#stress is a perfectly acceptable reason to completely reset your life like she did

[kdramacrybaby]

I just got spoiled about something happening later in the drama (in the middle of watching episode 8 rn) and I’m actually happy that I saw it here first, because I think I would have quit this drama out of pure disappointment if I didn’t have time to brace myself as I do now

WHAT DO YOU MEAN CANCER IN MY ROMCOM?! Do they even know what the “com” stands for at this point?? It’s supposed to be funny, come on now 😭😭

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Reveal AU Part 6

A Fallen Hero Fanfic

This series will have spoilers! And Kiyo has the !!!suicidal scar!!!!

Tw: mentions of self-harm, self-destruction, and these next chapters are going heavily into Kiyo’s depression and suicidal tendencies!!!

Who can afford to hope

Kiyo Present:

  Mortum was right, this was possibly the stupidest decision you've ever made. He'd tried to talk you out of it too but you knew eventually they'd find you. And knowing Ortega it would end up being him that found you sooner rather than later. You at least wanted a say in whether that time would be as your villain persona or as you… Fuck this was a terrible idea, you should listen to Mortum more often. At least then maybe you'd be somewhere else… far far away from the bullshit you're about to face.

 But really when have you ever given up the option of self-destruction. This is just another way to hurt yourself. Force you to see that they would give up on you. Just like they did before.

 You shift awkwardly as they stare at you, trying to hide your wince. The nanovores couldn't perfectly be made to do what they were originally created for but they did help repair any life threatening damage that Mortum couldn't stitch up. A backup plan of several other backup plans; keep them within a controlled field to repair small areas of damage rather than destroy. You had Mortum reset the nanovores just in case; neither of you wanted to risk them going haywire because even that small of an amount can do too much damage. At least you got the 3d printer from the missile launcher that should help with your other project… even if you don't get to see the result.

  “Kiyo…” Ortega’s voice is almost a whisper as he studies you with watery eyes. You're a ghost of a ghost you suppose. Chen's expression hasn't changed, harsh and shuttered as soon as he saw you. Fucking hell why didn't you listen to Mortum?

 “Yep,” you have no clue what to say. You have no clue what you're doing anymore. You could run, there was no point where anyone said you had to stay. You just came to tell them you're alive and this is a hospital, who would make a scene in a hospital?... Ortega would...Fuck... at least he’s trapped in the bed and it would take enough seconds for Chen to get out of his chair that you could get a head start.

 “Sit,” Chen's voice is cold and you find yourself entering the room despite every inch of your being telling you to run. You find yourself sitting in a chair against the wall. A safe enough distance away from them and the inevitable hate and disgust they're sure to throw your way; away from the looks of betrayal, they're sure to have. You deserve it, after all, everything you've been doing is for yourself. Such a selfish thought for the puppet to want to be a real boy. God, you fucking hate that movie.

 “Why are you here?” Chen demands, silencing Ortega's immediate protests with a wave of his hand. His thoughts are simmering; angry, feeling betrayed, feeling he didn't do enough to help you… help you? Why would he ever want to do that? But he did, he could have left you or worse it could be you in the hospital bed completely drugged and waiting for the Farm to pick up their lost ‘property’.

 “I honestly don't know,” you shrug refusing to meet his eyes. You want them to end your illusions that they care about you. To give you a reason to go back to your original plans of taking down the farm at any cost. You want them to know the truth and look at you with absolute disgust so that there's no more regret when you set the world on fire around you. You want them to prove you wrong. But you can't show them the truth here.

 You may be willing to risk some things but not in this place. It's already bringing you back to bad memories. Needles in your arm, a hand against your face, a smile you don't want to see. You swallow hard against the rising fear.

 “Kiyo-”

  You cut off Ortega with a shake of your head, “Not here.”

  “Where then?” Steel crosses his arms and despite the glare, it feels like an honest question.

  “Anywhere that's not here,” you glance to the doorway as a nurse walks by, “or anywhere with no other people.”

  “Steel's place then,” Ortega smirks as Chen swings his glare onto him, “What? My place probably isn't the safest right now considering the circumstances,” he shrugs with a smug look. What is he up too? Your thoughts echo Chen's and you find yourself involuntarily wincing back.

  Chen sighs as his hand pinches the bridge of his nose, “Fine we'll all go-”

  “Nope, you both are going right now,” his arms crossed giving you both a stern look.

  “No! Are you fucking stupid?!”

  “No. Ortega we just saved you from a kidnapping!”

   You and Chen yell out simultaneously, looking at him in disbelief. This fucking idiot is worse than you isn't he? The thought hits you stronger than you expected. Ortega’s actions all point to a similar self-destructive streak, putting himself intentionally into danger when he doesn't need too… that's... no..No, that's not possible, he's just a reckless idiot. That's all.

