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Sept. 27, 2024
Uh Oh. the common account we use for household stuff now costs 5.50ā¬ a month bcs my roommate is 25 and so I offered to try and find a free one, or to make another account myself bcs it would be free for me as someone under 25. but now I'm realizing that means I'd be responsible for paying all the bills, and I'm bad with math and have a bad memory, so that sounds mildly terrifying when I was actually confronted with the reality of it. plus we also have to get insurance which costs about 10ā¬/month through my bank, and since I'm domiciled here it would make the most sense for me to get it. But my other roommate at the same bank who isn't domiciled here could also technically get it... It would just be generally a lot easier if everything was on one account, which would be one of my accounts. Also opening a new account is scary. Anything to do with a bank and money is scary.
Idk if this is only scary right now bcs I also need to put down the money for my grandma's nursing home deposit (which I haven't done yet and really need to get on doing), so adding another financial responsibility seems very scary just right now, but it would be fine once I do my grandma's deposit. Or if generally being in charge of paying all the bills would cause me additional stress in general and I should instead just get my roommates to handle the insurance and pay the extra 1.38ā¬ a month for the shared account...
#personal#me#finances#pls feel free to share ur opinion#ive also just been really scared/anxious and depressed (again) in general lately bcs my pain increased with the weather changing#and i assume hormones may also be to blame here...#financially im fine but if i can avoid spending more money on rent that would be appreciated š
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give me your halloween costume headcanons!! I am encouraging your halloween behavior!! do you think any of them go all out or barely go on their costumes, what candies do they go for if theyre looking for specifics, do any of them make a house strategy for the best candy?
leo is the expert in my mind. he's had hella halloweens so he knows all the do's and don'ts. totally that kid that knows which houses gives out the good stuff and will hit them up multiple times wearing different costumes. usually likes to go for a more horror approach with his costumes but doesn't actually care about what he's wearing. he's just in it for the candy. likes sour candies the best. (probs would tp/egg perry's house)
bree dresses a little slutty. she just wants to look hot and meet boys at a spooky party. dance the night away. very social and doesn't get scared of anything. likes chocolate and suckers the best.
i can see adam maybe working at a haunted house/scary maze. he just wants to have fun. will scary you and immediately laugh about it but if he makes someone cry he will feel bad and hug them. doesn't have a fave candy- will consume everything. really enjoys pumpkin carving. will take the entire bowl of candy when no one is looking.
chase's more about the costumes/decorations. he goes all out, everything is detailed perfectly. he spent weeks making it that way. complains about how much sugar is in everything and how its gonna rot their teeth but secretly sneaks some here and there shhh. might possibility pass out candy. he knows a fun fact about each person he sees costumes. will let you know how unrealistic everything is.
marucs is all about collecting tears. he will scare the shit outta you in hopes of giving you nightmares. he will steal your candy bag and eat it in front of you. he will smash your pumpkins for funsies. do not trust him.
afterwards they meet up (- marcus) and watch scary movies/eat candy/talk about their night together.
#lab rats#i don't think i even answered your actual question lmao sorry nonny#i'm SO bad with hc lolol if u disagree with any/all ^^ pls feel free to share ur opinions and ideas!!! i'd love to read them!!!!!!!#i lobe halloween
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took a page out of moon's book and started playing around with the idea of illustrated icons but i am Unsure
#actually tbh i considered using the webtoon for icons way back at the beginning of this blog#the only thing that stopped me...... was the short hair#it's still the main thing making me hesitate tbh#but lbr nothing's ever gonna suit perfectly for an oc#even my irl icons aren't Perfect for byan and never will be bc their perfect look exists only in my head#but the vibes here are decent now that i finally went to the trouble of digging up a pdf of the full comic and started scrolling through it#(bc i'm a fake fan who has never actually read it oops)#also it's literally animated jk like it can't get more ideal than this right#AND LIKE. it's always felt a little off to me to throw my irl icons onto threads w my mutuals who only have animated icons/fcs#i don't mind it THAT much but similar media makes things a little less jarring to look at#IDK idk i'm finishing up a reply to one such thread so i might take the opportunity to test the idea out idk#could play around with the colour palette too and make it more pink or smth š¤#that could help add a little more of the right energy too maybe hmmm#anyway i'm rambling yes i'm thinking about it too much shush#if u read through all this ilu pls feel free to share ur opinion w me bc i'm Indecisiveā¢ļø#āā Ė ā° ā° ooc ā® don't @ me.
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Tips for long fasts (24+ hours)
lol what a coincidence for me to see this while on a 24 hr fast! honestly doll i donāt think iām qualified enough to give advice as i am still a fasting amateur š (longest was 45 something hours) but iāll try!
keep yourself busy and do something else. now i know this sounds obvious and youāve already heard this but this is the best tip i find. the easiest way is if you go to uni/school or work and keep busy there. if u donāt have that then literally do anything else. watch a movie/finish a show, take an everything shower, do ur laundry, take a nap etc. a fun thing i like to do is complete tasks and in my head say āiāll eat after i finish this,ā before moving onto the next thing and repeating the words before thinking āiāll just eat laterā. eventually youāll just completely forget about eating i promise because u almost trick ur mind.
drink water/whatever is 0 cal. yes this is obvious but iāll mention it anyways. drink water all the time if u can. really helps to keep you full. i personally prefer hot water because the warmth makes me feel more full. you can drink black coffee/plain tea too if u can. a more dangerous tip for this is nic0tine. my fav combo is coke zero and a cig, yum š. but OBVIOUSLY pls be careful with this, honestly if u donāt already smoke then donāt start. thereās also drugs i guess? but iāve never done that so i have no opinion to give.
watch th!np0/disgusting mukbangs. if you STILL want to eat then hop onto youtube and pull up some classic 3d content. secret eaters, 0bese wieiad tiktoks, disgusting mukbangsā¦ the sky is the limit (iām talking about loud eating sounds, extreme portions, spilling food everywhere, just generally gross) it will take away ur appetite TRUST. my fav show for this is supersize vs superskinny. the supersizerās diet can deter ur appetite and the superskinnyās are great motivation.
