#you can use my ex as a testimonial regarding the 'difficult' part

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I am 21, it would not be that crass of an age difference. Also it would be so funny to casually drop at the family dinner that I am not engaged, not married, but in fact already divorced. Plus you need to keep up a streak

"Mom, dad, this is my ex-husband Roland."

"Oh, nice to meet-- wait when did you get married??? When did you get divorced?????"

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Forgotten: Part 2

During one of the BAU’s most difficult cases, Luke meets a dedicated journalist who is committed to fighting for the underdog. Reluctant to trust the authorities at first, she finds a friend in the compassionate FBI agent. But as they draw closer, the challenges only grow with fear, hostility and a relentless unsub whose attention turns to her…

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AN/ Here’s part two! I hope you enjoy reading it. We’re starting to get to the good stuff, so please let me know what you think. What are you most excited for? What are you most dreading? ;) x 

You let out a sigh as you pulled up at the abandoned road just off the busy highway. Cars sped past blissfully unaware of the horror that lay around them. It felt like a painful reminder of how even the most horrific crimes went forgotten in the city.

It wasn’t the first time you had been here. It wouldn’t be the last either. Sometimes it was a longer wait than usual, but the one depressing certainty you had was that a new body would be discovered every month or so.

You flashed a grim smile at the one of the police officers stood guard. “Hi Joe.” You greeted him cordially, earning you a friendly wave in return. It was strangely nice to be on good terms with your ex-boyfriend. Even if the relationship hadn’t worked out, it didn’t mean you couldn’t be pleasant to one another.

Not to mention it came in handy when you need a favour with investigations…

“Can I take a look?” You asked quietly, a part of you wishing you didn’t have to ask the question. It never grew easier seeing them.

His colleague shot you a disapproving look, clearly unimpressed with anything he deemed to be ‘interference’. It wasn’t unusually for you to receive a frosty reception from some of the other officers. The ones who claimed your reports ‘damaged their reputation’.

Whereas, in your experience and that of countless others, they were more than capable of doing that by themselves.

Joe nodded, giving you a sympathetic glance before gesturing for you to approach. He had seen the fallout all too often after you had returned home from a day of crime scene photos and victims’ families testimonies. Clearly, it still pained him to see you putting yourself through the misery.

It was a sadly familiar sight, similar to all of the photos pinned to the board in your office. She had been dumped carelessly, her clothes tangled and ripped, exposing her body in what seemed to be a final act of cruelty. Dirt and blood were smeared across her skin and dark bruising covered her face. But it was her eyes that troubled you the most.

The emptiness was something that haunted you night after night, just like the others.

You were so caught up in the horror, you almost didn’t hear the clicks echoing behind you. The noise feeling so intrusive as if it were disturbing her resting place. A frown crossed your face as you glanced over at the huge media presence that had gathered to the side.

It felt so out of place. You had been out here countless times (usually thanks to a tip-off from Joe or a friendly colleague) and not once had you witnesses this type of frenzy over a murder.

So, you decided to ask. “What’s with the circus? They’re never usually out here.” You asked disdainful, part of you felt horrified as one of the photographers leant closer to try to get a shot of the exposed body. It felt as if each click took away more of her dignity.

Joe grimaced, leaning closer as if he were worried about being overheard. “We believe the remains belong to Lara Hughes.”  

A chill ran down your spine. Lara was a wife of an influential figure in the city, part of a family that ran in high-up circles. A friend of the mayor’s. A lot of coverage for the past week had been focused on her disappearance. Although the assumption had been that she was more likely to have disappeared for an impromptu holiday than become a murder victim.

You stared at the eager photographers in shock as the realisation sunk in. You had been out here for the past three years, investigating every grim discovery and not one had warranted a presence like this. But were you saw similarities with other victims, you suspected these journalists didn’t.

After all, this was a woman from a highly respected family with good connections and an unblemished background. Of course, it made horrifying sense why the media would suddenly have an interest in the disturbing high crime rate in this part of town.

You felt sick for more reason than one.

“What’s next? How are you going to handle it?” You asked under your breath, keen not to attract the attention of Joe’s less-than-helpful colleague. It wouldn’t be well received if you were seen to be getting special attention, especially in regards to this case.

However, you couldn’t bite back the slight bitterness in your tone. Knowing that this case would be treated so differently to the countless others you had witness was hard to swallow. Didn’t everyone deserve justice? To be treated the same in the eyes of the law?

Joe gave you a meaningful glare, well aware of your feelings towards certain elements of the local police department. “That’s just it, we’re not. The FBI have been called in.”

   “The body of Lara Hughes was discovered in the last few hours. Local PD reported it straight away to us.”

The team continued to listen in respectful silence to the briefing Prentiss was given them. However, the underlying tension in the room couldn’t be ignored. They didn’t have to be profilers to understand the significance of the FBI senior directors being called in before them.

Prentiss paused for a moment, glancing around the room as if debating how to approach the delicate topic. “The brass want their best on this case.”

“That’s why we were blessed with the presence of Barnes this morning?” Tara questioned, grinning as Luke unsuccessfully tried to conceal a snigger at her joke. Understandably, no one in the BAU was her biggest fan.

Rossi hummed quietly, shooting Emily an apologetic smile. Out of all of them, he had the least patience for undeserving authority. “Any particular reason why?”

Emily nodded, pointing at the board. “She’s well connected to influential figures, including local politicians with big ambitions.

“With the ripple effects being felt all the way in DC?” JJ asked curiously.

“It looks like it.” Prentiss replied, turning back to the screen. “But I want to make it clear that this case isn’t any different to any other. We treat it the same. We work it the same.” She said, her voice firm and her gaze determined.

A murmur of agreement echoed around the table. Prentiss flashed them a tight smile before gesturing to Penelope. “Garcia’s already done some digging for us.”

The bubbly blonde gave a small smile as she stood to present her findings, but she seemed more subdued than usual. It was the first hint that this case would be particularly awful.

“Listen up crime fighters, you have a doozie on your hands here.” She told them, grimacing as she launched the gruesome photos up on the screen. “At least five other women have been found along this exact same stretch of highway over the last two years.”

Matt frowned in confusion. “That’s an absurd coincidence isn’t it? Why have they waited so long to ask the FBI for assistance?”  

“In regards to the location of the bodies, it statistically makes sense. An abandoned location where an unsub would have privacy to dump his victims…no witnesses.” Spencer hummed quietly, perching forward in his seat to survey the group. “In fact, just recently the FBI itself launched the Highway Serial Killings Initiative in response to suspicious killings along routes across the US.”  

Luke stared at him in amazement. He didn’t think he could not be impressed by the amount of knowledge Spencer held. He was definitely in the right job. “But what is strange is why local PD haven’t called us in until now?” He glanced up at Prentiss who had unreadable expression on her face.

Garcia sighed heavily before gently placing down a set of files on the table, prompting confused glances from the team. “That’s all I could find on these existing cases so far. It’s difficult to even tell if they match our MO.”

“That’s not much to go on at all.” JJ murmured, thumbing through one of them with a flick of her finger.

Luke stared at the pathetically small pile in shock. Sheets were spilling out of one of the folders, not even attached properly and from his seat he could see some of them were almost blank with dust even collecting on a few. This was where the lives of five people ended up.

“Why is there barely anything about these women?” He asked quietly, holding a file in his hands. He glanced around the room to see his more experienced team members exchanging a gloomy look.

“We’ve seen it before. Sadly, too often. Under resourced forces and overstretched officers. It leaves investigations vulnerable to a lack of attention.” Rossi told him, his unhappy tone making it clear what he thought about the situation.

“This case is bound to draw a lot of attention.” Prentiss said, her tone even but her stormy expression betraying her true thoughts. “That why they want to be seen doing everything they can to solve it.”

“We can expect some hidden resistance then.” JJ commented, her past experience as liaison officer showing through with her instant understanding of the delicate situation.

Luke remained silent, glancing down at the thin file in his hands with a new sense of sadness. Things were different in the Fugitive Task Force. They would never stop chasing their criminals. They lived for the hunt. So, how could it be so seemingly easy for other law enforcement agents to give up?