  Ortega holds up his hands in surrender, “Alright, first of all, I didn't say alone. I'm sure Angie's dying to make me suffer,” his wince comes off playful with his bright smile, but then he's looking straight at you, a deep frown forming on his face, “They weren't really after me.”

  Chen's head turns back to you and you find yourself looking out the nearby window away from them. You had expected more yelling but maybe they're both waiting to get you alone. You should just jump. You shake your head and look back at Ortega, “I guess he wasn't very happy with my meddling,” you shrug. Hollow Ground must still be pissed at you crashing his auction and making a mess of it or maybe it’s the fact that you’ve ‘unintentionally’ stolen from some of his people. But that doesn't explain why she was there.

  Chen let's out a loud sigh as he stands, “Fine. But no one's leaving until either Argent or Herald are in here.” You watch as he walks out, stress coming off him in waves. He doesn't want to deal with this right now, he doesn't want to deal with either of you right now. He leaves the room and you find yourself staring out the window. Soft murmerings down the hall, monitors beeping quietly; all noises that tug at things better left forgotten.

  “I'm not mad,” Ortega's voice cuts through the silence but you refuse to look at him. You don't know if he's lying but considering it's Ortega you may as well accept it as the truth.

  “I'd say I'm surprised but you’re an idiot so it's not that much of a shock,” you lean back, your gaze shifting to the floor.

“Kiyo, listen I don't know why you thought this… path was necessary but-”

  “Don't, please just… don't,” you finally look at him and he looks so tired. He wants so badly to know the truth but you don't know if he can handle it. Your entire life is based on lies; you're not human you could never be no matter the lies you tried to tell yourself, your entire existence feels like a gigantic mistake you've never felt right in this body, and you're the Villain that has only brought him and his your friends pain. You should leave, but you won't.

  He holds out his hand towards you, a desperate look on his face. He wants so badly to rescue you from yourself… from anyone who wants to hurt you. He'll be the first to throw you away when he knows the truth. Fuck, you want to dig your nails into arms. Cause a pain that's easier to control, than the suffering you feel as Ortega looks at you pleadingly.

 You reluctantly stand and take Chen's empty seat, your hand reaching for his. A calloused warm hand wrapped around yours his thumb rubbing circles on the back of your hand. Every part of you shatters.

 You let out a sob, tears flowing uncontrollably down your face. “I'm sorry,” you hiccup and you find yourself lunging forward embracing him. Ignoring the pain from your stitches. His arms holding you like he's afraid you'll disappear again. You can't stop crying, you can't stop apologizing. This is all your fault, he could have died because of your stupidity. You should have taken something like this into account. You should have just killed yourself.

  His arms grip you tighter and suddenly he's fighting not to cry with you. His head is next to yours as he whispers brokenly, “No no no, don't.. don't say that please Kiyo. I couldn't live with myself if you did that to yourself.”

  “I shouldn't be alive,” you can't keep track of what you're saying. All you know is that you're holding him like he's the only lifeline you've ever had. He is.

  “Kiyo,” he pushes you back slightly a hand coming up to cup your face. He looks as broken as you feel. “I love you,” he says it desperately as he brings your face down so he can kiss your tears. He tries to hold back his own sob but he can't.

  You don't know how to react to that, your brain blanking. He shouldn't be, he really shouldn't be. He won't when he knows the truth. You should push off of him and run. You need to do that… but you're selfish aren't you. You can't help but cling onto impossibilities no matter how much it will hurt. Because that's the point of all this in the end. A way to finally sever the ties holding you back.

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8 november 2018

07:32: There goes alarm number one

07:44: There goes alarm number two

07:45: And number three

07:50: Not gonna snooze this one I SWEAR. Anyway, like, if you don’t at least snooze your first three alarms, what kind of a sociopath are you?? Have “big plans” today, if “big plans” means just having a productive day where I don’t make continual bad decisions. Don’t have a good reason for not liveblogging yesterday, it was just, I stayed up way, way, way too late on the night of the sixth, which resulted in me waking way, way, way too late on the day of the seventh, and in a complete state of brain fog, and entirely incapable of thinking in general. Spent the, uh, spent the afternoon hahahahh cause that’s when I woke up, Jesus, spent the afternoon doing administrative-related things, then had a work shift. Managed to touch a piano for, like, ten minutes before my shift started. Then did work. Then went home.

Felt pretty dysphoric for all of yesterday, as a result of just knowing that it was due to my own stupidity that I wasted an entire day. And not only wasted it, but that I wasn’t in an acceptable mental state for the entirety of the day as well. Was a bit of one of those “wake up calls,” or something, like, a personal “get your crap together, dude” moment, which made me decide, like, “okay, you’re sleeping before the sun rises tonight. you’re going to bed at midnight, no compromises. then you’re going to wake up early and DO THINGS, and not be in a completely debilitating stupor for the entire day.”

