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[tragedyofromance]

@woodswit thank you tagging me and yea this is abt me

1. are you named after anyone?

Yes I am, my mother names me after a famous Russian song writer Nikita bogoslovskiy ( not Russian lol so it was that was the reason why) but I like it as it mean victorious, or leader to victory

2. when was the last time you cried?

6 months ago, it's generally a pattern I do one big cry maybe a whole day or whole afternoon just silently im not really a sobber, unless im forced to talk about it then I guess its more obvious that im crying otherwise a watery esque eye my eyes doesn't get red, You really wouldn't have guess anything, which at times can be sucker since if it was a bit more obvious the ppl around me would ask even if i would have denied it. But that would have still felt nice. But since they usually cant tell and is being completely normal i just feel like i should go along with it, and then the next day its over i do try to cey again but i just cant, i always think i cried it out so theres nothing more and then when 6 months comes in the cycle continues. It's not necessarily healthy, but you know what, whatever,

3. do you have kids?

No, and thank God, right now I'm just not in the mental state or maturity level to look after, provide for another human,

In saying this I do want to have a child, 2 :D, but I want to be mentally capable, and have enough finance saved to create the village that my child would have, (baby sitters, night nurse, travel nanny, doula care, my afterbirth message therapy, postpartum in home care helping with cleaning or making meals) though I may not use these services I want money there so that if need it it'll be there in case of post partum depressiob, I work in childcare some parents and colleagues i work with do not have any help, or only grandparent help and that can also be taxing on the parents not necessarily financially. So it can be emotional struggle and which could lead to a strain in the emotional and physical relationship between the couples,, which I see can at times turn into into resentment when you think your partner is not doing enough, or not feeling supported. Which can lead to feeling too overwhelmed and not being able to enjoy being a parent ( like I don't understand why some ppl say have usually boomer grandparents say have back to back children and in the next 5 years it'll be easy and calm like what about during it, and also why do I want to struggle or look back and not have too fond memories like that never made sense 2 me

so yea before having a child I know I want money saved to cover all these for atleast the 8 months before even thinking of a having a child, I mean in my culture grandparents will look after and stay with with with mother for atleast 6 months to look after both child and mum but still for safety sake.

This was a really long statement lol

4. what sports do you play/have played?

Hockey, netball, tag rugby

5. do you use sarcasm?

Yup. It's the best

6. what's the first thing you notice about people? Whether or not they're performing or being genuine.

7. what’s your eye color? Brown

8. scary movies or happy endings? Happy endings get nightmares

9. any talents? Artistic creations, and cooking I'm very good :D

10. where were you born? Kuwait

11. what are your hobbies? Social media, sculpting with, creating art in many different ways, music i can literally drive for hours, just before reaching home i go the longest way possible, i also enjoy going for a walk when its windy for an hour or more, i want to do wood carving, and forging a knife, and learning to sow and create beautiful clothing

12. do you have any pets? Yep had two and one died

13. how tall are you? 5'3

14. favorite subject in school? History

15. dream job? Teacher for right now, im working on it now, and possibly a professer in the future

Tagging my mutuals i wanna know

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[viking-hel]

I posted 1,301 times in 2022

45 posts created (3%)

1,256 posts reblogged (97%)

Blogs I reblogged the most:

@whetstonefires

@legolas--thranduilion

@tubbylita

@riahchan

@jonsnowbrooding

I tagged 908 of my posts in 2022

Only 30% of my posts had no tags

#long post - 97 posts

#lol - 81 posts

#aemond targaryen - 34 posts

#tolkien - 32 posts

#lotr - 26 posts

#esc 2022 - 22 posts

#harald sigurdsson - 20 posts

#reblog - 20 posts

#vikings valhalla - 19 posts

#observations of hotd - 18 posts

Longest Tag: 123 characters

#i have gaps in my memory because i don’t even know if what happened happened because my half sis was good at gaslighting me

My Top Posts in 2022:

#4

For the Jonsa Halloween 2022.

Beast. Potion. Magic. 🎃

Jon couldn’t stop watching the way the fire danced with Sansa’s hair. Her glorious mane became the flames given true form, magicked into dancing as some hopeful lad of House Cerwyn tried his best.