“But never fear my kick ass justice warriors because I will get my spade out and dig up more about these past cases.” Garcia told them, determination shining in her eyes as she clapped her hands together and picked up her fluffy pink pen. “If there’s any information out there, I’ll find it.”

  You took a deep breath before knocking on the flimsy wooden door. It felt as if the house would fall apart even despite the gentleness of your action. The sounds of crashing echoing down nearby alleys and shouting in the next street was sadly all too familiar.

The door creaked open to reveal a woman inside. She glanced at you wearily before taking a step back and opening the door more widely to survey you properly.

“Hi Belinda, it’s been a while.” You greeted, flashing her a small smile as she gestured for you to enter the house. “I’m glad you called.”

She hummed in response, pattering through the hall in her slippers before taking a seat at the kitchen table. Her fingers twitched as if she wanted to reach for the cigarette packet laying nearby.

“Trying to quit?” You asked kindly, taking a seat opposite her.

She let out a croaky laugh. “Not so much. I just don’t like doing it in the house, not with Daniel around.”

“Daniel?” You asked, a small smile creeping onto your face. “How’s he doing?”

She nodded her head and pointed outside the window. “See for yourself.”

You felt the familiar ache in your heart as you glanced outside to see the young boy playing by himself, sat on the floor running toy cars up and down the wooden planks.

“Wow, he’s so much bigger than the last time I saw him. He’ll be a man in no time, huh?”

Belinda chuckled warmly, shaking her head. “I sure hope not.” She replied, her tone affectionate as she followed your gaze. “Do you want a drink Y/N?”

You raised your hand to stop her from getting up. “Don’t worry, I’ll do them Belinda. Coffee with two sugars right?”

“That’s right. Thanks.” She nodded appreciatively before folding her arms across her chest. A moment of silence passed before she spoke again. “He misses his mum. I worry that-” She paused, closing her eyes. “There’s nothing I can do for him. I can’t replace her. I can’t bring her back…ever.”

A lump rose in your throat as you placed the coffee down in front of her, clutching your own tea for comfort before sitting down opposite her. “You’re doing everything you can Belinda. No one, not even you, can ask for more than that.”

Her lips turned upwards into a small smile as she wrapped a hand around her mug. “You’ve always been so kind to us. Even after all these years. Louisa died-” She choked on the word, promoting you to outstretch a hand towards her. “I thought it would get easier, but it doesn’t.”

You didn’t say anything, knowing that she just needed someone to listen in that moment. Nobody had ever seemed to have the time to listen to her. A moment of silence passed once before she pointed at the paper with a shaking finger. “Is it true?”

You froze as you glanced down at the headline. Brutally slain. Police hunting dangerous killer after Lara Hughes found murdered.

“This woman? Do they think it could be connected to what happened to Louisa? She was found not too far from there.”

The desperation in Belinda’s voice was evident. And, it was difficult not to share it. After all these years, the murder of her daughter still went unanswered and no peace could be found for her family whilst her killer remained free. For all they knew he could be living next door or roaming the local neighbourhood…

You wanted to give her something, but false hope was the worst kind of all.

“That’s for the authorities to investigate.” You told her kindly, gently squeezing her hand as a tear dropped down her cheek. “You have done everything you can Belinda. You can never stop believing that.”

She gave you a grim smile. “I just wish I felt like they had too.”

And, in that moment, you knew you had to do something more. Whatever it took.

  You flew through the doors of the building, barely stopping to greet a very confused Jennifer and Archie as you stormed past them to your boss’s office. You barely had time to catch your breath before he saw you standing outside, flashing you a tight smile as he waved you inside.

“I had a feeling I’d be hearing from you today.”

But this time you didn’t want to exchange pleasantries.

“I want in.”

His brow furrowed in confusion as he perched on his desk, his eyes carefully scrutinising you and asking a very clear question silently.  

“They’re calling the FBI in. I want to meet with them.” You clarified quickly, running a hand through your hair. It had always been your nervous tell. “I don’t know how you’ll swing it with local PD, but-”

Your boss raised a hand, requesting your silence before he pointed at a nearby chair. You twisted your hands anxiously as you took the seat he gestured towards. Perhaps you’d overstepped the line. So, you decide to pre-empt his strike.

“I’m sorry! I just- I have to do something and it feels like they’re the best way to get anything done around here.” You exclaimed, wincing at the evident exasperation in your voice. Sometimes you wished you could better conceal your frustration. But Belinda’s despairing expression from earlier still haunted you… “What if the FBI can help the families I’ve been working with?”

Your boss rubbed his forehead for a moment, considering your words before deciding to speak. “Well you’re in luck Y/N. I had a Penelope Garcia on the phone earlier asking about your stories.”

You shot him a confused look. Was that name meant to mean something?

“She’s from the FBI. They’re sending their behavioural analysis unit in. They want to meet with you.” 

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“A Deed Without A Name” by Lee Morgan Notes and Thoughts part three

Recap of part two:

In part two, we discussed the bestiary, a wide variety of spirits and entities or not-quite either, along with a witches power, the Devil, and superstition. Fetchbeasts and familiars were also discussed.  We discussed how fetchbeasts will usually relate to the persons ancestral heritage the most, how the vitality of a person feeds the spirit working through them, and how accounts of working with the fae or the Devil appear throughout accounts of witchcraft.

On Visualization and hedgecrossing:

Visualization as you get older becomes more difficult, even with a longing to cross the hedge or if you had a talent for it when you were young. The walls built up as you reach adulthood are strong and require work to take down.

*A good way to hedgecross is to develop a good relationship with a powerful site where crossing is easy/liminality is clear. Every place has the capacity to be a location for passage, you just have to know where to look. There are parts of this passage informed by wisdom from Aboriginal medicine men that Morgan refers to as ‘nungkari’, but as I am not sure, I’m not going to definitively say it’s correct.

A direct quote on the nature of crossing places and crossing, “A site is active in that a relationship exists between site, humans and spirits, a threeway synergy that results in that place being sacred or being a dreaming site.” in regards to the wisdom of aforementioned Aboriginal medicine men.

“deep myth” is a form of meeting place between spirits and man; find a place with history tied to it, and learn it to make a connection. Make an offering once you’ve found such a place, speak to the spirits of the place.

Hedgecrossing is no more or no less than being other, no merging the daimonic other with your second skin.

On Western Occultism and the Daimonic Self:

Western Occultism will place the daimonic self as the ‘higher self’, of it being without substance, while there are actual accounts of peoples doubles committing crimes, but the person in question does not remember a thing. Whether they did it unknowingly or someone took their double for a spin, both accounts have been recorded.

On the dead, ‘the fat’ mentioned in the previous post, and dipping back into hedgecrossing:

The Taltos of Hungary were driven by a strong appetite. There was a ceremony called ‘Drenching the Ghosts’ in which the taltos was given milk mixed with the blood of the sacrificed animal’ this was meant to literally drench the ghosts through the taltos. This ties into the other point on my second notes post, about replenishing your energy and life force as those on the other side of the veil will draw from it.

This reminds us that humans are not the only ones that stradde the hedge - but also those who work through them.

The dead appear ambiguously in folklore. Could give blessings if they were properly honored after life, but if not they could turn on the community that forgot them.

Witches present a strong relationship to the dead; appearing at peoples bedsides as doubles wearing white veils.

Taltos had all sorts of hungry spirits working through them, burning the aforementioned vitality, which would drive some to skim off fat from the milk harvests.

You may find you need to take offerings on behalf of your spirits - be wary of using ‘the will of the spirits’ as an excuse. (A warning provided by Morgan, and a good lesson to heed.)

On the Beast, Riding Plants, and initiatory process:

The beast exists in everyone, regardless of if you have seen it. When you seek out witchcraft, you stir the beast. (Arguable, but I do not have enough evidence or the energy to refute this, but as I am early in my research I am not sure I entirely agree with this point; if anyone has opinions they wish to share or reading material on the topic I welcome it. Certainly you make yourself more interesting as you seek out witchcraft, you stir up things, but do I believe everyone has a beast? To be determined)

Riding plants was a thing far before riding animals or broomsticks.