Seems like I’m off to an okay start, got seven hours of sleep, which is, like, for me, just above the bare minimum I get so that I don’t feel like I’m incapacitated at all. If I get less than six-and-a-half hours these days there’s a definitive, quantitative difference in my performance both mentally and physically, so, like, seven is, like, okay, nice job, guy. Been getting less than that for so long, and it’s one of the worst feelings, for me, at least, to go through a day in some fugue state, knowing that you’re not thinking clearly. Extremely frustrating, like knowing something is wrong, but not knowing what, exactly the cause/root is. Not worth it to stay up and enjoy the “festivities of the night” most of the time, unless it’s like, a get-together, or a celebration, because just the crappiness of feeling disgusting the next day outdoes so much of the fun/productivity that you could’ve just displaced with sleep and felt, overall, better. Don’t know why I keep getting less sleep than I need, it’s not for any productivity-related reason, it’s just self-indulgence. FEeling good that I’ve “reset” the sleep schedule today, going to see if I can continue it?? Know for certain that I need to wake by, at least, 11h on Saturday morning, so I can’t “go too hard” on Friday night, but Sunday I’m free, might be sleeping in on Sunday until noon, I fear… But probably not, I have nothing planned Saturday night, so I think a one, or two bedtime isn’t too late to be up by 10h or 11h again and feel, like, well-rested, even if I’ve had a bit to drink.

Outline of the day:

-go to health clinic (routine blood test just to make sure i’m not diseased or something)

-go to mclennan library to update liveblog

-go sign new work contract in music building

-practice (if time)

-go to actual appointment (since first visit to the drop-in clinic can only assign you a time, you can’t just jump into the appointment)

-go home for lunch/slight break, before heading to blood-work (since the actual appointment is just going to get me a blood-work time)

-go to music building to update liveblog

-practice

-go to piano organization meeting

-grab 710mL can of beer en route to home

-work out

-consume beer while reading/browsing internet intermittently

-shower

-bed

08:00: Teeth brushed (oh, did I mention I flossed last night?? That’s right I’m getting back on my floss game before I lose all my teeth and gums to decay!!!), face washed, hair wetted (it’s naturally looking good today, somehow, like, my bed hair looks pretty nice, so, minimal product needed), thermal shirt on, Champion hoodie I took from Corrina (on the night of Dungeon World, she had this bag of clothing she was going to donate, and offered any of it to us, and there “just so happened” to be this amazing coral or light-pink Champion hoodie that fits me PERFECTLY) on, brown slim pants on. Making a G Fuel shake, feeling a little out-of-it, probably because I’m really not used to waking this early, but I’m sure after a day or two it’ll be fine. Weather today should be good, for the first time in a while, we haven’t got much sun in a long time…

08:10: Taking this G Fuel “straight to the face,” really chugging it while updating music on iPod. Putting some more black metal on it, feel like I’m in the right mood today to listen to something bleak and aggressive but still feel good while doing so?? Not sure why I feel this, but, I mean, just going to “go along with it.” Could have left a bit earlier, but, like, I only have to sign the new work contract at 11h, which gives me way enough time, if I get there when the clinic opens at 08h30 there might be a substantial line already, but it’s not going to be, like, two-and-a-half hours long substantial. Feeling like I’m “leisurely treating myself” by allowing myself to leave by 08:30.

08:21: En route to clinic now. Witnessed police stopping bikers for some kind of infraction at an intersection, who look like students. Jesus, imagine just trying to make your 08h30 lecture on a frigid morning, biking and not driving, and you get stopped by a cop?? Who’s going to write you a ticket?? That’s going to cost an inordinate amount of money that you can’t afford because you’re a student?? And then it’ll make you late for your lecture?? That’s gonna throw your entire day off, like, what the heck, I understand they have a quota and they need to write a certain number of tickets, but why give it to a student… Who’s clearly on their way to class… I don’t know, this upset me, I don’t like this, I don’t like this at all. Keep turning backwards to witness the cop writing the ticket, trying to internalize their face.

08:36: Okay, got my ticket, number 90, the last number that was called was, like, 72? So I’m really not that far off. I know that people like to “trash talk” this clinic, and I know individual experience is no way to accurately report anything, but I guess I’ve always been lucky in that I haven’t yet had a bad experience with this clinic. I mean this in the physical sense, like, for physical ailments, I have no concept of how the mental health side of the clinic operates, though from what I hear it’s, uh… It’s not the greatest…

One of the comfy chairs is available, and not just the wooden benches, miraculously, going to read Foucault. Feeling alert, and, like, sort of preppy?? This is unlike me, I almost never feel like this. I think it’s just because of the early start, and my optimism with finally “setting things straight” in my life. Also feeling excited to go to arcade with A on Friday, feeling like I need to “earn” it, need to accomplish my lists of tasks for the day or else I can’t allow myself any relaxation time. Seems like this is a good thing to do, if done responsibly.

