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i know next to nothing about queer theory, but i did exist online during (what felt like) huge exclusionary periods (ace discourse, bi/pan discourse, and transmedicalism were the big ones i remember)
i wonder if the first drive for sexuality being something unchangeable and intrinsic to you had something to do with those things, that queerness was fixed and definable, which meant that there were strict lines to be drawn about who was and wasn't gay/lesbian/bi which was only made worse by trans and nonbinary people who didn't exactly fit the previous molds
ill be doubly honest and say i only interacted w/ the community online at the time bc living in a homophobic country doesnt give you a lot of opportunities to meet up in person which means my view of the whole thing is skewed. im not sure if this makes any sense
What I’m about to say isn’t a diagnosis of the causes behind those discourses (partly because i don’t think there is a single reason animating those arguments), but like I guess in general a very baseline authority people fall back on is biology. Dominant reactionary discourses describe being gay trans etc as a lifestyle choice, as an active decision to participate in sexual and gendered degeneracy, and so a very appealing counter-claim to make is to point to biology - we are born this way, we can’t help who we are just as cishet people cannot help who they are, so you should accept us because we can’t change our identity. That rhetorical strategy requires/assumes a stable sexual and gendered ontology, a primary authority of the body that can’t be altered. While I believe this argument is fundamentally flawed, I think this is a straightforwardly easy argument to make re: sexual orientation. With trans and non-binary people this is more difficult because the foundational claim to our existence is that gender is mutable, is alterable, is subject to change (and also “I’ve felt this way since I was a child” is a pathological model of gender dysphoria that is enforced through medical and psychiatric institutions, not a reflection of lived reality for many, many trans and non-binary people). That doesn’t necessarily mean being transgender is a “choice” (although if someone said they woke up one day and chose to be transgender then that is a perfectly authentic justification), especially because “choice” in these discussions is often framed as individualised, private, detached from the social world - we are all just free agents making rational autonomous decisions in a field of equally rational choices, etc. which I think is a very impoverished way to understand choice and agency. Gender is an institution, it is a set of behaviours and performances that we choose to engage in in many different ways, and my use of the word ‘choice’ there does not imply these choices are free from coercion, violence, or harm. I chose to transition, I chose to engage in performances and behaviours that signal to the social world that I am a man - where that desire to make those choices arises from is another matter, and honestly not one I’m super interested in figuring out. Like if I discovered the ‘origin’ of my transness it wouldn’t make any difference to me. Similarly, how I choose to signal masculinity is very obviously bound up in dominant gendered assumptions. Trans people get accused of upholding gendered norms a lot, but that’s only because we aren’t taken seriously unless we do so! It is a survival mechanism that allows us to better navigate incredible amounts of violence and social exclusion, and arguing that our desire to do gender with our bodies comes from some grade-school assumption that dress = woman and pants = man or whatever is pure projection on the part of cis people. cis men think if they drink pink wine they’ll become gay - trans people are not the ones enforcing these norms here.
Getting a bit far afield here, so to loop back around - I think a stable state of sexual and gendered subjectivity or “being” is very appealing to a lot of people because it’s a way to dismiss reactionary fears and to justify to yourself that your oppression is entirely out of your control (which is true obviously!). Again I think these arguments are flawed because they buy into cisgendered and heteronormative ideas about gender and sexuality, that it is a biological burden imposed on us, that deviance is not a choice, that gender is done to us as opposed to being gendered agents, that we are similarly trapped in a sexual prison and should be accepted on those grounds, etc, but they have massive rhetorical power.
As I’ve said before I’m a pretty staunch believer in Butler’s assertion that it is social all the way down, that gender is not discoverable in the body but rather the body is the medium through which gender is done in the world. Cis people choose to do gender just as much as trans people do! The only difference is that institutional architecture is set up to facilitate and make invisible (in very misogynistic and racist ways) those gendered practices. I think the stronger counter argument to make is that cis- and het-normativities are deeply violent and miserable status quos that need to be dismantled and discarded, that true choice can only emerge vis a vis gender and sexuality once those institutions are abolished, and that choice is actually a desirable end-goal - I want people to be able to participate in gender and sexuality as free agents, as non-coercive practices that are sites of great joy and wonder and pleasure. And this world is only possible if we accept that there is no gendered or sexual ontology, that it is all smoke and mirrors, that this current system’s primary function is to reproduce the nuclear family, to maintain the hereditary nature of class and wealth and race, to provide a standardised system of labour division, to maintain a distinction between the public and private labour realms, and so on.