Ragwort is known as being a steed of witches, alongside sorghum.

Things with the reputation of being hex breakers, magic counters, protection from maleficium usually have benevolent physical actions, (ex. sage, known for spiritual cleansing, is also an antiseptic)

Being ‘made’ consists of an initiatory crisis, (death/rebirth, symbolic) that includes power gifting and dismemberment, the power that has been given will try to remake the person into a suitable vessel. This can and will be a time of confusion and conflict. The process will feel like the threat of death to the body of the person under going it, whether thats physically or emotionally/mentally/situationally.

Visions of being taken apart of swallowed whole or dragged under (especially by your fetchbeast) are not uncommon testimonies to see.

The association of witches with death makes sense when we consider that initiation centers around death and dying; being remade and reborn, dismembered. They’re not the person they were before, and this reflects in what they bring with them.

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Getting Ready for Divorce in 2017 in Texas: Part Two of a Two Part Series

On the off chance that you have require a best reasonable Texas Divorce Law encounter, Getting Ready for Divorce in 2017 in Texas: Part Two of a Two Part Series with the immense procedure!

Spring Divorce Lawyer: This blog post is second in an installment of two articles intended to provide some assistance to people who are planning for a divorce in the near future. Part One of the series provided advice in regard to subjects ranging from:

finances to organizational techniques to your health. In Part Two we will discuss additional pieces of advice in regard to your finances as well as strategic decision-making techniques that will stand to benefit you both now and later in your divorce.

CHANGE YOUR PASSWORDS AND PIN NUMBERS

Houston Divorce Lawyer: This is a piece of advice that isn’t hard to implement, but it can be tedious. However- if you care about your security and want peace of mind when it comes to your life I would recommend you follow it.

Most of us have two or even one password that we use for bank account access, email and other online applications.

If you plan on filing for a divorce it is possible that your spouse (now your soon to be ex-spouse) may consider your private information to be fair game in terms of access. It is a smart decision to change passwords to your:

online accounts banks retirement accounts social media, etc. My advice would be to not use the tried and true method of “dog name plus sequential numbers” as your password either.

Use a random assortment of numbers, letters and symbols and create a new password for each website you need access to.

OPEN UP A SEPARATE E-MAIL ACCOUNT

Divorce Lawyer in Houston: How will you remember all those passwords, you may be asking? It would not hurt to create a new email address (one your spouse does not know about) to store information and communicate with your Texas divorce lawyer on.

If you and your spouse have email addresses or cell phones that allow mutual access “to the cloud” it would make sense to remove any sensitive information you have in the cloud and to store it in a separate account.

That’s not to say that your spouse can never get access to it (if, for instance, she was to serve you with discovery during the divorce) but it offers you a more secure location to proceed from.

PROTECT YOUR CREDIT AND REQUEST A CREDIT REPORT

Divorce Attorney Houston: A lot of us have credit cards that bear our name only but that our spouse is an authorized user of. An authorized user means that the person designated as such can use the card for purchases but is not responsible to the lender for the debts.

If this seems like a “having your cake and eating it to” type set up that’s because it is. Once you have hired a Houston divorce attorney and your divorce is imminent it is a good idea to remove your spouse as an authorized user on any credit card.

Additionally, it would serve you well to request a copy of your credit score and credit history at the outset of your Texas divorce. There are ways to make this request that doesn’t cost you any money and the benefit to doing so can be enormous.

For instance, many clients at the Law Office of Bryan Fagan have come to learn that your spouse had been using their name and credit to take out loans, open up credit card accounts and do other financial activity with their knowledge.

This is good to know sooner rather than later because any debts incurred in your name to benefit another person should not be your responsibility. However- if you only become aware of the debt after the divorce is completed it will be much more difficult to address this situation.

UPDATE YOUR BENEFICIARIES AND HAVE A NEW WILL DRAFTED

Houston Divorce Lawyers: If you are married it is likely that your spouse is the person named as a beneficiary on financial assets ranging from life insurance policies to investment accounts. Assuming that you do not want your soon to be ex-spouse to inherit these items upon your passing away, it is a good practice to review any documents that name your spouse as the beneficiary and to update those immediately.

The same concept applies to your Will. If you have a Will it is likely that your spouse stands to inherit much of your estate from you whenever the time is that you pass away.

Update your will to reflect the desired recipients of property and assets that you will own after the divorce is finalized. If you do not have a Will our advice is to have one drafted. This is important because if you die without a Will before the divorce is finalized your spouse stands to inherit most of your estate.

I will take this opportunity to note that the attorneys with the Law Office of Bryan Fagan are able to assist clients with the drafting of their Wills. If this is a service you are interested in do not hesitate to contact our office today to schedule an appointment with one of our attorneys to learn more about the process and to get the ball rolling.

HAVE A SPECIFIC PLAN WHEN IT COMES TO CUSTODY OF YOUR CHILDREN

Family Law Attorney Houston: Like most parents, you probably have concerns regarding your children as you begin to contemplate a divorce. Worrying, however, does not accomplish anything. Planning does.

Take steps to put a plan into action for getting what you want in a custody arrangement for your children. It is not enough to believe you are the “better parent” or that your spouse is “unfit” in some particular way. Building a case for custody is no different than building a case for anything else. Planning your testimony, collecting relevant documents and communicating your objectives to your divorce attorney are critical to achieving a desired outcome in regard to child custody during a divorce.

EXPERIENCED REPRESENTATION + PLANNING AHEAD – A GOOD START TO ANY DIVORCE IN TEXAS

Houston Divorce Attorney: While no person (attorneys included) can guarantee a particular result in a divorce case, you can give yourself a leg up by preparing well in advance and choosing an attorney that can act as an effective advocate for you. The attorneys with the Law Office of Bryan Fagan represent clients throughout southeast Texas and are prepared to help you as well.

We hope that this series of articles on pre-divorce advice was helpful to you. A divorce is difficult enough, no matter the circumstances. Please contact our office with any questions and to learn more about our Houston divorce attorneys and how we can assist you and your family during this difficult time ... Continue Reading

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The Mueller Report 2: Revengence

So, with the redacted Mueller Report now released to the public and available to read freely here, a few things have become very clear, so let’s go over them. First, let’s start with what Mueller learned about the Russian Collusion.

Now, let’s be absolutely clear here - the Mueller Report confirms, beyond shadow of any reasonable doubt, that Russia stuck its fingers into the American Election pie. If you don’t believe they did at this point then you’re a conspiracy theorist, plane and simple. End of discussion.

The question of whether or not Trump and his associates were involved is another, more complicated matter. Originally, I thought that there was no evidence found, but it turns out it’s a lot more insane than that. Because of course it fucking is. To illustrate why, I’ll just...tell you a bit about how the Russia meeting everyone is talking about happened.

So, Michael Cohen had, for a very long time, been talking to the Russians about a Tower to be built for Trump in Moscow. The Trump Tower, we’ve all heard of it by this point. Whether or not Trump should have even been making business arrangements with a country who were on as rocky terms with as Russia while he was running for President is separate matter. Either way, Cohen was talking to them. At one point, a man named Dmitry Klokov, formerly a press secretary in Putin’s government, contacted Ivanka Trump through his Ex-wife to get in touch with Cohen. Which I mean, what exactly is the reason for this level of cirquotusness if you’re not planning something bad? Anyway, Ivanka spoke to Cohen, who then wrote him an email to Klokov in an attempt to further get in touch. The problem is, Cohen didn’t proofread his letter, sending it to a .gof.ru address instead of, you know a .gov.ru address. Which I can only mean there’s some Russian goth with a lisp there who is very confused why Michael Cohen is trying to talk to him about secret information. After it took too long for him to respond, Cohen decided to google him, and instead came up with a Olympic Level Bodybuilder by the same name, who he then proceeded to confuse for the Former Press Secretary he was supposed to be talking to. Apparently, even after finally getting in touch with the real man, he still thought he was a jacking ripped bodybuilder.

