#people are not neat and tidy
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everyone who calls cullen rutherford meticulously neat and tidy has never seen that mans desk, office, or bedroom. there's rubble, trees, and papers all over and you want me to read this fanfic and think he has a proper place for everything.
#i'd say he cant hate messes because he is one but we all know he's the thedas world champ at self-loathing#cullen rutherford#commander cullen#and honestly when people leave the military they go a little wild. bright colored clothes. new haircuts. all the tiny freedoms you lacked.#so no. maybe in the templar order he had everything neat and tidy but he doesnt need to be that way now.#and honestly i like the idea of him using the mess in his room and office as an anchor. he's not a templar anymore. he's not bound by them.#vultures and dragons
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So BlueSky is now open for all without invitation... I'm there too, same name, come chill :') It's very comfy so far, hopefully stays that way for as long as possible.
#tungler is still my fave#but the twitter disaster showed that spreading out is important#i'm on insta too but only log in to post#social medias are exhausting i like this comfy corner here#where i can post art and have a neat tidy gallery#while also getting to be unhinged in the tags#nowhere else will people tell me that my art ate their skeleton
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I swear, so much of the 'plot holes' and 'out of nowhere plot developments', even the supposed 'filler' that so many people attribute to fma 2003 would instantly evaporate if even half of these people actually paid any attention to the show whatsoever. Better yet, if they gave it more than one full watch through, since it's a layered anime that absolutely rewards multiple watches.
#there are only one or two common examples people give that i can agree are unexplained#and even then it's an annoying critique imo since not everything needs a neat and tidy explanation right down to the micro details#and i'm gonna be real here when i first heard the complaint that 03 was riddled with filler i was completely baffled#especially before finally watching brotherhood bc i had watched 03 numerous times and didn't see what they could possibly be referring to#then i watched broho and immediately realized it's just bc these folks think any adaptation that isn't 100% manga compliant = bad/filler#and so i disregard them anyway lmao#fma#fma 03
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tell me love oh am i pretty
#urghhh#i want to draw more digitally#but the thing is. im really bad at making things look neat or finished#my style is messy and quick and doesnt even look good#there are so many people who can make messy look tidy and i just. dont know how to do it#but. im forcing myself to draw more#heres shirogane#done sketchy#my art#ndrv3#tsumugi shirogane
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i just saw the worst take about melinoe that mischaracterized her completely and it pissed me off so bad . exploding that person in my mind
#aaghhhh they called her boring and too prim and proper AND GRGRHTHGRGRRRR#'why does she fret about her herb and mushroom jars' 'she has the weight of a war on her shoulders why is she so calm'#THERE ARE MULTIPLE POINTS IN THE GAME WHERE SHE EXPRESSES HOW STRESSED AND PRESSURED SHE FEELS#MAYBE SHE FEELS PRESSURED TO KEEP UP APPEARANCES AND GIVE HOPE TO PEOPLE BC SO MANY PEOPLE DEPEND ON HER AND SHE DOESNT WANNA DISAPPOINT!#MAYBE SHE GETS NITPICKY ABOUT HER JARS BEING MISPLACED IS BC THATS ONE OF THE ONLY THINGS SHE HAS CONTROL OF! FUCK YOU! FUCK YOU!#'oh why cant they make a girl character that curses and isnt prim and proper' MAYBE IF YOU LOOKED PAST YOUR DUMB INTERPRETATION OF HER PERSO#i need to calm down#more edit#HER BEING NEAT AND TIDY IS ALSO A FOIL TO ZAGREUS WHO WAS MESSY!#GODDD SHUT UPPPP#also they had the worst opinion abt the combat#like sorry you just have bad taste if you dont think hades 2's combat system is even cooler than hades 1#like fuck you its the same but with even more added moves. fuck off
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Hi 💛 I wanted to ask you something, it's been bothering me lately: I've always known that I'm attracted to people regardless of gender. At 15 I called it bisexual. At 17 I started using the label pansexual. Came out as a trans man at 23. I'm now 26 and I'm not sure if bi or pan work for me anymore. I know that I'm still attracted to people regardless of gender, but my experiences as a man in society have made the label gay resonate a lot more with me. Is that okay? What does this mean? Confused
It means whatever you want it to mean. People all across the queer community have used "gay" as shorthand for decades now (maybe including queer people you love). If you just don't vibe with bi/pan on their own, then you don't have to have them on their own. There's nothing wrong with being bi or pan, but there's also nothing wrong with feeling like that doesn't quite encapsulate your relationship with your queerness.