fake it till you make it. delude yourself. literally. you donāt need the food right now because ur already sk|nny! think about how even more beautiful u will become when u lose the weight. f4sting is just a step u have to take to get there. itās discipline. itās all in ur head. if you canāt even control yourself for a few hours, how will u ever be th1n?
donāt push yourself. now this might seem a bit ironic from the last tip but i really mean it. if youāre ever f4sting and u feel extremely ill or about to pass out, then break it. eat a proper nutritious meal right before beginning so u feel fuller and last longer. remember, thereās no point passing out and hurting yourself just to f4st for a few more hours.
iāll add more if i can think of any but thatās all i have. everyone, feel free to share some in the comments if u want! and i hope my amateur tips were of some help to u ^^
#4nor3xia#4n@diary#@n@ tips#ana tip#4n0r3x!4#tw ana blĆøg#@na motivation#3d but not sheeren#i just want to be thin#tw ed ana#4norexla#@na blog#st4rv3#stāļørving#stāļørve#starv1ng#tw ana rant#th!n$piration#th!n$po#tw thinspi#thinspĆø#thinsperation#@n@ fast#3d f4st#f4st!ng#@ana#@n@ diet#@na shit#@n@ trigger#light as a šŖ¶
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MUSIC I THINK THE POETS WOULD ENJOY
this is not time period accurate but i do not care. i at least tried to keep it pre-2000s. also iām 100% projecting my music taste onto them. deal with it? spotify playlists, each of which has around 30 songs, are linked below each description ! i spent forever on this š
Charlie Dalton
iām not sure that i could pinpoint very many artists heād particularly like, but this is a classic rock boy right here. heād be into ac/dc, motley crue, led zeppelin, etc. perhaps a bit of duran duran (this is where iām projecting the most.) songs about s3x and women, and songs that make him feel like the rebel he is. (this playlist has been gale hansen approved on twitter btw)
Neil Perry
oh i just know this kid would be into some funk and pop, especially 80s and perhaps even new wave (iām again projecting). now THIS is a duran duran fan (specifically their early stuff), which is unsurprising since the lead singer has a drama degree. heād also probably like fleetwood mac, and would be well-versed in the bandās drama. duran duran, wham!, fleetwood mac, abba, maybe even some hall & oates. songs with complex lyrics and also songs that make him wanna dance. lots of upbeat stuff because though he has things that bother him, heād rather do anything but dwell on them.
Todd Anderson
honestly, considering theyāre roommates, i feel like neil wouldāve had a bit of an impact on toddās music taste, so thereās some band influence thereābut regardless, i think todd would be into more mellow and emotional songs. jeff buckley comes to mind, along with the eagles, the beatles and maybe a splash of the smiths also pls pretend now and then didnāt come out last year. he would also be letting it linger i fear
Knox Overstreet
knox would be similar to Charlie, as they probably bond over shared music taste just as much as everything else. very heavy on the classic rock, but a lean more towards songs about needing someone and love songs as he pines for Chris. Tom Petty, Robert Palmer, The Cars, and a bunch of songs introduced to him by Charlie. He sticks more to genre/theme than to a specific artist methinks
Richard Cameron
contrary to what some may think, i think Cameron would absolutely groove to some rock n roll. HOWEVER. he is a 60s-70s rock n roll elitist. he thinks Billy Idolās cover of Mony Mony is a disgrace. he wholeheartedly believes the Beatles are the best band to have ever graced the planet. The Beatles, The Beach Boys. The Rolling Stones, etc. Maybe even some Simon & Garfunkel. Him and Charlie argue a lot about which decades were the best years of rock music
Gerard Pitts
free my boy. he just wants to dance he aināt do nothing wrong. his music taste has definitely been influenced by some of the other poets, in the sense that if he hears a song with a funky beat that makes him want to dance, itās added to his mixtape IMMEDIATELY. for this reason, iām thinking lots of funk and groove. play that funky music white boy! Bee Gees, ABBA, Talking Heads, Pet Shop Boys, etc. as long as he can dance to it he could care less who itās by
Steven Meeks
another old rock, but more on the calm side with some hints of folk and fun. Donovan, The Beatles (paul is his fav for sure), The Beach Boys, and he definitely loves every white person anthem, including Sweet Caroline. he likes to groove with Pitts but also like soothing music to study to !!! i had to consult my friend on this one i fear i was drawing a blank
AND THAT is my opinion on each of the poetsā music taste. did i squeeze Duran Duran into almost all of them? perhaps. theyāre my fav band let me liveā¦ feel free to listen to the playlists (please listen to them. pls i donāt want to have made them in vain.) and maybe even become spotify moots with me :D
#dead poets society#this is cannon now#charlie dalton#neil perry#gerard pitts#steven meeks#todd anderson#knox overstreet#richard cameron#dps#70s music#80s music#Spotify
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Greenridge ABO Series
Greenridge Aesthetic/Pics of Inspo
I'm a very visual person in case you couldn't tell...š so I thought I would add some pictures to help you see what I envisioned for the Greenridge pack house! I've started showing more of the house so now you can get an idea of how it looks. Hope you like!
Obviously the pics aren't exact but I found as best I could. Thanks to Pinterest and the AI feature on Canvas!!
Series Masterlist Masterlist
As you've seen before, the back of the house. 3 Stories, walk out basement leads to the backyard and full property. Basement level includes med room, living space with a bar, a guest bedroom and bath, and an exercise room. Main level has a Chan's room, kitchen, dining, living room, Chan's office. Upstairs is the rest of the bedrooms. Massive house lol
Basement living area and bar space. Doors lead out to backyard. Behind the camera view is the stair case and other rooms.
Med Room and Exercise room in the basement.
Living Room. Fireplace like so - framed by windows. Just add a flatscreen above the mantle. Couch like this facing the fireplace, back to the kitchen.
Kitchen. Let's mix the two pics. The kitchen is white with the wood ceiling, bright with a big window and has a large island. But like the right pic, the barstools are on the outer side of the island, and it faces the living room like so. And the dining table is on the side of windows, facing the view.
BEDROOMS! This was really fun!