So again like, is this what animates discourses about who gets to be counted as lgbtq/queer/whichever label you want to use? I don’t know. Probably some of it has to do with that. Queerness is in party a pathological category that is used to describe a failure to meaningfully reproduce cishet norms and practices, it is a set of relationships you have to legal and political and medical and administrative institutions (which is especially true for trans/non binary people). I like this definition because built into it is the possibility of change - I do not want trans people to be assimilated into cishet society, I want society to become transgender, thereby making transgender an irrelevant medical and legal category of person. Much like communism aims to abolish class by universalising the proletariat, I want to abolish gender by universalising the legal and political and medical mechanisms of transition. Only then will cisgenderism be abolished.
One thing I have been thinking a lot about is something a friend said to me, which is that human rights to do not begin with a definition of human - in the same way, I think trans rights do not require a definition of transgenderism. Just universalise and de-pathologise the mechanisms through which transition is expressed. Make it easy to change your name, remove all barriers to hormones and surgery, make everyone economically secure enough that they can change their wardrobe however they please, desegregate all gendered spaces, de-gender clothing, remove gender markers from all documents, and so on and so on. Doing so would make both cisgender and transgender an irrelevant legal and political category and, again, allow choice to emerge as a meaningful mechanism of gender expression.
This isn’t a comprehensive policy platform, there are many things I’m sure I haven’t thought through and a large portion of this discussion has to contend with the colonial and white supremacist nature of the western binary gender (bringing us into discussions of decolonial efforts, socialist efforts, and so on), but this is already getting long and I feel like I’m rambling. But like fundamentally I believe in a radical political imaginary that argues that all of this is subject to change and therefore any arguments about an essential gendered or sexual being is, at the end of the day, a reactionary description of gender and sexuality
#asks#even old new york was once new amsterdam#effortpost#um. hope that makes sense lol#DO NOT START ARGUING ABOUT THIS IN THE NOTES BTW. FUCK OFF I AM NOT DOING ‘DISCOURSE’ ABOUT WHO COUNTS AS LGBTQ#I reject the premise of the question genuinely I think it is fundamentally irrelevant to our liberation
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#literally where does dragon city get their big buckaroos from#and why does it always look like such a clusterfuck on the screen#just like teeming masses of pulsing dragons is that what it always looks like?#or do they just not tend to their island or wtvr#dragon city#having dragon city as a tag lol#these are genuine questions if anyone would like to enlighten me btw#dan and phil#me yapping
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This is how that episode went, right?
#almost a genuine question because I've only seen chunks of it lol#I don't mind if people want to reblog this post and want to tag it with their ship name btw#I may make one of my complete text post series tomorrow but we'll see how dead I'm feeling plus I have to make stuff for Chase's b-day#disney lab rats#lab rats#chase davenport#sebastian krane
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looking at starting a luztoye spooky fic for halloween.. is this anything
#rie talks#this is a genuine question btw. like idk if i should post this lmfao#basically think shapeshifters then think werewolves and then think of metaphors for sexuality. but also just Spooky shit. and toye pov ofc#anyways lol#luztoye
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has there been a surge of popularity of mcsm here or has it always been this active and i just dont remember. checking the tag for the first time in months and seeing that there are actually multiple posts every single day is wild
#mcsm#genuine question btw#like am i crazy#either way. great timing for me to also get back into it lol#rambling
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Do you know what I think about literally all of the time. How do Hawks’ wings work?? Where are his bones????
#like. they look like normal wings right#but when he uses all of his feathers at once#there is no supporting structure remaining???#we know he can control each individual feather#so is he just??? holding them in the SHAPE of wings?#the wings themselves don’t appear to have a radius/ulna/literally any bones like how does it work it haunts me day to day#this is a genuine question btw like am i just forgetting something obvious or is this just an unexplained quirk (lol) of the show#it’s entirely possible they explained this after the plw arc and i didn’t absorb it bc i was in acute distress#and now i’ve forgotten#liza blather#takami keigo#q
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Does your 4 have any after effects like scars or just trauma from being greyscaled and forced to fight 8?
Oh wow almost forgot I used to be a splatoon blog...
Anyways. In my lore Nettie didn't actually get greyscaled! I have some old doodles I never colored that get into this, hold on.
Yeah these don't explain it very well but basically, Harbor was fully convinced that Nettie had been greyscaled and decided that the mask must be somehow controlling her (based on what happened w Callie)
But when she got the mask, she realized this was not Nettie. This was just a mindless copy of Nettie created by Order.