Basically:
#ask#anon#queer#lgbt#lgbtq#described images#image description in alt#reminds me of freddie mercury saying he's gay as a daffodil when an interviewer asked if he was gay#and how i saw people offended he said that when he was ~really bisexual and not gay~ and it's like...#...does it truly harm people saying they're gay as a daffodil because that's just iconic#queer people have been borrowing and using terms from each other for as long as we've been a community#and while there are certain words that are very specific to a specific type of queer person/group that doesn't mean every word is like that#or that every queer word has a neat and tidy little wall around it that includes everybody but you specifically#if you take your feelings and run with 'i just label my experiences as gay/queer' then that's fine#like the label serves you and if it stops serving you then you don't need to keep it#i call myself gay and bisexual because i have a very complex experience due to being trans + a bit of my past#and that's as much as i think people '~need~' to know (though i don't owe even that to others)#and i get the whole 'do what you want forever 🤗' can feel unhelpful...#...the point isn't to wave off how you feel or discount it. the point is to remind you that...#...ultimately your desires and comfort MATTER and essentially 'if it's shit hit the bricks'#you aren't obligated to live for everybody ELSE'S contentment. is that even living when you are only alive at the behest of everybody else?#to deny the self and to deny yourself the chance to have actual complex experiences can be the bane of life itself if that makes sense
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Some people want to look like they're a good person to other people so bad that it has a higher priority to them than proactively being a good person.
And sometimes it feels like no matter how much offline activism you do, if you're not then going online to talk(brag) about it, you might as well be doing nothing at all because it's not about what you're actually doing, but whether or not other people will see you doing it.
#umbral discourses#They want to know the 'right things' to say so they can LOOK good and moral without actually adjusting their ways of thinking#They want the neat and tidy dog-whistles that are easily avoidable rather than the effort of actually learning the rhetoric behind them#They reblog 50 posts in a row supporting a cause or for 'informing' but never actually read or click on even one of the links in them#It's all performative to make them LOOK better to other people rather than something they actually internalise
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i no longer want to straighten my hair. my curls have been validated by people who are important to me and honestly i’m tired of trying to pretend i don’t have messy, frizzy, curly hair. i’m tired of trying to fit into a category that isn’t natural to me. i’m just going to leave it natural and not let anyone make me feel inferior anymore.
#not my sister. not my aunt. not my grandmother.#the biggest people in my life who’ve made me feel insecure and absolutely wretched for my natural hair#the people who poked and prodded and pushed for me to do something with my hair. brush it. straighten it. i can’t go out like that#i can’t be seen in public with my hair the way it grows naturally out of my head according to them#so that’s it. that’s enough. i’ve gone almost three decades of my life adhering to their standards#and society’s standards for ‘neat/tidy/pretty’ hair.#my curly hair era has begun#i will die on this hill
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i feel like if you walk away from ddlc thinking of monika as a bad person you might have missed the point
#was what she did Wrong? i mean. yeah sure#but what do you expect from a teenager that just realized nothing around her is real and all her friends are just a collection of 1s and 0s#she was Desperate. she was scared. she wanted to be Seen. and Heard. and Understood. she wanted her own happy ending!#but no such thing was ever written into the code of her little world. so she had to take matters into her own hands#and since her friends aren't 'real' (her initial conclusion that she later realizes is wrong)... it's okay to mess around in their brains#it's okay to delete them. they were never people anyway. they won't even notice.#but like i said she realizes this was wrong! if she was truly a cruel manipulative mastermind i don't think she would have deleted HERSELF-#-from the game in an attempt to make everyone happy at last. because That's what she decides is important!#it doesn't matter if their world isn't 'real.' it's still their world. it's still their home. they have a right to be happy#anyway idk. i've been revisiting ddlc a lot these past few days... i always forget how much i really like it#i usually don't like when games try to be self-aware and break the fourth wall and involve the player directly like this.#it just becomes messy and convoluted and pisses me off (and yeah undertale is included in this. deltarune might be too but we'll have to see#but i like how ddlc did it. very neat very tidy very peaceful. bittersweet but peaceful.
