#please help I'm struggling

[problemsboblems]

What would you name the previous EM of ice? I really want to write that fic about him, dr Julien and Zane but it basically requires creating an oc because we know nothing about that guy.....

[briar-moth-lover]

GAYS OF TUMBLR.

I have a question: I am a bi-romantic asexual. I have been that way for years. I may not have known what to call myself, but I feel like I've always known this. HOWEVER, I have recently been wondering if I lean into the aromantic community at all. I was talking to someone about crushes and stuff, and I was talking about how outgoing my crush was, and how they would drag me out of the house, so I felt like I connected with them more emotionally (this is around the time I had started to form a crush), and how I would get a gay panic anytime they would touch me (physical touch is one of my love languages). The person I was talking to literally only said how attractive their crush was, and how that's how they would have gay panics and stuff like that. The whole time, I was staring there so confused because for some reason it never processed in my little gay ace brain that you could be attracted to someone physically. Of course I think people are pretty, or cute, but never once have I ever even thought to describe someone was hot or sexy (it just makes me feel so weird, and it just doesn't make sense to me). This is where I start wondering whether I could possibly be leaning into the aro territory. I can't tell if it's just my asexuality needing that emotional instead of physical connection to crush on someone, or if it is aromantic.

I want to be in a relationship, I know I want to be with a boy or girl, I want that, but at the same time, relationships honestly just seem like another level of friendship? Like, I need a good friendship before I can even comprehend having a crush on someone. I want a friends I can cuddle and kiss and be romantic and all that stuff.

I just want opinions please. I've been trying to figure this out for so long.

Thank you for listening to my rant, have a cookie 🍪 (I also have Little Moths in my moth sanctuary if you want one)

[kreidxpriz]

need opinions on this one, especially the background, please /gen

[corvidpaws]

DMs of Tumblr! I recently started running my first proper game for a group of five. I spend hours (spread out across the week! It's a weekly game) planning the sessions, leaving areas for improvisation, of course, but writing a basic structure that I can try and move the adventure in the direction of using NPCs. However, they blow through everything I've prepared in half an hour. How do I drag out my sessions without sacrificing all of my time to write fifteen pages of planning?

[jamiemaybeme]

when the thing that normally calms your anxiety is the thing that's currently giving you anxiety so now you don't have a coping mechanism <<<<<

[fun-esta]

[sky-poprocks]

Skykid Wings hc tonight :)

I like to think about how they have layers and mimic capes is through light forming to match it and the actual winged light being like veins of energy that weave through them to allow flight.

[cinnamon-galaxies]

I'm likely one of the most talkative people around, but when it comes to writing, I struggle with creating extensive dialogues.

please tell me I'm not the only one...

[sleepyssnail]

I was inspired by the insufferapoll (specifically Luo Binghe's round against Qi Rong) and have nurtured the brain worm that has become a rather silly social media au. It's part fanfiction and part images, and showcases the absolutely unhinged mind of Luo Binghe (and Shen Yuan)

So I'm humbly asking @alex-writes-whatever @unreliable-narratoe @shizunitis (you're stuck with me now hahaha!) and anyone else who wants to chime in for advice on user handles and display names for the MXTX characters I have decided to throw into this situation.

They include but are not limited to:

Luo Binghe himself

Ming Fan

Ning Yingying (just needs a display name)

Liu Mingyan

Gongyi Xiao

Zhuzhi Lang

Tianlang Jun (bonus points if there's a DILF joke)

Mobei Jun

Any of the Peak Lords

and to add some spice (because Luo Binghe is everywhere and no one can escape him) the mdzs juniors

Lan Sizhui

Lan Jingyi

Jin Ling

Ouyang Zizhen

I have stand-in names for a few of them, but would love some advice since...usernames are not my strongest skill.

[my-deer-friend]

Homosocial – homoromantic – homoerotic – homosexual

A lot of people who talk about 18th century queerness treat these concepts as existing on a linear scale of "straight" to "gay", or as a progression of increasing queerness.

But that kind of framing isn't accurate. There's no line that we can draw here beyond which things become definitively queer. There were homosexual acts that had very little queerness to them, and homoromantic relationships that were fundamentally queer without ever (to our knowledge) straying beyond the emotional.

[zecoritheweirdone]

so i saw this old-ish post about an au centering around a villain lewis and a hero arthur,,, and i. may have gotten attached to it,, dkdndkdjs. so i decided to make some edits + doodles based on it!! i also really wanna make a lil oneshot about it as well,, but uh... whether or not i actually follow through on that, we'll see,, skdjsojdks.

edit: good news, gang,, i wrote the fic!!

[sleepdeprivedvigilante]

I am in desperate need of a Spiderman/Batman crossover fic (Based on Dark matter by mysterycyclone) but instead of Tim and Duke being his main friends or dick and Jaso finding him on the Secidn chapter, I need one where he goes to gotham academy with damian, maybe Jon and maps or who knows, I mean Damian is 14-15 in comics rn? (depending) and Peter could be 15-16, while Duke is 2 or 3 years older than them both, so maybe they're in gotham prep and stuff.

Like:

Damian, got told to interact with his peers, seeing Peter as the most competent inteligent-wise: Your academic achievements are not as dumb as the rest of our peers.

Peter slightly freaked out but curious: Thanks I guess?

Damian: *nods* I'm glad to FIDN someoene smart here.

After a while of being friends and relaxing more, this trio of idiots

Peter: Working on this is goign to make me go insane- *bangs head against notebook, Witha concussion, and sleep deprived*

Duke: Man need any help? Maybe if you got some rest by the manor-

Damian: You woudlnt have such a headache if you Didn't bang your head agaidnt the wall parker. But go on, it's a least slightly amusing.

Peter:*slightly joking* Hey man fuck you-

[koumeowkami]

COZMEZ AND THEIR MICROWAVE SHENANIGANS ARE BACK

[vividstardustrevolution]

"What if Kotoko got worse?" Well, what if she got better? What if she could learn to see the humanity in others and actually protect people without hurting others? What if instead of committing herself so much to her ideals of justice that she doesn't know who she is without them, she allowed herself to be a person that doesn't have to constantly be saving people in order to be worth something? What if Kotoko could make friends with the other prisoners instead of looking down on them and pushing them away at every turn? What if she went back to law school and stopped being a vigilante?

What if Kotoko could get better?

[gabbydagoof]

EVERYBODY LISTEN UP!!

This is NOT an Incredibox related post..

I AM CALLING ALL THE AIR MARTY ENJOYERS SCATTERED ACROSS THE WORLD OF THE WEB!!! SOMEONE?? ANYONE?? WE NEED TO GIVE THIS GAME A FANDOM! I REPEAT; WE NEED TO GIVE THIS GAME A FANDOM!! I SIMPLY CANNOT TAKE IT ANYMORE! MYLES DESERVES THE LOVE AND APPRECIATION FOR HIS SILLY LITTLE GAME!! IF LISA GOT RECOGNITION, SO WILL AIR MARTY, I AM DYING ON THAT HILL!

Anybody who is hyperfixated on it as me? Anybody who won't just brush it off as something X YouTuber played and move on? Anybody who cares enough?? Let's gather around and contribute to the community!

LET US REVIVE AIR MARTY!

Look, I'm just extremely desperate and willing to try anything at this point. I just GOTTA find the legendary Air Marty enjoyers since it seems like we are one of a kind these days.

The Air Marty fandom is dead. Repost if you're a true Martyr!