And don’t get me started on Eric, Jared and Ivanka. Those idiots wouldn’t know they were doing something illegal if a police officer drove up to them and smacked them upside the head with a fine.

It’s that level of incompetence that makes Mueller unwilling to say that these guys were knowingly engaging in subterfuge. Isn’t that the perfect symbol for this administration? The only reason that they can’t get pinned on doing anything wrong is because in a lot of these cases you need to prove intent to break the law. This is a far cry from the declaration William Barr made that he was completely exonerated from the Russian investigation.

The other matter, obstruction of justice, is even less like what Barr said. Something everyone who knew what was going on was certain of - it was the first time Mueller and his team spoke up about anything at all in regard to this, to say “That’s not what I wrote!”

But if the cocktail of insanity that makes up the Mueller Reports could be distilled into two parts, one part would be that incompetence, and the other part would be disobedience.

For that part, we should look at the story of Don McGahn.

    Once upon a time, there was a man name Don McGahn. When a big fat orange idiot was elected leader of a country, through irrelevant circumstances, Mr. McGahn became the Console to his position. He was a wise man, who believed in justice, even if he was very confused. One day, the Big Fat Idiot Orange Man realized that there might be people looking into his illicit dealings, and so he ordered the man who was investigating him to be fired. Don McGahn told people that’s what the Big Fat Idiot Orange Man had said. Upon hearing this, the Big Fat Idiot Orange Man became very upset, and told him to lie about that having happened. “This doesn’t look good,” said the Big Fat Idiot Orange Man “you have to tell them that’s not what I said!”  especially when that very same man called him to talk about the shady things that had been happening.

    It was then that a Hero came to investigate the Big Fat Idiot Orange Man and they asked to speak to Don McGahn. Don McGahn was very confused, but did his civic duty and came before the court, and did as he should have, telling all the nasty secrets the Big Fat Idiot Orange Man had done over the course of dozens of hours. The Big Fat Idiot Orange Man then demanded that Don McGahn answer for his hideous and evil crime of telling the truth to federal prosecutors. See, the Big Fat Idiot Orange Man was also very stupid.

    The Big Fat Idiot Orange Man continued to ask Mr. McGahn “Why won’t you lie for me!?” He grumbled. “You work for me, so you should do what I say!”

“Because I don’t.” McGahn replied. “I work for the seat you sit in, and lying for you is not my job and is, in fact, illegal.”

McGahn continued to inform the askers all about the bad things the Big Fat Idiot Orange Man had done, and because the Big Fat Idiot Orange Man was a freaking idiot he let him do it, and in so doing gave away the one protection that could perhaps keep McGahn talking. Executive Privilege.

McGahn would go on to be cited over a hundred times in the report, and to quit, telling the president “I won’t do crazy shit for you.”

And that’s the legend of Don McGahn.

This story appears a lot in the Mueller Report. People who were asked to do something that was obviously obstruction, but who refused to do it because that’s literally the worst crime. His is just the clearest cut, especially because of the consequences of it. Don McGahn’s testimony was a pattern for the Mueller investigation. It’s incredible what they managed to find, and for his part Mueller is doing an admirable job.

Some of you may be asking why are you so happy with this if so much of it is redacted, and Mueller didn’t explicitly say that he is guilty of obstruction. When I last spoke about the report, I hypothesized that this was because he didn’t have enough evidence to really want to make a move because that’s a difficult decision to do on shawdy evidence. But reading the report, I learned that the actual answer to that is Mueller believes that’s not his job. As a person in Department of Justice, it is, in his opinion, Congress’ job to make such indictments and impeachment proceedings. He does not believe he is within his rights to do that. Whether or not he is right or wrong is irrelevant. What is, is this. In order to make a case for obstruction of justice, you must prove three things: An act of obstruction occurred, that there is some sort of nexus - or connection - between a legal body and the act, and that there was corrupt intent in performing the act.

And for as many instances as he can, Mueller plainly lines out, methodically and without doubt, evidence supporting each of those three things. Between that and the remaining contents of data we learned, Mueller has not only left a bread crumb trail to follow, he’s basically cut down the entire forest in the way. He wants this done right - he wants Congress to indict and or impeach him.

Which is all well and good for his moral conscious I suppose, but I don’t know if the collective members of this Congress have the nuts to impeach the idiot. Honestly I feel like if this were a democratic president he’d have been thrown under the bus long ago, but that’s another story. Even the members who do have the gaul to hold a criminal accountable for his actions, there’s the fact that criminal is the President of the United States. One of our country's greatest strengths is the system of checks and balances it has in place to keep any one person from getting too much power. But those checks and balances - as well as a convoluted legal system - are on Trump’s side. Congress has already subpoenaed Don McGahn, but they’re trying to fight that on the grounds of “executive privilege.” A defense they threw out when they let him talk to Mueller. Even though it’s pointless - it will be overturned - it still takes time to do that. Time Trump can use. Time that makes the democrats look incompetent. Which is the whole point.

The entire point of Trump’s act has been yelling that he’s right, and then expecting everyone to just believe him. And some people do. The more doubt he can shed, the more difficult it’ll be to actually get him out. Not because it won’t be any harder, but because there’ll be an army of very stupid and very angry people ready to start bombing people for being evil or whatever.

And yes, Trump Supporters have attempted to bomb people.

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Quran as a discourse

In this post, I am going to be dealing with parts of the Quran that are difficult to come to terms with for those who want to live with a progressive moral set and follow the no harm principle. These are also parts of the Quran that critics usually use to attack Muslims. So before doing that, let us first appreciate these beautiful verses. From Surah Al-Hujurat: "O mankind, indeed we have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another. Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.". Surah Ash-Sharh: "So truly where there is hardship there is also ease".

Quran as a discourse

There is a distinction between the Quran as a scripture and the Quran as a discourse [1]. The Quran as a discourse is a conversation between the prophet Muhammed (P.B.U.H), the believers and unbelievers of the time, and the divine. This conversation is a process of arguing, debating, and agreeing on issues. It is the discourse that is holy, not the text itself which is a silent record. The scripture as we know it today was codified after the prophets death by the Caliph and companion of the prophet, Uthman ( May Allah be pleased with him ) who burnt other variants. When we fail to remember the Quran is a discourse, we become slaves of literalism and idolise scripture.

The Quran (Surah Nuh 4:11) states that women should get a half of the inheritance of a man, and that the testimony of one man is worth the testimony of two women. The Quran as scripture outlook leads to taking this as a literal ruling, but taking Quran as a discourse we see an attempt to persuade the 7th century Arabs of the time to actually consider the opinions of women, and to allocate them at least some inheritance. This was in a time where new born daughters were at risk of being buried in the dessert. The literal ruling is considered sexist in modern times but it was probably a compromise with the community. Change does not happen over night, and doing things slowly and in stages seems to be a common pattern in Islam. This is shown by the Quran not being revealed overnight, but over a period of 23 years. The overarching intention of the discourse is to give women more rights. The modern consequent of this is to have equal rights. We should be looking at the intention of the discourse between the revelation and the community of the time rather than the literalistic meaning.

The Quran states that slaves should be treated fairly, that it is good to free slaves, and that it is permissible to have sex with slaves. The intention of the discourse here is not to introduce slavery into the community, it already existed. It is to make the treatment of slaves better. That is the intention of the discourse. Therefore, when reading the Quran we should not take away that slavery is ok, but instead take away that the situation should be made fairer, the most moral conclusion from that discourse that has been accepted in modern times is to ban slavery.

But what about when we can't make it work?

What about when we find something that is incompatible with our morals, and we can not find any underlying idea that pushes for greater morals as in the example of the inheritance of women? Reject it. You heard me correctly. This does not mean sticking our heads in the sand and pretending it doesn't exist. It doesn't mean that we reject the Quran itself. It just means we are playing a role in the discourse. We instead acknowledge that it was part of the discourse on what makes a moral society by 7th century standards. When we read the Quran we become a party in that discourse, and therefore we have the right to say no, this is abhorrent and not fit for societies in the 21st century.