*These are all my opinions on what fits each character. Pls don't attack me lol*
Chan's Bedroom and Closet. First floor and immaculate. Large and spacious, his bed is huge. Has a fireplace and sitting area on the side. Lovely view of the property with private balcony. Vaulted ceiling. Closet is fancy and organized!!
Chan's Bathroom. Custom work for his master ensuite. Spacious and usually pretty clean. Double sinks, private toilet room, and this lovely stone shower and standing tub. (The depth seems off so it's probably AI but use ur imagination)
Minho's Bedroom and closet. I feel he's very clean. And he gives rich vibes so I know his closet is pristine. Usually yelling at Jisung for his messy room.
Minho's Bathroom. Like a master en suite, he's got the full tub and a shower. Also kept very clean.
Changbin's Room and closet. I feel like his closet would be organized and low-key fancy. IDK why this pic just seemed to fit him lol
Changbin and Jeongin's Shared bathroom. They share since Changbin is Head Beta and Jeongin is a new alpha.
Jeongin's Room and closet. I feel like he would keep his surroundings slightly messy but not as bad as Jisung. He's got enough on his plate to balance to worry about his room okay. As for his closet, he's gotten more into fashion so he takes care of his clothes.
Hyunjin's Room and Closet. I feel like he would have a clean room and organized closet. Doubt he would have a tv in there tho, so replace it with your fav piece of his art ;)
Hyunjin and Jisung's Shared bathroom. Jisung usually leaves a mess when he's done and Hyunjin yells at him.
Jisung's Bedroom and closet. Just make his room also messy since he's confirmed that's usually how it is LOL.
Felix's Room. I feel like he would have a pretty color and not too messy of a closet. The ray of sunshine also needs a big window to enjoy the sunshine.
Felix's and Seungmin's Shared Bath. No tub. They do a good job of keeping it clean.
Seungmin's Room and Closet. He gives me modern vibes so his room is decorated more modern than the others. His closet would def be organized as well.
Y/N's Room and closet. Rustic feel but still super cozy. Was a guest bedroom and will be more personalized as you nest. Light colors to make you feel safe and free.
Y/N's Bath. Small and simple. No tub just a shower. Maybe one of the boys will let you use their tub ;)
TAGLIST:
@estella-novella @lxvxchxrlxttxbxrsx22-blog @butterflydemons @readr1221 @gaby105-skz @notevenheretbh1 @bah2004 @sinfulfic
Shout out to my beta for inspiring, motivating, and pushing me! @its-the-solar-system
#stray kids x reader#stray kids x y/n#stray kids abo#han jisung#lee felix#hwang hyunjin#bang chan#lee minho#lee yongbok#lee know#kim seungmin#yang jeongin#seo changbin
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Array of Light Archives Intro
We are the Array of Light Archives! A very silly system that mostly just shit posts but we can occasionally be v funny and/or relatable if that's ur cup of tea :3
Pls feel free to read more, there will be an general info section and then more detailed information past the cut
It will probably be a lot as we ramble but there are key points highlighted in pink
General Info
-āā System Name: Array of Light Archives
-āā Collective Name: Kris or (sometimes) Array
-āā Collective Prns: He/Him
-āā Collective Identity: Trans = Bi = Aspec
-āā Body Age: 18
-āā Collective Interests: Bears in Trees Ā¦ Haikyuu, Sasaki to Miyano + other anime/manga Ā¦ Crochet Ā¦ Good Omens Ā¦ Bujo Ā¦ Marauders Ā¦ + a number of other things
Boundaries
DNI
General dni of bigotry, pro-ship, maps etc -> bigorty I'm meaning homophobia, transphobia, ablesim etc - basic dni shit
Endos + Pro-endo (mostly alright with endo-neutral, but more comfortable w/ those leaning more towards anti)
NSFW blogs
Fake claimers
Antis (anti things like xenogenders, neopronouns, furries, therians, alter humans and other kin etc, if ur anti those things dni)
Radqueers and Trans-ID
Syscourse specific blogs
Pro-Isreal stance
Other Boundaries
We don't mind some discussion of syscourse but that's not what the blog is abt so pls don't bring it too much here
Not mdni but just, we are legally an adult so pls try not to interact too much (one of interactions are fine) if ur under the age of 14/15 cause it feels weird to us sorry
We are traumagenic + mentally ill and therefore have triggers. We won't share them but if smt does trigger us, then it will be deleted sorry
Although we're a v punk collective, pls try not too bring extreme politics here
Pls don't dm us unless ur a mutual or have asked and we have given permission to dm before hand :3
Any questions abt dni/boundaries then feel free to drop an ask!!
Other Sys Info
We are a traumagenic OSDD system who have varying degrees of amnesia
We are autistic and adhd and have a history of associated mental health issues
We also have OCD and Emetophobia although that won't come up much
We are brainmade heavy although we still have many fictives from a variety of different sources
Feel free to ask any questions about the system or alters just know we might not want to answer - but most of the time we love talking about our system
Blog Info
General
We are neurodivergent so we will probably post abt that alongside our other stuff
This blog is probably abt half fandom posting, about 40% system posting and the last 10% is live logging or other shit like thoughts + opinions
Although that could honestly just change depending on frequent fronters
Carrd: (it's got some details but most of it is on here anyways but go have a look if you want)
Sideblogs
This will probably continue to grow -> they're all just alters personal blogs
@its-krisscross-applesauce -> š
@omi-omi-says -> š
@indis-vines -> šæ
@rhye-bread -> šÆ
Alter Info
@torii-ii -> š„ļø
@seb-lowe-loml -> š
Hosts:
Ā¦ Omi - He/Him - 23 - host and (angry) protector - sign off: š
Ā¦ Kris - He/Him - 17 - co-host and online social mask - sign off: š
Other blog frequents:
Ā¦ Kristian - He/Him - 38-40 - protector - sign off: š»
Ā¦ Indi - She/They - 28 - caretaker - sign off: šæ
Ā¦ Rhyland - Xe/Fae/He/They - 16 - Symptom Holder - sign off: šÆ
Ā¦ Daisy - They/She - 16 - Social caretaker - sign off: š¼
Ā¦ Angel - Angel/Any - ageless - Gatekeeper - sign off: šŖ
Ā¦ Dylan - He/Him - 17/18 - Protector + Academic - sign off: š
Other sign offs you might see:
ā-> blurry or unsure of who's fronting
š©· -> Liz || š -> Daniel || šŖØ -> Kiri || š -> Kenma || š -> Caiden || š± -> Charlie || š -> Elise || š©¹ -> Ghost || š -> Alec || š·-> Mara || š„ļø -> Tori
There are more people in our system and they will be added if they post anything but for now this is the list
If they have or make intro posts, they will be hyperlinked to their names so feel free to check them out but those will only happen if they decide to make one
We also have quite a few littles and they most likely will not be on here unless it is deemed okay by their protector
#pinned intro#pinned post#osddid#osdd system#did system#did osdd#osdd#did#introduction#haikyuu#marauders#good omens#A
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hi hi yes hello,, first off i just wanna say i LOVE your art.