Always feel a strange sort of social structure exists at the clinic, not sure why I think so, though… There’s a weird sort-of tension between the students, and the secretaries behind their desks, like, a palpable but under-the-rug aggression between them, and then between the students there too seems to be a weird no-holds-barred sort-of attitude that I can’t place. Need to think more about this, maybe it has something to do with the stress that comes with being ill, and also the mutual struggle of attempting to see a limited amount of doctors?

09:45: Okay, my number was called, wow, that went by a lot quicker than I thought it would. Making my way through the Foucault, so far it hasn’t been terribly difficult to comprehend, though that’s one of the reasons why I chose this book and not other philosophy books I was looking to “get into.” Wanted to explore postmodern philosophy since I am not well versed in it AT ALL, but didn’t want to immediately start with a philosopher that writes primarily through references to other philosophical concepts, or presupposes a wide array of knowledge of other philosophers, because I just don’t really know much about philosophy at all. His rhetorical strategies are so efficient, was sending a message to [removed] about it being, like, “he’ll introduce an argumentative position you didn’t even know you had, and then he’ll explain why it’s invalid, before you even realized you could take that perspective.” Not sure if I’m describing this well, I hope I am…

09:47: Got my time for the appointment: 12h exactly. Going to head to McLennan now and update liveblog, which should take me right up until when I need to head to the music building to sign the contract. Mission: Accomplished.

10:43: Just finishing up this first liveblog update, feeling mental state continuing to ascend from a place of grogginess to a place of awareness. Really enjoying this feeling, like, really appreciating that it’s happening, and wanting it to continue. Realize, too, that even if I get adequate sleep and wake early, it doesn’t guarantee days like this, but also know that it caters to them a lot more than sleeping at 3, or worse.

Appointment time also means I’ll have adequate time to get a bit of practicing done, can at least get through my finger exercises and maybe some run-throughs, though maybe I should focus more on passage work at this point? I don’t know, I’ll “feel it out” once I’m in the practice rooms. Need to leave soon for the music building.

Also know I shouldn’t have more caffeine, but?? Like?? A coffee and a donut sounds so good right now? Do I do it, do I “become the slob?” Picturing myself as this giant amoeba sac right now, just sort of flopping along the ground, trying to get somewhere in the least efficient manner possible. I think, yeah, yeah, I think I’m gonna do it… but not yet… Going to do it before heading to the clinic again… Yeah, yeah, going to get that donut after I finish practicing. Then I’ll at least feel less guilty about spending money out on a coffee and donut. Remembering when I used to go to MIT on the weekends and my dad (who drove me there) and my little brother would sit in the student centre and get Dunkin Donuts. Dad would do work on his laptop and brother would study, or play handheld video games, and brother would always get the “glazed stick.” Was his favourite of all the pastries they had there. I don’t think I really have a favourite donut?? Depends heavily on my mood, but, like, okay, George’s Most Frequently Consumed Donut: jelly. Yummie. Gimme that jelly, need it, need that, need that jelly-- gimme.

Walking to music building now “with a pep in my step” hahaha

11:05: Finished signing the new contract. Took all of five seconds, though I don’t really know what I was expecting?? It’s, I mean, it’s just a contract, I have no idea why I thought it would take anything longer than that… Also have to make an amendment to the daily schedule, I completely forgot that the bloodwork lab is just walk-in as long as you have the right forms from your appointment, so I should be able to go directly from my appointment to the bloodwork lab, get my blood drawn, and then leave right after!! Less time wasted, can also mitigate it further via reading more Foucault while back in the clinic. Have a bit of time now to try and practice.

11:07: All piano rooms taken. Seems to be par for the course these days around this time, but it would have been nice to have an upright, even for a small chunk of time. There’s some uprights available on the third floor so I’ll just take one of those, even though almost all of them, like, literally, 99% of them are just horrendous. But, most people never even get the chance to touch a piano, so who am I to complain?

Going to run through my Alkan and Thalberg, and then going to focus work on Beethoven. Not too unprepared for prescreenings, and will definitely not be unprepared for auditions, for once, feeling confident about this. Just have a handful of passages in these two romantic-era works that I still stumble on that I’m not 100% feeling comfortable with, but, I mean, they’re not out of reach, or anything, I just really hate detail-oriented practicing.

Upright I got is one of the “absolutely atrocious” ones. Surprise, surprise. Terrible touch, terrible sound, feels more like I’m playing on soggy bread than a keyboard. Going to “make the most of it,” hopefully will get a grand in the next practice session.

11:50: Heading back to clinic for actual appointment and bloodwork. Shouldn’t take too long, I’m anticipating, so there’s still a huge chunk of the day left to practice piano. I’ll start studying for the second behavioural neuropsychology midterm on Saturday and Sunday, that should be enough time before Monday to make my way through all the lectures that are being tested on, not too worried about this. Thank god the bulk of midterm season is over and I don’t have to honestly worry about finals for a bit, feels good not to be freaking out every single night over not spending enough time studying.