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so i took an ocd test on a whim and then i took 3 more
#apparently i have moderate to high ocd#obviously online tests are not diagnoses#they are not a substitute for going to see a doctor#but also if you take tests and keep getting the same results on each#theres something in that i think#so when all 4 tests say i have moderate to high ocd#im inclined to believe them#ive been so sure i didnt have ocd for so long#because im not super clean#and i dont keep everything neat#i prefer it when everything is neat and i know when i need to tidy when i feel like crap#but its not a compulsion#but then again i do have compulsions#i count my steps and my actions#i have to line some things up so theyre in the middle#if certain people touch my stuff i feel awful#my intrusive thoughts are constant and ive only recently learned how to push them away#its just another thing that either someone should have noticed when i was younger#or i should have brought up at therapy
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every time someone says good omens is queerbait an aro person dies
#LORD#jay rants#queer people learn what ‘queer’ love can be challenge#no like how do you as a queer person not understand that love does not always fit into neat and tidy boxes#it’s QUEER LOVE. love that goes AGAINST THE NORM. yet a love that is still beautiful despite that.#Constantly baffled by how the people who should be well acquainted with this concept r the ones to most often fall into the pit traps
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#sometimes i wish neat people can just leave me to my mess#you like things tidy? cool. go ahead with your tidy stuff#but leave my mess alone#you don't see me messing up your tidy stuff#so don't go tidying up my messy stuff#there is a system to my mess and i keep track of it#don't think that just because you think it makes sense for things to be in some order means it will work for me#i have my own system#and for the things that i leave out that i haven't decided to keep or trash#i leave them there so that i can see them and remind myself that i still need to decide on it#just because you think it's not worth keeping and that i would probably not have any use for it doesn't mean you can just chuck it away#i might eventually decide that i don't need it#but that's not the point#the point is that i want to decide on my own whether or not i would still need it or not for myself#not for you to decide if it would make sense for me to keep it or not#just need to get something off my chest#i have been saying this over and again and they still don't seem to get it#and it annoys me#rant#vent
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“Yuji, get your ass over here!” Sukuna yells. His nephew is spending some of summer break with him and he can’t for the life of him understand why he doesn’t clean up. I mean, it’s his apartment.
The teenager grumbles out of the guest room (practically his room) and rubs his eye, “Uncle, you can’t just yell at me when I’m sleeping…”
Sukuna points to the scattered dishes and opened packs of ramen on the counter, “Felt peckish last night?”
Yuji shrugs, “You said to make myself comfortable.”
His uncle has never been so provoked to hit a teen in his life. Forget the takeaway meals and home-cooked meals Sukuna had fed the boy. Because apparently, instant noodles from the corner shop tasted better, “Yuji, you didn’t even clean up. God, my girlfriend’s coming in like twenty minutes and now the place is a mess…”
“Y/N’s coming?” Yuji suddenly fixed his posture and stood up. “Like now?”
Sukuna’s brow raised at how his nephew immediately went into the bathroom to brush his teeth and shower. And how when he came out, he put on his best casual fit and used some of HIS cologne, that was way too expensive for Yuji to use.
Sukuna couldn’t even get into the shower as quickly as he wanted to because he was trying to scrub the burnt pot that Yuji used.
That boy can’t cook a thing, Sukuna thought.
But just then, three knocks came from the door. Sukuna knew it was you because even after giving you his apartment key, you still choose to knock. Yuji raced to the door and opened it.
“Hi, Y/N!” He grinned.
“Oh, hi! I didn’t know you were staying over. Your uncle didn’t mention anything..” You scowled at Sukuna causing your boyfriend to roll his eyes.
Sukuna gave you a chaste kiss before sitting you up on the countertop, “Please try use your influence to make him be more tidy.”
“You’re such a mom, Sukuna..” You chuckle, “He’s just a teenager. You were probably the same, giving your brother the same flak.”
He rolls his eyes once more, “When we have a kid, they’re not turning out like that. They’ll be neat, respectable people.
Your cheeks grow warm as you note down how he said ‘when’ instead of ‘if’. “He’s not that bad, Kuna…”
Sukuna only dead panned you before asking if you want anything for breakfast. Before you could answer, Yuji loudly yelled, “Choso said he’s coming for breakfast too! Should I call my dad to come?”