second, this is kinda weird but i just joined the arcane fandom not too long ago, & it was literally only because i saw vijinx art. like all of my mutuals are into arcane & i never bothered to get into it UNTIL i saw fanart of vijinx a few months ago. something abt it just intrigued me. i honestly never cared for caitvi.
however i wouldnāt consider myself a pro shipper, in fact iād deny that. this is the first time iāve enjoyed anything like this & i have no idea why. however i do like hardcore dynamics, for example, ellie/abby from tlou. but of course something like vi/jinx is more āextremeā. well in my opinion.
iām coming to you because iāve been stalking a lot of vijinx shippers and i really admire their content, especially yours. itās such a guilty pleasure of mine. but iām too scared to interact with anyone, even on an alt. so i just decided to stay anonymous.
i was just wondering if you ever felt guilty the first time you started shipping them? iād honestly envy you if you havenāt. and how & why did you start shipping them? feel free to rant abt them for as long as youād like.
iāve been hearing stuff abt how they werenāt always sisters, like in the early league days. i wish it just stayed that way because it bothers me to not be able to talk abt my favorite ships publicly without being ridiculed for it. but a fucked up part of me is glad that they became sisters. holds more weight, you know. i understand the appeal entirely.
iāve also even been secretly drawing them but i definitely do not have the balls to post them anywhereš
ANYWAY, iām yapping, but just let me know anything about your experience with them, how you view them n stuff. and if you have any advice to give me or any other information pls feel free. thank u so much
ps. iām totally reading ur fic in a bit
Aww, hey there anon! Thanks for reaching out, always nice to meet another ViJinx fan :) I'm glad you enjoy my art, and I hope you'll like my fic as well! (Also, if you'd like to send me your art privately, I totally promise not to show anybody. <3)
I got a little rambly in my answer there, so I'll put it under the cut.
Honestly, I only call myself a 'proshipper' because this is what modern fandom lingo dictates. I don't really gel with a lot of elements of 'proshipdom', if you will -- there seems to be some broad agreement that if you like Some messed up aspects in your fiction, you must like All of them. And I really don't! I ship ViJinx because I love their specific dynamic, not just because I'm hot for every taboo topic by default. I probably would've shipped them just as much if the show had just made them close childhood friends, for example. But I also have no issue with fictional incest ships, I think they can be fun and juicy.
Like you, I've always been really drawn to problematic and intense lesbian relationships. I like CaitVi plenty, and I think they're going to get a lot messier in S2, which I'm excited for. But ViJinx is just an insanely compelling dynamic. I love the toxic codependent yuri shit. I love the tenderness and the violence, their shared past that now feels completely inaccessible to them both, Jinx's obsessiveness, Vi refusing to give up the image of Powder she's clung on to for years... man, this shit just rocks, okay. I'm not gonna pretend that it doesn't.
I've never felt any guilt about shipping ViJinx, tbh. I'm a fandom oldbie, by which I mean I was around before the morality police took over, and everyone understood we were just here to mash Barbies and have a good time. I've shipped several incest pairings before this, and I've always had a blast doing it. And so help me god, I don't intend to stop now, even if my Twitter blocklist is twenty miles long. I just immediately cut out anyone who tries to start shit, and chill with my fellow weirdos. It's a pretty small circle, but it's a nice time!
If you do decide to make an alt at some point, I recommend doing so on Twitter, as I've been able to find more active ViJinx shippers there. I could rec you some nice people to follow. :) Thanks for reaching out!
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fandom culture rant
tldr; dont go shitting on people's works just bcs u didnt like it, thats some disgusting asshole behavior, fuck u if u do so.
and pls show your fanfic writers lots of appreciation, they are the biggest backbone in most fandoms, they deserve nothing but love.
there's something so insane and illogical when it comes to the people that read fanfics (which have clear explicit and alternative universe tags) yet proceed to complain about how these had ā surprise, suprise! ā sexual content and scenarios/personalities that weren't an exact copy of the ones in the source media.
and usually one would want to believe people will keep their opinions to themselves or rant about it in a private space with close friend(s), because that's the bare minimum one can do to show some respect towards a writer that shared their fanwork for free.
but recently, that's not been the case.
bcs now there's this new trend going around (specifically in tiktok, to the surprise of nobody) where people publish videos talking about how a certain fanfic was ā and i quote ā "incredibily ooc", "genuinely weird", "overrated", "poorly written", "a freak fest".
and this type of behavior wouldn't be so shocking (even tho is not ok) if it was coming from one random person in the internet, but because this is happening in tiktok (which is a well-known platform for having the biggest audience reach when it comes to social media apps) the hate is extremely amplified.
when i tell u the amount of hate these tiktoks gather is insane, i mean i've seen them surpass the 3,000+ comments (which is more than half of the comments the fanfic has). and most of these consist of people sharing their even more aggressive opinions about the fanfic, or even saying how "this other fanfic is better".
it honestly mind blows me every time i see this happening, because ā or at least in my experience ā there's always been this unsaid rule (even though i'd dare to say it's more of a sense of logic) in fandom spaces where everybody knows that if you didn't like the work of a fan, you close the tab and move on with your day. because, what do you gain for belittling the efforts/hard-work someone put in something that won't change the source media, or ur life?
