#you'll have a more peaceful life if you embrace the path of the sage

[mqfx]

can I scream about something. I am so SO tired of people misinterpreting jian lan and feng xin's relationship yes they were in love. no it wasn't because she reminded him of mu qing. I still think he resented him at the time because mu qing had just abandoned them (I don't blame mu qing at all for it but from feng xin's POV it makes sense he'd be irrational and angry and hateful from stress) and jian lan has a very different character. people saying she's a jealous crazy ex or hating on her because feng xin was in love with her makes me want to tear my hair out so bad their PAST relationship also doesn't have an effect on fengqing's relationship!!!!!!!! you can be in love with two people of different gender in your 800 year life (shocking). bisexual people exist y'all!!!!!!! they both moved on [feng xin maybe just a little less] and they are not married and never were. the lack of reading comprehension and biphobia in this fandom kills me tl;dr: stop hating on my girl jian lan and google what bisexuality is please [spent too much time on the tiktok side of the fandom]

my lamb, the lord ordains you to stay away from tiktok fandom. and ten hail marys

in any case, yeah i think feng xin most likely in love with jian lan for reasons unrelated to mu qing. like why not? i mean it IS funny to be like "ahaha fx has a type! mq and jian lan have similarities" sure i won't say no to that but jian lan IS also her own character and it's a disservice to her when people act like the ONLY reason fx might fall in love with her is bc she reminds him of this specific guy. like. pls don't treat women as setups for yaoi indulgence she also had her own life and things to deal with and merits etc etc

the wildest part of this ask is that i didn't even know ppl say that jian lan is a crazy jealous ex. i simply never come across this bc i only follow ppl who were brought up properly or smth