#so i just don’t use my name online
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i have a rlly unique name for my frankly boring real name, but honestly it’s SO unique that i don’t even use my name online. but anyway a good equivalent to my name/nickname is my real name being (the equivalent to) Marcus and a nickname of Mars or something like that? if that makes sense. idk if that’s the best equivalent tho.
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#god i rlly want to over share online#but i’ve had business teachers who’ve admitted to hiring descrimibation because they looked someone up and they had pagan-ish hobby’s#and now i’m paranoid that i’ll be denied a job for like. idfk spirking?#so i just don’t use my name online#and honestly sometimes do a bit of misdirection on any of my personal info#but i have a REALLY cool name story of like how i got my nickname#mutuals yall can DM me if yall wanna know the story#but yeah
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Do people feel like attached to their names? Is that a thing? Cause I really could go by anything I’m just used to the name I have. It doesn’t “feel” like me. Do people “feel” like their names?? I thought it was just a thing you go by, sort of like pronouns (though I am agender so that’s probably not a good example)
#my name doesn’t suit me#but hey everyone calls me it so whatever#I don’t not like getting called it#I just… if someone renamed me I’d be fine?#I would have to get used to it but I wouldn’t be upset?#I prefer jay but that’s only cause I don’t like using my real name online#it doesn’t really ‘suit’ me either#idk
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sometimes i get so caught up in my own aus that i forget that stuff i add into it isn’t canon. what do you mean the house of hearth kids under crucabena didn’t tend to use surnames to refer to each other, which is why ‘freminet’ is known as freminet despite that being a surname. what do you mean he and albedo aren’t like, incredibly complicated ‘cousins’.
#thoughts#freminet#albedo#freminet’s first name is nechtan to me <3 & his sibs don’t realize it’s not his first name bc he’s just used to using freminet#i have my own complicated lore that is slowly being proven wrong by genshin canon however this is my rewrite au & i do what i want#(anyways. freminet is called nixe by ppl who realize what his first name is. also he’s *technically* the melusines’ cousin too#(‘rhine’ is a hereditary name for the oldest child of the rhine. narcissa’s sister cartesia moved to fontaine.)#(rhine =gold = alchemy = albedo. cartesia = bronze = mechanics = nixe. guinevere = silver = ley lines/irminsul = dorian. hear me out)#to be quite honest i’m probably never actually writing this so ill just talk abt it online instead.#wayside shrines au
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also if you are in a certain FB group that i have been referencing on here and posting in lately and you see my real name NO YOU DID NOT. look away. be cool.
#i’m trying to be better about keeping my shit secure online but i’m so bad at it#like tell me why i use a fake name but post real pictures of my real face LMAO#i have a horrifically long digital footprint so i’m sure all of my real information is incredibly easy to find but just pls don’t look LOL#the life and times of ava
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I missed amongus server drama? 🥲
Qwerty no amount of update accounts could describe what happened
#don’t stop the party#his ass did not get hired NDA loving wife potato farm swag priest I’ll use him later the interview cyrus copper house Cyrus farm underside#the village armor spells out chef well he underwater mines tools named after master chef winners red light district what amendment is the ri#ght ti remain silent THEYRE fuckinng at the red light district all the time clings reciting poetry maybe if I finish his gift he’ll like me#when is the divorce is clings socks son because he’s mixed who is the father church so trinkets the pope then is it priest or pastor I’m not#calling him father cyrus how are you doing Cyrus I’m feeling swaggy bedrock minecraft isn’t on mac Nintendo online is $20 a year you did#lore and you’re not even on our server can I get the family tree when will my husband return from the war cyrus has the nda why are you at#the red light district trinket crying laughing#I’m gonna listen to YCGMA is your husband faithful oh well he works csn cyrus deafen the king solomon baby story recited from a techno quote#in a Cyrus fic please areus don’t tell you know clings I just want my family to be okay you don’t know what this would do to him please#he doesn’t even have a priest outfit you are not allowed to build in swag nation afyer some debate the council has considered you for the#job of pastor so how are Andy and clings related#cyrus gets tagged 5 times consecutively on a burger post. clings is in the backrooms. it’s jover.#amogus server#asks#qwerty
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being the only autistic kid in a small town school was probably the worst experience a person can ever have
#i live in the middle of nowhere and i went to a school that had like 20 other people in my grade#and iwas the only one who didn’t fit the mold of cishet neurotypical christian whatever whatever#i also had anger issues from having my home life be fucking awful n people loved to use that to their advantage#imagine having a whole school constantly gang up on you for literally just existing#why does my existence make you want to fucking murder me i dont understand#i still feel to this day as if i shouldn’t be allowed to live and that everyone on the planet hates me#thank god high school was a better experience for me even tho some ppl had issues with me i ended up finding true friends#bc i left there lmao#im literally going to change my legal name one day bc im afraid of being known as that one weird girl in middle school.#why do i have to live this life?#i never share my face online for this reason too#what if one of my bullies finds out abt me and starts going off in the comments about how i was weird in middle school???? it’s fucking ……#i don’t go out bc im afraid of ppl recognizing me. for existing.#actually autistic#cptsd#bullying#so fun……………….