He lazed back into his seat, a cup of ale held idly in his hands, a potion of false courage the Cerwyn lad mayhap guzzled too much of. He must have now felt it as Sansa gracefully twirled through his clumsy steps, a kind smile on her face.

Jon loved seeing her smile. She’d had so little to smile about before now. Here she was, Queen in the North, more regal and beautiful than any lady before, and he was a mere pauper worshipping at her feet.

Magic infused the air. Jon tasted it, sweet and heady, as he kept watch of Sansa as she twisted and turned with the cheerful lutes and drums. They had no worries now; no dragonqueens or lionqueens, and no rat faced bastards to chase down and hurt young women—

Jon’s fist clenched thinking of that snake. It had been so satisfying to bloody him, to hear the sound of bone striking bone. It was only Sansa’s sweet face that tempered that beast inside him, that would do anything for her.

He came back different, Jon knew. Perhaps a part of Ghost he took with him, some man left behind in the wolf. Whatever this was, it bubbled just under the surface. That beast inside that always sought to protect her - even when she believed he couldn’t - but now she was safe inside the walls of their ancient home and they had each other.

That. That was the true magic. That they were together after so long and so much, the world was right now in a way it had never been, even before they left.

Sansa picked out a mug of ale, held it up to her lips, and tipped her head to him in askance as her eyes took on a hint of mischief. Jon smiled back and gestured her forward. He’d shared her enough, the protective beast wanted his wife beside him. Carefully, Sansa wended her way to him, speaking briefly with those who wished her well as she moved. Tall and fire-touched, she was. Again, he was a worshipper merely wanting to bask in her presence.

‘Husband,’ she said, sitting beside him. ‘Are you well?’

‘Far better now you’re here, my love.’

She reached across the table and plucked up a grape. ‘Is something to your liking?’

He couldn’t keep his eyes from her slender throat as she moved. ‘There is.’ He gulped more of his courage potion, but found none left. ‘I always do when admiring my wife.’

Giggling, Sansa handed him her mug of ale, untouched. They sat back, Jon kept his hand around hers as the court made merry.

Yes, their life was some kind of magic. Jon would never question it.

67 notes - Posted October 28, 2022

#3

‘Next is Germany!’

Already? - Graham

79 notes - Posted May 14, 2022

#2

The Dance hasn’t even started yet and I can’t wait for Cregan Stark to come down and clean up the mess.

92 notes - Posted October 11, 2022

My #1 post of 2022

Don’t tell me people are shocked Rhaenys killed the common people. It’s perfectly normal for Targaryens to come in on their overgrown lizards and slaughter defenceless people. Daenerys did it. Aegon and his sisters did it. Practically a pastime.

116 notes - Posted October 17, 2022

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[erdbeermayo]

So sweet!!! I'm gonna CRI 🥺😭💕

I absolutely have to do this too!

@amemiru @kos-tyan @yuliapavlovsky @darthferbert @iizuumi @makkimyd @inevitableinfinity @tubbylita @slicesofapple @sumiiiiko @crowsmurderz @broccolinumbertwo

🌈💖✨Send this to the twelve nicest people you know or seem to have a good heart and if you get one back you must be pretty awesome 😎💜💚💙🩷

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[sweetaprilbutterfly]

💞💞Thank you for existing 💞💞 ♥♥♥

[empiregalaxy]

tubbylita replied to your post: Cersei tries her hardest to be like Tywin. But...

tywin subconsiously hates himself that’s why he hates tyrion

I don't think Tywin hates himself. His hatred of Tyrion, and refusal to accept their likeliness stems from ableism, anger over Joanna's death and general disgust over Tyrion.

When Tywin hates Tyrion for sleeping with prostitutes such as Shae, Tywin is being a hypocrite, not a self loathing mess. Tywin probably sees himself as being above morality or any judgements. Tywin lacks the wits the know that Tyrion is an extension of himself, that's why he denies it so much.

[cathcacen]

Getting back into the swing of things with @tubbylita‘s commission for the Jonsa Fundraiser!