12:50: Okay my appointment time was 12:15 and I’m still waiting…

13:15: Yeah, I guess they’re running way behind. I should have anticipated this, “should have known” not everything clinic-related would go so smoothly. I’m not angry, or anything, like, they have an enormous volume of students to handle and not enough funding to do it properly, it’s not their fault, just would’ve liked to get “in and out.” Making good progress on the Foucault, on a particularly difficult section now where he discusses the concept of soul in relation to penal systems. Having to reread a bunch of sections to understand what he’s talking about, I hate when this happens, always gets me annoyed/frustrated and makes me want to hurl things against walls, or something. Keeping me occupied, at least.

Also feeling first surge of exhaustion of the day; I figure this is just cause of the earlier wake time than I’ve been used to in a while, also that I got just over my threshold of sleep, this always happens, feels like this happens to most people a few times a day anyways, especially when they’re just sitting in a warm space on a relatively comfortable surface while reading. Fighting it off via taking massive breaths and shaking my head.

13:25: Hey, okay, the consultation is done! Went in, doctor was real nice and all. Got my forms for all the blood tests that they’re gonna run, “making my way” to the bloodwork lab. They’re closed for lunch until 13:45, but that means I might be one of the first people in before they get back, so I’ll definitely not have to wait long for someone to stab me with a needle.

14:25: DONE. WE DID IT. They’re only gonna call me if I need to come in for some reason because of some concerning results or whatever, so if they don’t, I should be A HEALTHY HUMAN from the perspective of BLOOD. Got message from [redacted], going to go and have lunch with them instead of lunch at home; nice that we have this weekly Thursday lunch recap thing, feels wholesome, and a nice way to “keep in touch.” Always enjoy talking to them. Will probably splurge and get a banh mi, keep telling myself I’m making the “big bucks” now post-promotion, but, like, should still probably “keep a wrap” on how much I spent eating out… Walking to music building now, feeling high levels of excitement.

15:49: Lunch/talk with [redacted] done. Seems like we never have a shortage of things to discuss, it’s always rapidfire conversation from the second we see each other until one of us or both have to leave. Glad to have people like that in my life, where conversation never seems to be exhaustible, in a natural, non-forced way. Still going to head home, though; not going to my cog sci lecture. Feeling like it’s “not worth it” because I’m behind on the readings and I know, from attending a bunch of previous lectures, that I’m not going to be able to follow much what’s going on. Don’t have to study for the final for this for a while longer, thank the lord, but I do have quite the backlog of readings for this class. Imagined myself saying “I do have quite the backlog” with a heavy British accent of some sort. Reminds me of Dunkirk, that Christopher Nolan film, was rewatching parts of it last night. Feel like it’s definitely one of my favourite films, one of the few films without much dialogue and with a huge focus on pure action that still makes you endeared to the characters and story, even if the story is all but nonexistent, in my opinion; I feel like the way it was structured, which confused some reviewers I like, was really good and made a lot of sense; feel like if the story was told entirely linearly, things wouldn’t have coalesced and climaxed in the way that it did; by splitting the story into three timelines shown on screen at the same time, but taking place in actuality at different moments, and depicted on-screen at differing speeds, only to finally come together, where the viewer can see all three parts merge, really makes the film; first time seeing it in theatres was with my parents, I was immediately like, “I have to see this again, I can’t watch this 70mm film on my laptop.” This was during one of my breaks, and I headed back to school soon after, and then I literally saw the movie another two times, and even bought a ticket for one of my friends to “coerce them” into seeing it before it was taken off screens.

Gonna walk home now and just recuperate for a moment, not going to risk lying down in bed, or anything, but it’ll be nice to be back in my apartment even for ten minutes or so.

16:32: Okay, spent twenty-ish minutes idly watching tech-related YouTube videos, now going to head back to school for some practice. This little forty-minute diversion cut a chunk out of practice time, but felt it was worth it, was feeling a little strained after the talk with [redacted], not because of the talk, but, right after the talk ended, I felt another surge of tiredness. Realizing now the first surge might be because of the caffeine crash after the G Fuel I had in the morning, combined with having just eaten, which has a whole host of reasons why it naturally makes people feel tired. Gonna “do the ol’” Beethoven, it’s the opus 110 sonata, my favourite sonata he ever wrote, but I think I already told you that?? Whatever, I’m telling you again, this is my blog, shut up.

18:22: In McLennan now, gonna use these forty minutes to update the liveblog. Piano meeting “looming,” imminent piano organization meeting. Great way to end the penultimate weekday. Tomorrow though I do have a really really long all-day work shift that’s not going to end until 22h, which I’m sort of miffed at, actually. Still, it’ll be a good impetus to get me out of bed again at seven-thirty-ish so I can practice before my 10h lecture, because right after the lecture my shift starts, and then right after the shift I’m meeting up with A. Glad I also got that banh mi in my stomach earlier, feeling minimally hungry. Today was a productive day.