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Hmmm..
Part of me is tempted to change how I use this blog and my secondary blogs, specifically in the form of making this blog a much more “general/personal?/not for fanart”-type blog, and then actually going through with keeping different interests on different secondary blogs that are more directly themed around those interests (since I already have fitting URLs to use in a lot of cases).
I just think it might be better to keep different things more in their own spaces, so that I can have those spaces that are dedicated to them (like a Pokémon Reborn blog, and then a Kingdom Hearts blog, and so on). That way, people know what they’re getting when they follow me, and can also pick what sort of things they want to see by following the appropriate sideblog (which is easier than filtering out tags or something!)
I also think this sort of change is something that would make it easier to talk about my OCs and self-inserts (because I have a lot of them and I also like hearing about others’ but never feel very able to talk about my own here!), as well as perhaps live-blogging my own gameplay experiences more, because it’d be easier to do that on a blog that is already specific to the appropriate series. At the moment this blog is almost entirely reblogs, and it would probably stay that way, but it means this primary blog can be kept as more of a “whatever I want”-type space that then keeps all my secondary blogs more focused.
..I need to go have breakfast now, but I’m just wanting to put this out there as mainly a reminder for myself, and an opportunity for anyone to say what they think about the idea if they want to. Thank you for reading! Comments or advice are appreciated but not required~
#a call from the void#posts made by me#might also change my online name in the process. who knows. I’ve kept wanting to after all#if I did start actually using sideblogs then.. I wouldn’t technically need to keep my current tag system the same as it is#but at the same time I like how I tag things - i.e. “name (series)’’ and so on - so maybe I will keep it regardless??#I don’t know#I just know I have thoughts and want to share them#and I have URLs and want to use them#some of them feel fitting for themed blogs within a series (for example using charous-hall as a showcase for everyone’s reborn OCs)#but that seems like perhaps too much on top of everything else
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rly hope the matty rumors r cocoNOT true
#tbh him being there for phoebe makes 10000x more sense to me#but even if they r a thing like. who cares omg who caaarressss#yeah he sucks and we hate him but what is the point of getting upset abt it she’s a big girl she can make her own choices#complaining online to a platform she doesn’t even use isn’t gonna change her mind i’m afraid#like not saying u can’t have opinions and call him out for being a problematic bigot#i’m just like. already so over all the speculating about what they r and why she’s doing what she’s doing#like she is a celebrity and there’s a degree of separation and ik she’s built her fanbase on ‘getting rid’ of that#but you’re honestly so out of touch if u think u can know everything about her like. u don’t. straight up. never will. and it feels like ppl#don’t want to accept that for some reason with all the trying to unpack what it all means#and like i don’t care at all actually and am tired of seeing his name lmao#idk if that even makes sense but. just my take atm#love letters only
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Oh hey since I’m including us in my next comic, thought I’d post my lil reference sheet for me and my friend :>
(Also name drop I guess lmao)
#I’m just a lil mango#ineffable birds#I promise the comic is about Azira and Crowley-#art#pencil#colored pencil#birds#self#also for names online I go by Aux I guess or Auxine I don’t really care#but mah name is Avery so like I don’t care which you use#(not my legal name anyway TwT)#wee more ramblings in the tags!#WAIT FUCK I JUST REALIZED MAX IS SUPPOSED TO SAY HE/THEY#FUCK
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I’m feelin sappy about the fact that I met one of my best friends on here, and also my literal spouse. As shitty as the world is, at least I have my hellsite (affectionate)
#like!#me and Taylor literally met because they randomly messaged me saying they liked my icon on here#and now they’re sleeping peacefully next to me#with our cats squished between their legs#and I met max on here before either of us used the names we use now#like eons ago#and even though I don’t talk to any of my friends daily it’s like#such a beautiful reminder that the reason shit like this exists is connection above all#everything online is so commodified now (including tumblr I know)#but it’s so nice to just have friends and loved ones that you cherish#anyway.
