#so i try to avoid it like the plague

[kisakis-boyfriend]

This is not directed at anyone specific, just a general statement: I will not answer any more thirsts regarding dom or top characters. Period.

I love the concept of a character trying to top/dom someone and ending up as the bottom/sub, but anything more than that doesn't appeal to me at all. And I'd like to prevent my inbox from filling up with things that make me a little uneasy before it gets to a really bad point.

Thank you for understanding ❤️

[still-snowing]

smooch!

[yikesb3rg]

losing my mind over kenshi's fit details so i'll put it on the backburner for nowge sorry kenshi

[solarpunkani]

"Oh no, someone's attracted to the aesthetics of my -punk movement but doesn't know the praxis and history behind it like I do--"

OK. Tell them. Make it a teaching moment. Everyone who's in your movement learned the background from somewhere at some point, maybe this is that point for that person. Give them a jumping off point that they can dive into later.

"Oh but I shouldn't be responsible for teaching baby -punks about the history and the how-tos and--"

OK. Then don't tell them. You don't have to be responsible for teaching people with a budding interest in your group the ins and outs and how-tos. That's fair and valid! It can be a lot of work. Someone else will handle it

"But I'm annoyed that they would try to claim to be part of/be interested in my community without knowing all the details that I know after being in it for months/years/decades, they're dumb, they're posers, they're--"

OK. Then don't engage with them, if it's that bad. Maybe someone else will come around and tell them the history, maybe they'll pick it up on their own, maybe they'll just enjoy the fashion elements for awhile.

"But they shouldn't claim to be part of the -punk community if they don't know the--"

I feel like we have a few options here. People can either talk to them, share the history, share the values, share the praxis. Or they can just chase off anyone who even thinks about dipping a toe in their community, and then wonder why it's dying off later down the line.

I dunno, maybe I'm too naive and patient or whatever. But if people are entering your -punk spaces without knowing The Rundown of what you feel they need to know, maybe being nice about it and informing people instead of immediately assuming stupidity and malicious intent could help you make a new friend. Even the loudest voices in a space had to learn from somewhere, and not everyone has the luxury of being in the space as the History was Happening--whether it's an age thing or a not being aware of the space thing. Or maybe I just don't see what the big deal is behind people hating people who like the aesthetic of something and don't know the behind the scenes history about it yet.

Because I believe in the word 'yet.' No one comes into this world knowing everything about everything, and we're all constantly learning new things. I'm not gonna degrade someone and call them a poser for not knowing what I know. Because if it were me, interested in a scene but getting chased out and called a poser? I wouldn't hit the books and study up, I'd go 'that fuckin sucks, those people sucked' and then avoid anyone and anything having to do with it.

So chase people off and call them posers if you want. But if your community starts dwindling, don't be fucking shocked.

[foldingfittedsheets]

My beloved has a TBI traumatic brain injury and while that is a bummer the absolute worst part of it is that we can’t watch Arcane because they need to limit their screen time.

[triglycercule]

yall who cast reverse animal themes on my horror and dust,,, why we got BUNNY horror and PUPPY dust

ok but on a real note i was DYING drawing this. i cant believe its my first time drawing the 1 of the trio in a maid dress!!!! id like to thank underfella and calvateyla for inspiring me; i wouldn't have graduated from shit art college without you guys ❤️💜 (inspo) (SOMEONE GET THIS DOG OUT OF HERE DUST HAS A FUCKING CHAINED COLLAR???? 💀💀💀)

i didn't know what to do for the background either so i just added funny photos. HERE. yes its a coincidence the memes are both horror and dust themed i totally didn't plan that

[luckystar1327]

just started watching the owl house yesterday

i know nothing about hunter but my friend sent me a singular edit and i think hes my favorite

[bonefall]

Was Squilf happy that her apprentice got with her grandchild? Did she set them up/is it common in BB for older family members and mentors to "recommend" mates? Not like an arranged marriage thing but more like your aunt going "you know my old apprentice Dudeheart, well, he has a son that's such a bright and courteous young man, I really think you two might have a lot to talk about"

It's SUPER common, probably making up a solid percentage of matches-made. That's just how it is in a society that heavily values making connections between its members; everyone's got The Auntie who's trying to introduce you to handsome and responsible suitors.

Rosetail actually paired up her son Redtail with Runningwind. I feel like she was a great matchmaker in her time, but I haven't yet picked any others she paired up. Maybe Lionheart and Frostfur! That could be cute!

But I'm not sure if Squilf did matchmaking for Spark and Holly. They were actually kithood friends and had the seeds of romance long before they blossomed.