Might be the last blog post of the day, if I have beer I usually don’t really feel the need to update the liveblog, because I’m just sitting in my apartment sipping beer and reading things. This might be it for today, I love you people so much, and I hope your days were good too!!!! See you soon!!!!!!

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SPREAD CH.2 ARTIST SPOTLIGHT - Taylor Jamison

Hi SPREAD listeners! I hope everyone has been having a meaningful Pride month while enjoying the PRIDE playlist! The featured artist off SPREAD CH. 2 is dear friend of mine and a force to be reckoned with. Get a glimpse below of Taylor Jamison's life as an unapologetic songwriter and artist. HERE WE GO!

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Taylor: Hey hey, my name is Taylor Jamison and I’m a songwriter/singer right here in most-of-the-time-sunny Los Angeles! I’m originally from Boulder, CO, but have been living here in LA for a second now, writing for some amazing new artists, and creating some cool tunes under my name as well!

Dan: Hi Taylor! Welcome! I am so glad that u are PRIDE's featured artist. You are a songwriting beast who is constantly on the grind. I'm excited for people to hear about ur career and your thoughts about the industry, so let's get started.

Describe a typical day in the life of a songwriter. What do u enjoy the most about it?

Taylor: I’d say a typical day in the studio with me, at least, is catching up on life with whoever I’m working with, joking around, sharing funny moments of the week, usually someone has a good hook up/sex story as well. My favorite part is that, from these shared moments, a story unfolds itself. I see myself as a “Storyteller for the Ears,” so whether it’s myself singing the song or another artist, I love being able to share a moment/feeling in time through music and watching how people react to it.

Dan: I would say that u just perfectly summed up the reason songwriters do what they do! It's all about the story and the connection. In finding this connection for yourself, describe the place that makes you feel the most inspired creatively.

Taylor: I absolutely LOVE the beach because it’s so many things to me. Gentle, but powerful. Beautiful, with a dark side. Tranquil, yet full of energy. It makes me nostalgic for days passed, while making me think forward into the future. I love going out and laying by myself with a notebook, letting the sound wash over me until the words start falling out of my head onto the paper.

Dan: LA beaches are definitely hard to beat, too! I could use a beach day myself. It's a great way to reset and get those creative juices flowing. After running through all of those emotions we then get to the actual songwriting process. Now you have countless songs to ur name. Out of those, what song of yours are u most proud of? Why?

Taylor: Ooooooo, this is a hard one. I’m gonna have to have a tie on this between, “Down”, and, “The Last Time”. When putting together the production and sound scape of, “Down”, I really wanted to create a sense of longing because that’s essentially what that song is: it’s the complete taking-down of your walls for somebody because you want to fall completely into them, letting yourself be vulnerable so they know just how much you want them. For, “The Last Time”, I decided to keep that song with just piano and vocals because adding production was going to end up making it sound cheesy, and this song has such a powerful sense of nostalgia that I wanted it to almost seem completely empty, just like how you feel sometimes when you think back on someone from your past. Plus, that key change is life (have to toot my own horn on that one lolz), I want more artists to do key changes again!!!

Dan: Girl, key changes are UNDERRATED. When done just right, they can completely change a song for me. The key change in "The Last Time" makes me scream every single time. I think we could see them make a comeback.

Now, just like anyone on this journey, there are numerous high and low points. Tell us about when the music industry has maybe made you feel inadequate. How did u overcome this?

Taylor: Ummmm, the industry can make you feel inadequate on almost a daily basis if you let it, honestly. I’d be lying if I were to say that every day is a walk in the park, cause it’s not: you feel like you're constantly trying to prove to the world that you’re talented, yet it falls on deaf ears. However, I think the cure for those feelings of inadequacy is surrounding yourself with amazing people who are just as creative, driven and positive as you are, but always making sure to be humble. Nobody likes a cocky bitch, ever, lolz.

Dan: You are speaking TRUTH in this interview, girl. Surrounding yourself with positivity is almost the only way to get through those moments of feeling inadequate. And you're right, nobody enjoys being around cockiness, even though there can be a lot of that in this industry.

As you surround yourself with driven and encouraging people, I know that also includes artists u look to for inspiration. Tell us about an artist/songwriter who inspires u. What about their artistry/ability would you like to emulate in your own?

Taylor: To kick it a bit old school, I’m gonna say Elton John because I think he was so groundbreaking and just what was needed in the world to move forward progressively. He was completely unafraid to be flamboyant and unapologetically homosexual in a time that it was still not acceptable in public overall. Plus, with Bernie Taupin on the lyrics and Elton on the melodies, they made some prettyyyyyyyy amazing music that still stands the test of time, if I don’t say so myself.