and if you are one of those bystanders that applies the whole "people need to learn to take criticism" to this situation then u are wrong. no debates. because,
in this case, this so-called criticism it's just a sugar-coat for hateful comments.
that is NOT how criticism works, not when the author didn't ask for any feedback what-so-ever and even less when we are talking about a story that nobody pays for to consume it.
it's baffling to see readers develop this liberty that makes them think it's ok to say whatever they feel like saying about fandom works, without taking in consideration that behind every fanfic, fanart, music, skit, etc. there's a person that probably felt proud of their work and is happy about creating something.
also, i feel in the need to clear out that even though i'm talking about a specific fanfic in this post (which is in the tags in case u haven't figured it out yet), it's definitely not the only one that's received this treatment. i've seen it happen in the kpop, danmei, and harry potter side too, specially in marauders.
i believe this behavior is due to a shift in fandom culture that started because of covid, but that's like, a whole other rant post for another day.
#cyan speaks#from the sidelines#bkdk#rant post#fandom problems#fandom culture#sorry for the rant#and for the typos#will probs edit later#i tried to express myself as best as i could
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Hi LEGO movie fandom. I wanted yall to appreciate one of my beloved gayass friend's 3D creations. He sculpted red Fell!Benny (i forgor his name) ON BLENDER!!!1!!11
He's so silly XDXD
PLS PLS lego movie fandom don't be shy to share ur opinion about my friend's 3D Fell!Benny :(((( i want u guys to feel free to give a review!!!
#lego movie#the lego movie#lego movie 2#benny the spaceman#denny the spaceman#lego fanart#fanart#3d blender#NOT MINE!!
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Hi katie i love ur content but i do wanna tell you... some of it gets super close to anti pharmaceutical holistic medicine and anti modern medicine and it's not your fault if blogs intend their posts as such, but pls be careful that you remain critical of the things you rb because some of them have like.. new age/manipulative dogwhistles imho
Hi there! First of all, I wanted to say thank you for sending such a well written and thoughtful message to me. Iām really glad that you took the time to write this and to ask me something like this because I donāt want people to be scared or weary of bringing things up like this. I like to try to create an open blog where people can ask me questions about really anything they want and know that they will get a thoughtful and critical response back.
This is actually a topic that really interests me, and the more that I thought about this ask that you sent me the more I realize that I do actually have a lot of thoughts on modern medicine versus non-modern medicine. One of the things that I donāt really ever talk about with anyone is that I was actually born addicted to opioids and to spend a lot of time being weaned off of them I think that that plus having drug abuse in my household has changed the way that I see medical treatments for me personally? I donāt really talk about it with anyone because the very few times that Iāve actually opened up about it. Itās been almost immediately weaponized and used against me so Iāve just stopped sharing it with people, but I do think that itās actually relevant here. I live with someone thatās actively against modern medicine, but I often donāt share her views either. A lot of that I think stems from her fear of illness.
I think that modern medicine should be accessible to everyone. I think there should be multiple options for everyone and easy ways to try out new medications without jumping through a million hoops. I think it should be easy and cheap if not free. I think if you find a medication that works well for you the government should be paying for that ā itās a right. I know governments have it in their budgets š are you kidding me?
But, Iām also someone that believes in the power of yoga, and meditation. Iām someone that uses tarot as an emotional regulator. Iām someone that says soup has healing properties and means it. Part of that is believing in the power behind those actions (saying āsoup has healing propertiesā is much more magical than saying āfood is fuel, you should eat to feel betterā). And, part of it is the loverboy in me that thinks thereās peace in the rain and that sitting outside in the quiet connects you to all the little creatures whispering in the wind. This, in itself, is healing, and I mean it.
Most importantly, I think that these need to be in balance in order for their benefits to be reaped. You canāt rely on either one alone, in my opinion. Just because they give you different things. And, that idea of everything in moderation is kind of where my values lie in most things (this doesnāt include all the slimy goblin-like homophobes or transphobes or anyone that falls under that umbrella).
Iāve learned that the majority of the blogs on tumblr Iāll be disagreeing with, because most of them hold their beliefs to such insane extremes that I canāt possibly get behind them. Even the positivity blogs I reblog from ā that isnāt possible all the time. āStaying positiveā isnāt possible all the time, yk? My values are much more of a shade of grey than most blogs on here represent. Most informative blogs, anyways.
So I guess the takeaway here is that Iām always critical. The things that I share on here I see with a critical eye. Itās my job as a human that lives in this world to embrace and question the world I live in, because both are forms of loving life.
I actually really like conversations like this, and really enjoy when people send this stuff in so feel free to ā you or anyone else. And, usually the blogs I reblog stuff from I donāt even see. I usually filter through tags instead of cruising on blogs (although my mutuals I check in on). So, usually the blog Iām reblogging something from has a completely different take from me, and Iām interpreting a less extreme version of their take lol.
Also, thanks for sticking around! Love ya right back :) I hope this answered any concerns you have and clarified my stance.
EDIT: if you want to follow me on a platform where I express a lot more of my actual views, Iād recommend tiktok. I donāt make TikToks but honestly if enough people followed me on there I could see myself making some. I mostly repost stuff but I find there are people on there that articulate my thoughts better than the blogs run on here.
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HEY THERE MY LOVELY MUTUAL <3 <3 (I love when you reblog and queue my posts ur actually amazing ily so much I love reading your tags hugs hugs hugs <3 <3 <3 im in love, giggling kicking my feet everyday)
SAW THE CHARACTERS OPINION BINGO U REBLOGGED š I GOTCHU
TAKAGI. BABY BOI OF DCMK (I remember seeing a poll rolling around somewhere about the most dcmk baby girl and Takagi won)
I will also have to have to ask you about Kaito HAHAH (my fav blorbo i will admit)
ok the thing is im from australia. choose an australian animal of your choice bc i am Intrigued. im not too sure how the bingo would translate though hahahah I don't think it would work very well
(feel free to also ask me anything or talk to me and about this bingo too >v0 b)
wait you know what i forgot LOL WE GOTTA HAVE THE PROTAGONIST DUO SHIN/CONE AS WELL. PLS
*LIGHTS UP LIKE A CHRISTMAS TREE* MY DEAR MUTUAL, HI CYN, HELLO!!!!
