked at
-Muslims with dissociative issues who struggle with performing Salah and other obligations due to fear/threat of dissociating
-Muslims with PTSD, sensory issues or agoraphobia who are unable to go to masjid or other crowded areas & get seen as rude/snobby, or feel isolated
-Muslims with low self worth, suicidal ideations, etc that feel guilty because of that.
-Muslims with autism who are viewed/treated as a difficult test for their families
-Muslims with mental healtn issues who are told they need prayer or that their issues are caused by lack of imaan.
-All Muslims with any other mental health issue that I forgot to add that affects their practice of Islam & treatment in the Ummah
You are valid.
Your Islam is valid.
And you are Allah (SWT)鈥檚 beautiful creation.
when boys hold u by yr waist and make you feel tiny
when you kiss boys and you can feel their stubble
freckles on boy
body hair on boy
spooning with boys
when boys get hard while spooning and you can feel it and its really cute
boys in the abstract
boy
But at some point you have to stop being so angry, you have to stop being so sad, you have to stop killing yourself and start being gentle with yourself. At some point you have to just let it all go and be happy, you have to spread love instead of being afraid of it. You have to love yourself and everyone around you before its too late. Dont waste away being unhappy over trivial things dear. Dont do it. Dont do it to yourself and dont let other people do it to you.