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daily reminder to NEVER FUCKING POST PHOTOS NEXT TO YOUR HOUSE
#god some of y’all have NO self-preservation when it comes to online privacy#even your first name can be a risk. people can and WILL find everything they can about you so make sure you protect yourself#for the love of god delete accounts you don’t use anymore#don’t put your face where you say dumb shit you may later regret. i saw a tiktok of one of my friends jokingly saying kys about discourse#THAT SHIT WILL NOT FLY IN 10 YEARS. not to sound like a gen xer BUT IT WILL HAUNT YOU#never give out your insta to people you meet online if it has your face and location#please please please do not tie your art to both your irl and your online self unless you are prepared to face it in 10 years#don’t put your last name anywhere. if you need to give one use one of a relative. preferably one that’s common#my last name is ridiculously rare so you’ll never see me post about it#don’t fucking put your name anywhere online if you’re a registered voter in the us because YOUR ADDRESS IS PUBLIC#your BIRTH RECORDS ARE PUBLIC. your MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE RECORDS ARE PUBLIC#if you can find anything remotely incriminating on whitepages just do a full wipe of your socials and start again#i’m begging y’all please be careful. and if you ARE planning to meet someone you know online#make sure you always have as much if not more info about them as they do about you#i know it sounds shitty but always have some kind of leverage because situations like that can go bad fast#also be careful of which irls you talk about to online people because you don’t want to put them at risk accidentally#i’m screaming from the rooftops THIS GENERATION HAS NO STANDARD OF PRIVACY. it’s fucking terrifying#michi.txt
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Soo it happen again huh
#horrendous behavior and nobody wants to take responsibility#because is so much easier to keep this papá caliente game going on went some ‘side’ does something awful but is not their fault because#the other side has done something awful as well#and we just keep going and going and nobody ever does nothing to you know try and make this place of supposly fun less of a hell for everyo#seriously I want to smack so many people a tv show is not worth losing the sense of humanity#and you don’t have to be directly involved in whatever happens to be like mmm maybe this kind of behavior is not fucking normal#doing stuff as simply as cultivating your little corner without attacking anyone#oh they said an spec you don’t like oh they ship a ship don’t like well move on and let it be#(there the exception of when the discourse has stuff like racism misogyny or with doxing attacks that’s absolutely has to be called out )#yes you don’t send hate anon yes you don’t run a blog attacking people or participate in directly attack behavior#but maybe getting comfortable casually hating on fans of a ship maybe can normalize that behavior and maybe the people that need#to log off and learn how to be humans again will see that and get use to indirectly hating other fans creating mock names for them and mayb#when they stumble a blog of someone that is not ‘on their side’ they will feel more comfortable sending death threats and so out of touch#accusations#I overall stay away from drama I curate my experience but I have seen mentions this behavior from absolutely both sides both buddie mutual#bucktommy mutuals and multishippers being attacked#and nobody wants to take responsability they just throw the rock and said well the other side does it as well why should be the ones doing#we so easily call other behaviors but god fordib we take a moment to take a look into ours#what others do is not our responsability but the kind of enviorment we cultivates and endorse it is#I don’t think people who don’t do any of this attacking should take responsibility for it (like apologizing is what I saw was the apparent#Expectation) what I think is important is the overall recognition from both sides of hey under#no circumstance this behavior is okey and doing small simply stuff in our corner can help everyone have a better environment#And wells there’s still idiot people who are way to online and don’t understand nobody owns them to like the same ship or character#And that if you don’t agree with opinions you are not obligated to interact with that content simply as that I honestly don’t understand#What people sending death threats over characters genuinely hope to achieve#But maybe a little bit of excile of people perpetuating this can send the message hey this is not okey and I think is stronger if the call#Comes from inside the house#but if we go well is the other side fault every single time we are never getting out of this circle of toxicity#My two cents that probably nobody will read because of the lenght#911 discourse
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Uhm not to be a conspiracy theorist but a lot of this black ppl tryna reclaim democracy and the American flags and what it means to be a good ol murcian feels like a set up to manufacture consent for the shit they’re allowing Israel to get away with and the shit they’ll continue to back as tensions rise