“NO!” Sukuna responded.
#szasfuckingwife#jujutsu kaisen#jjk#sukuna ryoumen x you#sukuna x you#jjk sukuna#sukuna jjk#sukuna ryomen#ryomen sukuna#sukuna x reader#sukuna#yuji itadori#jjk yuji
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what are some ways to describe people other than eye and hair color
I am assuming you are looking for physical descriptors. Here are some examples. I may just make a different post on psychological descriptors.
Arms: Long, Muscular, Pudgy, Short, Skinny, Thin
Back: Bent, Hunched, Ramrod Straight, Rounded
Build: Anorexic, Athletic, Beefy, Brawny, Burly, Chubby, Coltish, Compact, Fat, Gangly, Gaunt, Gawky, Haggard, Heavy-set, Herculean, Husky, Lanky, Lithe, Muscular, Obese, Overweight, Petite, Rangy, Reed-like, Scrawny, Skinny, Slender, Slight, Solid, Spindly, Statuesque, Stocky, Strapping, Sylphlike, Taut, Thickset, Thin, Trim, Underweight, Voluptuous, Well-built, Willowy, Withered
Cheeks: Blushing, Bold, Curved, Dimpled, Bold, Curved, Dimpled, Disturbed, Glorious, Glowing, Hairless, High (cheekbones), Hollow, Honey, Livid, Pale, Pallid, Pink, Plump, Puffy, Radiant, Reddened, Rosy, Rounded, Ruddy, Shining, Smooth, Soft, Sun-burnt, Sun-bronzed, Sunken, Sun-tanned, Tanned, Tearful, White
Chin: Angular, Bony, Bumpy, Chiseled, Defined, Doughy, Firm, Protruding, Round, Smooth, Soft, Square, Strong
Ears: Jug-like, Large, Protruding, Tiny
Eyebrows: Arching, Bushy, Emphasized, Near, Spaced, Thick, Thin
Eyelashes: Artificial, Beaded, Beautiful, Blinking, Dark, Dark-fringed, Dense, Dusky, Heavily-fringed, Long, Mascaraed, Sandy, Sooty, Sopping, Tear-drenched, Thick, Uplifted
Eyes: Almond-shaped, Bright, Bulging, Expressive, Frightened, Gentle, Languishing, Little, Luminous, Made-up, Round, Shining, Shortsighted, Smart, Stunned, Thin, Wide, Woeful
Face: Baby, Blood-stained, Bold, Chiseled, Contorted, Dead, Expressionless, Fair, Familiar, Fierce, Flat, Frightened, Furrowed, Honest, Indifferent, Little, Pale, Poker, Pretty, Radiant, Rough, Ruddy, Sallow, Square, Stained, Swollen, Trim, Weather-beaten, Wry
Feet: Athlete's, Big, Flat, Pigeon-toed, Small, Sore, Stinky, Stubby, Swollen
Fingers: Gnarled, Long, Short, Stubby
Finger Nails: Bitten, Broken, Claw-like, Dirty, Hooked, Long, Painted, Sharp, Talon-like
Hair: Afro, Bald, Beehive, Braided, Bristles, Bun, Chignon, Coiffure, Combed, Corkscrew, Corn rows, Cowlicked, Crew cut, Curly, Disarrayed, Disheveled, Dreadlocks, Dry, Flattop, Flecked, French braid, French twist, Fringe, Greasy, Grizzled, Knotted, Layered, Locks, Matted, Messed up, Mohawk, Mussy, Muttonchops, Neat, Oily, Page boy, Perm, Pigtails, Plait, Pompadour, Ponytail, Ragged, Receding, Ringlets, Ruffled, Shaggy, Shorn, Shoulder-length, Skinhead, Spiky, Split-ended, Straight, Tangled, Thick, Thinning, Tidy, Topknot, Tousled, Twisted, Uncombed, Unshorn, Untidy, Wavy, Wiry, Wisps
Hand: Big, Elegant, Small
Height: Big, Knee-high, Medium, Short, Shoulder-high, Sky-high, Small, Tall, Towering, Waist-high
Legs: Amputated, Bandy, Bony, Bowed, Brawny, Bulging, Fluted, Gartered, Gouty, Graceful, Hacked, Hairy, Jagged, Knotted, Leaden, Long, Lower, Muscular, Pitiful, Rickety, Shapely, Shivering, Short, Sinewy, Slender, Slim, Spindle, Stockinged, Sturdy, Thin, Thread-like, Tinder, Tiny, Toothsome, Tree trunks
Lips: Blue, Cracked, Cupid's Bow, Downturned, Dry, Fat, Full, Grim, Large, Luscious, Parched, Parted, Red, Ruby, Small, Smiling, Thin, Wet