Nettie finds out about this later and is mildly weirded out but otherwise fine. Tbh I think Nettie has the least angsty lore out of my guys, which I would change, but I've sorta moved to a new fandom for the time being. Maybe someday!
#btw yes im in a different fandom now but i still welcome questions about all my OCs lol#i just like talking about my guys. fandom or not#did genuinely forget that i was a splatoon blog in the past though#hey did you guys know i sunk 20 hours into a stardew save this past week haha#rocketspeaking#rocketdoodles#splatoon
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Livestream: Active
“I’m not being stupid. This isn’t stupid. Everything is fine.”
“…Is this thing working?”
“pzzt… i’m connected to the internet and streaming! even though your camera’s still turned off, pzzt…”
“Perfect, great, just how I want it.”
“Hello everyone—I’m Vanilla Cress, a licensed therapist. I don’t usually, or uh… ever, do live streams, but today I wanted to talk about a topic… close to me. A topic I’ve been avoiding for a really long time.”
“Cross, camera?”
“sure thing, boss!”
[The camera turns on. The lens flares adjusting to the light, before a video feed appears.]
“Some of you might’ve known this and stayed quiet to protect me, or to be polite, or whatever. I mean, I’m not a master of disguise or anything… But I’m not quite… normal. I’m… half a normal human? And half Zorua.
Or in other words, I’m a cross-species hybrid. Some people prefer “whisperer” but I don’t care. My mother was… as normal as a human who deluded herself into joining a Zoroark pack could be. And that makes my father… a Zoroark. Yeah.”
[Vanilla pauses to take a breath, eyes closed.]
“You can call me a liar, or a faker, or whatever else. Truth and ideals, wish I was. It’d make things a lot easier to have a birth mother who isn’t a disgrace and a body that isn’t… this.
At the least, I can think and speak like a person. …Maybe that’s obvious. But I’m also able to understand Pokémon. And I can use illusions. Which is why I’ve been able to look… well, mostly normal. Though I still prefer to stick pretty close to how I actually look, as you can see.”
“Anyways, that’s… pretty much it, for the basics. Any questions? I have a stubborn Zoroark to find.”
#wolfgang i swear to arc you better show up now#should've just done this a long time ago but i got scared#anyways hi. are people scared of me now? or are we cool#pokeblogging#pkmn irl#//screaming internally because the sketch doesn’t look the best#//anyways! i know this probably goes against ppl’s headcanons for pkmn so sorry lol#//i am so genuine about the “any questions” btw. harass them#//anyways yes this is the thing i've been meaning to post#tw pokephilia#(mention. but still)
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Why can Roy not transmute the water that gets onto his gloves into Oxygen and Hydrogen gas? Two substances that are highly flammable? Does his Alchemy just not work like that, because it sure sounds like that's how it's supposed to work; like his flame alchemy literally works by him sky rocketing the oxygen in the air, so why can he not transmute water into Hydrogen and Oxygen? :/
I am aware that the reason the water is his "weakness" is because it gets his gloves wet, and you can't make a spark with wet gloves, but Ed is literally shown evaporating water off his clothes using Alchemy at one point, so it makes no sense that Roy wouldn't be able to do the exact same thing and just turn the water on his gloves into Hydrogen and Oxygen, which he could then ignite, since he gloves would then be dry.
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#I may be thinking about this too much but like#feels like an oversight#like doesn't Ed do this to Sloth in '03 at one point?#doesn't he like fucking turn her into ethanol to kill her?#arguably way more difficult to accomplish alchemically than just splitting the molecules#this is a genuine question btw#I'd love for someone to explain to me why it doesn't work like this because I am genuinely confused lol#Fullmetal Alchemist#Roy Mustang
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okay guys should i make a side blog thats just random out of context clips of danny gonzalez because danny gonzalez is very funny and i like advertising my obsessions to people and i already have a folder of danny gonzalez clips out of context
id give credit ofc and id add links to the videos that i got the clips from im just worried that id be stealing content like does it count as stealing if im more or less advertising it?? and linking back to the source??