Let us look at the following verse which may trouble you. Surah An-Nur Verse 2: "The [unmarried] woman or [unmarried] man found guilty of sexual intercourse - lash each one of them with a hundred lashes, and do not be taken by pity for them in the religion of Allah, if you should believe in Allah and the Last Day. And let a group of the believers witness their punishment." When dealing with such a verse there are three camps of Muslims:

1. Those who accept it as a literal ruling to be applied in the modern day under a legitimate Islamic State. 2. Those who desperately try to justify it by playing mental gymnastics. This commonly involves looking for different meanings of words that differ from the meanings that have been accepted by the majority of Arabs for hundreds of years. 3. Those who understand the verse to be applicable to the discourse at the time with 7th century peoples who lack the advanced moral compass we have today and therefore reject it.

We do not need to speak about the fist camp, we must be patient and wait for their condition to change whilst setting a good example. The second camp are in a sad state. There is nothing wrong with looking for hidden and metaphorical meanings, as long as you are being honest with others and more importantly yourself. But, if you are constantly jumping through hoops and making things up to justify things that don't look right, you will eventually grow tired of your own incoherence. At that stage most people either regress to fundamentalism or drift away from their Islamic identity, some becoming ex-muslims. These are the hipsters who look at a verse and say "No brother, actually the root word of this means that, and the kasra is missing, and therefore what it says it means isn't actually what it means, but instead it means a tree that has been born of a seed that has been excreted by an animal". If you are in this camp, I beg you to visit the third camp and drink tea with us. Here our religious belief is completely consistent with living with modern progressive values, without the hypocrisy. This is the only camp which has a chance of reforming societies and contributing to the development of Muslim civilisation.

I advocate for the third camp. It is practiced by millions of Muslims around the world but sadly rarely articulated or encouraged. I reject the verse above as a ruling, as it is incompatible with my conscience and moral compass, and I hope that it is also incompatible with yours. This doesn't take me out of the fold of Islam, I am simply taking part in the discourse that is the Quran. This doesn't make my prayers any less meaningful, or negatively affect my relationship with God.

There is something interesting about the third camp. We are disliked by both anti-muslim bigots and fundamental Daeshi mentality Muslims alike. The anti-muslim bigots try to make us look bad by presenting hadiths and versus about whipping fornicators, executing apostates, and stoning. When we respond with, “yes those exist, but we Muslims accept these as dated rulings and don't follow them”, the anti-muslim bigot suddenly loses his cannon fodder and has nothing left to attack us with. They hate us as we do not fit into their modal of the Muslim who is incompatible with liberal values. On the other hand, you have the Daeshi mentality Muslims who hate us for not taking everything literally. The anti-muslim bigots love these fundamentalists as they fit the mould for their propaganda. The irony. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, “Never be extreme regarding religion. Many nations have been destroyed before you only because of extremism in religion.”

Sources

[1] - Humanistic hermeneutics of the Quran - Nasr Abu Zayd. I fist encountered the idea of Qu'ran as a discourse here so I must attribute it. Although the thoughts expressed in the second half of the post are not the views of that author (Allah yarhamo). If you are interested in a more academic read about the Qu'ran as a discourse I recommend this 60 page read.

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EL CAJON, California, Oct 9, 2018 (LifeSiteNews) – On Oct 4th, San Diego’s Bishop Robert McElroy held the third in a series of 8 “listening classes” that he mentioned would “focus on searching for input from folks in the pews” concerning the sexual abuse disaster in the Catholic Church and the actions essential to mend from the scandal.

A crowd of roughly 300 folks crammed the parish hall of Our Woman of Grace in El Cajon. The hall was renamed final week immediately after getting originally named in honor of Monsignor Thomas Moloney, a previous pastor at Our Woman of Grace who was named in the diocese’ 2007 listing of monks from whom “credible allegations” of sexual abuse have been lifted. 

Right before the function could formally get started, a gentleman rose to his toes and started to discuss, commanding attention with out the support of a microphone. Billy, a parishioner at Our Woman of Grace, read through a testimony concerning his time at a Catholic youth camp in Southern Illinois, Camp Ondessonk, where by he claimed he was a sufferer of sexual grooming. 

Billy recalled getting requested by the youth camp’s grownup male team to be a part of them in stripping naked before going down a drinking water slide. He complied. 

“I can’t assistance but recognize we were being getting scoped out to be raped,” he mentioned.

He could not remember no matter if clergy were being among the team, but mentioned that Camp Ondessonk was launched by Father Robert Vonnahmen. Vonnahem, now deceased, was inevitably defrocked in excess of allegations that he sexually abused minors though director of the camp. Billy mentioned the understanding that he was at a area where by this kind of atrocities occurred, probably from his peers, has been extremely painful for him.

While Billy was speaking, numerous hired safety guards approached him and attempted to silence him. In accordance to Billy, the guards also physically eradicated his fifteen-calendar year-outdated daughter for filming her father’s testimony. Nonetheless, Bishop McElory, standing in the again of the hall, authorized the gentleman to continue on speaking. 

Billy ongoing, “How are we intended to have faith in the bishops? The same bishops that were being intended to repair this before – we are intended to have faith in them all over again to repair it now? By this place, McElroy had joined the gentleman at the front of the area. Billy turned to deal with McElroy and mentioned, “I’m chatting about you, Bishop. I can’t think a reasonable gentleman would overlook Dr. Sipe’s letter.” 

Billy was referring to a 2016 letter published by now deceased Dr. Richard Sipe, a previous Benedictine Monk, psychotherapist, and pro witness in cases involving clergy sexual abuse. After two meetings with McElroy to explore the sexual abuse disaster, Sipe hired a approach server, posing as a donor, to supply a letter to the bishop that in depth allegations of sexual abuse by monks and the subsequent address-up by church management. Sipe despatched the letter this way immediately after McElroy’s team informed him, according to Sipe, that the bishop could not meet up with with him at any time in the foreseeable future. Included among these were being the abuses that ex-Cardinal Theodore McCarrick fully commited from seminarians. 

In a diocesan statement issued on August eight of this calendar year, McElroy mentioned, “After I read through [Sipe’s letter], I wrote to Dr. Sipe and informed him that his final decision to engage a approach server who operated below fake pretenses, and his final decision to duplicate his letter to me to a large audience, made further more discussions at a level of have faith in unattainable.”

In an obvious rebuttal to McElroy’s statement, Billy mentioned, “If someone despatched me that letter, I’d make it my life’s function to…disprove a mad man’s theories or to rid this evil from the root of my church. It truly is around the globe!” His remarks were being met with boisterous applause.

Pointing to McElroy, who was just a few toes away, Billy then stated, “I have no faith in your will or your character.” He concluded his remarks by declaring, “Until anything is exposed into the light-weight of God, we can not mend.”

McElroy phone calls Viganò’s statement not ‘fair-minded’

The night introduced other difficult questions for McElroy, numerous of which resolved the letter published by Archbishop Carlo Maria Viganò, previous papal nuncio to the United States, concerning ex-Cardinal McCarrick and Pope Francis’ handling of the disaster.

One desk requested, “You show up to dismiss Viganò’s statements based mostly on your feeling of his character. Nonetheless, Cardinal DiNardo and some of your brother bishops have referred to as for an investigation of these statements. Will you guidance this investigation, and what specifically are you going to do to guidance it?”

McElroy replied that there were being two main themes to Viganó’s letter: the to start with concerned McCarrick and the query of how he came to a position of this kind of electricity in the Church despite his lengthy background of sexual abuses. The 2nd, mentioned McElroy, was “crafted in a way that was designed to concentration all the accountability on Pope Francis and anybody affiliated with him and to conceal accountability of other folks mainly because there was a political agenda.” 