Mouth: Arch, Ascetic, Baby, Cavernous, Churning, Compressed, Cooing, Coral, Cracked, Cruel, Delicate, Dumpled, Distended, Dry, Fine, Firm, Frothy, Full, Funnel-shaped, Gaping, Grim, Handsome, Hungry, Insistent, Irritable, Large, Luscious, Munching, Musty, Perilous, Puckered, Querulous, Relaxed, Resolute, Sardonic, Sensuous, Serious, Slobbering, Small, Sulky, Sweet, Tender, Thin, Wide, Winsome, Wrinkled, Yawning
Neck: Bullnecked, Elegant, Long, Short, Swan-like, Thick
Palm: Broad, Oval, Rectangular, Square
Skin: Acned, Alabaster, Albino, Apricot, Black, Blemished, Blistered, Blooming, Blotchy, Blushing, Bronzed, Cadaverous, Calloused, Caramel, Clear, Craggy, Cream, Ebony, Fair, Flush, Freckled, Glowing, Greasy, Ivory, Jaundiced, Leathery, Lily-white, Lined, Milky, Mottled, Nut-brown, Olive, Pale, Pallid, Pasty, Peeling, Pimpled, Pink, Pitted, Pockmarked, Red, Rosy, Rough, Ruddy, Russet, Sallow, Scabby, Scarred, Smooth, Splotchy, Spotty, Sun-burnt, Tan, Wan, Waxen, White, Wrinkled, Yellow
Stomach: Bulging, Distended, Empty, Firm, Flabby, Flat, Heroic, Hollow, Lean, Paunchy, Protruding, Unbounded
Teeth: Artificial, Black, Blunted, Buck, Canine, Chattering, Clenched, Clinched, Compressed, Crooked, Dagger-like, Dazzling, Decayed, Deciduous, Extracted, False teeth, Feeble, Ferocious, Filed, Flashing, Fluoridated, Foam-laced, Fractured, Gap-toothed, Gleaming, Glistening, Glittering, Gnashing, Goofy, Grinding, Hooked, Horrid, Ivory, Jagged, Lacquered, Large, Milky, Mottled, Neglected, Pearly, Perfect, Pretty, Protruding, Razor-like, Sharp, Shining, Short, Small, Snowy, Sore, Spaced, Straight, Sweet tooth, Tender, Tiny, Toothless, Toothy, Ugly, Unrelenting, White, Wisdom, Wolfish, Yellow
Hope this helps! If it does, do tag me or send me a link to your writing. I'd love to read your work.
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It's really funny when I tell people I don't like the 25th anniversary concert of Les Mis bc they never quite know how to react
#sasha speaks#I'll be honest there's only three people I actually like in that version#as opposed to the 10th anniversary where I hate judy kuhn but everyone else is amazing#25th is too bright and flashy. their costumes are so neat and tidy and I don't like that! let them be dirty!!#you can tell 97% of their focus was on production value lol#also the fact that they don't have seats at the back of the stage is really funny#they have to get to their mics but the music is slow? they speed-walk and it looks ridiculous#I am probably the only person who thinks the 25th is less than stellar#I won't go into details about what I don't like but uh. it's a lot and some of it's kinda petty whoops
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Why are my sisters incapable of keeping the kitchen clean?
I don’t want to clean it again, but if I don’t it’ll be left a cluttered and crusty mess cause god knows they won’t want to
I hate it here 😭
#random#I don’t understand how it always managed to be somewhat clean at my house in MX#there was the same amount of people living there as here#ugh! Who am I kidding? I know why it stays tidy#it’s cause my neat freak of a mother is there#but here I’m the only neat freak in a house full of heathens who don’t care#no wonder my mom was always in a mood
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