#you guys should watch danny gonzalez btw#this is a genuine question also im genuinely not sure if it would be stealing or not lol#it wouldnt be full videos and maybe people seeing only small chunks will make people go “oh wow this guy looks cool i should watch him”#thats the end goal#i really really like danny gonzalez#top tier youtuber#did i mention that you should watch danny gonzalez#what no i totally didnt misspell his last name and then go back and edit it#what are you talking about
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Sometimes I just sit here like. Wow the k///h fandom really fucked me up lol
#I'm mostly there but. i don't think it'll ever fully leave me y'know?#that fandom was a massive headache to be in. especially the side of it for shipping Those Two Boys. i was there but it fucked me up so much#people were always so mean spirited and cruel and willing to laugh and chat shit about anyone who disagreed with them#or were publicly into really weird shit and spun it around horrifically whenever called it#or calling other queer ppl and genuine allies homophobic for not liking their ship#once i saw someone declare it misogynistic to not like their mlm ship 'because mostly women like it' which was uhh. 😬#and then there was the like. having to smile and pretend everything was fine around people you Really Didn't Like#bc otherwise somebody would notice and everyone would be talking behind your back#and spreading lies and nasty rumours that even people you were supposedly friends with would just. believe without question#(which DID happen to me btw!!!!#and when a friend showed me they immediately began stalking said friend till they chased them out of the fandom)#they couldn't even get the damn ship right. always painfully ooc and boring and lame. i was a huge shipper of it but#i think nowadays its tainted that ship and that kinda dynamic for me a lot#weirdly venting on the dash today but. hmm. i keep thinking about it#i have to super super trust people w that ship to enjoy anything remotely to do w it now lol
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what on earth do i gotta do to make these Not be my default suggested tags any time i make a new post or reblog a post that prev left untagged
#keri chats#i literally Do Not post ANY of these things to the same extent that i did years ago except art and yet they're still automatically suggeste#this is a genuine question btw help LOL
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i always found it funny that there's this weird idea that the theory of evolution is something that counters religion and is usually positioned in opposition to religious thought, bc i learned about evolution and it was the first time in my life i'd genuinely felt a deep sense of spirituality. i don't understand how you can learn that "all life on earth is connected at the root" is a literal, scientific, observable statement and not be fundamentally changed by that. it's the root of all my animist beliefs and all my ancestor worship. not that i'm saying you have to believe what i do, but doesn't it touch your soul?
obvs i myself am not really theistic, but i always thought it could make perfect sense from the perspective of a monotheist. like, you could so easily see it as, "evolution is the method by which god created us." that each mutation and each subtle shift in the environment were an intentional move by an artist with a vision of us as his grand creation. would it not be accurate to say that, when you're studying evolution, you're actively watching the hand of god lovingly shape the world?
#rambles#been a while since i talked religion on the religion blog lol#this is a genuine question btw. never understood how something that very much forms the root of my spirituality#seems to be met with uuhhhhh a lot of aversion from some people#animism#i'm just thinkin about that day in ap bio where the teacher was literally forced to skip the evolution unit bc the students wouldn't hear i#ex muslim core memory
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fellas is it a fic if it's through journal entries and only your OC's POV
#* mine / txt#jk i only have like. 3 entries. maybe 4.#actually it depends on the timeline#anyway. local werewolf falls for veterinarian. yes she gives him a discount when he needs rabies shots.#yes she also makes fun of him for needing said shots.#this is genuinely something kid me wouldve come up with its so funny#AND. fun tidbit but she tells him shes pregnant by telling him theyre having puppies. he does not get it until its spelled out for him#but in his defense theres like 5 dogs between the two of them lol#anyway i love them. stan puppy love [karl x lucille]#(the question is rhetorical btw idc . this journal was referenced once (1) during a daydream that their son sometimes reads it so.)
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who wants to buy me the riot fest deer shirt
#IT'S SO CUTE AND I'M NOT THERE 😭#this isn't a genuine question btw.#I don't have paypal or venmo or anything or else I WOULD be genuinely asking lol
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Good news! I think I figured out how to get Leafy's memories into this body! Let's try this!( with a nice comfy bonus present)
*Pin feels something hit her rim. A small piece of machinery with a speaker nestled itself on the ground about a foot from her. When he holds his hands out to grab it a severed fingernail falls into his hand. After bringing the item close enough to inspect the sound of something just barely missing her arm startles her. A seam ripper embeds itself into the dirt with force enough to twang. A spool of green thread falls softly near it, rolling to a stop near her foot.*
-🌿(dunno if Pin has it in them, honestly)
wait, What are you.. What Am i Supposed to do, Exactly?
#asks#ooc: oh my god#ooc: [genuine question btw sorry im terrible with visualizing stuff in general LOL]
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