Dan: Elton is a legend and an icon, especially for what he did for queer visibility in the mainstream. I had to include him as a part of the PRIDE playlist. It would have been a crime not to, honestly.

I have mentioned earlier that u are pretty much on the go all the time, whether it's working on ur own stuff or writing for other artists. In the midst of everything u have going on, how do u manage a busy schedule and stress? How do you recharge when u need to?

Taylor: I actually work WAY better on a busy schedule, so I’m a fan of back to back sessions, all week long! But, when I do need a little break, I love getting out of LA for a sec and visiting places like San Diego, Palm Springs, Santa Barbra and more. I also love having parties with my friends, dancing around, being gay, playing beer pong. Oh, and Tequila. Tequila is always an answer to stress and busy schedules (Silver Tequila only though).

Dan: I think that LA is such an encompassing city that sometimes the only solution to getting a break is getting out. I do the same thing. Also, I did not know u liked playing beer pong! I sense a duel between you and me coming soon...

Looking past u only liking silver tequila (sorry I had to throw some shade), what do u think is the biggest misconception people have about working in this industry?

Taylor: Oh lordy, probably that you can just show up in town and become a super star. Sorry to say it, but being a cocky bitch doesn’t get you very far hahah. The only way you’re becoming an overnight pop star is if mommy and daddy are loaded, or a family member is tied into a label somehow. Gotta put in the work to really earn respect from people, at least in my book.

Dan: There are many, many people that agree with u! This industry easily and quickly exposes true talent and true intention. I love how honest and open u are.

Touching on your openness, how has ur identity influenced or affected your journey as a songwriter and artist?

Taylor: I think being gay totally influences my journey as both a songwriter and as an artist because it’s not, “normal”, per say. It doesn’t fit the cookie cutter mold of what a male pop artist has been for the past 5+ decades, so it’s sometimes difficult for people to want to get behind something still so new and not fully understood. But, even though it sometimes makes the journey harder, I wouldn’t change it for the world because I feel like it brings such a unique and interesting view to songs that straight men, and even women can’t entirely relate to.

Dan: I am holding onto hope that as time continues, more queer artists will be accepted as major label and mainstream like their straight counterparts. I think that progress in this aspect will really be made by people just like u, who are unapologetically themselves. What advice would you give to up and coming LGBTQ+ songwriters and artists?

Taylor: I would emphasize not trying to hide who you are, letting it all fall out, even if it’s hard to do. We’re in a time where LGBTQ kids need role models, people that they can say they want to grow up to be like. Unlike straight men and women, LGBTQ kids have had to feel the need to hide who they are from such a young age so as to “fit in” with normal, American society; now is the time for us to live our lives to the fullest so we can keep paving the road towards the future. (I felt like a motivational speaker there on a soap box lolz.)

Dan: U are dead on. The more LGBTQ artists and musicians that are in the spotlight, the more LGBTQ kids and youth will see that it really is okay to be themselves. We have to watch out for our LGBTQ youth as much as possible because our government doesn't seem to look out for them enough...

I am sure thinking through these questions has made u, in a way, look back on your own journey as an artist and songwriter. So what would you has been the biggest highlight of your career as an artist/songwriter so far?

Taylor: I think one of the coolest moments so far was opening for Bonnie McKee at OC Pride in 2014. Even though I now look back on my outfit and shake my damn head, it was so amazing to meet her in person, definitely one of my songwriting idols!

Dan: Hahaha, that's incredible. How cool that u were able to open for her at a Pride event! She is a songwriting queen. Definitely an idol of mine, too! (For those of you that don't know Bonnie, u can thank her for hits like 'Teenage Dream,' 'California Gurls,' 'Dynamite,' and 'Hold It Against Me.')

Taylor, it's time for my signature question. What artist/album/song have u had on repeat lately?

Taylor: Ok, album for SURE would be Kehlani’s, “Sweet Savage Sexy”: that shit is AMAZING. I’m also digging The 1975, Jon Bellion, Blackbear and Julia Michaels. “Issues”-Julia Michaels, “Do-Re-Mi”-Blackbear, “Escape”-Kehlani, “Bad Liar”-Selena Gomez and “Death Wish”-Terror Jr are definitely the go-to songs on repeat currently!!!

Dan: This list is SO solid. U know Kehlani has a soft spot in my heart. I was so excited to include her on SPREAD CH.2 as well!

Now that we are sadly wrapping up this Artist Spotlight, how can we check out ur music and stay up to date with ur releases/posts? Anything we should especially be on the lookout for?

Taylor: My Insta/Twitter handle is @TaylorJamison77, and you can listen to my shit on Spotify, Apple Music, iHeart Radio and more under Taylor Jamison! Also, you can check out Matthew John’s EP, “Chain Reaction” on all streaming sites as well (I wrote the title track, “Chain Reaction”!). In the next few months I’ll be having some new music come out, as well as some more releases with other artists (follow me on Insta for the most up to date info, as I share mostly on there. Plus, my InstaStory’s are usually pretty fun, from what I’ve heard!)