[sansaissteel]

5 songs I've been listening to

1. If it wasn't for you. Camelot... nostalgia 😁

2. Simple things -randy Travis if you know you know

3. Black viel brides in the end great walking to this

4. Buttons pussycat dolls

5. NSYNC this i promise you they're touring

I tag:

@chispas-and-broken-bindings @christinapotter09 @reginarubie @nattyslove22 @tubbylita

Thank you for the tag @keeganisabluegreener ❤️❤️

Five songs I've been listening a lot to:

1. End of the day by One Direction

2. Just like heaven by The Cure

3. She is beauty we are world class by Louis Tomlinson

4. Silver tongues by Louis Tomlinson

5. With or without you by U2

Tagging @niallermybabe @28goldens @stephron @ashleyyroses

[jonsapositivity]

From the beginning of my fic writing endeavour a year ago, tubbylita has been there to comment and encourage me. She never forgets to comment or squee and just makes writing feel fun and worth it.

anonymous at @tubbylita

[bulletandsophia]

Give ♡ this ♡ to ♡ the ♡ twelve ♡ nicest ♡ people ♡ you ♡ know ♡ if ♡ you ♡ get ♡ five ♡ back ♡ you ♡ must ♡ be ♡ perfect ♡ !!!!

Aaaaaaaahhhhhh thank you!!!! ❤️

[ava-rosier]

here’s a flower to show my appreciation to you for being such a wonderful person 🌹 i hope you’re enjoying your day! (ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*:･ﾟ✧ :*

I LOVE IT THANK YOU!!

[esther-dot]

What are some other examples of 'brooding dark haired hero falls for a redhead girl' that a jonsa fan might enjoy reading or watching??

You know, we really should have a list of recs, but I'm not sure I've ever seen one? I couldn’t think of anything that struck me the same way Jonsa did, but I’ll throw out a few things and keep my eyes open so we can compile a list. :)

The Scarlet Pimpernel (I didn’t remember that Margueritte had red hair but the internet says she does, so!)

Poldark

(I stopped watching because I did not like some of the developments but I really enjoyed the first season)

Pretty Woman

The Outlaw King

The Last Kingdom (this is tricky, Uhtred has different love interests throughout. He and Mildrith had a few nice moments but the vibes you want are more those of his relationship with Aethelflaed *SPOILER* no happy ending there either *SPOILER*)

The rest of these have redheaded heroines but the love interests aren’t exactly broody

A Girl of the Limberlost

Anne of Green Gables

Spiderman

Enchanted

The Time Traveler’s Wife

Moulin Rouge

Easy A

The Little Mermaid

Lisa Kleypas historical romance novels (haven’t read these, but several came up when I was googling: Devil in Winter, Someone to Watch Over Me, Tempt Me at Twilight)

I haven't read this, but I definitely enjoyed the Jonsa vibes of  this clip from Under the Oak Tree that @winter-love reblogged

@tell-me-this-isnt-jonsa posted about a book series by Cat Bruno called Pathway of the Chosen and there are some interesting parallels (link)

I’m gonna tag a few people in case they have suggestions because I really can’t believe I don’t have any really solid recs! 😬 No worries if y’all can’t think of anything either. @sibyldisobedience @tubbylita @fromtheboundlesssea @literally-defective @melodyherwholelifelong

[jonsawarriors]

Throwback Jonsa Week Six:

Peace Between the Wars by @vivilove-jonsa

requested by @tubbylita

published in 2019-02-09

summary: With the declaration of the Peace of Amiens in 1802, Captain Jon Snow of His Majesty's Navy finds himself ashore with his wife, Sansa, and family for a time. Though a happy homecoming, Jon and Sansa will soon face revelations regarding his father's family and difficulties at home as well. While traveling in France during the tenuous Peace, they will come face to face with an old enemy.

tags: Alternate Universe - Age of Sail, Alternate Universe - Napoleonic War, Alternate Universe - Royal Navy, Explicit Sexual Content, Angst, Established Relationship, Parenthood, Jealousy, Minor/Mentioned Violence, Fluff and Smut, Humor, Jon and the Starks Are Not Related, Benjen and Brandon Are Snows

[sansaissteel]

When you get this you have to answer with 5 things u like about yourself, publicly. Then, send this ask to 10 of your favorite followers (non-negotiable, positivity is cool)📷📷

1. I'm a glass is half full usually.

2. I try to always message and check on my close friends mental illness is hard and allot of times they just need me to listen.