An audience member slice McElroy off, declaring, “So you are keen to dismiss the full relaxation of [Vigano’s] letter based mostly on what you feel his motives were being?” McElroy chided the audience member, declaring that the session’s structure referred to as for just one query per desk. But the next desk stayed with the subject matter, asking, “How is it that 80 bishops have mentioned we required an investigation due to the fact this hottest data came to light…and 5 were being opposed, named in Archbishop Viganó’s testimony. And just one of them was on your own. So we question: why is this?”

McElroy replied that he agrees there requires to be an investigation in the dioceses in which McCarrick had served. On listening to this, a further attendee shouted, “Which is not accurate! That is not accurate that you are in favor of the investigation. That has not been your statement.” McElroy answered, “I have persistently mentioned in all of these classes, I have mentioned many situations before, I feel these questions have to be answered. But I have also mentioned that that is not a truthful-minded statement of Archbishop Viganó it had an agenda to it which is ideological and aimed at undermining Pope Francis.” An audience member retorted, “Why would he be in hiding if it can be an agenda? He is in hiding! It is not an agenda, he is telling the truth!” Her remark obtained hearty applause.

McElroy downplays chastity amidst abuse crisis 

The dialogue then shifted away from Viganó and toward the role that homosexuality has performed in the sexual abuse scandal.  “What is the Church performing to handle the issue of homosexuality, specifically energetic homosexual activity, in clergy?” requested just one participant.

Speaking about the significance of monks faithfully residing their simply call to celibacy, McElroy responded, “If I occur across an instance where by [chastity is not getting lived out], then I have to offer extremely strongly with that no matter if it’s homosexual or heterosexual.”

Yet another desk requested, “Could you affirm the church’s teaching that all are beloved and welcome, but homosexual actions are sinful?” McElroy affirmed that we are all referred to as to stay out the advantage of chastity, but additional — echoing a sentiment he earlier expressed in The us journal — “Chastity is not the only advantage, nor is it the most vital advantage. The most vital advantage Christ tells us is to really like our God with all our coronary heart and to really like our neighbors as ourselves. And sometimes folks decrease specific males and ladies to just one dimension of their life.” McElroy concluded by reaffirming Church teaching that “sexual activity normally takes area morally only within the context of relationship between a gentleman and a girl.” and that “no human being who is homosexual should suffer unjust discrimination mainly because of that – or violence.”

Interrupting the next questioner, a girl interjected, “Bishop McElroy, the purpose that we feel that you are advertising and marketing LGBT is mainly because you use that nomenclature…You use the nomenclature of the homosexual activist agenda…You are advocating for removing the term ‘intrinsically disordered’ from the catechism with regards to homosexual acts. You are supporting what is going on down at St. John the Evangelist, mainly because you came and concelebrated at the ‘Always our Children’ mass final Oct with Auxiliary Bishop Dolan, and all of the homosexual activists from San Diego were being given front row seats.” 

After the girl alleged that the parish of St John the Evangelist had an openly homosexual gentleman “working the exhibit,” the Bishop slice her off, declaring, “Alright, you’ve got long gone significantly ample now. You are not going to stand right here and disparage an worker of the diocese. You can leave if you are going to do that. The other items you can say—you can not attack an worker of the diocese…I owe it to the staff members of the Archdiocese [sic] not to let those calumnies be mentioned.”

When requested for his thoughts following the function, participant Chris Sawaya, a parishioner at St. Kieran, mentioned, “[The bishop] clearly won’t contemplate sexual activity among older people to be any of his company, which is disconcerting, contemplating the elephant in the area is homosexual predation and unchastity among clergy. I feel this whole conflict is nevertheless missing the true battle. We are observing the fruit of a 50-calendar year-outdated rebellion from church teaching on human sexuality. He talked about that chastity is not the most vital advantage. Now that’s a hell of thing to say in the context of this scandal.”

The listening classes are getting hosted at just one parish in every single of the 8 deaneries, or regions, within the San Diego diocese. Our Woman of Grace is in the El Cajon deanery, which includes 16 parishes. Father Peter McGuine, Pastor of Our Woman of Grace Church mentioned, “The bishop’s ‘listening session’ provided a protected ecosystem for those in attendance to listen to from just one a further, to listen to from the bishop, and, most importantly, for the bishop to listen to from them on a subject matter and chapter in the background of the regional church that is excruciatingly painful for all of us.” 

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How to Get a Divorce When you are Struggling Financially

It’s very difficult ending a long-term relationship and even more when doing so will put a toll on your finances. This is particularly true for stay-at-home moms who are financially dependent on their spouses. Divorce can be a costly process, particularly when children are involved. But there are ways to alleviate these financial burdens and strategically plan a successful divorce with the help of a Salt Lake City divorce attorney.

SOME THINGS THAT MAY HELP IN DIVORCE

Let’s start with your joint credit cards and any other department store card. You should cancel them before the divorce takes place. This will avoid a common problem divorcees have in court where a spouse is held responsible for the other going on a shopping spree.

Use joint funds to fix your car, home improvement projects, buying clothes for your children, or any other necessity. It’s best getting a divorce with everything fixed otherwise you will have to argue with your ex about who should cover these expenses.

Open a PO Box where all important correspondence with your attorney is kept safe.

SAVING MONEY

You can open an account in your name and save some money. You will eventually tell your ex but remember this money can help you pay for your divorce. It’s also helpful to apply for your own credit cards. It will help you establish your credit and help you find financial stability after all joint accounts are canceled. If you need some cash now, you can always borrow money from trusted sources.

MAKE SURE YOU GATHER IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS

Keep copies of your taxes, wills, financial statements, loan applications, insurance, car registration, etc. Even if you are not sure about getting a divorce, have these documents ready. Keeping an eye on your finances may help you get a good settlement. Keep a copy of all records of separate property, including gifts and inheritance. This belongs to you but you must prove is yours.

ALIMONY AND CHILD SUPPORT

Don’t relinquish your right to spousal support even when you think you don’t deserve it. If you waived your rights, you won’t be able to get them back. Instead of receiving monthly payments consider receiving a lump sum. Remember those monthly payments may never make it to your bank account. Avoid child support fights as it can get very costly. Tell your attorney you will rather follow the local guidelines.

MARITAL PROPERTY

Think about the stuff that you really want to keep. Don’t become greedy. It may be nice to keep your home but it’ll also cost you to maintain it. Think within your budget. Think about your degrees and their value and don’t forget assets such as vacation, flyer miles, subscriptions to magazines, timeshares, and insurances as they also have value that can be shared between both spouses.

HOW DO I PREPARE MY DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASE?

When a person has been abused by someone he or she loves and trusts, it may take a great deal of effort to speak out. Often, victims are groomed by the perpetrators to believe that they deserved the abusive behavior. When he or she finally faces that person in court, it can be an intimidating event. There are guidelines that may be helpful to Utah residents who have experienced domestic violence at the hands of someone they care for that may offer them peace of mind.

Contacting any witnesses who may have seen the abuse occur or the injuries that resulted can contribute to a victim’s case, as testimony can be helpful in proving what happened. Any evidence or documentation that shows that abuse took place is important. This could include medical records, court testimony and police reports. Dated photos of injuries, 911-call audio tapes and other records are also relevant. If a victim does not have any of these, his or her testimony is still considered evidence and is very important. Victims may find it beneficial to practice telling what happened prior to being asked to do so in court. It can help calm one’s nerves and help to recall any additional details that might have been forgotten. Being specific about what occurred and focusing on relevant information is crucial. Though it can be an emotional event — and there is nothing wrong with feeling emotional — it is still important to observe courtroom etiquette, such as being on time, being prepared and dressing appropriately. Concentrating on the truth and knowing that it is okay to not know the answer to or understand a question may be reassuring to victims.

There are many other helpful tips for pursuing a domestic violence case. Any Utah residents who are pursuing these types of charges as part of divorce proceedings may benefit from the advice of those who are experienced in this area. It may be difficult, but it can also be the first step to a new future.