Dan: I can attest that Taylor is very fun to follow on social media! Everyone PLEASE go check his pages and his music out, and then go give his song '(Never Gonna) Change For You' another listen on PRIDE! Thank u so much for being so real with us, girl. I cannot wait to see ur name in lights one day.

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Thank u for tuning into the second SPREAD Artist Spotlight! Big thanks to Taylor Jamison for serving some tea today and giving us a closer look at his career as a gay singer/songwriter.

I hope u all enjoy the last few days of PRIDE month! I can't believe it's almost over. In just a couple of days a new playlist will be gracing the SPREAD website, and this one is about to be veryyy refreshing... ;)

Cover e v e r y inch!

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How To Come Back 10x Stronger When Life Knocks You Down

If there’s one thing I do know, life never ceases to surprise and amaze me. One minute your world is perfectly aligned, carrying on seamlessly. Your relationship is solid. Your job is fulfilling. Your health is strong. Then out of nowhere, your perfectly content world is shaken up by a serious curve ball. Your once faultlessly balanced life is falling apart.

Admittedly, I have had my fair share of “oh shit, what next?” moments in my life. None of these moments were expected, yet they happened, and I had to deal. Was being suddenly jobless in a foreign country ideal? No, definitely not. How about being completely blindsided with a break-up with someone you thought could potentially be the one? Not great. Although unfortunate, all of these terrible events have something in common: a fresh start.

It’s easy to look at unfortunate events in your life as a loss or a failure, yet they can be so much more. They offer learning experiences. In the midst of it all, it’s difficult to view things that way, but trust me; the truth is hidden underneath the hurt. The best thing you can do for yourself is to move forward and embrace the freedom. There aren’t many times life hands you a reset, but when it does, make the most out of it.

Here are some ways to embrace some of life’s most difficult resets.

Career. When it comes to work life, I truly believe it’s an area in life that should fulfill you. Some people are lucky and can fall into their dream job; meanwhile, for others, it takes a few tries to find the right fit. Honestly, I feel like it’s normal to have a few career resets in your 20s–whether it’s a chosen reset or an unexpected change of course. When I found myself abruptly without a job, I seriously reflected on my career path and happiness. Was I satisfied with what I was doing? Could I see myself being successful on this trajectory? Did it light me up to do said job every day? Upon reflecting, I determined I needed more. I was not satisfied simply working a job. I needed to find and follow my passion. With that said, if you find yourself at a career crossroads, take it as a sign from the universe to discover your true calling.

Health. When we wake up each morning, we expect to be our best self. We never intend to be unhealthy or sick, yet it happens. Around the same time I was restarting my career, I found myself with chronic fatigue, and I was so overly stressed that my hair was falling out. I did not aim to put myself there, but somewhere along the way, I lost track of adequately focusing on my health. Sparing the details, it was a true wake up call. It shook me to my core, and I knew I needed to do better: for my body and for my soul. Sometimes the reset will come in different forms–too tight jeans, a health scare, or wanting to feel alive again. Although some health conditions are beyond our control, there is no better time than now to create your own health reset and make your health a priority. For me, I dove right in, revamping my nutrition, increasing my physical activity, and taking care of my mind with yoga and meditation. However, everyone is different. Do what feels best for you and your body.

Relationships. When first beginning a relationship, you never imagine it ending. When a relationship is on the rocks, however, you can feel it coming to an end. Other times, you are completely blindsided by your partner. I have experienced both, and neither is easy. When you find yourself suddenly single, it’s a confusing mixture of emotions. It’s lonely yet liberating. It’s the beginning of a whole new chapter. Let this new chapter be about you and your self-discovery. Take all of that shared energy and put it back on you, focusing your full attention on your needs. We have all been down that road, obsessing about the lost relationship and what went wrong. Don’t waste your precious energy. The reset happened for a reason, and it must be accepted. Instead, let it go and take time for yourself to heal. When I found myself single again, I took the opportunity to travel and start writing. Taking the time for myself and doing the things that I loved helped me move on and regain my independence. Go on the trip you’ve been dying to go on! Spend all weekend reading trashy novels. Before you know it, there will be clarity and eventually acceptance.

How have you coped when life makes you start afresh? 

Also by Jess: Why You Have To Find Yourself Before Finding The One

Feeling Crushed By Life? Why You’ll Be Saved By Finding Your Purpose

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Jess is a traveling teacher and wellness coach with a wanderlust soul. She has a passion for uplifting others and helping others realize their full potential. Jess enjoys going to different parts of the world to learn about wellness and discovering new ways to connect the mind, body, and spirit. Follow Jess on Instagram @thewellnesswanderess.

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