Firstly: WE'VE NEVER TALKED BEFORE BUT LET ME TELL YOU, I WAS (still am) SMILING LIKE AN IDIOT WHEN I SAW YOU SEND IN AN ASK! Yes, I keep track and i'm always happy to see you in my activity and my dash! (I'm also really happy to see we mutually share that feeling; I relate to the giggling kicking feet sentiment a lot.) I'm happy to have this chance to interact with you, in a sense, face to face! Bless you, darling, and I'm sending hugs right back at you.
Secondly: YOU HAVE EXCELLENT TASTE AND YOU HAVE MY ETERNAL ADORATION ESPECIALLY FOR ONE TAKAGI WATARU, he always needs more love, I FREAKING ADORE THAT MAN.
Thirdly: warning notes apply, as stated in previous asks:
I tend to interpret things liberally: only my own rules apply, which means ->
I check everything that makes sense to me, even if they might seem contradictory
The Character Opinion Bingo in question
Prepare for endless ranting. And as a certain someone says: ććć·ć§ć¼ć®å§ć¾ćć ć!
I. Takagi Wataru
The Babygirl and Malewife of My Heart Personal Special Tag: #takagi is a good man
Points that I feel need a little elaboration:
I am so normal about them: I use the word "normal" as a synonym for "utterly obsessed with" and "absolutely love and adore". (I don't like the word in itself, hence, the only context I use it in, is this. But that is another story.)
*puts them in a salad spinner*: as in, the salad spinner is my brain, and he keeps rotating in it at high centrifugal force.
Canon isn't real if I don't look at it and That's a solid design right there: Detco Canon is... As much as I love it, I think we can agree it has its shortcomings/issues, and one of them is coming up. These two points go hand in hand at this moment because LOOK AT HIM!!! LOOK AT HIM!!! THIS MAN IS A BABY!!! LOOK AT HIM, HE'S PERFECT!!! THE SPIKY HAIR!!! THE SHAPES!!! THE COLOUR PALETTE!!! HE'S SO CUTE!!
I resonate with this particular video: his new design in the anime (partly thanks to the general Square-and-Pointy-fication) is just... THEY HAD THE PERFECT MAN. IT'S A CRIME. Bless that he is at least still cute in the manga, even if not the same way as in the early anime. The sharp cheekbones and soft looking hair have their charm.
My point is: THIS!!!! MAN!!! IS!!! A BABY!!!!
Literally I would kiss them and I want to BITE them: he makes me go FERAL with LOVE, and makes me feel like I want to gnaw on something or eat a whole fridge or scream endlessly into a pillow. I wouldn't do it to HIM (I'll leave that to Satou Miwako), but generally, the feeling is there. (Okay, I'll be honest, I would totally give him forehead, cheek, or hair kisses.)
To close his section, have one of my favourite bits about this Baby Of A Man. That poll was absolutely right about him, THE ULTIMATE BABYGIRL (and Malewife TM).
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II. Kuroba Kaito/Kaitou KID
The Local Mischief and Chaos Bringer Personal Special Tag: #the magical agent of chaos
LOL I DIDN'T EXPECT TO GET A BINGO, EVEN WITH THE FREE SPACE HAHA
Some points are the same as for Takagi, but here is elaboration on the ones that don't match:
Bastard, A Beast Unleashed and They didn't get bullied enough: let's be real. He's an Absolute Menace. And I sort of love that about him. Highly competent (competency makes me go weak), and if that is not scary (and hot) I don't know what. And sometimes he also goes too far (lifting skirts is not okay at all, Kaito) and needs someone to put a leash on him (or kick a soccer ball at him/chase him in a classroom). I feel that sometimes he needs a bit of bullying a challenge, to think about things. And again, honesty: I love seeing him suffer a bit, I love his Panic Moments LOL. Not in a mean way. But I also love how kind he is; the baseball chapter in the MK manga has my heart, and the Clock Tower Heist, and the Red Tear chapter... Not to mention the Nightmare arc. He cares about people and making others happy. I feel I went on a tangent here. Onto the bastard bit: he CAN BE SUCH A BASTARD AND I LOVE THAT ABOUT HIM TOO. Two of my favourite bits of Bastardry from him include 1) HOW HE DISGUISED AS RAN AND HOW HE BAITED SHINICHI AT THE VERY END OF THAT ENCOUNTER and 2) THE WAY HE SENDS SHINICHI CAREENING IN THE SIDECAR LIKE IT'S NOTHING (but also Shinichi getting right back at him and setting fire to the fckin fuel.) Pure Bastard Energy.
I want their gender: I love the way he is just so free-spirited about how he dresses/disguises. And I love the thought of him and Aoko doing outfit swaps (I blame that competition in MK for these. Also look at these delightful posts on the topic).
Canon isn't real if I don't look at it: I have... issues, with canon, you could say. Like the way he has no support system, especially bothers me. I would like to see his character treated with more care (be it MK or DetCo). I live for good character development, and I crave that for him.
To close this section, have one of my favourite conversations between these two menaces of nature.
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III. Australian Animal of Choice: Koala
Fun fact: I've been in love with koalas ever since I got a keyholder plushie from relatives in Australia when I was like... in kindergarten? Or early elementary? Also don't worry, *puts on sunglasses* I wouldn't have mentioned animals, if I thought I couldn't work with them.
Elaboration is needed here I feel.
I am so normal about them: I'm not as obsessed as I used to be but I'm eternally fond of koalas. Did you know their fingerprints are so similar to us they could be mistaken for human fingerprints? Or how they spend most of their time sleeping because the eucalyptus they consume is toxic? Or how they can actually swim well? Or how they are literally surviving by being Dumb As Shit because Being Dumb Saves Energy? Yeah, I'm totally normal about them.
*projects onto them like a mf* and I want their gender: Oh to be a koala, just existing, sleeping, sometimes waking up to eat some eucalyptus, then going right back to sleep. I want that.
