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lilakennedy · 5 years ago

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I’m worried about Easy-Hard. I say we all send her some love!! She deserves love.

oh, she definitely deserves all the love and support - she’s got a real kind heart and is an amazing creator as well, but i personally never think these waves of love from various people are a,,,great idea.

if some people wanna go send her some love, sure, that’s sweet! but i think there’s a line when it becomes some sort of pressure.

i think it’s easy to overwhelm someone, especially when they’re feeling down already.

i saw her posts as well, i got eyes, but i decided not to barge into her inbox or dm’s immediately -

she told us she’ll try to get some rest, so i’ll give her space instead of bombarding her with something right now.

and hey, maybe i’m wrong, maybe she enjoys a full inbox with nice messages, i can’t tell for sure - but i’m just speaking from experience and gut feeling.

#and julia & i are mutuals #so hi if you see this ily but you know that by now #dm's are always open when you feel ready #seeing peopple make posts like this can always be worrying #and i get where you're comin from lil anon!! i really do #but its just not my thing?#that...sound terrible fKJHFG; 'sending people support is not my thing' THATS NOT WHAT I MEAN DFKJGH #i meant the immediate bombardment of messages #and especially cause julia got a decent amount of followers #it could derail really quick #i usually just give people time and make sure to let them know i care or that im there to support them in more subtle ways #to avoid putting them on the spot or overwhelming them #and i feel like #making a supportive post and tagging someone is a bit easier?#instead of dming them or sending an ask #because if they dont feel like it its easier to ignore a post #and its not as personal #but if everyone suddenly goes and sends someone a bunch of stuff its very IN YOUR FACE #yk?#idk imrambling but these are just MY thoughts #i got no idea what julia is like #but this is just my reasoning here #maybe its a bit weird #but im speaking from personal experience and things that happened to my mutuals before #so #again: all the love and support to julia from me #lilanons #lila asks

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