Free Consultation with Divorce Lawyer in Utah

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How to Get a Divorce When you are Struggling Financially

It’s very difficult ending a long-term relationship and even more when doing so will put a toll on your finances. This is particularly true for stay-at-home moms who are financially dependent on their spouses. Divorce can be a costly process, particularly when children are involved. But there are ways to alleviate these financial burdens and strategically plan a successful divorce with the help of a Salt Lake City divorce attorney.

SOME THINGS THAT MAY HELP IN DIVORCE

Let’s start with your joint credit cards and any other department store card. You should cancel them before the divorce takes place. This will avoid a common problem divorcees have in court where a spouse is held responsible for the other going on a shopping spree.

Use joint funds to fix your car, home improvement projects, buying clothes for your children, or any other necessity. It’s best getting a divorce with everything fixed otherwise you will have to argue with your ex about who should cover these expenses.

Open a PO Box where all important correspondence with your attorney is kept safe.

SAVING MONEY

You can open an account in your name and save some money. You will eventually tell your ex but remember this money can help you pay for your divorce. It’s also helpful to apply for your own credit cards. It will help you establish your credit and help you find financial stability after all joint accounts are canceled. If you need some cash now, you can always borrow money from trusted sources.

MAKE SURE YOU GATHER IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS

Keep copies of your taxes, wills, financial statements, loan applications, insurance, car registration, etc. Even if you are not sure about getting a divorce, have these documents ready. Keeping an eye on your finances may help you get a good settlement. Keep a copy of all records of separate property, including gifts and inheritance. This belongs to you but you must prove is yours.

ALIMONY AND CHILD SUPPORT

Don’t relinquish your right to spousal support even when you think you don’t deserve it. If you waived your rights, you won’t be able to get them back. Instead of receiving monthly payments consider receiving a lump sum. Remember those monthly payments may never make it to your bank account. Avoid child support fights as it can get very costly. Tell your attorney you will rather follow the local guidelines.

MARITAL PROPERTY

Think about the stuff that you really want to keep. Don’t become greedy. It may be nice to keep your home but it’ll also cost you to maintain it. Think within your budget. Think about your degrees and their value and don’t forget assets such as vacation, flyer miles, subscriptions to magazines, timeshares, and insurances as they also have value that can be shared between both spouses.

HOW DO I PREPARE MY DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASE?

When a person has been abused by someone he or she loves and trusts, it may take a great deal of effort to speak out. Often, victims are groomed by the perpetrators to believe that they deserved the abusive behavior. When he or she finally faces that person in court, it can be an intimidating event. There are guidelines that may be helpful to Utah residents who have experienced domestic violence at the hands of someone they care for that may offer them peace of mind.

Contacting any witnesses who may have seen the abuse occur or the injuries that resulted can contribute to a victim’s case, as testimony can be helpful in proving what happened. Any evidence or documentation that shows that abuse took place is important. This could include medical records, court testimony and police reports. Dated photos of injuries, 911-call audio tapes and other records are also relevant. If a victim does not have any of these, his or her testimony is still considered evidence and is very important. Victims may find it beneficial to practice telling what happened prior to being asked to do so in court. It can help calm one’s nerves and help to recall any additional details that might have been forgotten. Being specific about what occurred and focusing on relevant information is crucial. Though it can be an emotional event — and there is nothing wrong with feeling emotional — it is still important to observe courtroom etiquette, such as being on time, being prepared and dressing appropriately. Concentrating on the truth and knowing that it is okay to not know the answer to or understand a question may be reassuring to victims.

There are many other helpful tips for pursuing a domestic violence case. Any Utah residents who are pursuing these types of charges as part of divorce proceedings may benefit from the advice of those who are experienced in this area. It may be difficult, but it can also be the first step to a new future.

Free Consultation with Divorce Lawyer in Utah

If you have a question about divorce law or if you need to start or defend against a divorce case in Utah call Ascent Law at (801) 676-5506. We will fight for you.

Ascent Law LLC8833 S. Redwood Road, Suite CWest Jordan, Utah 84088 United StatesTelephone: (801) 676-5506

Ascent Law LLC

4.9 stars – based on 67 reviews

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Can I Be Denied a Job Because of Bankruptcy?

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How to Get a Divorce When you are Struggling Financially

It’s very difficult ending a long-term relationship and even more when doing so will put a toll on your finances. This is particularly true for stay-at-home moms who are financially dependent on their spouses. Divorce can be a costly process, particularly when children are involved. But there are ways to alleviate these financial burdens and strategically plan a successful divorce with the help of a Salt Lake City divorce attorney.

SOME THINGS THAT MAY HELP IN DIVORCE

Let’s start with your joint credit cards and any other department store card. You should cancel them before the divorce takes place. This will avoid a common problem divorcees have in court where a spouse is held responsible for the other going on a shopping spree.

Use joint funds to fix your car, home improvement projects, buying clothes for your children, or any other necessity. It’s best getting a divorce with everything fixed otherwise you will have to argue with your ex about who should cover these expenses.

Open a PO Box where all important correspondence with your attorney is kept safe.

SAVING MONEY

You can open an account in your name and save some money. You will eventually tell your ex but remember this money can help you pay for your divorce. It’s also helpful to apply for your own credit cards. It will help you establish your credit and help you find financial stability after all joint accounts are canceled. If you need some cash now, you can always borrow money from trusted sources.

MAKE SURE YOU GATHER IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS

Keep copies of your taxes, wills, financial statements, loan applications, insurance, car registration, etc. Even if you are not sure about getting a divorce, have these documents ready. Keeping an eye on your finances may help you get a good settlement. Keep a copy of all records of separate property, including gifts and inheritance. This belongs to you but you must prove is yours.

ALIMONY AND CHILD SUPPORT

Don’t relinquish your right to spousal support even when you think you don’t deserve it. If you waived your rights, you won’t be able to get them back. Instead of receiving monthly payments consider receiving a lump sum. Remember those monthly payments may never make it to your bank account. Avoid child support fights as it can get very costly. Tell your attorney you will rather follow the local guidelines.

MARITAL PROPERTY

Think about the stuff that you really want to keep. Don’t become greedy. It may be nice to keep your home but it’ll also cost you to maintain it. Think within your budget. Think about your degrees and their value and don’t forget assets such as vacation, flyer miles, subscriptions to magazines, timeshares, and insurances as they also have value that can be shared between both spouses.

HOW DO I PREPARE MY DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASE?

When a person has been abused by someone he or she loves and trusts, it may take a great deal of effort to speak out. Often, victims are groomed by the perpetrators to believe that they deserved the abusive behavior. When he or she finally faces that person in court, it can be an intimidating event. There are guidelines that may be helpful to Utah residents who have experienced domestic violence at the hands of someone they care for that may offer them peace of mind.

Contacting any witnesses who may have seen the abuse occur or the injuries that resulted can contribute to a victim’s case, as testimony can be helpful in proving what happened. Any evidence or documentation that shows that abuse took place is important. This could include medical records, court testimony and police reports. Dated photos of injuries, 911-call audio tapes and other records are also relevant. If a victim does not have any of these, his or her testimony is still considered evidence and is very important. Victims may find it beneficial to practice telling what happened prior to being asked to do so in court. It can help calm one’s nerves and help to recall any additional details that might have been forgotten. Being specific about what occurred and focusing on relevant information is crucial. Though it can be an emotional event — and there is nothing wrong with feeling emotional — it is still important to observe courtroom etiquette, such as being on time, being prepared and dressing appropriately. Concentrating on the truth and knowing that it is okay to not know the answer to or understand a question may be reassuring to victims.

There are many other helpful tips for pursuing a domestic violence case. Any Utah residents who are pursuing these types of charges as part of divorce proceedings may benefit from the advice of those who are experienced in this area. It may be difficult, but it can also be the first step to a new future.

Free Consultation with Divorce Lawyer in Utah

If you have a question about divorce law or if you need to start or defend against a divorce case in Utah call Ascent Law at (801) 676-5506. We will fight for you.