That's a solid design right there: HAVE YOU SEEN THEM? SO FLUFFY LOOKING!!! WITH BIG CLAWS!!! THE BIG NOSE!!! SO SHAPED!!! NOT TO MENTION THE EARS!!!
They are so silly and They Sure Do Exist: how did this animal even come into existence? Weird lil creatures. THEY ARE JUST SO SILLY. THE NOISES THE MAKE. Like oh my god.
Literally I would kiss them: THEY JUST LOOK SO SOFT, HOW DO YOU EXPECT ME NOT TO BURY MY FACE IN THE FUR?
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IV. Kudou Shinichi/Edogawa Conan
*Prof Agasa voice* He has many nicknames, like Gremlin Child, Absolute Menace, Ultimate Baby, Lil Nerd, Walking Encyclopedia Son, or Disaster Child. I think I call him as many names as I do my dear Rosie, so that is quite telling LMAO Personal Special Tag: #the detective gremlin
HDSBSKDB DOUBLE BINGO (AND ALMOST 4 BC HE'S ALSO DET'S FAV, SO ALMOST CROSSED OUT PROXY TOO KSJNVKSVNJS OK, my love for him is showing, I guess)
EDIT: FCKIN TRIPLE BINGO AS @vampirecatsw POINTED OUT oh my god, I'm blind
Again, some thoughts on relevant bits.
*projects onto them like a mf*: THIS CHILD IS SO FCKIN NEURODIVERGENT, AND I FCKIN RELATE, ALSO HE LOVES AND CARES SO DEEPLY IT HURTS AND I RELATE SO HARD.
A Beast Unleashed: another MENACE OF NATURE. You cannot let him roam free, he finds trouble like it's Breathing. Also love it when he goes ballistic. Or when he shows how competent he is. Like GOD. HE'S AMAZING, and he's a danger to criminals and himself, mostly.
Everyone else if wrong about them: not EVERYONE, just... some people. We agreed with a friend that some of our issues in portrayal lies with the fandom sort assigning him traits that Hakuba has, but not Shinichi (Hakubification). Of course, people can have their fun with it, but it's not for me and have my own opinions on the matter.
Canon isn't real if I don't look at it: again, DetCo has issues. Like the lack of continuity/ erased character development, or not bringing up issues ever again, and the like. Early DetCo was GOOD at these, and I miss those times.
That's a solid design right there and I fuck with this aesthetic so hard: HE IS!!!! SO SHAPED!!!!! SO ROUND!!! (or at least used to be) THE GENTLE CURVES OF HIS FACE!!! THE SILLY HAIR!!!! NOT TO MENTION HIS FCKIN WARDROBE!!!! I'M OBSESSED WITH HIM!!! Also, I have a huge thing for blue eyes and dark hair combination, not to mention the glasses... I'm fckin weak for glasses... god. He just hits all the right spots in my heart and brain. (Not to mention his personality, I WANT TO CRY I LOVE HIM SO MUCH-)
They didn't get bullied enough: I live for others teasing Gremlin Child. It's not quite bullying (never HURT HIM FOR REAL, I'LL CRY), but he needs to be TEASED MORE FOR SURE. I guess Bastardry also fits into this, that's good too.
SQUEAK: sometimes he is just so DUMB I want to SQUISH HIM HARD OR SHAKE HIM. I LOVE HIM, I SO DO, even if he is an idiot at times. God. I love him.
Literally I would kiss them and I want to BITE them: HIS CHEEKS ARE SO PERFECTLY ROUND I WANT TO CHOMP ON THEM. ALSO ALL THE KISSES TO HIM!!!!! BABY BOY!!!! GIVE HIM ALL THE KISSES!!!! AND HUGS TOO!!!
Bastard: the way he FCKS WITH SOME CRIMINALS. OH MY GOD. THE WAY HE IS SOMETIMES A MENACE ON PURPOSE. THE WAY HE SOMETIMES GETS SO ANNOYED HE JUST GOES FOR HIS WATCH. Also the way he is an absolute bastard to KID. His attitude is just so. *chef kiss* Love a menace of a child, HE'S AMAZING. HIS RAZOR SHARP SMIRK, THE MISCHIEVOUS CHILD FACE.
I have way too many favourite bits related to this boi. So. Have these random screencaps from my DCMK folder.
I hope you have fun reading this madness, Cyn! I HAD AN ABSOLUTE BLAST, YOU HAVE MY ETERNAL LOVE, may you have an absolutely blessed day, dear.
#detective conan#magic kaito#la junk talks#detco posting#asks#vampirecatsw#did i make shinichi be the 4th bc of a pun? totally#i've been infected with sillypunnitis#you literally went and asked about my favourites you are the best#(tho. that is not hard to do bc i adore so many characters in detco fkvjnfdvkjfnk i'm obsessed TM)#may you have fun reading this word vomit hahahah#god can you tell i love talking about them? gosh bc i do#also me thinking about what it tells about me that i would not SQUEAK takagi#but i would shinichi ksjfndfjvndfk#takagi wataru: too good to be squeaked
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Ayesha Takia hits back at trolls over her looks; says, āIām sending back all ur shitty energyā
Ayesha Takia responds to online criticism with a powerful message.
Bollywood actress Ayesha Takia, known for her roles in films likeĀ Taarzan: The Wonder Car,Ā Wanted, and others, recently found herself at the centre of social media attention after making a rare public appearance at the airport. However, what should have been a routine sighting turned into a storm of online criticism and trolling regarding her alleged plastic surgery and appearance.
In response to the unwarranted scrutiny, Ayesha Takia took to her Instagram handle to address the situation. She shared a message expressing her frustration and disappointment with the negativity surrounding her recent appearance. Ayesha wrote, āNeed to say this,
Rushed to goa two days ago..had a medical emergency in my family...my sister has literally been in hospital. Amidst all this, I remember being stopped by paps and posing for them for basically a few seconds before flying off. Tuns out there are no other important issues in the country except dissecting my looks...been bombarded by viral ridiculous opinions of how ppl think I should have looked and don't. Literally get over me yaar, I have zero interest in doing any films or any comeback like ppl are saying.ā
She further added, āI'm living my life happily, never want to be in the limelight, not interested in any fame, don't wanna be in any film...so chill..Pls feel free to not care about me at all...Expecting a girl whose mostly been seen in her teens to look identical even after 15 years...how unrealistic and ridiculous are these ppl...lol.ā
On the work front Ayesha Takia's last on-screen appearance was in the Hindi-language romantic drama film titledĀ Mod. Directed by the acclaimed filmmaker Nagesh Kukunoor, the movie boasted a talented ensemble cast including Rannvijay Singh, Raghubir Yadav, Tanvi Azmi, and Anant Mahadevan, alongside Ayesha Takia herself.Ā ModĀ graced the silver screens on October 14, 2011.