When Sparkpelt explains this to Nightheart someday, she'll describe it as something that was always there, as right as the drops that slumber within a fat cloud. Even before it drizzles, its nature is simply to rain.

[rileys-battlecats]

was trying to figure out why I feel so Wrong rn and I think it's because I didn't follow my usual daily routine like At All and now my brain is freaking out. woke up at a vastly different time, had entirely different tasks throughout the day, took a nap at a weird time (to make up for the fact I had about 3 hours of sleep last night), zero human contact for the past 15 hours, and ate different food from usual (various leftovers from social events/thanksgiving, instead of cooking for myself like normal). and before I really realized that these were all things that were Bad For My Brain I was just wandering around my house like "why do I feel like garbage?? I've literally been outside so much today my brain should be happy"

ANYWAY here's to me not remembering I have issues with unstructured living because my days have been so similar for the past 4ish years that I straight up Forgot that things being too different too fast makes me crazy ✌️

[the-hilda-librarians-wife]

Have a wonderful day once more!

I’m so late to answer this!!!! But I did see it in the morning and it did make me start a wonderful day 😊

Thank you so much, I looooove how she turned out!! And I hope you have a wonderful night :)

[lewmagoo]

don't underestimate me. i can and will take an entire day to watch a single movie. partly because adhd, and partly because if i'm enjoying it i don't want it to end, so i'll break it into sections like i'm watching my own little mini series lol

[0809sysblings]

new drinking game: go into the comment section of MeMe and/or John Doe and take a shot every time you see a comment that includes at least one of these things

Mikoto doesn't have DID, he just [insert symptom of DID]

"split personality"

Mikoto doesn't have DID, he is faking

"manipulator"

"serial killer"

Mikoto created his alter

"violent alter"

"evil alter"

Mikoto doesn't have DID, everything is supposed to be symbolic

[insert condescending remark about how guilty he is]

guaranteed alcohol poisoning

[pup-pee]

my brother has recently found a hack 2 make me eat healthier foods

by giving me his "left overs" ((i h8 wasting food))

so im counteracting this by eating expired food

[pennielane]

me: the evil has been defeated and i finally have free time to start posting on tumblr again!

also me: *immediately gets grossly ill*

[jacqcrisis]

Adding onto the wizard and king idea: the dominant religion in the magic Kingdom worships dragon deities, one of which is the god of magic who chooses and blesses the royal wizard with the Powers. Such a sorcerer needs to go train for years though once he's of age before he can subsume the duty of Big Fuckoff Powerful Magic Man.

So! Prince (who's like third in line) and apprentice were best of friends, teenage/early 20s sweethearts, extremely in love, undoubtedly insperable. The time comes, however, for the apprentice to go off and be dragon trained or whatever, and he fucks off. The prince promises to always love him 'I'll wait for you forever' etc etc etc, thinking of him every day, and showing no interest in the potential brides his family drags in front of him because why would he when true love is promised to return to him.

Cue old king dad dying. And the old king's brother. And eldest prince. Dead from battle they were, very tragic. Lover boy is crowned king, blessed be by the draconic god of being a big leader man and now mom wants him married and normal and continuing the family line, no ifs ands or buts about it.

And who better than the beautiful, intelligent princess of the country they just had to make a truce with, joining the two powerful kingdoms hand in hand and beginning a new Era of Peace and Heteronormativity. Years pass. Things are fine. The old wizard finally retires at like 82 and dearest old flame comes running back to fill his place.

And dear scaley ass gods; their meeting after like 15 years of separation is.... hoo boy, it's clear they still harbor ALL the feelings, time failing to erode the connection they have and only building on the longing they felt. Queen Wife watches as her husband's face is lovingly cradled in the hands of a man twice his fucking size with a twitch in her eye, but she's ready. Her mother in law gleefully warned her about the impending shit storm and she's all too happy to remind her husband of who he's married to while laying down the law with the wizard she wouldn't trust on principal if it also weren't for the fact that he's two inches from having his tongue down the kings throat.

Wouldn't want the peasants to think we're faggots or something, now would we?

So the queen gets between them. The rules are set in stone. The king folds and agrees and starts acting distant much to the wizards initial shock and anger, but worry not, he's a smart little cookie who can see his boy age sweetheart is hiding what he really feels under seventeen layers of politics, propriety, and being wife shamed.

The wizard is a patient and conniving bitch. It's only a matter of time, effort, and carefully applied pressure before the king breaks. And he'll be there to have him. Forever, this time.

[downsteepy]

this was at like 170 something. this is also nauseating