3. I'm super thrifty and I try to stretch my money

4. Even though I'm thrifty my friends know if I got money they got money

5. It's hard for me to stay depressed for long usually I can start thinking of other things especially when fanfiction gets updated. Or all of our meta theory writers get to work.

@reginarubie @amymel86 @sherlokiness @tubbylita @shieldofrohan and anyone who wants to

[madamebaggio]

Notes: Okay, I know I said AO3, but @tubbylita​ asked me for this a loooong time ago. So sorry for taking so long, darling.

I hope you enjoy it!

***

“My lady.”

Sansa smiled at Loki, and accepted the arm he was offering her. She linked her arm to his, but instead of keeping a proper distance, she just pressed herself close to him. “My lord.”

Loki couldn’t help the grin splitting his lips. “You look lovely today.”

“Is that your famous silver tongue in action?” She asked as they started walking.

“When it comes to you, Sansa, I am always honest.” Then he seemed to think better about it. “Well, at least 50% of the time. It’s a work in progress.”

Sansa laughed. “I appreciate your dedication.” She teased.

Loki’s face softened, a fond look entering his eyes. “Only for you, Sansa.”

**

“Mother. What are you doing?” Thor asked as he came to stand next to his mother.

“Just watching.” She indicated something with her head.

Thor found his brother walking arm in arm with Lady Sansa. They were in the gardens, but they didn’t seem to care about anything but each other.

“Are they…”

“In love?” Frigga finished for him. “If they are not, they will be soon.”

Thor watched his brother. “Loki seems happy.”

“He looks more than happy, my darling. He looks complete.”

Thor looked at them again, and he realized his mother was right. Loki seemed, for the first time in a long while, like he knew exactly where he belonged.

[empiregalaxy]

tubbylita replied to your post: @tubbylita & @bisansastarks are making me smile...

Lol! We’re probably the only NK stans.. I’d rather he win than Dragonita tbh..

You what I else I love about the Night’s King? No long ass speeches. For that alone he’s a better ruler than most, lol

:)

[cathcacen]

Top 5 ships (from any show/books).

Thanks for the ask!

1. Jon x Sansa “Jonsa”, Game of Thrones.I still remember when S6 aired and I was like omg why am I sobbing hysterically at these two coming back together, and hahaha bless my sad sorry resolve I tried to wait until they were confirmed cousins before I started shipping but I totally failed. A ton of meta, fanfics, art, and whatnot later, here we are!

2. Soma x Erina “Soueri/Sorina”, Shokugeki no SomaFor those who watch Shokugeki; I love these two because they act as such perfect foils for one another. They push each other to cook better, and that really is all one can hope for when aiming for culinary greatness!

3. April x Jackson “Japril”, Grey’s AnatomyLook. I am going to be forever bitter that they broke up in canon, because #drama. Sometimes, all I want is a wholesome marriage/relationship and these two have such goddamn potential for it, if the show writers would only open their eyes.

4. Steve x Natasha “Romanogers”, MCUNot gonna lie, I joined Tumblr because I shipped these two and wanted more content on them. Tumblr has not disappointed, and hopefully neither will Infinity War. XD

5. Zuko x Katara “Zutara”, Avatar: The Last AirbenderI think Zuko and Katara were my very first foray into the world of shipping. If anything, it’s certainly the first ship that broke my heart and left me quite unable to watch the last 10 minutes of The Last Airbender.

Others I love in no particular order: Betty x Jughead “Bughead” in Riverdale, Lexie x Mark “Slexie” in Grey’s Anatomy, Katniss x Peeta “Everlark” in Hunger Games, Bobby x Hunter “Huntingbird”, Gemma x Leo “Fitzsimmons” and Coulson x May “Philinda” in Agents of Shield, Arya x Gendry “Gendrya” in Game of Thrones, and Hisako x Akira “Akisako” and Ryo x Alice “Ryoali” in Shokugeki no Soma.

I’m sure there are more I’m forgetting right now. The point to take away from this is that I’m a big-as hopeless romantic who just wants everybody to fall in love and live happily ever after. XD