#Idk like if I’m wrong I’m wrong#but just as president of the United States is a black job#so too will be military soldier weapons manufacturer corrupt politician#and this ain’t saying there’s no truth to our role in American history and culture#just saying there’s a reason so many of our ancestors and the liberators before us rejected things such as the flag#and Im not saying don’t vote. my entire stance on voting has been DONT throw a stone and hide ur hand#ok a stone is gonna get thrown and ur choosing a smaller one but u don’t get to get pissed when someone being pelted with stones says it#still hurts#and that theyd prefer u didn’t throw any at all#especially when ur best option is the person who’s not even throwing smaller stones#just the person who won’t find a bigger one#is that working?#kind of?#whtever the point is you KNOW the social and political ramifications of what ur doing#i think it’s disingenuous to lie and prop someone up who ur saying ur choosing as a lesser of two evils#but this is just myyy opinion argue with ya momma etc#someone made a vid on how the attitude within the black community of me first is being set up for the upcoming climate refugees#and yeah yes#Idk the tiktok username but if u search the name Somaya on tiktok it’ll show probably great take 👍🏾#but like an extension of this#in MY personal opinión#is that they’re trying to get the black community hyped up for war#specifically on the behalf of the us#like maybe Im chronically online but y’all remember the memes about ww3 and how nobody wanted to do that shit#even women making keep me in the kitchen jokes#notice how rn general consensus is more vague mumbling and side glances than whole hearted nos#especially after that wave of military edits or whatever#whenever I think I’m being hare brained or crazy I remember the real shit this country has done tho like#y’all used to feed our babies to alligators it is not that crazy to think ur crafting military propoganda#alsooo if I say I think the whole Russian psyop shit is to mask how the us likes to create friction between oppressed groups worldwide
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So when I accidentally see ships I don’t like even with blocked tags, I’ll just block the poster. No offense and don’t take it personally, idgaf what you do but I curate my feed to my own comfort. Also if you start drama or are an ahole about it.
Id say I’m neutral because making either pro or anti your whole personality is just weird. There are ships I don’t like but as long as it isn’t lolisha shit im not gonna fight over it. Ship what you like and be mindful of ones that make others uncomfortable and the language used and don’t be mad when people block or disengage with it. But also don’t harass people for what they ship the stupidity goes both ways.
#neutral ship#but idrc#yes this is about that one ship I won’t name#don’t need to be flamed today#when blocking tags isn’t enough#like people should be mindful of that#like don’t get mad when people react less than favorably#as long as they aren’t rude about it#like the best way to handle that is just block it so you don’t have to see it#I won’t speak for things in languages I don’t speak but I’ll let people post clear translations#in the end idrc what you ship but please be mindful of what langauge you use when referring to characters#even if you don’t see them that way it can be upsetting or invalidating to others#doesn’t affect me personally but I’m still uncomfy with it#this isn’t even the only fandom that I’ve been in that does this#like just make it clear that you know it’s problematic for some#no reason to be ashamed if it’s fiction#honestly the vast majority of people will not care#it’s just chronically online people#making being either pro or anti and entire personality trait is just weird#like touch grass#do what you like just be mindful of implications in convo#and don’t get mad if people choose to block/not engage#and fighting fire with fire is not gonna help#this goes for antis too#especially talking over people who might be affected#like just block and move on#that’s what I’m doing#sorry if it bothers anyone I don’t hate you or anything#just curating my feed#people are allowed to be uncomfy
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damn this inferiority complex got hands
#status update#sorry vent incoming ->#when you when. when you get perceived as a certain way for so long that you assign yourself that trait before others can#i don’t WANT to be the annoying little brother type but asking to be seen as an equal feels like asking for too much#so it’s at least better if i say it first and when people agree it’s just true. and then it’s not mean that way#i said it first so hahaha it’s okay if you don’t engage with me in earnest i get it because i know i’m like that#you can write me off as being silly and childish because that’s what i’m doing after all#it’s not fair to me to infantilize myself in the name of protection but well. i’m convinced Everyone sees me like that#id rather be self aware than clueless. better to acknowledge i’m annoying ahead of time than assume i can be liked as myself#because. and this has been proven true to my face in the past. people who think i’m not annoying are an exception to the rule#i don’t know i really constantly feel like i’m just being a silhouette of myself everywhere. irl online doesn’t matter#and i don’t want to feel like that i don’t like doing that it makes me sick#but man it’s really just. anything to not be ostracized#anything to have friends who don’t make fun of me or who use me to just make them feel better about themselves#alright that’s off my chest now. back to business as usual
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