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How to Get a Divorce When you are Struggling Financially

It’s very difficult ending a long-term relationship and even more when doing so will put a toll on your finances. This is particularly true for stay-at-home moms who are financially dependent on their spouses. Divorce can be a costly process, particularly when children are involved. But there are ways to alleviate these financial burdens and strategically plan a successful divorce with the help of a Salt Lake City divorce attorney.

SOME THINGS THAT MAY HELP IN DIVORCE

Let’s start with your joint credit cards and any other department store card. You should cancel them before the divorce takes place. This will avoid a common problem divorcees have in court where a spouse is held responsible for the other going on a shopping spree.

Use joint funds to fix your car, home improvement projects, buying clothes for your children, or any other necessity. It’s best getting a divorce with everything fixed otherwise you will have to argue with your ex about who should cover these expenses.

Open a PO Box where all important correspondence with your attorney is kept safe.

SAVING MONEY

You can open an account in your name and save some money. You will eventually tell your ex but remember this money can help you pay for your divorce. It’s also helpful to apply for your own credit cards. It will help you establish your credit and help you find financial stability after all joint accounts are canceled. If you need some cash now, you can always borrow money from trusted sources.

MAKE SURE YOU GATHER IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS

Keep copies of your taxes, wills, financial statements, loan applications, insurance, car registration, etc. Even if you are not sure about getting a divorce, have these documents ready. Keeping an eye on your finances may help you get a good settlement. Keep a copy of all records of separate property, including gifts and inheritance. This belongs to you but you must prove is yours.

ALIMONY AND CHILD SUPPORT

Don’t relinquish your right to spousal support even when you think you don’t deserve it. If you waived your rights, you won’t be able to get them back. Instead of receiving monthly payments consider receiving a lump sum. Remember those monthly payments may never make it to your bank account. Avoid child support fights as it can get very costly. Tell your attorney you will rather follow the local guidelines.

MARITAL PROPERTY

Think about the stuff that you really want to keep. Don’t become greedy. It may be nice to keep your home but it’ll also cost you to maintain it. Think within your budget. Think about your degrees and their value and don’t forget assets such as vacation, flyer miles, subscriptions to magazines, timeshares, and insurances as they also have value that can be shared between both spouses.

HOW DO I PREPARE MY DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASE?

When a person has been abused by someone he or she loves and trusts, it may take a great deal of effort to speak out. Often, victims are groomed by the perpetrators to believe that they deserved the abusive behavior. When he or she finally faces that person in court, it can be an intimidating event. There are guidelines that may be helpful to Utah residents who have experienced domestic violence at the hands of someone they care for that may offer them peace of mind.

Contacting any witnesses who may have seen the abuse occur or the injuries that resulted can contribute to a victim’s case, as testimony can be helpful in proving what happened. Any evidence or documentation that shows that abuse took place is important. This could include medical records, court testimony and police reports. Dated photos of injuries, 911-call audio tapes and other records are also relevant. If a victim does not have any of these, his or her testimony is still considered evidence and is very important. Victims may find it beneficial to practice telling what happened prior to being asked to do so in court. It can help calm one’s nerves and help to recall any additional details that might have been forgotten. Being specific about what occurred and focusing on relevant information is crucial. Though it can be an emotional event — and there is nothing wrong with feeling emotional — it is still important to observe courtroom etiquette, such as being on time, being prepared and dressing appropriately. Concentrating on the truth and knowing that it is okay to not know the answer to or understand a question may be reassuring to victims.

There are many other helpful tips for pursuing a domestic violence case. Any Utah residents who are pursuing these types of charges as part of divorce proceedings may benefit from the advice of those who are experienced in this area. It may be difficult, but it can also be the first step to a new future.

Free Consultation with Divorce Lawyer in Utah

If you have a question about divorce law or if you need to start or defend against a divorce case in Utah call Ascent Law at (801) 676-5506. We will fight for you.

Ascent Law LLC8833 S. Redwood Road, Suite CWest Jordan, Utah 84088 United StatesTelephone: (801) 676-5506

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4.9 stars – based on 67 reviews

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How to Get a Divorce When you are Struggling Financially

It’s very difficult ending a long-term relationship and even more when doing so will put a toll on your finances. This is particularly true for stay-at-home moms who are financially dependent on their spouses. Divorce can be a costly process, particularly when children are involved. But there are ways to alleviate these financial burdens and strategically plan a successful divorce with the help of a Salt Lake City divorce attorney.

SOME THINGS THAT MAY HELP IN DIVORCE

Let’s start with your joint credit cards and any other department store card. You should cancel them before the divorce takes place. This will avoid a common problem divorcees have in court where a spouse is held responsible for the other going on a shopping spree.

Use joint funds to fix your car, home improvement projects, buying clothes for your children, or any other necessity. It’s best getting a divorce with everything fixed otherwise you will have to argue with your ex about who should cover these expenses.

Open a PO Box where all important correspondence with your attorney is kept safe.

SAVING MONEY

You can open an account in your name and save some money. You will eventually tell your ex but remember this money can help you pay for your divorce. It’s also helpful to apply for your own credit cards. It will help you establish your credit and help you find financial stability after all joint accounts are canceled. If you need some cash now, you can always borrow money from trusted sources.

MAKE SURE YOU GATHER IMPORTANT DOCUMENTS

Keep copies of your taxes, wills, financial statements, loan applications, insurance, car registration, etc. Even if you are not sure about getting a divorce, have these documents ready. Keeping an eye on your finances may help you get a good settlement. Keep a copy of all records of separate property, including gifts and inheritance. This belongs to you but you must prove is yours.

ALIMONY AND CHILD SUPPORT

Don’t relinquish your right to spousal support even when you think you don’t deserve it. If you waived your rights, you won’t be able to get them back. Instead of receiving monthly payments consider receiving a lump sum. Remember those monthly payments may never make it to your bank account. Avoid child support fights as it can get very costly. Tell your attorney you will rather follow the local guidelines.

MARITAL PROPERTY

Think about the stuff that you really want to keep. Don’t become greedy. It may be nice to keep your home but it’ll also cost you to maintain it. Think within your budget. Think about your degrees and their value and don’t forget assets such as vacation, flyer miles, subscriptions to magazines, timeshares, and insurances as they also have value that can be shared between both spouses.

HOW DO I PREPARE MY DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CASE?

When a person has been abused by someone he or she loves and trusts, it may take a great deal of effort to speak out. Often, victims are groomed by the perpetrators to believe that they deserved the abusive behavior. When he or she finally faces that person in court, it can be an intimidating event. There are guidelines that may be helpful to Utah residents who have experienced domestic violence at the hands of someone they care for that may offer them peace of mind.

Contacting any witnesses who may have seen the abuse occur or the injuries that resulted can contribute to a victim’s case, as testimony can be helpful in proving what happened. Any evidence or documentation that shows that abuse took place is important. This could include medical records, court testimony and police reports. Dated photos of injuries, 911-call audio tapes and other records are also relevant. If a victim does not have any of these, his or her testimony is still considered evidence and is very important. Victims may find it beneficial to practice telling what happened prior to being asked to do so in court. It can help calm one’s nerves and help to recall any additional details that might have been forgotten. Being specific about what occurred and focusing on relevant information is crucial. Though it can be an emotional event — and there is nothing wrong with feeling emotional — it is still important to observe courtroom etiquette, such as being on time, being prepared and dressing appropriately. Concentrating on the truth and knowing that it is okay to not know the answer to or understand a question may be reassuring to victims.

There are many other helpful tips for pursuing a domestic violence case. Any Utah residents who are pursuing these types of charges as part of divorce proceedings may benefit from the advice of those who are experienced in this area. It may be difficult, but it can also be the first step to a new future.

Free Consultation with Divorce Lawyer in Utah

If you have a question about divorce law or if you need to start or defend against a divorce case in Utah call Ascent Law at (801) 676-5506. We will fight for you.

Ascent Law LLC8833 S. Redwood Road, Suite CWest Jordan, Utah 84088 United StatesTelephone: (801) 676-5506

Ascent Law LLC

4.9 stars – based on 67 reviews

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