#Airport#Ayesha Takia#Bollywood#Features#Instagram#Plastic surgery#Social Media#Troll#Trolling#Trolls#bollywood hungama
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would love to hear more about your ryan gosling miscast opinions... š¤š¤
i havenāt thought that much about it and i would need to rewatch the movie to actually back up this claim lol, but i think the essence of it is that heās playing it very much like a straight up comedy with zero depth, which is like fine but heās not even that funny (as far as i remember) and with so much focus on him i think the performance lacks some sincerity. especially when margot robbie is so fucking good at that. also like at this point i want him to be playing a little more rough around the edges characters like a little dirty and gross or like character with some darkness/edge/sadness/sleaziness etc in them i think heās better at that, and with a character that lacks basically all of that it falls a little flat. but the more time passes the less i like the movie in general tbh so i should really just watch it againā¦ if anyone else agrees, or has a more articulate point to make, pls feel free to share ur argument lol āļø
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i dont know whether people think that deeply about this stuff anymore but i remember the days of 2013 tumblr superiority discourse where people were very polarized about whether the concept of a ādream weddingā was healthy or not, so i just wanna see where the general tumblr opinion is at a decade later. if ur opinion is more complex/nuanced feel free to share in the tags or w/e
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Hi Libra š Iām back again for your opinions & to pick your brain juuust a little again. I LOVED your answer (about the free cities in Essos, doing my due diligence in researching the Wiki for the fic š«”). Again, this is a ādo you think this makes sense? Could this happen?ā Very loaded, Iām so sorry.
So, I decided that the foreign woman in question is a bastard of Tywins. Her mother was a wealthy merchant from Braavos, trading in Westeros. Iām thinking their short-lived affair was about 5-10 years after he became a widower; she resembled Johanna just enough & Tywin was deep in his cups so he was like ok time to āØmake a dumb decisionāØ. He sent the pregnant Braavosi woman away with a lot of gold, very hush hush. Her daughter was raised well; with the gold Tywin gave, the mother decided to focus that on bringing up his bastard daughter well-educated & refined. Iāve got some more plot points (if youād care to hear them Iāll be happy to share it!!), but essentially: the bastard daughter arrives in Westeros. She knows of their customs, and very clever + capable within the politics of Westeros.
My questions are 1) do you think Tywin, with a seat now being within the Crown, would legitimize her - especially after she proves herself - and marry her off to a lord for political gain? My reasoning is that his only daughter was already married off to King Robert, he has three Royal grandchildren & his brain is working hard on how he can turn this situation into something he could benefit politically from, potentially
2) Roose is kinda my hyper fixation character rn & I was thinking, to further his own goals, like betraying Robb in the War of the Five Kings (and his pockets - sheād had to have a high dowry being a foreign bastard to sweeten the deal, I think) would he accept or otherwise offer a marriage to her?
(I kinda have this scene of Roose & her getting into a fight. she gets upset, forgets her Common Tongue, and swears at him in Valyrian & itās givin me a giggle. Heās just like š§pls donāt tell ur lord father & sheās like š¤¬ *string of Valyrian he assumes is either a threat or continuous insults*)
Thank you, again, if youāre able to find the time & energy for this!! š i decided, I wanna give the foreigner a LOT of power & leverage (I.e, bastard of Tywin) bc Westeros is scary & while sheās capable of protecting herself, lineage is a big factor into how well situations can go.
Thoughts below -
I honestly don't think Tywin would want to keep a bastard around, or he'd at least hide the fact she was his (they do keep Joy Hill around because that was the only child Gerion fathered, and Tywin def had a lot of guilt/emotion about his death even if he denies it). She might be passed off as another Lannister's kid. But this is a central part of your fanfic so let's handwave and move on.
Her being more Westeros-educated and not ""foreign"" would certainly help, with any traces of a Braavosi accent or dress probably coming across as 'interesting' or 'exotic' because it's just enough and not too much.
I don't think she would be legitimized because that would mean Tywin Lannister is admitting to 1) having a bastard in the first place, therefore frequenting whores and 2) he's willing to totally, stubbornly disregard Tyrion as lawful heir (no Jaime is NOT coming back dude he's Kingsguard you can't overturn that STOP THINKING YOU CAN), so I can understand him totally disregarding an out-of-wedlock daughter that is clearly his. That said, like Joy Hill, she can still be used as a bargaining chip because she is still half-Lannister and could come with a dowry. If there's something Tywin can do, it's find a way to use a piece, no matter how it's overlooked by others or not considered. So even if he feels negatively or indifferent of her, she's fair game to be used, like anyone in his family.
as far as roose accepting/gunning for a marriage, you can easily twist this. He accepted Walda because that was the terms of Frey turning on Robb to assist Roose - it's not clear what Tywin gave Roose, but i bet it was less a bribe and more a threat: 'we'll pull back and stop the war, because you know you aren't going to win this, also if you refuse I'll make sure Frey betrays you and Robb dies anyway, so really this is the best option for you getting out alive and on top'. Totally feasible for him to get your character as a bride instead, while Walda is given to some other Northern house to helps or to some Lannister. Brides and girls are just bargaining chips as far as most nobility is concerned, after all. And don't forget how Tywin arranged for Robb to upset the Freys in the first place with Jeyne Westerling!
Anyhoo, those are my thoughts. It's your fic so you can twist and play as you desire; and you could always alter certain events just so in order for things to puzzle out easier in your head. War is chaotic, and alliances (esp those forged through betrayal) can be shaky.
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